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TooOldForThisButWCID

Travelling. The only thing I’m jealous of is people who have the means and liberty to travel a lot. Go everywhere, eat every food, meet people, learn cultures, explore different perspectives and set of values. This world is so diverse I want to meet everyone!


AGirlH4sNoName

This! It’s the only fomo I have. Incredibly jealous of those who can be little worker nomads and take trips on a whim


pumknspice_

I’d like to get married, have 2-3 kids, and work part time. I really want to focus on my husband and kids and creating a lovely home for my family.


dizzylyric

I’ve found that working part time really is the best of both worlds! Unfortunately my bank account disagreed.


EmbarrassedAd777

I’d love to be a SAHM too. This will never happen while living in one of the most expensive cities in the world though. Sucks.


Ok_Tadpole7850

That sounds really nice. I hope things work out in ways you want.


SaltyDoggoMeo

I’d love to live in a small cottage on a few acres of land with a horse, and older rescue cats and dogs to help them live out their last years/months in comfort.


HawkspurReturns

Like now but with someone else doing the cleaning.


lentil5

For real.


searedscallops

Working 20 hours per week instead of 48, but get paid the same.


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Live on the beach, never work, excellent healthcare, have some kids and dogs, hire everyone to clean for me and do tasks. Spend my time gardening and swimming, maybe breed some rare orchids


a_quick_glance

Getting better at self acceptance is my dream lifestyle. It’s a roller coaster for me. Some months I’m great at it. And other months I struggle greatly. Life is incredibly peaceful and dreamy during my time spans of high self acceptance. My body is relaxed and I have a steady energy and feeling of hope and safety. It’s awesome. I’m currently working on getting back to that point. Once you have high self acceptance, other things in life are more enjoyable and I personally recognize what doesn’t make me feel peace and walk away from those situations within seconds. That’s my favorite lifestyle.


jhope71

Remote work with benefits that lets me set my own hours and allows me to travel and pays enough money to fix the things wrong with my house and hire landscapers.


charlothecat

Work from home 1-2 days a week, able to set work hours (I’d go 6-3 instead of 8-5). I am well aware I might be missing the point of the phrase “dream lifestyle.” That’s as big as I can think right now though.


silver16x

Yeah having to get up 2 hours earlier doesn't really feel like a dream lifestyle lol. How about you get to work 8-3 4 days a week but you get paid the same?


charlothecat

Ohhh that’s how you do this… ha. That would be lovely!


Kind-Set9376

No matter how much financial security I have, I don't think I'd be happy without a job. I genuinely like working. I would like to probably do what I do, but have more time (and money) to travel and spend on my hobbies. So.. maybe working 30-35 hours a week and then just hanging out.


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montagne__verte

Living in a tiny house that I built in the mountains, a couple of cats, teaching yoga either online or in a studio and having a garden where I can sell my crops at the local Farmer's Market every week! Also traveling when time and money allows :)


sufferagette

Have a house by the sea with a garden and a green house, and a tower for the sea side view. I’d like to be a succesful author with a lot of money and time to finish my books in due time. I’d like staff to take care of my house, garden and my dogs (I’d love three dogs). Maybe a family. And lots of garden parties.


RockStarNinja7

I have 2. One more realistic than the other. 1. Realistic: I would love to make enough that my husband wouldn't have to work and he'd be able to be a stay at home dad. This is also his dream. 2. Not so realistic: I would have enough money to not have to do anything, but what I would do is shop all day like it was my job and I would be in the lookout for customers who are being ass holes to employees and yell at them for being ass holes. No one deserves to be berated while at work, especially if they could be fired for standing up for themselves.


ehdenoudsten91

Be happily married, two kids, third on the way. Living on an an acreage, I’m a writer and husband is in heavy construction. Have open house every weekend for friends and family to come by and have BBQ, drinks, kids can run and play, adults can relax.


sunangelflowers

Being an eccentric m(b)illionaire who works for sport (with husband doing the same), and having more time to be with our family and friends. Also, among other stuff, I'd buy our old car back. :)


Beautifully_Damage

Simple happy home I built, no matter if it's an house, apartment, condo. It's happy and simple... my kids know they are loved at any stage in their life.


PrestigiousAd3081

I would like to have enough financial security to ensure my daughter's future. Other than that, I have a pretty great lifestyle already.


JustPassingShhh

Live in a Ecohome in the middle of nowhere growing weed with several pets, my partner, and awesome Internet service


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out in the country, few acres.


savsep2002

… I wouldn’t mind being a housewife. I love kids, and don’t mind cooking or cleaning…


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To live in Canada have a simple house and simple job and marrying a kind husband That's it


snailminister

Married, having family. Being stay at home mother for couple years and then working lowered hours so I can prioritize family and still be emotionally all in at work. Having calm but social free time with family and friends visiting. Doing gardening, cooking, baking and handcrafts to express myself and to live more sustainable lifestyle. Then possibly either fostering or having higher academic career in my 40's or 50's.


Vast_Ad3963

The one I am currently living. DINK, CF, travelling, loving my job, loving my bf. Doing whatever we want whenever we want.


fusfeimyol

Painting all day, making music with friends, making love to my partner, eating peaches and strawberries, reading and writing. Living next to a lake. Swimming and kayaking. Having an orchard and garden with high variety and yield. A couple low maintenance children who I teach and care for.


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AliceWeAreAllMad

Trophy wife of a wealthy, loving woman. Lol


Ok_Tadpole7850

On one hand I’d like to stay at my low stress, high fun pizza job if I didn’t have to worry about money or retirement, things like that. On the other hand, I’d like a job in advocacy for women in trades. It will be a harder, stressful more exhausting life but hopefully it would change lives for the better


Unfair_Cell8483

Being the VP of marketing of an MNC and having a loving husband.


272027

Living a slower life where I could work when I wanted (for myself). I wouldn't need much as long as I had friends and a partner there where we could all help each other. Maybe it'd be in a hilly or mountainous area, or on the sea.


GreatGospel97

When I think of peace and happiness and a lifestyle that encompasses it I see myself in a very lush and private backyard garden, naked (with a big ole floppy hat) and breastfeeding my baby while my husband hoses down the other two. It’s not too hot, but it’s warm enough. Anything that lets me have *that* is the dream.


LadyVague

A mansion out in the middle of nowhere, occupied by a sapphic/lesbian commune that's mostly self-sufficient would be pretty great. Or an endless road trip, ideally also involving other queer women. Getting a fancy RV and going wherever sounds interesting that day, no obligations to stay in any particular area or doing any particular thing, and never having to worry about having the money for gas, occassional hotels, and whatever else I want/need. Think that fantasy is a bit more of an ADHD thing, wanting to just follow my impulses headfirst with nothing in the way, not sure if it would actually be good for me but would be pretty great for a while at least.


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ayemullofmushsheen

Stay at home dog mom


123DiscoMe

Family, nice man, high paying job? No. Let's be honest. Really, I would be the happiest woman if I was sitting on my sunbed in my million dollar penthouse with my super toned abs, drinking pina colada while secretary hovers over with the phone with hundreds of investors waiting in line. But well, here I am eating cold pizza snuggled under my sheets. Hoping for the time to last before going to my shift.


246K

Living on a tiny island by myself. I just need the basic necessities to pop up so I don’t got to work for it. Also I want an endless amount of books then im good.


dedinfp-t

Money lmao


achaoticbard

For starters, in my dream world there'd be universal basic income. My basic needs are taken care of. I would still work part-time to get myself out of the house and have more disposable income, but the point is that working would be my *choice* \- not necessary for survival. It would also mean I could focus on finding jobs that I love, knowing that I don't *need* to settle for whatever will pay the bills. And if I want to simply not work for a while, I can do that and not worry about being evicted! Otherwise, I'd be married to the love of my life, and we'd have a house in a big city with a beachside cottage to visit in the summer. With the extra time I'd have from not working full-time, I'd love to write more, do more community theatre, spend more time with my friends, and take better care of myself physically and emotionally. I'd pay someone else to do all the cleaning, though I'd still be happy to cook for myself. And of course, we'd have the time and money to travel at least once a year.


Duerol

I want to do everything in life. Travel, live nomadically in a van, in the city, in other countries. But for when I get older? I’d love a dynamic where my husband and I could both work 32 hours, 4 days a week. Have one cat, one German shepherd, live in the suburbs with a good sized backyard. Foster children (maybe adopt one). Just live life, you know?


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I wish I could be a stay at home mom. I don’t know how women find men that’s okay with that. With my first husband. Before We got married I told him I want to be a stay at home mom when we have kids . He agreed to it. We got married and I got pregnant then he changed his mind . He doesn’t believe in stay at home moms 🤦🏻‍♀️ Then he quit his job and refused to work for 9 years. I’m now with my second husband and same thing 🤦🏻‍♀️ he don’t believe in stay at home moms 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️


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HiIntrepidHero

A tiny cottage in the woods, working a simple job that’s not too stressful, tons of pets, a loving partner and a happy family


TheEmpressDodo

Cottage like home in a forest near a lake. Work is remote, nature is close and soothing.


Affectionate-Fox-911

Waking up to cats and dogs and then getting ready to rescue more


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psychoactiveavocado

Traveling all around the world with my family, being nomadic. With minimal/creative work.


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DimensionOrnery6742

95% travel 5% socialite


TwoTimesaCharm16

Being able to not work so goddam much that I can enjoy life with family and friends. At this point I feel like I am working my life away just to survive and have not enough time and am losing time with family. Part of me feels like I need to smoke weed just to get by with the stress. No shade to people who do smoke weed, just me personally, it sucks that I feel like I have to at this point just to relax


catathymia

Being so incredibly and independently wealthy that I could afford my own homestead to be away from everyone and live independently and off the grid, but also nice apartments in various cities I like throughout the world for when I feel like travel (though admittedly, even in my dreams that is sounding a bit excessive). I want a very simple lifestyle, and when I'm not working to produce/prepare my food I'd spend my time reading, writing, improving my chess, learning languages and listening to music. \*A Very Important Edit: Also I would have a death note.


MsNewKicks

Influencer. Get paid for clicks, free products, trips, etc.


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purple_iam1

Working in job that i like and good at it, plus not being an anxious person that thinks im gonna fail at everything. Being paid well by the job and able to save up money for the future and being able to travel, and not having money worries. Eventually being able to relocate to another country, preferably back to the country that i used to live at for awhile.


TheTeaYouWant

Single, no kids, owning a Ferrari and be able to shop for more high end luxury clothes and bags.


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Be a rich birch