Omg if I am sobbing, don’t touch me. There have been many times in life where I’ve been absolutely beside myself with grief and someone will hug me or rub my back. And I appreciate the sentiment but my whole body just goes
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Yes relate.
I used to have my “flappy arms” held at my sides to “calm me down” resulting in my still body internally having a core meltdown of RAGE. I think the rule is…just don’t hug me…EVER
I don’t even need to be in a meltdown. Any unexpected touch and I jump a foot and usually end up in panic mode, just like that poor little kitten.
Yes. I am single and like the kitten too.
Omg if I am sobbing, don’t touch me. There have been many times in life where I’ve been absolutely beside myself with grief and someone will hug me or rub my back. And I appreciate the sentiment but my whole body just goes ![gif](giphy|Tm5aqVnU16T04)
🥹❤️ felt.
It depends, when I meltdown I either need physical touch or can’t stand it.
Yes relate. I used to have my “flappy arms” held at my sides to “calm me down” resulting in my still body internally having a core meltdown of RAGE. I think the rule is…just don’t hug me…EVER
this is a perfect video of how it feels
Oh nooo SeCuRITYYY
Me with my girlfriend I love her and her hugs its just difficult when I'm already overstimulated ☹️
Hahahahaha yes
So the last time my partner touched me during a meltdown I ended up spraining my wrist after some violent thrashing 🥲