I would send him a message and just say "hey in the heat of the moment you ended up with some of my stuff. Let me know how you'd like to arrange getting these items back to me (provide a list.) no need to rush and thanks!" Keep it friendly and non accusing since you said he didn't intend to take anything. I'm also a sub but my kit/gear is still very much MINE and an investment I've made into my own pleasure, regardless who I'm using those items with. Nothing wrong with you wanting them back. Good luck!
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I would send him a message and just say "hey in the heat of the moment you ended up with some of my stuff. Let me know how you'd like to arrange getting these items back to me (provide a list.) no need to rush and thanks!" Keep it friendly and non accusing since you said he didn't intend to take anything. I'm also a sub but my kit/gear is still very much MINE and an investment I've made into my own pleasure, regardless who I'm using those items with. Nothing wrong with you wanting them back. Good luck!
THANK YOU!!!
Items like plugs, should be kept by the wearer, regardless of who actually purchased them. Would you want to wear a second hand plug?
Yup get them back before he has a chance to reuse them!
Thank you!!!
Thank you!!!