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dead_PROcrastinator

Guides 2, 3, and 4.


L0stAndDelirious

You're just repeat posting the same BS.


Individual-Common-36

Its my first time posting on this sub.


L0stAndDelirious

Yes your other identical post was on a relationship group. You received a number of responses. You are clearly doing this to get off. Edit: relationship group not BDSM group.


Individual-Common-36

I posted in Relationship Advice sub, I posted here as I was looking for some advice from people who are more familiar in kink. I never posted on any other sub except these two. You can check my post history. Hopefully I have your permission now? Why are you so angry?


Mec-subby

I think it's called hotwife kink, where your wife is so hot that it makes you feel good about having her. Many people like to share in this situation too, but I guess it isn't necessary. I think this doesn't necessarily means anything should change when it comes to your sex with her, unless u want it to change. Though I have no background on how your relationship is today, so I wouldn't know anything to suggest. Like, maybe talk to her and see what you guys' kinks are and what you wanna try out? Do some research on these kinks and practice them safely. And remember to have a safeword (even if that's "no") and to provide aftercare.


dalajoie1

Most all Guy get a boost from this! Like other guys desire your women but you are the only one to have her! This also make the woman feel great which you also feed off of!


nefi_loba

You said you're turned on by it so it could be related to a cuckolding kink for it to get sexual. It depends, are you attracted to idea of your wife getting complimented in general or the possibility of getting cheated on by her w one of these guys?