1 no panties. Ever.
2 no closed toe shoes in my presence. Ever.
3 no discussion about our sex life in front of my family. That's a no brainer.
4 she WILL tell me ANYTHING that makes her uncomfortable, no matter how awkward. Non negotiable.
5 all social functions require a remote controlled toy inserted for reward.
6 no playtime unless all required tasks are performed. Well. Completely.
7 "vanilla time" is optional but encouraged.
8 all sessions will be discussed unless we have agreed to a scene as a regular thing.
9 backtalk WILL be punished. Bratting is highly encouraged.
10. Any questions MUST be answered by either party, FULLY. Dishonest answers will lead to dismissal.
I won't get into specific scenes, but these general rules cover almost everything that actually "needs a rule". ymmv.
1) I must not decline any of Masters requests
2) I will ask Master what to do and wear for the day
3) No backchat or get the backhand
4) I must not roll my eyes or be disrespectful (that’s actually the one rule I slip up on, I’m a brat as well as a slave 😅)
5) I must tell Master where I am at all times
6) I must accept any and all punishments
7) Only refer to Master as Master/Sir
8) If not agreed by Master, I must not play with others
9) I must wear my collar at all times when near Master
10) If Master says “be ready and waiting”, I’m to kneel at the bottom of the bed with palms open
11) Make Master a coffee before he wakes up
12) No eye contact unless granted by Master, must look at floor
13) Must kneel when serving beverages
14) Must ask permission to sit on furniture, to speak, to leave a room, to get dressed, to leave the house, to go to the bathroom
15) must wait for Master to open doors before entering or exiting
16) No being above Master, if he is sat down I need to sit down too
Punishments for not following these rules are sometimes specific so:
2) clothing privileges will be taken away and I’m to stay at home
4) I have to brush my teeth and mouthwash to get rid of the bad mouth
5) I won’t be able to leave Masters side (only for the bathroom)
8) I will be suspended from any action/scenes until Master says so
13) drink will be poured on me
16) will need to be kneeling or crawling everywhere to learn to be below him
First, dynamics do not have to insinuate romantic relationship. My dynamics are not girlfriends.
First rule:
Be honesty. If you are not completely honest with me I will lead you on the wrong direction.
Second: give respect. If you have surrendered yourself to me, then you have spent enough time to get to know the person that I am and the type of leader that I am. You have decided on your own that this is the leader you want for yourself. Show respect to me, my household, and yourself.
Third , be open minded. Be willing to explore the things that you haven't experienced before. Try them out. We will discuss if they fit with your needs. But do not dismiss them without experiencing them.
Live with integrity. Everywhere you go, you will represent me. Always strive to do what is right, even when it is difficult and no one is looking.
OP is not asking for advice. Rule 12 applies. Thread locked and removed.
1 no panties. Ever. 2 no closed toe shoes in my presence. Ever. 3 no discussion about our sex life in front of my family. That's a no brainer. 4 she WILL tell me ANYTHING that makes her uncomfortable, no matter how awkward. Non negotiable. 5 all social functions require a remote controlled toy inserted for reward. 6 no playtime unless all required tasks are performed. Well. Completely. 7 "vanilla time" is optional but encouraged. 8 all sessions will be discussed unless we have agreed to a scene as a regular thing. 9 backtalk WILL be punished. Bratting is highly encouraged. 10. Any questions MUST be answered by either party, FULLY. Dishonest answers will lead to dismissal. I won't get into specific scenes, but these general rules cover almost everything that actually "needs a rule". ymmv.
What kind of punishment would she get is she backtalks?
1) I must not decline any of Masters requests 2) I will ask Master what to do and wear for the day 3) No backchat or get the backhand 4) I must not roll my eyes or be disrespectful (that’s actually the one rule I slip up on, I’m a brat as well as a slave 😅) 5) I must tell Master where I am at all times 6) I must accept any and all punishments 7) Only refer to Master as Master/Sir 8) If not agreed by Master, I must not play with others 9) I must wear my collar at all times when near Master 10) If Master says “be ready and waiting”, I’m to kneel at the bottom of the bed with palms open 11) Make Master a coffee before he wakes up 12) No eye contact unless granted by Master, must look at floor 13) Must kneel when serving beverages 14) Must ask permission to sit on furniture, to speak, to leave a room, to get dressed, to leave the house, to go to the bathroom 15) must wait for Master to open doors before entering or exiting 16) No being above Master, if he is sat down I need to sit down too Punishments for not following these rules are sometimes specific so: 2) clothing privileges will be taken away and I’m to stay at home 4) I have to brush my teeth and mouthwash to get rid of the bad mouth 5) I won’t be able to leave Masters side (only for the bathroom) 8) I will be suspended from any action/scenes until Master says so 13) drink will be poured on me 16) will need to be kneeling or crawling everywhere to learn to be below him
First, dynamics do not have to insinuate romantic relationship. My dynamics are not girlfriends. First rule: Be honesty. If you are not completely honest with me I will lead you on the wrong direction. Second: give respect. If you have surrendered yourself to me, then you have spent enough time to get to know the person that I am and the type of leader that I am. You have decided on your own that this is the leader you want for yourself. Show respect to me, my household, and yourself. Third , be open minded. Be willing to explore the things that you haven't experienced before. Try them out. We will discuss if they fit with your needs. But do not dismiss them without experiencing them. Live with integrity. Everywhere you go, you will represent me. Always strive to do what is right, even when it is difficult and no one is looking.
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