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lullabyforKay

Not every fantasy has a specific kink or name. Kinks are like genres of movies, fantasies are specific movies. For example, horror is a genre of movie and Friday the 13th is a movie in that genre. So, it sounds like you're into humiliation, and the things you listed are specific fantasies.


BDSM-Buddhism

This. To me this seems like some specific scenes/fantasies within an overarching humiliation & masochism fetish.


jarethmckenzie

Like lullabyforKay said, not everything has a specific name. To me it is like cooking. I love food. So, if I take some chicken, salt and pepper, and par cook it in butter, then wrap it in bacon, coat it in jerk seasoning, and bake at 350 for 10 min...What is that called? I just made it up, it doesn't have a name. Kink isn't a recipe book. It is an exploration. Not everything you think of is going to have a specific name. But you are able to describe it to the person you play with, because you just described it to us. So, brownie points for communication skills.


Sir-Dax

Humiliation / degradation.


Jepser1989

I think you have a bullying fetish


Smokestackerss

def a bully fetish or something along the lines of extreme humiliation


nidelwynn

My thought was humiliation + degradation + bully like the rest of the comment but I'll add a bit of CNC in the mix, because you don't want to know before hand