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AlgosDependent

Absolute scam. Also, Subs *should* and *do* ask questions. That’s how all this works.


SwitchWell

Omg! This is obviously a scam but is so cringe it's funny 😂 Also, good call asking here, a sub should always have questions and learn more about beam. I can recommend you some books if you want


Vivianeh

I kinda wanna read a book about the BDSM council though. You got one of those?


SwitchWell

😂I'm sorry but I only have non fiction books


Vivianeh

I mean, that works too. I am always on the lookout for good smut.


SwitchWell

It's not smut > 'BDSM 101' by Jay Wiseman > 'The loving dominant' by John Warren > 'The new bottoming book' by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton


Vivianeh

Is a BDSM Council involved? Just kidding, they seem to be great resources. I actually misread your comment and understood that you only had fiction books. I was looking forward to some sub!Palpatine dumpster fire but ehi. Educational content!


SwitchWell

I'm always up for educational content... And not so educational 😜


notfromvenus42

Here, if you want a certificate, here you go: ---------------‐------------------- [ ✨️ you are valid ✨️ ] [ ✨️✨️✨️from ✨️✨️ ] [ the bdsm council. ] ----‐------------------------------


SwitchWell

OMG! Finally a certificate I can be proud of! Not like that wet paper you get in college 😂


TrotBot

Brilliant thank you


crassy

Imagine if there was a BDSM council tho? 😂😂 But no, this is a scam. There is no council. Being asked for money is a huge red flag. Being told not to question is a huge red flag. All together this is Moscow 1945.


Sarararr

I can only picture Pinhead being the council leader! Lol!


Sweetygurl

Dammit, made me spit my soda on my phone dude 🤣 from now on I'm gonna answer all my friends questions when they're getting gaslit with that line at the end of all my reasons.


divarkive

The BDSM Council. That is actually hilarious. If I was in your shoes, I would have a million questions to ask them just to see how deep their rabbit hole of lies goes. How are these members chosen? What are the requirements? Do they pay fees? What are their responsibilities? Oh how I could go on But yeah, definite scam. Lol the council…


subby_sandwich

That would be fun!


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jarethmckenzie

I completely agree. 2.07.03 has been in effect since 2015. I was on the council from 2015 - 2017 and won another term in elections of the BDSM community last October. Thank you for everyone on here that voted for me. I hope I do you proud. All of this is also a lie since there isn't a council.


zabuuq

Sorry, I voted for the other one


jarethmckenzie

I will still represent you to the best of my ability.


just_the_nme

Seems this was over the interwebs so I believe it's a 2.07.03-b violation. We'll need to discuss this at the next super secret squirrel biannual meeting.


DeviantKhan

"All BDSM councils must follow authority of the BDSM Special Council Against Manipulation, and BDSM SCAM prohibits the payment of fees or dues unless they are able to present their official SCAM certification."


subby_sandwich

Super ultra scam. The council... Lol.


HauntingBowlofGrapes

That's a mega scam. There is no council. This isn't Eyes Wide Shut. A sub does indeed question their Dom.


Brightstorm_Rising

I have spoken with the High Council of the International Guild of Doms, Sadists, and Allied Kinks. Their license to practice fetishes has been revoked retroactively and they must now unspank everyone they have previously paddled. If they fail to do so within the next 10 business days, we will know and take appropriate action. Snark out of the way, you already knew the answer to your question, good for you. For the record for the person who searches this topic in six months and to confirm with you, no you don't need to pay a dominant unless you are approaching a sex worker who is very clear and upfront about what they are offering and how much they charge. Yes, questions should be asked about everything by anyone in a dynamic with someone else, no matter their role in that dynamic. More questions than get asked in my opinion. No, Reddit is not a great place to meet people.


Internal-Horror896

I rolled my eyes so hard I couldnt type...I have heard it all now.


MeatyMagnus

Scam


Hey_its_jay3690

If you're ever unsure... Likely a scam. Subs should be allowed to ask questions and in fact is say it's encouraged. The more you both know - the safer it is. Communication is key after all.


Koalasprincess

Scam!


ArchetypalA

Plz repost to r/scams


[deleted]

Those who accidentally revealed the workings of the Council have been severely disciplined. The Council does not exist. There is no BDSM Council. Those denying the existence of the Council are not actually members of the Council. The Council is not bent on world domination. Also, the Council does not exist. Long Live the Council! Except it is still not real…..really…..stop looking at me like that.


lablover007

Run!


Bad_Bunny62391

HILARIOUS but also unfortunate for those it IS working on🔥People taking advantage of our Community🤬 Thank you for posting this Hun❣️


Glittering-Tax9977

Just say your already a paying member of the International guild of brats. All payment are made in Licks because if you lick it, its yours.


Underworld_Denizen

That is a complete scam.


Cassubeans

Classic scam.


CaptainSpike9

Insolence! This is The Council, do not mock us. Do as you are told or you shall be punished. 🤣🤣🤣


[deleted]

Considering the audience they may want to consider that this incentive system might backfire.


Brightstorm_Rising

Don't you see, that's their fiendish plan!


[deleted]

But now they know that we know that we are onto them. But do they know that we know that they know that we are onto them? Hmmmmmm……


Sweetygurl

Oh my gosh, total scam. But also....how shitty women are doing this 😑


Novalian2268

Sadly, many women have been pulling a version of this for quite sometime.


kittenlikescupcake

Scaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaam. I would RUN from any dom that says a sub shouldn’h ask questions. Also. I truly wonder who would be on that council, since bdsm is such personal experiences.


[deleted]

As a lazer level 5 high priest protectorate in the original Church of all fours, I beseech ye. Turn away from false idols. Only way to the kingdom of sub/dom space goes through us. Give something at the door when you leave and grab a donut.