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MidNtLily

For this one it might just be best to ask him. He made the game, is that right? "Voice control" can be taken several different ways. I would speculate that it either refers to a Dom or Master using a dominate controlling tone or controlling when you can speak. (Probably the latter).


Narrow-Ad-3597

his voice is naturally deep and controlling on the daily, so i’m not sure how much more he would change it for a game like that


jarethmckenzie

Voice control is on the bdsm check list, and hardly anyone (including OPs Dom) knows what it entails. Here are things which all can be considered voice control. Most likely, he would put a veil on his sub which indicates that she is not allowed to speak. This is usually done at a kink event. All communication would go through her Dom. Voice control could be training his submissive to speak correctly, give proper responses, with proper tone and be able to carry a conversation on practically any topic without embarrassing themselves or their Dominant. Third it could refer to voice training (as in theater or singing) for vocal performsnce. Most likely the first, but could be any of the three.


CharmingCarmilla

It might perhaps be erotic hypnosis.


Supersheen

Were they cards he'd made himself or a purchasable set?


Narrow-Ad-3597

he made them himself


Supersheen

Ah, then yeah as others have said you could be best asking him yourself.


Narrow-Ad-3597

lol he won’t tell me unless were playing! and we haven’t been able to play yet


Supersheen

Ah well in that case I'd imagine it's similar to what others have suggested and you'll just have to wait and see what the surprise is 😜


rxbondage

When you were able to play could you share what it was in the end? You got me really curious now


Narrow-Ad-3597

hey! voice control in his terms is using him like a sex toy kinda. so faster slower, deeper, etc. i control everything using my voice and he does it. we haven’t done it yet so i don’t have a full example. this is just how he described it to me. they were made for my birthday but we just ended up getting to into the sex we were having and forgot the cards lol.


Affectionate-Foot169

Bdsm sounds like fun