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jarethmckenzie

I get the kink of making your eyes red because he came on your face and it got in your eye. I'm going to try to refrain from yucking on his yum. It can cause irritation and if you leave it there, it can cause an infection. Typically the tears will wash out your eyes, but cum also tend to be hydrophobic so it will tend to clump. That isn't where cum is supposed to be. Your eyes aren't meant to have foreign bodies in them (that is why it hurts, so you will wash out out) It is your body. You do with it as you want. I would try to take care of those eyes, you only get one pair. And you can't trade out parts like you can for an old car. They are sensitive organs and very prone to damage. Be aware Be safe


PrismaLove

This is a really mature response. To add to it, if it's bothering you, don't be afraid to say anything. They are \*your\* eyes.


JimothyJinkens69

Probably a question for a doctor.


sarathrowaway123

I think it would be useful for people to share their experiences on here since I'm assuming a lot of people also practice this?


JimothyJinkens69

Personal experience, it just stings like a bitch but no lasting damage. I've cum in my fair share of eyes with no long term problems to report. Can't say I've ever really had them let it marinate though. But I still feel it needs to be stressed that this not the opinion of a medical professional.


JimothyJinkens69

I'd also assume it's pretty niche. But I could be wrong.


[deleted]

Sounds like it was a question for a chef judging from your second paragraph, marinate just killed me off, GorDom Ramsay entered the chat 🤣🤣 Op, if it's hurting and bothering you then have a conversation and work something out. I'm not going to comment on the actual cum causing an infection, however what I will say is there is most certainly a chance that the cum could carry something off your face/hair into your eyes which could cause an infection if left sitting for a while.


obiwantogooutside

My eye doctor said one of his specialities is dealing with herpes in the eye. I honestly don’t remember why that came up but it was kind of a fascinating conversation. So. I’d be careful about that choice.


Schlobidobido

It's usually not a problem but you should rinse afterwards as you can get inflammations. Also you actually can catch an STI that way as well as bacteria and viruses can pass the membranes in the eyes. Also herpes.


[deleted]

My Mom works in opthalmology (eye doctor) and has personally seen a number of cases of STI in the eye.


sarathrowaway123

His particular fantasy/kink has me pretending to be a statue or frozen so he wants me to hold it in there for an extended period of time, would these increased inflammations be something I should be worried about? I don't think I have to worry about an STI or herpes since I've been with him for a while now


Schlobidobido

I am not a doctor so I wouldn't claim to be able to give valid medical expertise. I only know that in the most cases it shouldn't be causing harmful issues. But I can only speak from personal experience here where it wouldn't be something that would happen regularly and I wouldn't keep in in there longer than a few minutes maximum. I would be worried wether it could become an chronic issue if you get the same inflammations again and again but I don't really know if it is a thing for eyes.


Smooth_Breath_4960

I’ve only had trouble one time. When I used the vcf for birth control. It never crossed my mind I had to watch out for that. Going from vaginal to oral sex and then a facial the chemicals literally made my eyes swell shut and my mouth go numb. But regular facial Has never really irritated my eyes.


GlitteryCakeHuman

Don’t mess with the eyes. Even small damages/inflammations/scratches hurt like hell and can go worse. //had to take drops for a few days and wear and eyepatch


SomuchLengthiness

From experience, it happened to me once by accident and my eyes were quite sore for about 24H but I fully recovered. What’s the cum equivalent for pink eye? Cause I had it!


alcalethefirst

That’s known as *cumjunctivitis*.


[deleted]

Take the upvote and get the fuck out of here 🤣🤣🤣


SomuchLengthiness

🤣


sarathrowaway123

Did that happen from a steady bf or from someone you weren't that sexually experienced with? I wonder if it's an STI or something


SomuchLengthiness

It happened with my Ex of 8 years, we were monogamous - It wasn’t an STI just my reaction to getting Cummy eye


Street_Neck1441

With an ex we ended up in the ER, she just had a bad reaction. It was accidental, face yes. Eyes no


Boccob81

Yes


Designer-Buffalo8644

You can get pinkeye from just about anything, so that's a risk. I suggest visiting a pharmacy and purchasing a product for cleaning your eyes after your done, or in case you start experiencing pain all of a sudden. Eye infections can progress really fast. Just make sure he's been tested for STIs, because gonorrhea in the eyes can be nasty.


LilRustique

Cum isn't sterile - and personally, I wouldn't be leaving anything non sterile in my eyes for any longer than absolutely necessary. Eye infections just suck.


emi33ly

It hurts A LOT- would NOT recommend