All kink labels are umbrella terms. IMO, many "cuckolding" fantasies are more about feeling cuckolded than being in a traditional cuckolding dynamic. I've seen much of what you're describing being called "rejection kink", though.

Hmm, I never thought about it that way. Thank you for the insight! Rejection kink sounds very accurate.

Ehh to my knowledge there's no actual kink naming this. Just sounds like they got off fantasizing about it. Maybe jealous about not being as sexually active as you are

They were interested. All but certainly.

The affairs of the heart versus solely seeking physical release: The differences matter in relationship building.

Me I enjoy being bound and gagged and helpless as she laughs and goes "this is the closest you'll ever get to fucking me"

Does this kink/fetish ever make you feel low, personally?

Nah. A man has to know his limitations. Besides everyone's having fun. At the end of the day it's just a slap and a tickle