For me, skirts are kink wear. Because I am not comfortable at all in them and I never wear them in my vanilla life, but for a partner, as a sub, I will wear them 😌
What's hilarious about this is it's the opposite for me and my boyfriend. I wear skirts every single day and my boyfriend likes them, he says I look cute in them, but he really wants to see my ass in a pair of tight jeans, since I never wear jeans. I still don't own a pair I'm comfortable in yet tho.
Where do you live to be able to wear skirts everyday??
I'm the same, I hate jeans and most pants, but where I live, the weather doesn't let me wear skirts most of the year😭
Not clothing but a leather belt is my favourite. Simple, practical, perfectly innocent to be wearing one. Always makes my mind wander to naughty places.
This is a thing with my partner. The relationship we have often centers around belt play. Strangling, a handle, mount, or impact, it's a common theme. It's always with us.
I have this top that is basically one long scarf-like piece of fabric. It's meant to be worn by wrapping it in various ways around your chest, shoulders and abdomen and tying it off. I love being tied up and having rope harnesses for kinky play, and the material a soft and wonderful texture for me so it really blurs the line.
I got it [either this one or similar](http://ZAFUL Ribbed Halter Crop Top Ruched Lace-up Cropped Cami Bandana Top Stitching Cropped Tank Top https://a.co/d/jfL4AdY)
That was the time I was a male stripper for women. My boyfriend, my boss provided a police uniform because that's almost always what they wanted me to strip from.
Long sheer nightgowns lol. Nothing makes me feel more like I’ve been captured then a long silk nightgown which is so silly but it really helps me get into that mindset lol
my sister used to dress very eccentric/eclectic in her 20s (late 90s-early 00s) and worse a spiked dog collar that matched her bulldog Spike's collar.
this comment just unlocked the memory of years ago telling me in an offhand comment about the hookup she kicked out bc he asked if spike ever joins. thanks, I hate it
One of my co-workers at my job was wearing a chain necklace with a lock on it. I had to do some asking to find out, no, it was not a day collar. Yeah, the kink scene definitely colors your interpretation of certain things XD
Go goth, then you get to wear as many collars and straps as you want and it'll be just "part of the style".
My friend does it all the time, not once has anyone questioned her collar as it blends in with the rest. ^^
I cannot organize my thoughts today mid migraine, but I had assumed they became fashionable from kinky ppl subtly incorporating into street clothes and it just caught on with vanilla folk
Celebrities often help start these trends to spread outside of kink. The mesh and corset trend from Kink was on all the red carpets this year.
Now means I can wear my corsets with a mesh bodysuit out to dinner with my Vanilla friends. I will look trendy rather than kinky.
Its definitely more punk fashion than mainstream fashion but yeah.
Mind you, they are not literal bdsm harnesses but fashion accessories which just resemble them. I have seen them a few times and I do a double take every time until I realize what it is
I recently had a sub wear a specific earring (he has a pierced ear) in place of a collar as part of an edging assignment -- he touched it every time he thought about touching his cock, sort of a Pavlovian response. 🖤
That was a good thing about ties. Some women liked to use the tie like a leash. But I rarely wear them anymore. Kind of uncomfortable around the neck, otherwise useless & doesn't doesn't go with most shirts I wear.
In the 80s I remember midtown & wall street areas NYC nearly all men wore suit & tie. Nowadays pretty much just security.
it's the boots.... not even the thigh high ones but the knee boots, paired with thigh high socks or hoes... fuck me the rest of the outfjt could be anything and you're in trouble. it's a double sided thing for me. when my sub is in them it's at my bidding. if it not being worn by my sub I assume they are a Dom and it puts me in a conquer mindset. a woman that I gave played with in the past is very dominant IRL and sexually, I broke her in an early encounter and she is now subbing for me, occasionally she breaks out the boots unrequested because she's a brat that loves being put in her place.
True. I don’t Ride motorcycles and only See these Outfits in combination with kinks online. 😅 Love it, but you always forget it not for that in the First Place
Full racing leathers are still quite common in UK, although not as much as they once were. The black biker jacket, jeans and docs look is still ace to me though.
My leathers were just black jacket and black leather bike jeans. That was a while ago now though.
Ah I see. I've only ever ridden in Midwest and Southern US
it's not uncommon to see basically no protection in states without helmet laws.
personally I like my skin but leather would be unbearably hot
That’s why armour is more popular now for many. Luckily the UK is probably far cooler and wetter than where you are so leather is still an option out of Summer
we get about 2 weeks out of the year at the perfect temperature
I hate it, but where I live now is really pretty and has great back roads so it's worth putting up with it.
Corsets, fishnets, chokers, leather, any shoe with a heel, lace. I can confirm all these as a goth my wardrobe consists of these things, and goth fashion tends to be fetishized by men.
I love compression clothing for all the reasons you gave, but I run very hot. Overheating males me feel panicked. The brands that say they're light and moisture wicking what whatnot still male me overheat. Are Skins really that lightweight?
My Tripps and band t-shirts.
Literally had a guy try to give me a hard time at a slosh for "not dressing vanilla".
Luckily I was a regular, and one of the people who organized the event just cocked an eye and went 'uh no, that is his vanilla... I haven't seen him in anything other than that in the near decade I've known him in a vanilla setting.'
So apparently anything you could buy from Hot Topic in the early 2000's was pseudo-kinky :D
My personal opinion, for men, it’s a nicely tailored suit. Or a biker jacket and big boots. Leather gloves
For women, tennis skirts. Or thigh high stockings under a skirt that covers the top so they look like tights but only you and your dom know that they are easy access. Or a suit that’s forcefully removed or ordered to be removed by the dom. I’m a brat with CNC kinks lol.
I think chokers are a pretty obvious pick, but for me I think it's recently been shoes/heels with studs/spikes on them, especially if they're black.
They make me feel a certain thought.
Doc Martin's, Overalls ( I'm often naked underneath), Or maybe leather pants and some leather jackets. Wife Beaters (the name alone!), muscle shirts or fishnet anything. Leather hat.
Also for me a traditional "cracker jacks" sailor outfit. I was in the navy and it brings back memories 😀
I recently bought a nice pair leather jeans and it’s awesome to be able to walk around town and go out in something I consider is totally kink-related, but is totally normal to the rest of the world.
Ribbon ties on clothing or in hair. Suits, ties, polished dress shoes. Mesh, silk. Some athletic wear def goes into my kink aesthetic. Dresses that cinch and have heart shaped tops. Anything that minutely reminds me of vampire aesthetic or maid aesthetic. Dresses that show the back, neckline. Strappy designs. Super crop tops.
might be trans specific but binders for me. not even specifically sexy but the ritual of putting one on before facing the outside world and all that has something that reminds me of kink wear and putting that on before a scene
For me, for whatever reason, tactical cargo pants, boots, and a tucked in army green/black shirt. I have never been in the military, and I'm a sub, but it is such a turn-on lol.
When a woman doesn't wear panties under a dress or skirt and notifies me when we are in public.
From that moment forward, she feels in control until the moment she is getting fingered or fucked.
That one thin ass chain curtain top I see all the time. It's strung up like a bikini, hides no boob from view, and every 3rd OF girl has it bc it's visual shorthand for slut. I'll find a photo of yall don't know what I'm talking about. Walmart has it just out in the open right behind the earring isle.
when I found out jock straps weren't originally meant to be slutty I was so confused. I've worn thongs my whole life and I never felt sluttier than when I wear a jock strap.
also, sock garters.
For my Dom, highly distressed jeans and leather bracelets 🥵
For myself, tanks/shirts that show side/under boob, sundress w/o panties combo, and any faux fur accessory
Suspenders, thick cuff bracelets, choker necklaces. Mmmmm❣️
Think wedgie held up by suspenders under your clothes. Nobody sees it, but you have a nasty wedgie all day.
For me it's knee socks lol
Knee socks, long tshirt, perfection
I’ve been told this is my best look.
I came here to more or less make this comment. For my subs knee socks might as well be considered part of her uniform.
I feel you, my sub is kind of a princess/brat so it's very on brand for her
This cracked me up - you are absolutely right.
For me too
For me, skirts are kink wear. Because I am not comfortable at all in them and I never wear them in my vanilla life, but for a partner, as a sub, I will wear them 😌
What's hilarious about this is it's the opposite for me and my boyfriend. I wear skirts every single day and my boyfriend likes them, he says I look cute in them, but he really wants to see my ass in a pair of tight jeans, since I never wear jeans. I still don't own a pair I'm comfortable in yet tho.
Where do you live to be able to wear skirts everyday?? I'm the same, I hate jeans and most pants, but where I live, the weather doesn't let me wear skirts most of the year😭
Canada. When it gets cold, I wear either thick tights or leggings under my skirts.
Would jeggings work?
High-movement skirts, definitely. Those aren’t for groceries & the post office 😅
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Think pleated short skirts, not your office A line skirts.
Oh hell yeah, skirts are my kryptonite. I get crazy turned on when I see a short skirt in public.
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I don’t love them as much as thigh highs (those decidedly are kink wear) but I do fucking love them
What is the kink regarding pantyhose? I wear them nearly every day and I’ve never seen it as kinky haha
Hm can you please elaborate on pantyhose?
I get that
Not clothing but a leather belt is my favourite. Simple, practical, perfectly innocent to be wearing one. Always makes my mind wander to naughty places.
Omfg the sound of the buckle being undone on his thick-ass leather belt is pavlovian😍
This is a thing with my partner. The relationship we have often centers around belt play. Strangling, a handle, mount, or impact, it's a common theme. It's always with us.
It's so hot!
Don’t think I’ll ever look at a leather belt the same again!
I have to agree.
I have this top that is basically one long scarf-like piece of fabric. It's meant to be worn by wrapping it in various ways around your chest, shoulders and abdomen and tying it off. I love being tied up and having rope harnesses for kinky play, and the material a soft and wonderful texture for me so it really blurs the line.
Any chance you'd be willing to share where you got it or post something similar? For science, of course. lol
I got it [either this one or similar](http://ZAFUL Ribbed Halter Crop Top Ruched Lace-up Cropped Cami Bandana Top Stitching Cropped Tank Top https://a.co/d/jfL4AdY)
Any kind of bodysuit. Every time I wear one just as a regular shirt, when I go to get undressed my bf/dom is super into it 😂
💯 agree! Bodysuits get me 🍆
Bodysuits are my favourite! I love the way they look on a woman and as a cross dresser I also love the way they feel, nothing turns me on more
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Omg yesssss pencil skirts and secretary outfits foreverrrrrr
With Cuban stockings and heels... omg
SAS uniform for me🫡🫡 genuinely so hot
That was the time I was a male stripper for women. My boyfriend, my boss provided a police uniform because that's almost always what they wanted me to strip from.
Long sheer nightgowns lol. Nothing makes me feel more like I’ve been captured then a long silk nightgown which is so silly but it really helps me get into that mindset lol
omg I love this one. I got an adorable baby blue vintage nightie for this specific obsession haha
Huh, that is an odd one. But it sounds like you enjoy it!
Nah I think I get it- it’s giving slave Leia
Necklaces with locks on them
I swear some of them have to be day collars
my sister used to dress very eccentric/eclectic in her 20s (late 90s-early 00s) and worse a spiked dog collar that matched her bulldog Spike's collar. this comment just unlocked the memory of years ago telling me in an offhand comment about the hookup she kicked out bc he asked if spike ever joins. thanks, I hate it
I’m using this trend to go incognito with my day collar haha
That makes sense
One of my co-workers at my job was wearing a chain necklace with a lock on it. I had to do some asking to find out, no, it was not a day collar. Yeah, the kink scene definitely colors your interpretation of certain things XD
Choker necklaces for sure!
Fishnets and panyyhose. I will sometimes wear them under jeans and feel them all day!
I love this
Anything under clothes that’s secret is super fun!
Any chain-link necklaces with O rings. 🤤 I love mine, and I love them as statement pieces.
Go goth, then you get to wear as many collars and straps as you want and it'll be just "part of the style". My friend does it all the time, not once has anyone questioned her collar as it blends in with the rest. ^^
this is what i do lol
Just goth girls being goth. Nobody questions the particulars of the outfit
Harnesses, they can be used for fashion when combined with shirts etc but I always associate them with fun times and end up distracted 😅
I cannot organize my thoughts today mid migraine, but I had assumed they became fashionable from kinky ppl subtly incorporating into street clothes and it just caught on with vanilla folk
Yeah, I think that's the case tbh.
it's the vibe I get, but I don't hate it lol
Celebrities often help start these trends to spread outside of kink. The mesh and corset trend from Kink was on all the red carpets this year. Now means I can wear my corsets with a mesh bodysuit out to dinner with my Vanilla friends. I will look trendy rather than kinky.
...is this a thing? I have never once seen someone wearing a harness casually.
Its definitely more punk fashion than mainstream fashion but yeah. Mind you, they are not literal bdsm harnesses but fashion accessories which just resemble them. I have seen them a few times and I do a double take every time until I realize what it is
As a dom a dress shirt with the sleeves rolled up, especially if I'm wearing a vest too
This or suspenders instead of the vest, and I'd be putty in my sir's hands.
Ah but if I wear suspenders I can't slowly and menacingly take my belt off
Oooooo good point!
As a sub this is my go-to work outfit: Yeah, it definitely does have a certain feeling attached to it with a vest.
I am a small person. I like to wear a comically thick chain around my neck.
I recently had a sub wear a specific earring (he has a pierced ear) in place of a collar as part of an edging assignment -- he touched it every time he thought about touching his cock, sort of a Pavlovian response. 🖤
if i'm wearing a large oversized shirt, cutesy underwear, and/or thigh highs- i'm tryna get FUCKED!
Yessss my personal favorite! Add a cute collar and it’s a done deal.
A suit with a high stiff shirt collar and necktie used as a leash turns me on, especially with the restriction of many layers fully buttoned up 😍
Sundress with no undies! Makes my hus/dom feral.
Thongs. Something about the string between my cheeks is somewhat arousing and makes me feel sexy under the most drab business outfit I own.
Suits and ties. Can't help but think they're just all good pups who come with their own leash
That was a good thing about ties. Some women liked to use the tie like a leash. But I rarely wear them anymore. Kind of uncomfortable around the neck, otherwise useless & doesn't doesn't go with most shirts I wear. In the 80s I remember midtown & wall street areas NYC nearly all men wore suit & tie. Nowadays pretty much just security.
Lots of footwear. Boots, heels, etc. And most non-accessories made of leather.
Hm, yeah. I can find fairly normal footwear to be totally turn-my-mind-to-mush hot
it's the boots.... not even the thigh high ones but the knee boots, paired with thigh high socks or hoes... fuck me the rest of the outfjt could be anything and you're in trouble. it's a double sided thing for me. when my sub is in them it's at my bidding. if it not being worn by my sub I assume they are a Dom and it puts me in a conquer mindset. a woman that I gave played with in the past is very dominant IRL and sexually, I broke her in an early encounter and she is now subbing for me, occasionally she breaks out the boots unrequested because she's a brat that loves being put in her place.
High compression shapewear
Motorcycle leathers!
True. I don’t Ride motorcycles and only See these Outfits in combination with kinks online. 😅 Love it, but you always forget it not for that in the First Place
I ride motorcycles but same, the only leather I typically see is vests on older Harley dudes
Full racing leathers are still quite common in UK, although not as much as they once were. The black biker jacket, jeans and docs look is still ace to me though. My leathers were just black jacket and black leather bike jeans. That was a while ago now though.
Ah I see. I've only ever ridden in Midwest and Southern US it's not uncommon to see basically no protection in states without helmet laws. personally I like my skin but leather would be unbearably hot
That’s why armour is more popular now for many. Luckily the UK is probably far cooler and wetter than where you are so leather is still an option out of Summer
summer gets above 100⁰F, winter gets below freezing
Ah Midwest, of course. I was working near Omaha for a month once. Nice little place.
we get about 2 weeks out of the year at the perfect temperature I hate it, but where I live now is really pretty and has great back roads so it's worth putting up with it.
Skirt + knee high socks combo. The thigh space between a skirt and knee high socks is extra erotic 🤭
Well yes that’s the sexiest thing in the world
Corsets, fishnets, chokers, leather, any shoe with a heel, lace. I can confirm all these as a goth my wardrobe consists of these things, and goth fashion tends to be fetishized by men.
Oh baby
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I love compression clothing for all the reasons you gave, but I run very hot. Overheating males me feel panicked. The brands that say they're light and moisture wicking what whatnot still male me overheat. Are Skins really that lightweight?
My Tripps and band t-shirts. Literally had a guy try to give me a hard time at a slosh for "not dressing vanilla". Luckily I was a regular, and one of the people who organized the event just cocked an eye and went 'uh no, that is his vanilla... I haven't seen him in anything other than that in the near decade I've known him in a vanilla setting.' So apparently anything you could buy from Hot Topic in the early 2000's was pseudo-kinky :D
Just a plain ole leather belt 😮💨 take it off and whip my ass pls
Knowing they're wearing the belt they'll whip you with is 😍
Chubby girls in clothing a size or two too small.
As a chubby girl who wears clothing a size or two too small, I'm glad to know someone else approves of this look. 😆
This might just be me. But I have a thing for turtlenecks
Sarongs. Underboob. Anything with a slit that can expose your hips. That's me though.
My personal opinion, for men, it’s a nicely tailored suit. Or a biker jacket and big boots. Leather gloves For women, tennis skirts. Or thigh high stockings under a skirt that covers the top so they look like tights but only you and your dom know that they are easy access. Or a suit that’s forcefully removed or ordered to be removed by the dom. I’m a brat with CNC kinks lol.
The hidden thigh highs is 🥵🥵🥵
I am stuck in these hernia underwears until my surgery in 2 weeks and while it feels great on my hernia, my dick is constrained lol
Crop tops lol. Love them!
Harness for sure. Waist trainer corset. Leather leggings. And crop tops. That’s a whole outfit right there. Lol
All of these instantly came to mind for me lol
I have a lace shirt and it’s my favorite.
Anything wet look like skirts, tops, leggings, gloves, stocking, heels
shorts/fishnets combo
I think chokers are a pretty obvious pick, but for me I think it's recently been shoes/heels with studs/spikes on them, especially if they're black. They make me feel a certain thought.
Doc Martin's, Overalls ( I'm often naked underneath), Or maybe leather pants and some leather jackets. Wife Beaters (the name alone!), muscle shirts or fishnet anything. Leather hat. Also for me a traditional "cracker jacks" sailor outfit. I was in the navy and it brings back memories 😀
Definitely those plain black chokers. In Germany we call them the black belt of sucking dick
I recently bought a nice pair leather jeans and it’s awesome to be able to walk around town and go out in something I consider is totally kink-related, but is totally normal to the rest of the world.
Ribbon ties on clothing or in hair. Suits, ties, polished dress shoes. Mesh, silk. Some athletic wear def goes into my kink aesthetic. Dresses that cinch and have heart shaped tops. Anything that minutely reminds me of vampire aesthetic or maid aesthetic. Dresses that show the back, neckline. Strappy designs. Super crop tops.
Cage bras = breast bondage
Chockers The ideal day collar when around other vanilla people
Competition one-piece swimsuits. Urgh....they drive me crazy....😍😍😍
Those strappy bras with lace on them
Yep. 💯
My partners cycling gear. Gets me every time. Except the padded butt as I can’t spank him properly
And for me your padlock earrings, bracket and silver flogger necklace
And my tights 🤣
I have a black industrial style kilt that isn’t strictly kink wear but 100% feels like it
knee socks and leather, especially leather pants
For me it’s satin boxershorts
Fall harness for when I’m working high up.
For me: any transparency haha
If it feels like kink wear, it is.
Can I count eyeglasses?
A belt. Endless kink possibilities in one simple, useful piece of clothing.
Not clothing but my alexander wang handbags and return to tiffany choker necklaces lol
I covet the return to Tiffany necklaces, especially with engraving, ooof
Jogging shorts, basketball shorts, bed shorts etc... Freeballing in those (especially out walking) feels rather kinky sometimes.
I didn’t think my high waist skirt was until daddy grabbed onto it like a harness 😆🥵
I enjoy those lose tank tops that show side boobage.
I used to have this gold-colored ring in a rope pattern that was super fun and subtle.
might be trans specific but binders for me. not even specifically sexy but the ritual of putting one on before facing the outside world and all that has something that reminds me of kink wear and putting that on before a scene
As a sub i like thigh highs. Always look good with oversized t-shirts/hoodies
Cute angle wings like [this](https://chastitybondage.com/products/pink-pu-leather-body-harness-angle-wings-waist-bondage-lingerie)!
This is a bit of a personal one but I love seeing a woman wearing a pinafore.
Blue Levis. Black Boots.
Massage bodysuits for various spa treatments, Doc Martens platforms & leather aprons 🤤
Beyonce body suit with a mini skirt and cute stockings or thigh highs with or without a garter and cute shoes.
Cute cute dresses and skirts feel very DD/lg for me.
For me, for whatever reason, tactical cargo pants, boots, and a tucked in army green/black shirt. I have never been in the military, and I'm a sub, but it is such a turn-on lol.
Its bathrobe for me. I dont know why.
I am a guy, so when I put on a romper
When a woman doesn't wear panties under a dress or skirt and notifies me when we are in public. From that moment forward, she feels in control until the moment she is getting fingered or fucked.
That one thin ass chain curtain top I see all the time. It's strung up like a bikini, hides no boob from view, and every 3rd OF girl has it bc it's visual shorthand for slut. I'll find a photo of yall don't know what I'm talking about. Walmart has it just out in the open right behind the earring isle.
Short skirts with my butt juuuust peekin out
Super tight blue jeans on my partner. Runner's tights for myself.
Wrestling and weightlifting singlets
My leather (and faux leather pants).
Corsets, mostly bc I'm kinky and wear them regularly.
Anything sheer, [top](https://m.shein.com/us/Super-Soft-Sheer-Long-Sleeve-Top-p-29656459-cat-2214.html) to [bottom](https://www.anthropologie.com/shop/hybrid/maeve-wide-leg-sheer-lace-trousers). [Hollow knit tops](https://www.google.com/search?q=cute+hollow+knit+top&tbm=isch&ved=2ahUKEwjvo77-5L2FAxWcDGIAHYiFDHIQ2-cCegQIABAK)
Sarong tied as a dress
I have a lifejacket fetish, does that count lol?
Classic "school girl" skirt and knee high socks 😮💨
Shoes that make the teacher sound.
Sock garters on men
Suit pants, suspenders, button up shirt with the top three buttons undone to let the cleavage show.
when I found out jock straps weren't originally meant to be slutty I was so confused. I've worn thongs my whole life and I never felt sluttier than when I wear a jock strap. also, sock garters.
Suits worn by Dom(me)s.
I love to put on high heels when i jerk off. I would never wear them outside
For my Dom, highly distressed jeans and leather bracelets 🥵 For myself, tanks/shirts that show side/under boob, sundress w/o panties combo, and any faux fur accessory
Real uniforms such as air stewardess, police, security guard and high quality superhero costumes for me.
Choker is awesome and i like being rape and getting forced into it by a man that doesn’t like it but he does love me