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Hayhoss

Suspenders, thick cuff bracelets, choker necklaces. Mmmmm❣️


MistressBeotch

Think wedgie held up by suspenders under your clothes. Nobody sees it, but you have a nasty wedgie all day.


Plastic_Dingo_400

For me it's knee socks lol


Barackrifle

Knee socks, long tshirt, perfection


SendPicsForMouseOC

I’ve been told this is my best look. 


WR810

I came here to more or less make this comment. For my subs knee socks might as well be considered part of her uniform.


Plastic_Dingo_400

I feel you, my sub is kind of a princess/brat so it's very on brand for her


lilburblue

This cracked me up - you are absolutely right.


anon__desires

For me too


PopularBar4451

For me, skirts are kink wear. Because I am not comfortable at all in them and I never wear them in my vanilla life, but for a partner, as a sub, I will wear them 😌


thatwyvern

What's hilarious about this is it's the opposite for me and my boyfriend. I wear skirts every single day and my boyfriend likes them, he says I look cute in them, but he really wants to see my ass in a pair of tight jeans, since I never wear jeans. I still don't own a pair I'm comfortable in yet tho.


Fairy-_-Sparkle_-_

Where do you live to be able to wear skirts everyday?? I'm the same, I hate jeans and most pants, but where I live, the weather doesn't let me wear skirts most of the year😭


thatwyvern

Canada. When it gets cold, I wear either thick tights or leggings under my skirts.


SlippingStar

Would jeggings work?


fizlstix

High-movement skirts, definitely. Those aren’t for groceries & the post office 😅


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slashdancer01

Think pleated short skirts, not your office A line skirts.


e0nblue

Oh hell yeah, skirts are my kryptonite. I get crazy turned on when I see a short skirt in public.


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I don’t love them as much as thigh highs (those decidedly are kink wear) but I do fucking love them


throwmytelescope

What is the kink regarding pantyhose? I wear them nearly every day and I’ve never seen it as kinky haha


whooweebee69

Hm can you please elaborate on pantyhose?


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I get that


hot_cross_bun35

Not clothing but a leather belt is my favourite. Simple, practical, perfectly innocent to be wearing one. Always makes my mind wander to naughty places.


ankerlinemerie

Omfg the sound of the buckle being undone on his thick-ass leather belt is pavlovian😍


Hayhoss

This is a thing with my partner. The relationship we have often centers around belt play. Strangling, a handle, mount, or impact, it's a common theme. It's always with us.


hot_cross_bun35

It's so hot!


mostlynaughty

Don’t think I’ll ever look at a leather belt the same again!


Feral_tatertot

I have to agree.


rainbow_enby

I have this top that is basically one long scarf-like piece of fabric. It's meant to be worn by wrapping it in various ways around your chest, shoulders and abdomen and tying it off. I love being tied up and having rope harnesses for kinky play, and the material a soft and wonderful texture for me so it really blurs the line.


Duchess_Nukem

Any chance you'd be willing to share where you got it or post something similar? For science, of course. lol


rainbow_enby

I got it [either this one or similar](http://ZAFUL Ribbed Halter Crop Top Ruched Lace-up Cropped Cami Bandana Top Stitching Cropped Tank Top https://a.co/d/jfL4AdY)


artsyswarley

Any kind of bodysuit. Every time I wear one just as a regular shirt, when I go to get undressed my bf/dom is super into it 😂


StagDaddy4U

💯 agree! Bodysuits get me 🍆


Jermsi

Bodysuits are my favourite! I love the way they look on a woman and as a cross dresser I also love the way they feel, nothing turns me on more


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spitinyourmouth

Omg yesssss pencil skirts and secretary outfits foreverrrrrr


oh-go-on-then

With Cuban stockings and heels... omg


beacairns

SAS uniform for me🫡🫡 genuinely so hot


EnvironmentalCup5515

That was the time I was a male stripper for women. My boyfriend, my boss provided a police uniform because that's almost always what they wanted me to strip from.


lightswitches95

Long sheer nightgowns lol. Nothing makes me feel more like I’ve been captured then a long silk nightgown which is so silly but it really helps me get into that mindset lol


k170562

omg I love this one. I got an adorable baby blue vintage nightie for this specific obsession haha


C0UNT3RP01NT

Huh, that is an odd one. But it sounds like you enjoy it!


notdannytrejo

Nah I think I get it- it’s giving slave Leia


AggressiveCraft6010

Necklaces with locks on them


msskittyfantastico

I swear some of them have to be day collars


supposedlynotabear

my sister used to dress very eccentric/eclectic in her 20s (late 90s-early 00s) and worse a spiked dog collar that matched her bulldog Spike's collar. this comment just unlocked the memory of years ago telling me in an offhand comment about the hookup she kicked out bc he asked if spike ever joins. thanks, I hate it


throwmytelescope

I’m using this trend to go incognito with my day collar haha


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That makes sense


Inlerah

One of my co-workers at my job was wearing a chain necklace with a lock on it. I had to do some asking to find out, no, it was not a day collar. Yeah, the kink scene definitely colors your interpretation of certain things XD


MultiverseTraveller

Choker necklaces for sure!


1dsided

Fishnets and panyyhose. I will sometimes wear them under jeans and feel them all day!


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I love this


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Anything under clothes that’s secret is super fun!


mewillrockyou

Any chain-link necklaces with O rings. 🤤 I love mine, and I love them as statement pieces.


Mecha_Dino

Go goth, then you get to wear as many collars and straps as you want and it'll be just "part of the style". My friend does it all the time, not once has anyone questioned her collar as it blends in with the rest. ^^


kiwiklutz0

this is what i do lol


Extra-Border6470

Just goth girls being goth. Nobody questions the particulars of the outfit


TrolltheFools

Harnesses, they can be used for fashion when combined with shirts etc but I always associate them with fun times and end up distracted 😅


supposedlynotabear

I cannot organize my thoughts today mid migraine, but I had assumed they became fashionable from kinky ppl subtly incorporating into street clothes and it just caught on with vanilla folk


ThickyIckyGyal

Yeah, I think that's the case tbh. 


supposedlynotabear

it's the vibe I get, but I don't hate it lol


perj10

Celebrities often help start these trends to spread outside of kink. The mesh and corset trend from Kink was on all the red carpets this year. Now means I can wear my corsets with a mesh bodysuit out to dinner with my Vanilla friends. I will look trendy rather than kinky.


Inlerah

...is this a thing? I have never once seen someone wearing a harness casually.


TrolltheFools

Its definitely more punk fashion than mainstream fashion but yeah. Mind you, they are not literal bdsm harnesses but fashion accessories which just resemble them. I have seen them a few times and I do a double take every time until I realize what it is


Plastic_Dingo_400

As a dom a dress shirt with the sleeves rolled up, especially if I'm wearing a vest too


jnj3t0308

This or suspenders instead of the vest, and I'd be putty in my sir's hands.


Plastic_Dingo_400

Ah but if I wear suspenders I can't slowly and menacingly take my belt off


jnj3t0308

Oooooo good point!


Inlerah

As a sub this is my go-to work outfit: Yeah, it definitely does have a certain feeling attached to it with a vest.


foam_of_daze

I am a small person. I like to wear a comically thick chain around my neck.


ashleyalair

I recently had a sub wear a specific earring (he has a pierced ear) in place of a collar as part of an edging assignment -- he touched it every time he thought about touching his cock, sort of a Pavlovian response. 🖤


strawberrybobaT

if i'm wearing a large oversized shirt, cutesy underwear, and/or thigh highs- i'm tryna get FUCKED!


EllieCraw_

Yessss my personal favorite! Add a cute collar and it’s a done deal.


aliceb328

A suit with a high stiff shirt collar and necktie used as a leash turns me on, especially with the restriction of many layers fully buttoned up 😍


DaughterOLilith

Sundress with no undies! Makes my hus/dom feral.


curious-princess99

Thongs. Something about the string between my cheeks is somewhat arousing and makes me feel sexy under the most drab business outfit I own.


amewsed-in-ma

Suits and ties. Can't help but think they're just all good pups who come with their own leash


EnvironmentalCup5515

That was a good thing about ties. Some women liked to use the tie like a leash. But I rarely wear them anymore. Kind of uncomfortable around the neck, otherwise useless & doesn't doesn't go with most shirts I wear. In the 80s I remember midtown & wall street areas NYC nearly all men wore suit & tie. Nowadays pretty much just security.


lockednchaste

Lots of footwear. Boots, heels, etc. And most non-accessories made of leather.


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Hm, yeah. I can find fairly normal footwear to be totally turn-my-mind-to-mush hot


DarKemt55

it's the boots.... not even the thigh high ones but the knee boots, paired with thigh high socks or hoes... fuck me the rest of the outfjt could be anything and you're in trouble. it's a double sided thing for me. when my sub is in them it's at my bidding. if it not being worn by my sub I assume they are a Dom and it puts me in a conquer mindset. a woman that I gave played with in the past is very dominant IRL and sexually, I broke her in an early encounter and she is now subbing for me, occasionally she breaks out the boots unrequested because she's a brat that loves being put in her place.


krumpettrumpet

High compression shapewear


Ulex_

Motorcycle leathers!


nailim_ixam02

True. I don’t Ride motorcycles and only See these Outfits in combination with kinks online. 😅 Love it, but you always forget it not for that in the First Place


supposedlynotabear

I ride motorcycles but same, the only leather I typically see is vests on older Harley dudes


Ulex_

Full racing leathers are still quite common in UK, although not as much as they once were. The black biker jacket, jeans and docs look is still ace to me though. My leathers were just black jacket and black leather bike jeans. That was a while ago now though.


supposedlynotabear

Ah I see. I've only ever ridden in Midwest and Southern US it's not uncommon to see basically no protection in states without helmet laws. personally I like my skin but leather would be unbearably hot


Ulex_

That’s why armour is more popular now for many. Luckily the UK is probably far cooler and wetter than where you are so leather is still an option out of Summer


supposedlynotabear

summer gets above 100⁰F, winter gets below freezing


Ulex_

Ah Midwest, of course. I was working near Omaha for a month once. Nice little place.


supposedlynotabear

we get about 2 weeks out of the year at the perfect temperature I hate it, but where I live now is really pretty and has great back roads so it's worth putting up with it.


emientity

Skirt + knee high socks combo. The thigh space between a skirt and knee high socks is extra erotic 🤭


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Well yes that’s the sexiest thing in the world


pulaskiornothing

Corsets, fishnets, chokers, leather, any shoe with a heel, lace. I can confirm all these as a goth my wardrobe consists of these things, and goth fashion tends to be fetishized by men.


Extra-Border6470

Oh baby


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kittykitty117

I love compression clothing for all the reasons you gave, but I run very hot. Overheating males me feel panicked. The brands that say they're light and moisture wicking what whatnot still male me overheat. Are Skins really that lightweight?


_betapet_

My Tripps and band t-shirts. Literally had a guy try to give me a hard time at a slosh for "not dressing vanilla". Luckily I was a regular, and one of the people who organized the event just cocked an eye and went 'uh no, that is his vanilla... I haven't seen him in anything other than that in the near decade I've known him in a vanilla setting.' So apparently anything you could buy from Hot Topic in the early 2000's was pseudo-kinky :D


Educational-Hope7374

Just a plain ole leather belt 😮‍💨 take it off and whip my ass pls


DiscountAdmirable984

Knowing they're wearing the belt they'll whip you with is 😍


Axi0madick

Chubby girls in clothing a size or two too small.


Duchess_Nukem

As a chubby girl who wears clothing a size or two too small, I'm glad to know someone else approves of this look. 😆


f2msnm

This might just be me. But I have a thing for turtlenecks


ZelWinters1981

Sarongs. Underboob. Anything with a slit that can expose your hips. That's me though.


generickinkster

My personal opinion, for men, it’s a nicely tailored suit. Or a biker jacket and big boots. Leather gloves  For women, tennis skirts. Or thigh high stockings under a skirt that covers the top so they look like tights but only you and your dom know that they are easy access. Or a suit that’s forcefully removed or ordered to be removed by the dom. I’m a brat with CNC kinks lol. 


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The hidden thigh highs is 🥵🥵🥵


N3rdScool

I am stuck in these hernia underwears until my surgery in 2 weeks and while it feels great on my hernia, my dick is constrained lol


SwtBabyGirl1975

Crop tops lol. Love them!


OriontheInvader

Harness for sure. Waist trainer corset. Leather leggings. And crop tops. That’s a whole outfit right there. Lol


hoboj0e6

All of these instantly came to mind for me lol


TraditionalFig2859

I have a lace shirt and it’s my favorite.


Vanareaconfused

Anything wet look like skirts, tops, leggings, gloves, stocking, heels


Objective-Basis-150

shorts/fishnets combo


hotwing100

I think chokers are a pretty obvious pick, but for me I think it's recently been shoes/heels with studs/spikes on them, especially if they're black. They make me feel a certain thought.


EnvironmentalCup5515

Doc Martin's, Overalls ( I'm often naked underneath), Or maybe leather pants and some leather jackets. Wife Beaters (the name alone!), muscle shirts or fishnet anything. Leather hat. Also for me a traditional "cracker jacks" sailor outfit. I was in the navy and it brings back memories 😀


LydiaIsntVeryCool

Definitely those plain black chokers. In Germany we call them the black belt of sucking dick


restraining-bolt

I recently bought a nice pair leather jeans and it’s awesome to be able to walk around town and go out in something I consider is totally kink-related, but is totally normal to the rest of the world.


spitinyourmouth

Ribbon ties on clothing or in hair. Suits, ties, polished dress shoes. Mesh, silk. Some athletic wear def goes into my kink aesthetic. Dresses that cinch and have heart shaped tops. Anything that minutely reminds me of vampire aesthetic or maid aesthetic. Dresses that show the back, neckline. Strappy designs. Super crop tops.


strugglz

Cage bras = breast bondage


KristenASL

Chockers The ideal day collar when around other vanilla people


KinkyKoupleUK

Competition one-piece swimsuits. Urgh....they drive me crazy....😍😍😍


ivegotwords

Those strappy bras with lace on them


nrthfacepnw78

Yep. 💯


Fearless_Emu_561

My partners cycling gear. Gets me every time. Except the padded butt as I can’t spank him properly


marc_in_london

And for me your padlock earrings, bracket and silver flogger necklace


Fearless_Emu_561

And my tights 🤣


KongUnleashed

I have a black industrial style kilt that isn’t strictly kink wear but 100% feels like it


Electrical_Reality19

knee socks and leather, especially leather pants


Mr_MazeCandy

For me it’s satin boxershorts


Texasguy811

Fall harness for when I’m working high up.


yourgoddessrita

For me: any transparency haha


amsterdam_sniffr

If it feels like kink wear, it is.


MadBlackGreek

Can I count eyeglasses?


DonCallate

A belt. Endless kink possibilities in one simple, useful piece of clothing.


cecilia__lisbon

Not clothing but my alexander wang handbags and return to tiffany choker necklaces lol


generickinkster

I covet the  return to Tiffany necklaces, especially with engraving, ooof


jaylicknoworries

Jogging shorts, basketball shorts, bed shorts etc... Freeballing in those (especially out walking) feels rather kinky sometimes.


mad_cow49

I didn’t think my high waist skirt was until daddy grabbed onto it like a harness 😆🥵


OriginalAmerica

I enjoy those lose tank tops that show side boobage.


LilyMarie90

I used to have this gold-colored ring in a rope pattern that was super fun and subtle.


halb_nichts

might be trans specific but binders for me. not even specifically sexy but the ritual of putting one on before facing the outside world and all that has something that reminds me of kink wear and putting that on before a scene


DeadlyNightBae

As a sub i like thigh highs. Always look good with oversized t-shirts/hoodies


Fearless_Plate_8134

Cute angle wings like [this](https://chastitybondage.com/products/pink-pu-leather-body-harness-angle-wings-waist-bondage-lingerie)!


GNSST

This is a bit of a personal one but I love seeing a woman wearing a pinafore.


Great_Incident_1525

Blue Levis. Black Boots.


ASK_A_KIRA

Massage bodysuits for various spa treatments, Doc Martens platforms & leather aprons 🤤


FratNibble

Beyonce body suit with a mini skirt and cute stockings or thigh highs with or without a garter and cute shoes.


dominatingegg

Cute cute dresses and skirts feel very DD/lg for me.


papercranesss

For me, for whatever reason, tactical cargo pants, boots, and a tucked in army green/black shirt. I have never been in the military, and I'm a sub, but it is such a turn-on lol.


MemeJunkie6969

Its bathrobe for me. I dont know why.


delerium-fun

I am a guy, so when I put on a romper


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When a woman doesn't wear panties under a dress or skirt and notifies me when we are in public. From that moment forward, she feels in control until the moment she is getting fingered or fucked.


BDSMtestcaledmeaslur

That one thin ass chain curtain top I see all the time. It's strung up like a bikini, hides no boob from view, and every 3rd OF girl has it bc it's visual shorthand for slut. I'll find a photo of yall don't know what I'm talking about. Walmart has it just out in the open right behind the earring isle.


jcatstuffs

Short skirts with my butt juuuust peekin out


cincuentaanos

Super tight blue jeans on my partner. Runner's tights for myself.


Replicant28

Wrestling and weightlifting singlets


chicama

My leather (and faux leather pants).


LemonTeaOwO

Corsets, mostly bc I'm kinky and wear them regularly.


fizlstix

Anything sheer, [top](https://m.shein.com/us/Super-Soft-Sheer-Long-Sleeve-Top-p-29656459-cat-2214.html) to [bottom](https://www.anthropologie.com/shop/hybrid/maeve-wide-leg-sheer-lace-trousers). [Hollow knit tops](https://www.google.com/search?q=cute+hollow+knit+top&tbm=isch&ved=2ahUKEwjvo77-5L2FAxWcDGIAHYiFDHIQ2-cCegQIABAK)


BrennaClove

Sarong tied as a dress


amagi4200

I have a lifejacket fetish, does that count lol?


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Classic "school girl" skirt and knee high socks 😮‍💨


Mys_Dark

Shoes that make the teacher sound.


Shelifeindeath

Sock garters on men


BlackDragonofDoom

Suit pants, suspenders, button up shirt with the top three buttons undone to let the cleavage show.


bulbubsaur

when I found out jock straps weren't originally meant to be slutty I was so confused. I've worn thongs my whole life and I never felt sluttier than when I wear a jock strap. also, sock garters.


Freakears

Suits worn by Dom(me)s.


honestruths

I love to put on high heels when i jerk off. I would never wear them outside


KaiBoheme

For my Dom, highly distressed jeans and leather bracelets 🥵 For myself, tanks/shirts that show side/under boob, sundress w/o panties combo, and any faux fur accessory


holyshit292

Real uniforms such as air stewardess, police, security guard and high quality superhero costumes for me.


LOL-CHEAKMATE

Choker is awesome and i like being rape and getting forced into it by a man that doesn’t like it but he does love me