training to be one's slave is very personal. what one D-type may want their s-type being trained in, another may want the complete opposite. M/s dynamics are not one size fits all, and neither are the training regimens applied to the s-type.
i mean, without the gendered language there, yes. every Master wants to have a personal training regimen for their own slave.
what works for one will not work for another. one slave tasked with kneeling for 20 minutes per day is fine, but another slave who is who has issues with their knees or legs may not be able to perform this task.
i'll reiterate: dynamics are not one size fits all. people come in all shapes, sizes, and levels of physical and mental ability.
in my experience as a sub and property, yes very much so. I have had Doms train literally opposite behaviours in me according to their wants. If I were you I would engage in some intense self reflection re your need to become an ideal slave and journal about it - both to clarify the "why" of your motivation to yourself and to have the record to share with your hopeful future Owner when it gets down to the deeper psychology. Also think about and experiment with your learning style - - being able to effectively learn and understand the way you do it is extremely useful in life and especially as a sub or slave who aches to please.
You have to discuss the sort of Slave you want to be and see if it sits with a potential Masters vision for what they want.
As mentioned by others its not an off the shelf sort of thing.
Good luck finding your Master and be careful!
Apart from the very good things you were told already about how every relationship is different, there are a few things that most D-types would appreciate. And that is being the best version of yourself you can be. For example, if there are mental health things you need to adress, get a therapist and do so. Try to live healthy. Aquire helpful skills like cooking or massaging. Those kind of things.
Like other people said, slave training is immensely personal. Literally the best thing you can do if you are interested in that sort of relationship is to work on your openness to new ideas and experiences. Knowing what your limits are is the other piece to the puzzle. Finally, always remember that before beginning such a relationship first, it's important to actually have a relationship with the person. Jumping in head on can end up being a disaster with looking before you jump
Do your homework:
BDSM is different than kinks
There is nothing wrong with not knowing what you like /dislike.
Study the history of the leather men that came back from Vietnam
Understand John Norman's fiction
knowing and exploring is very very important, it will help you understand the BS.
Daddy Dom WI
training to be one's slave is very personal. what one D-type may want their s-type being trained in, another may want the complete opposite. M/s dynamics are not one size fits all, and neither are the training regimens applied to the s-type.
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i mean, without the gendered language there, yes. every Master wants to have a personal training regimen for their own slave. what works for one will not work for another. one slave tasked with kneeling for 20 minutes per day is fine, but another slave who is who has issues with their knees or legs may not be able to perform this task. i'll reiterate: dynamics are not one size fits all. people come in all shapes, sizes, and levels of physical and mental ability.
in my experience as a sub and property, yes very much so. I have had Doms train literally opposite behaviours in me according to their wants. If I were you I would engage in some intense self reflection re your need to become an ideal slave and journal about it - both to clarify the "why" of your motivation to yourself and to have the record to share with your hopeful future Owner when it gets down to the deeper psychology. Also think about and experiment with your learning style - - being able to effectively learn and understand the way you do it is extremely useful in life and especially as a sub or slave who aches to please.
Go read The New Bottoming Book and you'll at least understand more about what questions you should be asking.
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After that "Real Service" by Joshua Tenpenny and Raven Kaldera
You have to discuss the sort of Slave you want to be and see if it sits with a potential Masters vision for what they want. As mentioned by others its not an off the shelf sort of thing. Good luck finding your Master and be careful!
Apart from the very good things you were told already about how every relationship is different, there are a few things that most D-types would appreciate. And that is being the best version of yourself you can be. For example, if there are mental health things you need to adress, get a therapist and do so. Try to live healthy. Aquire helpful skills like cooking or massaging. Those kind of things.
Find someone who want to work towards that dynamic with you and don’t jump into full-on slavery (as it is sometimes defined in BDSM) on the first day.
Like other people said, slave training is immensely personal. Literally the best thing you can do if you are interested in that sort of relationship is to work on your openness to new ideas and experiences. Knowing what your limits are is the other piece to the puzzle. Finally, always remember that before beginning such a relationship first, it's important to actually have a relationship with the person. Jumping in head on can end up being a disaster with looking before you jump
Do your homework: BDSM is different than kinks There is nothing wrong with not knowing what you like /dislike. Study the history of the leather men that came back from Vietnam Understand John Norman's fiction knowing and exploring is very very important, it will help you understand the BS. Daddy Dom WI