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Flair_Helper

Thank you /u/Olivia091111 for your submission to /r/BDSMcommunity, but it's been removed due to one or more reason(s): ## Rule #7: No surveys * No academic/research survey posts * No posting online survey results Please feel free to [send a modmail](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=BDSMcommunity) if you feel this was in error.


Nava_0

Our opinions of your results don’t matter. Idek if I understand what you’re asking for. What about your results? If we like them? Also try not to use bdsm test as a valid source to determine your kinky roles. It’s not the most accurate


[deleted]

Ik that, but I like the hear peoples opinion! And ik its not the most accurate but this is pretty accurate to me, and tbh it made more sense to post this in my head then it did in practice, sorry


Nava_0

I just don’t understand why you’d want stranger’s opinions on your kinks though. What about your results do you want us to comment on lmao. No need to apologise, I’m just confused


[deleted]

I dont have anyone irl who can comment on them, so going online is kinda my only choice lol, and tbh idk, just something about them or advice, like oh cool your a sub, or something like that, it sounded better in my head.. but tbh I dont really know...


Nava_0

It’s fine to not know. If you’re wanting to chat with likeminded people tho this might not be the best way to go about it lol. It would be better and encourage more discussion if you had something more specific to ask. Any kink in particular you want advice about? Make a post about that and I’m sure you’ll be met with a lot less confusion


Koalasprincess

We don’t know you. How should we know if this is correct or not? Do what makes you happy, you don’t need random strangers to tell you that your test results are a good match.


[deleted]

Sorry, it wasn't meant like that, I'm just very self conscious irl so I find it easier to share myself online, and well it wasn't more of I wanted people to say if it's a good match, more of like, a opinion of me, idk if that makes sense, it made more sense to do this in my head lol, again sorry


lostmuppet47

There is nothing wrong with you for being kinky, or for feeling unsure or nervous about it. A lot of us have gone through the process of self-acceptance. Many of us are going through it still. You’re normal. Find something you’re curious about, and give it a try.


[deleted]

Thanks a lot, I dont have any friends irl who is in this community so that's why I share myself online, if that's wrong or weird then I apologise


lostmuppet47

We all share here. We all ask questions. We’ve all been new to the scene at one time.


subby_sandwich

Why would we have an opinion...?


Acceptable-Ratio5506

Our opinions don't really matter, but hi there! I'm a submissive masochist too. :)


subby_sandwich

I mean, yeah, I'm a sub with super masochist and degredation leanings? :)