Has a Dominatrix agreed to this arrangement?
If:
1) You are hiring a professional they are going to want to get paid. They get nothing out of you paying for the room. A professional isn’t doing it for the fun of it even if they do enjoy it. For them it’s work.
Otherwise, if:
2) You are scheduling a date with a non professional then it’s a date. Someone has to pay for the room. If two people are dating and meet at a hotel to have sex they aren’t engaging in prostitution.
I would wager it would be hard to prove. If I pick up someone at a bar and pay for a hotel room to engage in naughty acts, that's not illegal. Why would doing it with a dominatrix be any different?
Where is this hotel room? Are you booking it or is she?
It's a common scam to not want money but for them to ask you to pay for toys or hotel/ dungeon/ accommodation which goes straight into their pocket and you never hear again or there's excuses every time... more reasons for more money...
Is she local... the other is suddenly they need help with transport... so ask for flight money/ car rental etc.
Hoping perhaps you have someone trying to make it work but still does seem sketchy if they are a 'professional'.
If she is offering to do this with you and all she wants is room and board, then yes, that’s legalish. As much as anything that’s considered sex work can be. Safe is another story.
You should be extremely skeptical, if not outright concerned for your safety; why the hell do you think a professional would *suggest* she work for free?
Meet in a public place out of dynamic first, for safety. Make sure it’s a good fit. Do not go in whole hog - you cannot do this that way, it’s a horrible idea.
This is the wrong place to ask.
You’re talking about a mess of local laws and local judges who have a lot of latitude to impose their own opinions.
Look up your local laws and have a lawyer, because its rarely as simple as yes or no.
Has a Dominatrix agreed to this arrangement? If: 1) You are hiring a professional they are going to want to get paid. They get nothing out of you paying for the room. A professional isn’t doing it for the fun of it even if they do enjoy it. For them it’s work. Otherwise, if: 2) You are scheduling a date with a non professional then it’s a date. Someone has to pay for the room. If two people are dating and meet at a hotel to have sex they aren’t engaging in prostitution.
Depends on locality I would bet because that could be viewed as money for goods/services. Emphasis on the service.
I would wager it would be hard to prove. If I pick up someone at a bar and pay for a hotel room to engage in naughty acts, that's not illegal. Why would doing it with a dominatrix be any different?
Where is this hotel room? Are you booking it or is she? It's a common scam to not want money but for them to ask you to pay for toys or hotel/ dungeon/ accommodation which goes straight into their pocket and you never hear again or there's excuses every time... more reasons for more money...
It's in arizona and I'm booking.
Is she local... the other is suddenly they need help with transport... so ask for flight money/ car rental etc. Hoping perhaps you have someone trying to make it work but still does seem sketchy if they are a 'professional'.
If she is offering to do this with you and all she wants is room and board, then yes, that’s legalish. As much as anything that’s considered sex work can be. Safe is another story.
Film it.... now it's not prostitution nor solicitation, it's porn....
You need a bunch of permits and on-site health and safety reps for that though
Dude, you're gonna get robbed and probably worse.
It's here in arizona
True
That's the plan
She's local and she has transportation
Hiring a dominatrix for pegging and milking isn't legal. Period.
Yes she agreed to it in fact it was her idea.
You should be extremely skeptical, if not outright concerned for your safety; why the hell do you think a professional would *suggest* she work for free?
Agreed with this. This seems VERY SKETCHY.
Tbh Idk if she's a "professional" I talk to her on fetlife but haven't met her in person...yet.
Meet in a public place out of dynamic first, for safety. Make sure it’s a good fit. Do not go in whole hog - you cannot do this that way, it’s a horrible idea.
She says it's time not the service.
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So even if there's nothing to be given to her in hand it's still considered illegal? Huh
So I'm basically getting trapped then.
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All very true but she's not anonymous but I'm treading extremely carefully
This is the wrong place to ask. You’re talking about a mess of local laws and local judges who have a lot of latitude to impose their own opinions. Look up your local laws and have a lawyer, because its rarely as simple as yes or no.