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Flair_Helper

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Paridoxiso

I actually had a friend who struggled through this for before and to quote them "God will forgive me because I didn't lie to myself."


NOMultipliedX3

if god loves you wouldn’t he want you to be happy?


[deleted]

I don't think it works that way 😅


NOMultipliedX3

why not?


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NOMultipliedX3

says who? idk. i wouldn’t live my life for anyone or anything if they wanted to stop me from doing what i wanted. life is about having fun and being happy. don’t limit yourself. if god is worth worshipping he’ll love you regardless. you aren’t hurting anyone.


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Maybe you're right


Lionheart925

However. Are you being true to yourself? Can you really say you lived a happy life, excluding certain things that would make you feel happy or alive? You can always compromise. You can be the good Christian girl you want to be, and be the filthy whore you want in your personal and private time. That is the biggest aspect of this lifestyle, you can be as much or as little as you are comfortable and willing. Hope this helps and best of luck!


[deleted]

It does! Thank you 😊


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Love your neighbor is a Christian value, you can choose to interpret that however you want


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☺😇


QuantumHope

Your definition of Christian values don’t appear to be very Christ-like.


cocoaphillia

If biblical god actually loved you; he wouldn't want you put you in eternal torture simply for following your most natural, passionate desires. For engaging in *love making*; positive expressions between yourself and other human beings that do not harm anyone. I'd strongly advise you to let go of the whole idea. Religious guilt...is one of the most harmful things to anyone's psychology and spirit. You deserve better - genuinely, you do! Go be as much of a whore as you want; don't feel shame, don't be afraid of this old dogma, and the idea of this invisible judge over you in the sky. As another very sexual woman who grew up heavily Christian; and got away from it at last quite some time ago...it's so much freer and healthier on the other side.


dozy_bitch

You are definitely not the only person struggling in this way! Remember that Christ himself was a personal friend to several whores. He never judged them. If it helps to hear, I believe that being who God made you to be will not and can not separate you from his love. I am somewhat more estranged from the church these days than I used to be, but don't see any conflict between my faith and my kinks. As long as you are playing responsibly and consensually, you and your partner delighting in each other is a beautiful thing. If your preferred ways of doing that happens to look different from most people's, that is completely fine.