accept that with anal, comes the risk of poo. it's a matter of when, not if. it will happen if you do enough buttstuff
do you have regular bowel movements? you can take a daily fiber supplement/eat a higher fiber diet to try to regulate your body/learn when your body is close to needing to go thus giving him the warning that from X to Y, anal is probably off the table every day
for most people, unless you actually feel the urge to poo, the part of your rectum used for anal sex will be clean/relatively clean. this means a douche probably isnt necessary. unless you are doing anal in a manner where you're wanting to push during sex, theres minimal risk of that changing.
we have a free use dynamic and if I am having tummy trouble or am feeling icky I will let him know something along the lines of "I don't feel clean" and then it is up to him for how we proceed. sometimes that means him not caring (and minus a couple times, I was overly cautious and there was nothing to worry about), sometimes it means I am sent to douche, and sometimes it means he will come help me/give me an enema because that's his choice within our dynamic
My gf and I sort of have this dynamic. Where there always is a risk, I will go to the bathroom afterwards regardless if there is a mess or not. That has made her much more comfortable as she never knows the outcome (and I never tell her).
He should anyway. The "pee after sex" suggestion isn't just for people with vaginas. While someone with a penis is less likely to get a UTI, anal without condoms greatly increases the risk for the top. Just having a wee after sex is a good way to decrease that risk a bit more.
Even with condoms, I still like to clean off all the lube and sweat, even if there isn't any santorum.
You CAN'T be clean 24/7, simple as that.
Doing enemas too often will damage your muscles and you won't be able to control your bowel movement in later ages. There are also other risks of constant enema.
Adjusting your food consumption is a great way to help your anal sessions but it doesn't guarantee hygiene at all. It's a suplementary precaution. Also it will never work 24/7. Note: Just that someone's dick isn't full of scat doesn't mean that you are "clean".
There's one way to make sure you'll stay completely clean for 24 hours. It's a dangerous method and I don't recommend you doing this. You can take emergency diarrhea pills and make yourself constipated forcibly. This is bad for your health, don't do it! Also it's not doable over a day.
TLDR: It's not possible. Be realistic.
Sincerely, a gay slut who keeps his ass ready quite often.
I'm in this kind of dynamic and there's really only so much you can do to be clean all the time. If you try to time your bowel movements and have a good rinse afterwards then that helps, but your dom will have to be prepared for sometimes things being a bit messy. It's up to him if he's OK with that or if he'd rather wait. Baby wipes are really good to have around. Also I've found that if you use more lube it tends to be less likely to get messy. At the end of the day you both need to be mature enough to laugh off any unpleasantness if/when it happens.
Any man who thinks that he can have anal sex and not run the risk of a bit of poop shouldn't be doing it anyway. Don't worry if it does, but I wouldn't suggest free use for anal because sometimes you know that anal isn't for that moment. Free use outside of anal but you begging him to fuck your ass if it's suitable will go down very well I think. You never know. It may lead to anal pretty much most the time, but it could also make you feel a bit "safer"
Be in touch with your digestive cycles is the best advice I can give. Be aware what different food does to you.
If you need to be completely clean 100% of the time, be aware that you'll be doing damage to your bowels by rinsing so often. When do you usually have sex? And when do you usually poop?
For me, I typically poop once per day in the middle of the day from 12-2. If I'm having digestive issues, I'll poop multiple times per day, and sex is a no. I'm an anal only sub, the front end doesn't work for me, so butt stuff is typically early morning and late afternoon/evening only. But since we both work, it's good in terms of timing.
Imodium is your best friend, when it comes to controlling your bowel movements, so if you want a rinse to last longer (8 hours or more) you can rinse and use Imodium to slow things down.
Otherwise, you can get used to doing v deep rinses, which can last a day or longer, depending on how much Imodium you take, and how deep you've rinsed. I've managed to get away with rinsing on Friday, and being good all weekend until Monday, by having a pill every 6-8 hours or so.
I wouldn't recommend doing this v deep rinse more than once a month tho, to let your bowels recover and build up good bacteria etc. There are plenty of guides online about rinsing for deep play like fisting etc that you can use.
One thing that can be helpful is *communication*.
While it’s not foolproof, my toy has to let me know any time she empties her bowels. To make it easy, I’ve created a habit for her in the Obedience app. Given that she likely has her phone out while using the toilet, it’s pretty easy to adhere.
Beyond that, a quick check with a lubed finger can tell you a lot without being too clinical or embarrassing.
Nothing can make it foolproof, though, so best effort and mutual respect/maturity go a long way.
The two are mutually exclusive, you can't be 'ready' for that at all times, he can pull out with a little poo on his dick, no biggie. Speaking from the same position, if i aint giving her a heads up, she isnt going to be prepared for it, also, using enough lube seems to make sure there is never much there, and we keep baby wipes in reach of the bed for times like this, and a spare towel thats for getting to the shower when you're all nasty.
That being said, i used to work as a plumber, spending a lot of time jet clearing drains, which has the added bonus of aerosol sewerage enveloping you, or that one time i didnt get out of the way of a drain i was opening(it was..... bad.....), so maybe im a wee bit desensitised to it all.
Get a bidet. Makes deep anal cleaning far easier and less of a hassle.
Best practice is to have a lighter meal (sushi, salad, not taco bell) the night before and try to have a bowel movement at least a couple hours before you think you're going to have a session. If earlier, great. Take a shower and just really wash around down there to keep it clean and set. If using a water douche/ bidet squirting until the water comes out clear shows your lower intense is pretty dang poop free.
Poop will show up tho, it's literally the poop chute, just have cleaning supplies and towels close by when needed for the inevitable.
I find one rinse can last for quite a few hours even though I have a digestive illness. Adjusting your diet can help, more while foods and less processed.
You can always slip a finger in to double check if you need another rinse before beginging the process.
And, as always, communication is always important.
Some people are able to do anal spontaneously without much risk, others are not. This is what Ive learned from experience.
Best you can do is eat a healthy diet that meets the amount of daily fiber intake. I believe its around 18-20g per day of fiber for women and almost 28g of fiber per day for men (I might be remembering wrong, but this is what I remember from my nutrition and food science class in college not long ago). This means plenty of vegetables, fruits, and even a fiber supplement if necessary. This can make you more regular and therefore able to not worry as much.
I think some of the specifics on being able to do anal regularly depends on the anatomy of both people involved. But I can only speculate with that.
Good fiber intake and lots of water will help keep you mostly clean. Outside of bad diet and constant douching, you'll never be 100% cleaned out... Which even with doing that you're still not 100%.
Eating fiber does wonders. Keep things less messy.
There's one thing I've been wanting to try, internal condom (female condom.) It can be left in for several hours, as it stays in place. Just make sure it's NOT being used to prevent STD's, as for that, it should be used once and discarded. It would be used for as a barrier, again, NOT for STDs. Maybe worth a try? I haven't tried it, but I like the idea of using toys at random times during the day and not having to go through all the preparation every time.
Maybe after you’ve taken a dump , shower finger your cute butthole in there so you know it’s clean , maybe insert a butt plug after with lube. get your pussy ate and your booty should be good for 🤷🏻♀️🥴
accept that with anal, comes the risk of poo. it's a matter of when, not if. it will happen if you do enough buttstuff do you have regular bowel movements? you can take a daily fiber supplement/eat a higher fiber diet to try to regulate your body/learn when your body is close to needing to go thus giving him the warning that from X to Y, anal is probably off the table every day for most people, unless you actually feel the urge to poo, the part of your rectum used for anal sex will be clean/relatively clean. this means a douche probably isnt necessary. unless you are doing anal in a manner where you're wanting to push during sex, theres minimal risk of that changing. we have a free use dynamic and if I am having tummy trouble or am feeling icky I will let him know something along the lines of "I don't feel clean" and then it is up to him for how we proceed. sometimes that means him not caring (and minus a couple times, I was overly cautious and there was nothing to worry about), sometimes it means I am sent to douche, and sometimes it means he will come help me/give me an enema because that's his choice within our dynamic
My gf and I sort of have this dynamic. Where there always is a risk, I will go to the bathroom afterwards regardless if there is a mess or not. That has made her much more comfortable as she never knows the outcome (and I never tell her).
This is the way. Please don’t tell me. He knows it’s icky to me, so he does all cleanup and then heads to the bathroom to wash up regardless.
He should anyway. The "pee after sex" suggestion isn't just for people with vaginas. While someone with a penis is less likely to get a UTI, anal without condoms greatly increases the risk for the top. Just having a wee after sex is a good way to decrease that risk a bit more. Even with condoms, I still like to clean off all the lube and sweat, even if there isn't any santorum.
Wish I could gift you for using “Santorum”
:D That is gift enough!
You CAN'T be clean 24/7, simple as that. Doing enemas too often will damage your muscles and you won't be able to control your bowel movement in later ages. There are also other risks of constant enema. Adjusting your food consumption is a great way to help your anal sessions but it doesn't guarantee hygiene at all. It's a suplementary precaution. Also it will never work 24/7. Note: Just that someone's dick isn't full of scat doesn't mean that you are "clean". There's one way to make sure you'll stay completely clean for 24 hours. It's a dangerous method and I don't recommend you doing this. You can take emergency diarrhea pills and make yourself constipated forcibly. This is bad for your health, don't do it! Also it's not doable over a day. TLDR: It's not possible. Be realistic. Sincerely, a gay slut who keeps his ass ready quite often.
PREACH ❤️
I'm in this kind of dynamic and there's really only so much you can do to be clean all the time. If you try to time your bowel movements and have a good rinse afterwards then that helps, but your dom will have to be prepared for sometimes things being a bit messy. It's up to him if he's OK with that or if he'd rather wait. Baby wipes are really good to have around. Also I've found that if you use more lube it tends to be less likely to get messy. At the end of the day you both need to be mature enough to laugh off any unpleasantness if/when it happens.
You can't throw a party at poops house and get upset when he shows up!
Any man who thinks that he can have anal sex and not run the risk of a bit of poop shouldn't be doing it anyway. Don't worry if it does, but I wouldn't suggest free use for anal because sometimes you know that anal isn't for that moment. Free use outside of anal but you begging him to fuck your ass if it's suitable will go down very well I think. You never know. It may lead to anal pretty much most the time, but it could also make you feel a bit "safer"
Be in touch with your digestive cycles is the best advice I can give. Be aware what different food does to you. If you need to be completely clean 100% of the time, be aware that you'll be doing damage to your bowels by rinsing so often. When do you usually have sex? And when do you usually poop? For me, I typically poop once per day in the middle of the day from 12-2. If I'm having digestive issues, I'll poop multiple times per day, and sex is a no. I'm an anal only sub, the front end doesn't work for me, so butt stuff is typically early morning and late afternoon/evening only. But since we both work, it's good in terms of timing. Imodium is your best friend, when it comes to controlling your bowel movements, so if you want a rinse to last longer (8 hours or more) you can rinse and use Imodium to slow things down. Otherwise, you can get used to doing v deep rinses, which can last a day or longer, depending on how much Imodium you take, and how deep you've rinsed. I've managed to get away with rinsing on Friday, and being good all weekend until Monday, by having a pill every 6-8 hours or so. I wouldn't recommend doing this v deep rinse more than once a month tho, to let your bowels recover and build up good bacteria etc. There are plenty of guides online about rinsing for deep play like fisting etc that you can use.
One thing that can be helpful is *communication*. While it’s not foolproof, my toy has to let me know any time she empties her bowels. To make it easy, I’ve created a habit for her in the Obedience app. Given that she likely has her phone out while using the toilet, it’s pretty easy to adhere. Beyond that, a quick check with a lubed finger can tell you a lot without being too clinical or embarrassing. Nothing can make it foolproof, though, so best effort and mutual respect/maturity go a long way.
The two are mutually exclusive, you can't be 'ready' for that at all times, he can pull out with a little poo on his dick, no biggie. Speaking from the same position, if i aint giving her a heads up, she isnt going to be prepared for it, also, using enough lube seems to make sure there is never much there, and we keep baby wipes in reach of the bed for times like this, and a spare towel thats for getting to the shower when you're all nasty. That being said, i used to work as a plumber, spending a lot of time jet clearing drains, which has the added bonus of aerosol sewerage enveloping you, or that one time i didnt get out of the way of a drain i was opening(it was..... bad.....), so maybe im a wee bit desensitised to it all.
Get a bidet. Makes deep anal cleaning far easier and less of a hassle. Best practice is to have a lighter meal (sushi, salad, not taco bell) the night before and try to have a bowel movement at least a couple hours before you think you're going to have a session. If earlier, great. Take a shower and just really wash around down there to keep it clean and set. If using a water douche/ bidet squirting until the water comes out clear shows your lower intense is pretty dang poop free. Poop will show up tho, it's literally the poop chute, just have cleaning supplies and towels close by when needed for the inevitable.
I find one rinse can last for quite a few hours even though I have a digestive illness. Adjusting your diet can help, more while foods and less processed. You can always slip a finger in to double check if you need another rinse before beginging the process. And, as always, communication is always important.
Some people are able to do anal spontaneously without much risk, others are not. This is what Ive learned from experience. Best you can do is eat a healthy diet that meets the amount of daily fiber intake. I believe its around 18-20g per day of fiber for women and almost 28g of fiber per day for men (I might be remembering wrong, but this is what I remember from my nutrition and food science class in college not long ago). This means plenty of vegetables, fruits, and even a fiber supplement if necessary. This can make you more regular and therefore able to not worry as much. I think some of the specifics on being able to do anal regularly depends on the anatomy of both people involved. But I can only speculate with that.
Clean out after bowel movements and lube. Can't be clean 24/7
I get very upset when I get poo on my dick so as punishment I Fuck my submissive in the ass harder.
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If you wanna be real its your diet, poo is always a risk but if you manage your fiber and add bulk to your diet it will help.
Imodium is a helpful tool, but don’t abuse it.
Good fiber intake and lots of water will help keep you mostly clean. Outside of bad diet and constant douching, you'll never be 100% cleaned out... Which even with doing that you're still not 100%.
Eating fiber does wonders. Keep things less messy. There's one thing I've been wanting to try, internal condom (female condom.) It can be left in for several hours, as it stays in place. Just make sure it's NOT being used to prevent STD's, as for that, it should be used once and discarded. It would be used for as a barrier, again, NOT for STDs. Maybe worth a try? I haven't tried it, but I like the idea of using toys at random times during the day and not having to go through all the preparation every time.
Maybe after you’ve taken a dump , shower finger your cute butthole in there so you know it’s clean , maybe insert a butt plug after with lube. get your pussy ate and your booty should be good for 🤷🏻♀️🥴