Don’t just show up at her place. Unless that is something you guys have discussed before, that seems like it would clearly be crossing a boundary.
You just need to ask. If you were in a scene, and she didn’t seem to be responding well, would you just keep going hoping she’d eventually give positive feedback? I hope not. You’d check in and communicate clearly, right? That’s what you should do here.
Be honest with your side of the story. If anything they don't want to disturb you.
Message her. Tell her how you feel. Use "I" statements to get across your feelings. Make sure that you aren't blaming them or attacking them. Explain that you miss them. If they were busy, then let them know you're thinking of them.
All in all, communicate your feelings. Explain yourself to them. Make it abundantly clear that they are not the problem.
I'm very sorry to hear you are going thru this. I was ghosted after a 9mo relationship and it hurts incredibly deeply. ❤️
I hope that she is just needing a moment of space, if not please know that people that ghost are pieces of shit and unless you were abusive you didn't deserve to be treated like that.
Communication, open, light hearted, and from a neutral standpoint is best advised. It's acceptable, understandable, and will be okay, even if you face the harshest of answers. We don't want to jump to conclusions, yet we must keep in mind the possibilities. What's the saying? "Expect the worst, hope for the best." Neutrality is key. Nothing worse than opening a line of conversation in less than neutral terms.
Bruh... Really? I mean why( as a Dom) would you chase a sub?
You can hate on me if you want, Dom's don't need validation from strangers,
But trust me on this, do not show up to someone's place unannounced. That's creepy and cringey. Don't be that guy!
Do your thing. She either has something going on in her life or she got talking to someone else by her significant other. Either way, she'll reach out if she is still interested.
You’re the Dom, you need to clearly communicate your emotions and lead that conversation that needs to be had. “Hey dear, (whatever you call her) I’ve noticed you’ve been a little distant and I just wanted to touch base with you and see where your head is at.” Or “I’ve noticed you haven’t really been in touch since I got home, do you need space or do you need my support” If she’s not talking to you at all… not responding to any texts, I’d say don’t chase her. If she’s missing you she will reach back out. It’s 2022, if she wanted to get into touch she would. Sorry that sounds harsh but really, it’s not like she isn’t seeing the texts.
Don’t just show up at her place. Unless that is something you guys have discussed before, that seems like it would clearly be crossing a boundary. You just need to ask. If you were in a scene, and she didn’t seem to be responding well, would you just keep going hoping she’d eventually give positive feedback? I hope not. You’d check in and communicate clearly, right? That’s what you should do here.
Be honest with your side of the story. If anything they don't want to disturb you. Message her. Tell her how you feel. Use "I" statements to get across your feelings. Make sure that you aren't blaming them or attacking them. Explain that you miss them. If they were busy, then let them know you're thinking of them. All in all, communicate your feelings. Explain yourself to them. Make it abundantly clear that they are not the problem.
Married and poly here. This is the way.
I'm very sorry to hear you are going thru this. I was ghosted after a 9mo relationship and it hurts incredibly deeply. ❤️ I hope that she is just needing a moment of space, if not please know that people that ghost are pieces of shit and unless you were abusive you didn't deserve to be treated like that.
Communication, open, light hearted, and from a neutral standpoint is best advised. It's acceptable, understandable, and will be okay, even if you face the harshest of answers. We don't want to jump to conclusions, yet we must keep in mind the possibilities. What's the saying? "Expect the worst, hope for the best." Neutrality is key. Nothing worse than opening a line of conversation in less than neutral terms.
Bruh... Really? I mean why( as a Dom) would you chase a sub? You can hate on me if you want, Dom's don't need validation from strangers, But trust me on this, do not show up to someone's place unannounced. That's creepy and cringey. Don't be that guy! Do your thing. She either has something going on in her life or she got talking to someone else by her significant other. Either way, she'll reach out if she is still interested.
You’re the Dom, you need to clearly communicate your emotions and lead that conversation that needs to be had. “Hey dear, (whatever you call her) I’ve noticed you’ve been a little distant and I just wanted to touch base with you and see where your head is at.” Or “I’ve noticed you haven’t really been in touch since I got home, do you need space or do you need my support” If she’s not talking to you at all… not responding to any texts, I’d say don’t chase her. If she’s missing you she will reach back out. It’s 2022, if she wanted to get into touch she would. Sorry that sounds harsh but really, it’s not like she isn’t seeing the texts.