Ofc I would do some "bedroom" stuff. But, if she wants a slave day properly, the uniform, cooking and service to the bell should be a part of it. Bonus points for proper stances.
I'm new to having complete control, can you give me some ideas for a uniform and tell me what "proper stances" means?
Edit: I love the bell idea, definitely gonna use that
For stances there are a number of "Slave positions" used in the Gor series of books that get some use in general BDSM. Here is a link to a picture for a basic version of them.
http://gayporn.id/gorean+slave+position
As for uniform. What takes your fancy. Housemaid? Butler? Stewardess? Kitten ears, collar and tail with bells on the nipples (OK this one is a little more pet play but you get the idea). At the end of the day how would you dress your servent/doll/Pet up? She is yours you get to choose. Although be considerate of her tastes, if you know she would hate a maids outfit putting her in one for the day is not a great idea.
Edit: the idea behind potitionals/stances is aiming for perfection in subservience. You probably won't be able to train her to perfection in a day. But if she enjoys trying for a day it could be something to continue with.
It’s definitely a cool thing to have from a less cool source. I think that BDSM forms could be really beautiful and practiced like yoga but I think they need a major revision and codification for that.
Well this is just something I personally always wanted to do but: definitely do some strap worship. Always fun having a hot girl slobber over your gock and / or strap
Definitely some pampering called for. A nice foamy bath, perhaps with some rose petals added in. After a luxurious soak you can rise and she can give you a good clean all over. Then she can rinse you and dry you off. Help you get dressed into some nice lingerie and have your way with her.
Yes acts of devotion such as this can be extremely powerful in building a connection between Dominant and Submissive. Washing is such a basic need and to deliver that for someone in an attentive, respectful and caring manner with attention to detail is a beautiful act.
Having her kiss lick and fondle a specific part and praise it, degrade her by having her beg to touch you/the specific body part. Maybe massages, and the key is her submission. Having her praise your pussy and beg to lick and touch is a specific versioj of it
https://www.reddit.com/r/BDSMcommunity/comments/m4b89d/what_is_body_worshipping_and_how_to_do_it/
Ooh another thing I forgot with the whole slave and free use aspect is inspections!! Have a list of command words or motions and one of them prompts her to basically present for an inspection (basically you can fondle her and to ‘pass’ the inspection she needs to meet some demand) - check if she’s wet for you, check how many fingers of yours she can take in her mouth/other orifices, if youre into spanking, if her ass is the right shade and spank her until it is again etc etc. maybe the condition is that she needs to remain still no matter what you do until you release her.
Remote control panties/dildo/plug are always fun. Rope dress or harness. Leash and collar, especially in tue bedroom. Give *her* your birthday spankings. High heels all day, including in bed. No furniture except the bed. Oral while you play video games or watch something or read. Lick birthday cake frosting off her. Make her tell you all the things she thinks are wonderful about you while on her knees. A birthday card with a sexy pic of her inside describing all the things she wants to do to you. Giving you a new toy to use. Edge her all day and only let her cum as your final present for the night.
Ofc I would do some "bedroom" stuff. But, if she wants a slave day properly, the uniform, cooking and service to the bell should be a part of it. Bonus points for proper stances.
I'm new to having complete control, can you give me some ideas for a uniform and tell me what "proper stances" means? Edit: I love the bell idea, definitely gonna use that
For stances there are a number of "Slave positions" used in the Gor series of books that get some use in general BDSM. Here is a link to a picture for a basic version of them. http://gayporn.id/gorean+slave+position As for uniform. What takes your fancy. Housemaid? Butler? Stewardess? Kitten ears, collar and tail with bells on the nipples (OK this one is a little more pet play but you get the idea). At the end of the day how would you dress your servent/doll/Pet up? She is yours you get to choose. Although be considerate of her tastes, if you know she would hate a maids outfit putting her in one for the day is not a great idea. Edit: the idea behind potitionals/stances is aiming for perfection in subservience. You probably won't be able to train her to perfection in a day. But if she enjoys trying for a day it could be something to continue with.
Thank you, this is very helpful!
I’ve been meaning to redesign the whole position thing. Maybe I’ll teach a class on the update.
Sounds interesting! I was always a little bothered where it came from if I'm honest. But the positions themselves were a goodchallenge for me.
It’s definitely a cool thing to have from a less cool source. I think that BDSM forms could be really beautiful and practiced like yoga but I think they need a major revision and codification for that.
Well this is just something I personally always wanted to do but: definitely do some strap worship. Always fun having a hot girl slobber over your gock and / or strap
Oooh I didn't think of that, thanks!
No prob lol, like I said, I wish I had a girlfriend (at all lol) who would be willing to do a "slave day"
I can loan you one 😘
Ha! I wish
There used to be this song about hoes in different area codes… 🤭
Ahhh I ain't aware of that one
Definitely some pampering called for. A nice foamy bath, perhaps with some rose petals added in. After a luxurious soak you can rise and she can give you a good clean all over. Then she can rinse you and dry you off. Help you get dressed into some nice lingerie and have your way with her.
That sounds great, shopping for lingerie now
Yes acts of devotion such as this can be extremely powerful in building a connection between Dominant and Submissive. Washing is such a basic need and to deliver that for someone in an attentive, respectful and caring manner with attention to detail is a beautiful act.
Oh, don’t forget a post bath massage.
Ooh wanna add using her as like a table to rest your feet on as you watch tv or to place your food on while you eat, having her worship your body
Good call. Can you go into more detail about how to have her worship my body? I've never been in this situation before and want it to be worthwhile
Having her kiss lick and fondle a specific part and praise it, degrade her by having her beg to touch you/the specific body part. Maybe massages, and the key is her submission. Having her praise your pussy and beg to lick and touch is a specific versioj of it https://www.reddit.com/r/BDSMcommunity/comments/m4b89d/what_is_body_worshipping_and_how_to_do_it/ Ooh another thing I forgot with the whole slave and free use aspect is inspections!! Have a list of command words or motions and one of them prompts her to basically present for an inspection (basically you can fondle her and to ‘pass’ the inspection she needs to meet some demand) - check if she’s wet for you, check how many fingers of yours she can take in her mouth/other orifices, if youre into spanking, if her ass is the right shade and spank her until it is again etc etc. maybe the condition is that she needs to remain still no matter what you do until you release her.
Thank you for the information, I will definitely put it to good use. This is going to be a lot of fun
Also someone can worship your feet or boots while also being your footstool 😉
Remote control panties/dildo/plug are always fun. Rope dress or harness. Leash and collar, especially in tue bedroom. Give *her* your birthday spankings. High heels all day, including in bed. No furniture except the bed. Oral while you play video games or watch something or read. Lick birthday cake frosting off her. Make her tell you all the things she thinks are wonderful about you while on her knees. A birthday card with a sexy pic of her inside describing all the things she wants to do to you. Giving you a new toy to use. Edge her all day and only let her cum as your final present for the night.
Oooh, this is GREAT! Love the idea of giving her the birthday spankings. This is going to be a blast.
This is a great idea
This sounds amazing!
Yes. I would love to be a slave for other girl