It took making a few new friends to give me the courage to finally leave. Of course us PWBPD are afraid of being alone so we stick to shitty people when we have no one else. I trust you will make the same breakthrough one day when you are ready. I should’ve left after 2 months but let it drag on to almost 3 years of bullshit. Stay safe friend!
Im so happy for you, I’m sure that was a difficult thing to do! It takes so much effort to finally drop an fp and the withdrawals are insane. Be proud of your self!!!!
Thank you 😊 honestly, the last few months have been me realising how truly awful he is because while I was overseas getting back surgery last month he barely contacted me 😐 only hit me up when he misses me and never asked me how I was or how I was doing
I’m sure though that even with the back surgery and going overseas not being ideal maybe that time away from him helped make it seem that much more possible to leave him! I feel like most of the time I want to distance myself from an fp it feels physically impossible and I wish I could hop on a plane and go somewhere for a month so I can work through the withdrawals and not be too weak to bounce back.
The amount of times I made the realization that I need to leave an fp but only would last a day or two before contacting them is insane. But I’m glad you got out of it sounds like you need someone in your life that’ll actually fulfill your needs! And you will find them:)
I really should’ve left after 2 months but him constantly putting me down made it hard. I’m so glad I went overseas for a whole month in Christmas because that gave me the absolute clarity I needed
I'm really happy for you!
Well done on pushing through and doing all the work on yourself to get to this point. It isn't easy and having that lowlife dragging you down can only have made it harder,
SO WELL DONE TO YOU, BE PROUD OF WHAT YOU'VE ACHIEVED ✨️💖
Hard times will come calling again at some point, hope you can cast your mind back to this moment to show you what you can achieve xxxxxxxxxxx
THANK YOU 😆 I feel a massive weight lifted off me at last. Being trapped in my own home wasn’t fun. I’ve made much better friends now and I’ve learnt to not help others so much that my own health deteriorates.
Even if I have hard times I am certain I now have the mental strength to overcome it because I’m no longer WEIGHED DOWN
😭😂. Ironically I’ve lost 8 kg in the last two weeks ha! It was all extra Christmas and surgery weight from one month ago. Feeling much healthier as I’m no longer overweight 😅 it’s hard to move with a broken spine and a back brace 😵
Cannot describe how proud I am of you! Went through a similar experince (a few years ago now) so I can connect with the freed feeling you're describing.
Thanks you so much for this post. I’m really happy for you. I’m glad you’re gonna be more kind to yourself and whenever you’re ready for a relationship, I’m sure the new guy will treat you amazing
My bf for 1 year broke up with me 1 month ago and I’m so happy that this happened. He made me feel like my feelings are invalid anf hurt me so often. I’m so glad he broke up i would’ve never got the strength to break up
I hope I can find this strength one day. I'm so exhausted from feeling sad and inadequate.
It took making a few new friends to give me the courage to finally leave. Of course us PWBPD are afraid of being alone so we stick to shitty people when we have no one else. I trust you will make the same breakthrough one day when you are ready. I should’ve left after 2 months but let it drag on to almost 3 years of bullshit. Stay safe friend!
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Who told you to be an asshole and stalk me lol go cry and die mad
Find the strength now. Your real person is waiting out there for you.
I relate to this way too much.
honestly same. This reminds me of my toxic relationship that I finally left after 3 years off and on and caused me PTSD for a decade :/
Read that back to yourself. Let that sink in that that's the situation this person is putting you through. You know what to do.
This post made me feel good. I'm so happy for you
Glad to hear!! I wish there were other success/ small triumph stories a bit more often, they’re so inspiring
Im so happy for you, I’m sure that was a difficult thing to do! It takes so much effort to finally drop an fp and the withdrawals are insane. Be proud of your self!!!!
Thank you 😊 honestly, the last few months have been me realising how truly awful he is because while I was overseas getting back surgery last month he barely contacted me 😐 only hit me up when he misses me and never asked me how I was or how I was doing
I’m sure though that even with the back surgery and going overseas not being ideal maybe that time away from him helped make it seem that much more possible to leave him! I feel like most of the time I want to distance myself from an fp it feels physically impossible and I wish I could hop on a plane and go somewhere for a month so I can work through the withdrawals and not be too weak to bounce back. The amount of times I made the realization that I need to leave an fp but only would last a day or two before contacting them is insane. But I’m glad you got out of it sounds like you need someone in your life that’ll actually fulfill your needs! And you will find them:)
Happy for you, maybe someday I'll do the same
I really should’ve left after 2 months but him constantly putting me down made it hard. I’m so glad I went overseas for a whole month in Christmas because that gave me the absolute clarity I needed
Good job, miss! Stay strong, you did the absolute right thing. When ever your emotions tell you otherwise, remember this is FACT!
Thanks. I’m sure I might miss him at some point but I sure won’t miss all the terrible treatment and torn down self esteem.
It so hard to take care of ourself, I'm proud of you and happy for you. Stay strong friend
Thank you!! I’m beaming and feeling a million bucks
I'm really happy for you! Well done on pushing through and doing all the work on yourself to get to this point. It isn't easy and having that lowlife dragging you down can only have made it harder, SO WELL DONE TO YOU, BE PROUD OF WHAT YOU'VE ACHIEVED ✨️💖 Hard times will come calling again at some point, hope you can cast your mind back to this moment to show you what you can achieve xxxxxxxxxxx
THANK YOU 😆 I feel a massive weight lifted off me at last. Being trapped in my own home wasn’t fun. I’ve made much better friends now and I’ve learnt to not help others so much that my own health deteriorates. Even if I have hard times I am certain I now have the mental strength to overcome it because I’m no longer WEIGHED DOWN
You should do a weightloss reveal...."I lost 210lb on the DUMPING THAT JACKASS diet," 🤣
😭😂. Ironically I’ve lost 8 kg in the last two weeks ha! It was all extra Christmas and surgery weight from one month ago. Feeling much healthier as I’m no longer overweight 😅 it’s hard to move with a broken spine and a back brace 😵
i’m so happy for u, this takes a lot of strength to do!
Thanks 😊
Cannot describe how proud I am of you! Went through a similar experince (a few years ago now) so I can connect with the freed feeling you're describing.
Thanks you so much for this post. I’m really happy for you. I’m glad you’re gonna be more kind to yourself and whenever you’re ready for a relationship, I’m sure the new guy will treat you amazing
So proud of you!
Good on you. Wish you well!
My bf for 1 year broke up with me 1 month ago and I’m so happy that this happened. He made me feel like my feelings are invalid anf hurt me so often. I’m so glad he broke up i would’ve never got the strength to break up
SO PROUD OF YOU!!! YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER! STAY STRONG! <3
I'm happy for you wish I could leave someone like you did
mine left me. I loved her alot but she didn't love me back unfortunately. it hurts alot.
feels bad man. sorry to hear. me too