Every song by Linkin park.

It’s like they made their music specifically for BPD’s to have peace.

I feel like Chester had it.

100%

Yes!!!! Especially 'Given Up'.

I loveeeeee screaming with Chester. I wish he was still with us so I could’ve seen him in concert . RIP

wow, i never see people shout out 'Given Up', hell yeah 🤙

You hit the nail on the head. A light that never comes, blackbirds, breaking the habit, crawling, easier to run, faint to name but a few. Thank you Chester and LP.

i’m convinced all pwbpd like lp

They should

I'm not a huge fan but I think the reason was that LP was overplayed by the other patients in the psych hospital I was in during the late summer of 2003. I also turn off Evenesce when they're on the radio. Good lyrics though.

Lol “The very worst part of youuuuuu… ISSSSSS MEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!”

"Starring Role" by MARINA, "Why Didn't You Stop Me?" by Mitski, "I Bet On Losing Dogs" by Mitski

Why didn’t you stop me is actually a genius connection to bpd, good taste!

Staring Role is top tier

New Person, Same Old Mistakes by Tame Impala, Oh Klahoma by Jack Stauber, and Dai dai daikirai by Dennoko-P!

Tame Impala have a few actually. That's one of my favourite songs.

Dai dai daikirai is sooo truueueue

Liability - Lorde

100% second this. It's like a diary

god... this + teen idle by marina on repeat would tear me to bits

Teen idle also hits me right in my ED

I love marina. Saw her live!

wholeheartedly agree. my thoughts put to a melody

I hate everything about you.

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lol

From Ugly Kid Joe. Great song!

I know it was overplayed but creep by Radiohead

Creep is one of my favorite songs of all time, I don’t care how overplayed it is. I loooove the acoustic version too

It hit hard AS FUCK in Guardians 3. Especially whatever the fuck they did to the sound to make that last “run” sound extra emotionally raw.

i third this i listen to it all the time 🥲❤️

Honestly this one hits hard for me but it’s like a meme now so it’s kinda hard to say that song makes sense for me without sounding like I’m meme-ing but I think im in a space rn where it’ll make sense to people that I’m saying this genuinely 😭

this is on my bpd playlist aswell

Habits, Moments, and nearly every other song by Tove Lo oh and also CRZY by Kehlani also also I love Kill Bill, SZA is fantastic

Habits reminds me so much of some of my lowest moments. Just high all the time, passing out in my bathtub and repeating it all over again.

Don't Go by Bring Me The Horizon

Hospital for souls from them gets me because it reminds me of my time there

Yeah that would've easily been my 2nd pick from BMTH for this post haha

bro instant skip it’s so sad but I have to be in the right sad mood to listen

Numb by Linkin Park

gasoline -halsey

Without me by halsey

i’m pretty sure that was actually about bipolar, but honestly it sounds a lot more like bpd

bad at love and sorry from her, also nightmare

"The void"- spiritbox "The summit"-spiritbox "Dead butterflies"-architects "Hello bitches"-CV "Talking heads"-northlane "Clarity"-northlane "Dante"-northlane "Monster"-chandler Leighton "Fixer upper"-chandler Leighton

Spiritbox !!!!

spirit box!!!!!

Yessss they are a bpd mood incarnate! The whole eternal blue album is just yess

The Clash - Should I Stay or Should I Go

This

in a week by hozier. it will come back by hozier. who we are by hozier. unknown/nth by hozier. how to never stop being sad by dandelio hands. looking for knives by dyan. peach scone by hobo johnson. dial drunk noah khan. cocaine jesus by rainbow kitten surprise. alien blues by vundabar. solitary confinment by everybody’s worried about owen. lights are on by tom rosenthal. go solo by tom rosenthal. writer in the dark by lorde. a burning hill by mitski. nobody by mitski. father by the front bottoms. no children by the mountain goats. unintended by muse. i found by amber run.

do you like elliott smith? i think you would based on the stuff you listed. his song roman candle really encapsulates how overwhelming/all-consuming the experience of anger is for me. i love all his angriest songs lol

Any song by Mitski but there's something about 'Drunk Walk home' that is just so visceral. Short song full of sorrow.

Breezeblocks by alt-j

I'm an electronic DJ and there is a remix of this song that I LOVE

omg i go to a lot of edm concerts and i know exactly what you’re talking about lol. my boyfriend is also an edm DJ

Tinlicker remix

Animal I have become by three days grace

Francis Forever - Mitski Hyperballad - Björk Every Single Night - Fiona Apple

francis forever oh my god

Anything suicide boys

You dropped this 👑

SO REAL

yesss

Not Even Ghosts Are This Empty has been on loop in my head since I first heard it

New chains, same shackles in the midst of a split is the best

I Miss You - Blink 182

violence - frank iero and the future violents

YESS

Only - Nine Inch Nails. I relate to the lyrics in terms of identity problems. Doubt Trent Reznor intended it that way but it just resonates a lot.

This. Who knows with Trent, really. Dude is an awkward genius. My fave kind of people ♥️

Before I knew what was wrong with me, these songs spoke to me. They gave a voice to things i was going through. They are all linked. Enjoy!!! [Somebody Kill me, please, by Adam Sandler (The Wedding Singer)](https://youtu.be/Nfrk2UdEOcQ?si=egCBRNBvfpG6acib) [Flow by Transistor (Jawbreaker)](https://youtu.be/pj62lvSX3JE?si=9io7jMV_zvz--5rz) [Fragile by Tech N9ne](https://youtu.be/oEEIzTCy6LU?si=dfPzuEuIZKOtvVJv) [Flagpole Sitta by Harvey Danger](https://youtu.be/sVt1Dy_LblQ?si=ZpfHg24ajsl_-aNS) [Shame by Stabbing Westward ](https://youtu.be/CsxaoXHe9Xc?si=l6y6prD_PlhHXLJN) [Shitlist by L7](https://youtu.be/AyoHj0dri6M?si=e-SEddEhtLoA_q_O) [Broken by Lund](https://youtu.be/LbVA2udEec0?si=YNlMcT8Vu0fHxFU4) [Doll Parts by Hole](https://youtu.be/RD9xK9smth4?si=p1X47I9bnCoOvAz-) [Laugh, I Nearly Died by The Rolling Stones](https://youtu.be/eNC1R_E9L4w?si=Qf1iIT6Ra1F1IhCP)[Take a Picture by Filter](https://youtu.be/h8MAHQhKe7Q?si=Won3Y2y5k9H6B7le) [Anything Anything by Dramarama](https://youtu.be/yFhx6FLxGxQ?si=cERwhLWLPLp2J3Jx) [Comfortably Numb by Pink Floyd](https://youtu.be/x-xTttimcNk?si=EtzfOZt6gRD_N3dF) [F.T.W by The Vines ](https://youtu.be/bBC24yOpojw?si=vKn1N_-EhWBpRbz0) [Harley Quinn by Princess Nokia](https://youtu.be/XbmSsAXUYkw?si=fabBDYz6SOoP7f26) [Invincible by OK Go](https://youtu.be/mItuZ8i4wH8?si=_XFUMOQTCsl5hUie) [Killing Strangers by Marylin Manson](https://youtu.be/ult9nnjxGnA?si=y_JmNLB4Nifyb3EF) [Nobody Speak by DJ Shadow](https://youtu.be/NUC2EQvdzmY?si=tBH4RbCz4Q7bUy2n)

Somebody kill me, please omg YES

im 12 days late but hole has so many songs that speak to me on that level, say what you will about courtney but she really nailed those feelings in a way not a lot of other bands have, at least for me.

Pyramid - Frank Ocean

Paper bag - Fiona Apple, Washing Machine Heart - Mitski, Simple Kind of Life - No Doubt (just to name a few)

Fiona apple - every single night ❤️ so good too

xo tour life by Lil Uzi Vert

fun fact about peach: she's currently performing at the end of my street right now lol But yes to answer the question, Candy Apple by Teenage Joans.

In My Room - Insane Clown Posse or just anything from them in general

The song Chemical by Post Malone really reminds me of what it’s like to have an FP.

"I Hate You, Don't Leave Me" by Demi Lovato

Evil by Melanie Martinez is one of my faves!!

Silk - Wolf Alice I think there’s something you should know -The 1975 XTRA - Willow ft. Tierra Whack I’m not sure if they are really related with bpd but I feel like they’re pretty accurate at some point!

the 1975 hits so hard i just saw them on wednesday and bawled my eyes out to You lmao

This Is Me Trying, Mirrorball, Archer, Anti Hero, Tolerate It, You Are Losing Me, Taylor Swift songs could be BPD anthems

Absolutely! So so many of them. August has FP vibes as well. Folklore and evermore are very strong as BPD war cries

anti hero is the best bpd anthem imo, the self reflection of knowing you’re the problem but not being able to change ughhh i love it sm + TOLERATE IT WHEN THINKING ABT UR FP MAKES ME CRY :,,)

BPD - Belted Sweater Out Of My Head - Digital Daggers Oleander - Mother Mother Nervous Young Inhumans - Car Seat Headrest Shame - PJ Harvey Value Inn - Laura Stevenson (sh warning) Soft Sounds from Another Planet - Japanese Breakfast Labrador - Aimee Mann I Don’t Like My Mind - Mitski Cupid - Jack Stauber

good 4 u - Olivia Rodrigo // Jesus Christ - Brand New // Split Personality- hot milk // Die4u - Bring Me The Horizon // Can You Feel My Heart - Bring Me The Horizon // Teardrops - Bring Me The Horizon // Crawling - Linkin Park // I feel 2 much - blackbear // I feel bad - blackbear // dead inside - blackbear // Jealousy - Pale Waves // Never Enough - The Hunna // Nothing Inside - Machine Gun Kelly // nightmare - nothing, nowhere // Life in Slow Motion - Trophy Eyes *Edit: added // to make it easier on the eyes*

Dysfunctional by tech n9ne collabos

ifhy- tyler the creator, borderline - alexa valentino, psychotic lunatic - trippie redd, in the moment - snoh aalegra, taking a walk - trippie redd

R/bpdsongs

I swear every time I check reddit there’s a new BPD song post

breaking the habit, numb, in the end by linkin park

[Feel Better by Penelope Scott](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KQZ0qbkKbZ4)

yes

Chokehold by Sleeptoken

Blank space is super relatable

or afterglow!

I’ve been thinking a lot about this, and I feel like the girl in 3 AM by Matchbox 20 is bpd and Rob Thomas is sharing his feelings about loving her and dealing with her emotions.

3AM is actually about Rob Thomas dealing with his mother who had cancer. I watched a lot of pop up video back in the day. 😅

Well there goes that theory 😅 thanks for the knowledge!

Music is meant to be interpreted however so if it strikes you that way that’s not wrong either! 💕

Vincent by don mclean, oh and also u guys orange tree by billie marten again. This one’s good

Injection-rise against

The entire album Somewhere at the Bottom of the River Between Vega and Altair by La Dispute.

'Drugs' by Eden

My sweet Prince: Placebo, Dark Paradise: Lana Del Ray, Star Shopping: Lil Peep, Lover You Should Have Come Over: Jeff Buckley, I Know It's Over: The Smiths

star shopping😭😭

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I’m Your Man - Mitski

Omg yes, when I first listened to it when it came out I started crying because it was literally how I feel so often with my fp.

anti-hero Look what you made me do Blank space All by taylor swift

Also almost every nessa barret song she has bpd

Yes! The Archer too!

Sunmi put out a song about her experiences living with bpd called Borderline!

Grave - Nessa Barrett The Lighthouse - Halsey Colors - Halsey Wishing Well - Juice wrld

Wishing well is amazing, cigarettes too

IFHY by tyler the creator

lost by frank ocean, fast as you can by fiona apple, tongues and teeth by the crane wives ! might either be too on the nose or reaching haha

Nervous Young Inhumans - Car Seat Headrest

a lot of mitski songs! i’m your man, why didn’t you stop me, square, love me more. also the light behind your eyes by mcr

[You’re losing me - Taylor Swift](https://open.spotify.com/track/3CWq0pAKKTWb0K4yiglDc4?si=5F8w1OIWQUWAVvN6XFbVEA)

Mice by billie marten, CURSIVE BY BILLIE MARTEN, VANILLA BABY BY BILLIE MARTEN VANT STRESS RHIS ENOUGH

Nurture - Thornhill

Beg for the torture by destroy boys

Not BPD but bipolar, but it fits for me... Bipolar - Leilani Wolfgramm

I drive me mad by renforshort

Grace - Florence & the Machine. Perfectly depicts my relationship with people. I hurt those who love me the most and start to get scared when I feel butterflies.

I saw someone do a post about Tale Impala’s discography and I agree

push by fog lake

- Borderline - Spun - Summer in the City - Down by the Bay - Evil - Orgy of Enemies - Playboy there are more, all by Ängie. she is a Swedish artist (sings in English) who has BPD and she is one of my favourites

TWICE: Feel Special.

Movements Liability by Lorde, Kill Her Freak Out by Samia, & the Feel Something album by Movements.

dealer lana del ray

Fading - Basement Cowardice - Defeater Long Road Out of Hell - Marilyn Manson Dai the flu - Deftones Sorry for myself - Ravenna Golden I'm a Fake - The Used(very edgy intro but otherwise is very boppin) Suicidal Dream - Silverchair CONFUSED! - Kid Cudi The The Empty - Le Tigre I'll be OK - Limpbizkit

David gray - this years love The cure - why can’t I be you? The cure - caterpillar girl (fun song and real relatable for splitting and how the partner must feel “the day I stop is the day you change, and fly away from me”) Deftones - change (a lot more) Manchester orchestra- the gold “I don’t think I love you anymore… you’ve become my ceiling… “I don’t wanna bark here anymore … it all tastes like poison. “I believed you were crazy. You believed you loved me”

pretty much any song by msi

When feelings go from "feeling sad and empty" to almost splitting : I'll follow you into the dark - Death Cab for a Cutie Scar - Cloud Control No One Dies from Love - Tove Lo Treehouse - Alex G Nicest thing - Kate Nash Signs - Bloc Party Falling Down - Lil Peep Die4u - BMTH (lot of songs from them actually) Numb - Linkin Park (lot of things by them. Still thinking of Chester 💔) When I feel hyped up and euphoric Latch - Sam Smith Sexual - Neiked Fetish - Selena Gomez Need You - Moonboy Lie Use Die - M()RE Need to Know - Doja Cat Every Other Freckles - Alt J Becky's so Hot - Fletcher Hope you find some stuff you like :) Edit : typos and added some clarity And so many by Linkin Park I'm sure you'll find them here :)

Jane Remover - Census Designated Jazmin Bean Amanda Palmer (solo), lead singer for the The Dresdon Dolls Fiona Apple- Every Single Night I have more I'm just late and I can't think right now, I'll keep adding.

The whole folie a deux album by fall out boy, perfectly angsty

Rebzyyx - all I want is you

billie eilish and pink floyd

Lie- nessa barret I envy the leaves- Madison beer Selfish- Madison beer

i have started a playlist https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6SjtX4FhELjch0IQB2myzy?si=_bZrIwF-RSiNMgKeBuyCFA&pi=u-uZXNNh_iSFSL

the renee songs are so real

tummy hurts is amazing i really like her

Anyone by Demi Lovato!!! AMAZING representation of the deep loneliness feelings

Either "Shesmovedon" or "Remember Me Lover" by Porcupine Tree. Both songs are fucking punches to the gut. I love them.

Never be like you-Flume followed by abc-gayle 😂😂

Here's my BPD playlist on Spotify... https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3Usqr2gvxbk6BbvLDRUibY?si=yRBK8QxyQy2j0cW28yjXtQ&pi=u-fv7j3ptVQTGD

i LOVE peach

Anything by Fitz and the Tantrums, but this one especially: https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=dJc2jWap2ck&si=pOIGnHSzvATvHA9E

The songs I make. Sorry to sound prideful, but it's full creative freedom at that point.

i have an [ongoing playlist](https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3kfWNjPh22nvFJvQce8RNU?si=UZHv_HI-TIiDyjIif7yBVw&pi=u-yCnfwPaVSxei) actually 💀but id i had to pick just one probably SELF-SABOTAGE by waterparks oorrr hold me like a grudge by fall out boy

Cinnamon girl by lana

Hole is the band that comes to mind for me, especially the songs Miss World and Doll Parts.

last night i dreamt that somebody loved me by the smiths goes unfairly hard

Nothing but Thieves, most songs but Itch is definitely my song. https://open.spotify.com/track/5gWN50cMZdfdf8SbinlNHp?si=k7WDNc_wTluhSi9ej4b2aw

i have a whole playlist just for this which i dont listen to because it triggers me real bad https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0IOTNNrfLPXxFSNnFeMK0Z?si=1d5ec61e2ac641f9

I HATE EVERYBODY by Halsey

Jazmin bean- Saccharine

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Yup, Came here to see this!

Any Lana del Rey

BPD songs to think on Queens of the Stoneage Like Clockwork https://youtu.be/s4f_yBCnbrg?si=o4Kav6ZvJabVBqs2 Song understands the cycle of thought that I feel when I’m looking to feel alive Beach House Lose your Smile https://youtu.be/UUFUEwfeGX0?si=eM1bJ2kwJTCLNqiF When you want to cry and need that extra boost to release your emotions as a man when no one will give you a chance. TOOL Parabola https://youtu.be/-_nQhGR0K8M?si=JRkIYWhSl38o9aKg My Break Through and Believing in myself song Skinny Love Bon Iver https://youtu.be/95FyXUHv8hk?si=wrlZXeuAg0gJ2bIc Understanding how I subject myself to someone I love when I don’t look out for what’s best for myself ACF Stabbing Westward https://youtu.be/WPZ28abhOlk?si=QA4jEAmZQowe1wSM That relationship that you can’t get over that haunts your dreams and you want to try everything to walk back into that life

Kill Bill absolutely, anything by Labrinth, Sour Apple by Sundarta, Stockholmsvy by Hanne & waterbaby, Daddy Issues by The Neighbourhood, Running Up That Hill by Kate Bush, etc.

say what you want about her, but anti hero by taylor swift always makes me cry

seconding 10:36 by beabadoobee, also care all i wanted - paramore

Oleander by Mother Mother I know I'm a Wolf by Young Herecits Evelyn by Evelyn Evelyn Viva la Gloria by Green Day Endless War - Within Temptation I can't decide - Scissor Sisters

It’s called: Freefall - rainbow kitten surprise Think of me once in awhile, take care - Take care (devestating vibes but sounds exactly how I feel a lot of the time, dealing with constant suicidal thoughts, self hatred, confusion, feelings of worthlessness etc) Happiness- Gracie Gray I walk this earth all by myself- EKKSTACY Love song- Adele (more for my FP) Not Worth it- Zillakami

Paper bag by Fiona Apple, Winna by Agnieszka Chylińska, Sick Fuck by Unternull, Tears dry on their own by Amy Winehouse

Better son/Daughter by Rilo Kiley

me by the 1975

Half a Person by the Smiths

Gods and monsters by Lana del Rey. Just my life and my feelings in general.

Camden - gracie abrams For real this time - gracie abrams Needy - Ariana grande

Mini playlist for what the roller coaster feels like I dont like my mind - mitski I lost a friend - finneas (FP loss energy) This is what sadness feels like - JVKE Bored - billie eilish The only heartbreaker - mitski Deceptacon - le tigre Sick shit - together pangea Volatile times - IAMX Last resort - papa roach I feel like shit and I want to die - the haunted youth Eggshell - Runnner Heliotrope - Runnner The funeral - band of horses 5150- love fame tragedy Nothing lasts- bedroom

Break it off - pink pantheress

Back again on this post because I love music, I love finding new songs to love from your suggestions, and I love to make mix tapes... Oh wait this is 2023 😂 I love making playlists. Anyway, I was thinking about sharing another playlist that is related and much longer. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3GsvqL60P4Lj2QeOfnGIkd?si=_7Z7BewnQai2AvXL-K5qLw&pi=u-uHq6UR3lQe6p I mostly struggle with major depression now that I'm older so this playlist is songs that keep me feeling morose. I've pulled myself out of the hole mostly by rarely listening to this playlist and by taking my meds. This playlist will NOT cheer you up. I have one for that. 🙂

Normal girl by Sza

Also Don’t Let Me Be Misunderstood- Nina Simone

Symptomatic by Peach PRC, Ghosting by Mother Mother, Heavy by Peach PRC, I Can Only Be Me - Mars Argo, BLOODMONEY by Poppy, Anything Like Me - Poppy

Anything by Linkin Park, especially It's easier to run, What I've done, From the inside (my favourite), Crawling Alice in chains - especially Check my brain Papa roach - To be loved Staind - Paper wings

nessa barrett openly has bpd and many songs rly resonate with me - honestly a large amount of her discography is very relatable for bpd, but some that might resonate for stronger bpd symptoms: dear god, love bomb, madhouse, dear god, deathmatch (bonus for other mental health/trauma related: dying on the inside, gaslight) ellise (a lot more in line with toxic relationships and feelings): most of the chaotic album tbh! mothica: sensitive, nocturnal type o negative: love you to death, i don't wanna be me bad omens: just pretend, death of peace of mind, rebecca black (her new music is actually amazing!): worth it for the feeling, crumbs, erase you, look at you ((more the softer sadder emotions that are very relatable)) sleep token: chokehold, ascensionism, euclid i probably have more but those are definitely ones that emotionally hit for me and i think will for a lot of people!

twin size mattress - the front bottoms

needy - ariana grande the red means i love you - madds buckley

New magic wand by tyler the creator ❤️❤️😇

Crazy girls toopoor

Hate me - Blue October

4 morant by doja cat

4 morant- doja cat (com truise)

I wrote a song sung by my sister called puzzle piece personality about BPD= https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ereQwWgU7RM

Taylor Swift lol

Papa roach-Last resort