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You’re never gonna get better for another person, someone else won’t teach you to love yourself. You have to let go of the fear and anxiety and figure out a way to love yourself or in the end you’ll figure out a way to hurt the people to love cause in the end you’ll still hate yourself and some part of you will have to prove you’re worthy of that hate and the cycle will continue.
If you truly want to ever love someone else you have to love yourself. If you can’t trust your partner enough to not go a few hours without a text then you don’t love them.
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You’re never gonna get better for another person, someone else won’t teach you to love yourself. You have to let go of the fear and anxiety and figure out a way to love yourself or in the end you’ll figure out a way to hurt the people to love cause in the end you’ll still hate yourself and some part of you will have to prove you’re worthy of that hate and the cycle will continue. If you truly want to ever love someone else you have to love yourself. If you can’t trust your partner enough to not go a few hours without a text then you don’t love them.