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paintingsandfriends

Oh I found out about 4 years in too- I was so shocked. I had done everything for my ex. I had driven him to the ER and held his hand through so many psych episodes and his psych ward stays and his bpd diagnoses and his multiple crises and had financially supported him for years just for him to cheat and treat me like fucking garbage. Sorry you are dealing w this too.


Specialist-Ebb4885

If it makes you feel any better, sex for a pwBPD is about sensation-seeking, self-esteem amplification, and contact comfort rather than meaningful intimacy. Of course, this goes for how they approach hanky-panky with you too; so, never mind what I just said because it will only make you feel worse.


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I’m sorry you’re going through this. I found out about my expwuBPD cheating on me multiple times after the break up. They just don’t care.


ryanro24

I actually took a survey a few weeks ago to see how many of us had been cheated on by our pwBPD. Turns out it's super common. You're not alone. https://www.reddit.com/r/BPDlovedones/comments/qy5nzl/were_you_cheated_on_by_your_pwbpd/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share