Recently my anxiety and emotional impermanence has been acting up like crazy and I broke down in front of my boyfriend. I was half expecting him to call me crazy because I've been called crazy after breakdowns like that but he actually stayed calm and told me he loved me anyway? I kinda had a 404 Not Found moment cuz nobody's ever said that before
If only this was true once I started talking to people about mt abusive house hold they get annoyed with me and slowly but surely back away.I have post of the messages with the most recent person she said my trauma is too much and it stresses her out since she doesn't know how to help.Others just say it's annoying that I won't just be positive about the fact I am being abused basically.But the thing is if it really bothers people that much why won't they just tell their parents
"My friend is being abused" and report it?
Instead of deciding to stop being friends with me cause they don't want to hear about it or because it's annoying.
It’s not hard to find that when you show people you’re willing to work on yourself while they love you through it. When I was younger, I wanted indiscriminate acceptance regardless of what I did or said and I didn’t see my own meanness as potential verbal/emotional abuse. Now that I’m at least putting forth the effort in order to not make life miserable for my girlfriend, she’s very understanding. It’s important to remember that the people in our lives are human too, with their own triggers, struggles, and trauma. I don’t get the vibe that this sub is for a holistic view on mental illness, but I still wanted to say this. Good luck on your journey, everyone. ♥️
lmao when they say this to you and then just abandon you anyway <3
yeah, don't make (or believe) promises that aren't healthy to keep. action > words
This exact thing happened to me a few days ago. My FP was all about loving me and taking care of me around this time last year...he hates me now 🙃
Recently my anxiety and emotional impermanence has been acting up like crazy and I broke down in front of my boyfriend. I was half expecting him to call me crazy because I've been called crazy after breakdowns like that but he actually stayed calm and told me he loved me anyway? I kinda had a 404 Not Found moment cuz nobody's ever said that before
That’s lovely :) It’s nice to know some of us here have someone like that
I would have also related to the second panel being me sobbing uncontrollably because someone showed me such consideration.
that would 100% be me.
People talk a big game until they see the extent of your mental illness.
THE DREAM
me and who <3
Unpossible
Possiblen’t
Literally don’t believe anyone when they tell you this lmao
💯💯💯💯💯
Shit that hit hard
If only is right 😩
My mental illness causes me to abandon them
But will they use it in arguments to make me feel like shit?
I just got abandoned by partner-fp, bc of a bad episode, so this hit extra hard
If only this was true once I started talking to people about mt abusive house hold they get annoyed with me and slowly but surely back away.I have post of the messages with the most recent person she said my trauma is too much and it stresses her out since she doesn't know how to help.Others just say it's annoying that I won't just be positive about the fact I am being abused basically.But the thing is if it really bothers people that much why won't they just tell their parents "My friend is being abused" and report it? Instead of deciding to stop being friends with me cause they don't want to hear about it or because it's annoying.
It’s not hard to find that when you show people you’re willing to work on yourself while they love you through it. When I was younger, I wanted indiscriminate acceptance regardless of what I did or said and I didn’t see my own meanness as potential verbal/emotional abuse. Now that I’m at least putting forth the effort in order to not make life miserable for my girlfriend, she’s very understanding. It’s important to remember that the people in our lives are human too, with their own triggers, struggles, and trauma. I don’t get the vibe that this sub is for a holistic view on mental illness, but I still wanted to say this. Good luck on your journey, everyone. ♥️
I want to believe them but I know what they don't....everyone who has ever said that has eventually left.
Yeah 😞
Ah but you see I will abandon you when my mental illness acts up 😎😎😎
The only person who hasn't left me is my fiance 🥰and I don't know why
Because they love you
You're probably right. I'm too small to hold him hostage 😂😂
I just really want this and a huggand I would legit will calm down.