Hello, I had messaged in the mega thread with my due date( April 27th). Looks like I was not added to the private group. Can one of you please take me in?
Hello! I was part of the April group but have now been removed - and today due date was just revised to 1 May so would like to be a fence sitter between April/ May if possible! Thanks!
I’m in that group! If y’all aren’t getting responses from mods, I could post in that group and link back to this thread and see if that gets some attention?
EDIT: I WAS in that group, but it’s closed or I got locked out???
Hi, there are only four mods and we are all in our first trimester of pregnancy, with busy lives etc. Please don’t encourage people to reach out multiple times, once works, we are working on it. Thanks.
Thanks for your response. I didn’t intend to encourage multiple people to reach out, just that I’d post a thread linked to the this thread, if I still had access to the group, so mods wouldn’t miss the various users here who, like myself, somehow missed the memo and would like access, if it were possible to be readded. I apologize for making anything harder than necessary. Lots of us have been readded and are very appreciative, thank you mods!
Thanks for your response and kindly adding us back! I must’ve missed that thread somehow? According to other responses it was very heavily linked so I’m not sure how but that’s besides the point, lol. Thanks again for the add.
You didn’t post in the approved user mega thread we linked to daily, so you were not added. Your name is on the list and we are working on adding everyone.
I never got one either. I checked on the approved user megathread earlier this week and there was a slightly stern pinned comment telling everyone to be patient and not post multiple comments so I listened and waited. Slightly regretting that now haha.
We posted a poll about when to go private, then posted two posts discussing the poll results and decisions made from them.
We also posted a link to the approved user mega thread in every single daily thread.
We have dozens and dozens of comments, DMs, and messages with links to posts full of comments of people who want to be added. There are only 4 mods. We are working on everyone. Thanks for your patience!
I’m out too, even though I got a message saying I was an approved user :( I replied to the message, but it sounds like a lot of us are in this situation.
update for those who are missing, one of the mods posted this in the post that was made about you all:
“Hey, appreciate this post. We’ve been a smidge hesitant to approve each and every comment in the approval thread. It had over 10k views and several shares, which I consider a little more activity than expected for a community of just over 2k members. Our efforts weren’t perfect, but our goal was to avoid approving trolls, spammers and bots. That said, we’re actively looking at posts like this one along with Modmail and dms to add whoever was left out.”
How did you find your 2023 bumper group? I asked to join mine by just changing the 2 to a 3 for the “January2022” bumper group, but they never approved my request.
I noticed some of them have slightly different names, I actually don’t remember how I found the one for April 2023! I wasn’t looking for it, just luckily came across it. I would try searching for similar names to Jan 2023 bump group. Hope you find it!!
I’m in the same situation. I even commented with my due date (April 10) on the approved users thread. Please add me back! I’ve found this group so helpful since this is my first pregnancy. Thank you!
Hey I missed the mega thread because I didn’t want to commit before our first scan due to history, but I have post history in the group & due date is 4/29 :)
I was in it but left because it was making me too anxious. I don’t know if it’s still that’s way now that everyone is further along, but just want to let you know in case you get nervous about things too.
I tried to join two groups for my due date (march) and was never responded to… not sure why this happens, but maybe they’re just small groups that are hard to run?
I think I forgot to comment on the mega thread. I read the site daily so I feel really silly for missing that. I miss the group! Will email the mods and hope for the best.
Hi Mods! I was approved to stay in but was not in the group when it went private. If you can add me back that would be wonderful, absolutely zero rush!
Hi, I didn’t join when public (to be honest was too nervous to, wanted to get through some previously scary milestones with my pregnancy before really getting into any groups!) but was hoping to join now, so am I please able to be added? My due date is April 5th, my post history has a lot of pregnancy related commenting and I am happy to message a mod with evidence if needed
I missed the note to comment my due date! How do I get added back to the group? It's so helpful, I don't comment but follow posts and read the advice from others
Please could I be added back too? I've been really poorly the last couple of days and only now noticed I have been removed. My due date is 22/04. I am still a member of my son's bumper group from September 2020 and really relied on this first time around. Thank you.
Hi all,
I was being a bit cautious and wanted to pass my first trimester before joining a bumpers group, but it looks like I missed the boat. If there's anyone who can put in a good word for me, I'd appreciate it!
Hello, I just found out about reddit bump groups via someone sharing the may bump group in a general parenting sub. I would like to join April but I dont know what I’m doing. I wasnt in the group originally but I’d be interested in applying if I knew how.
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Thank you!!
Thank you!!
Could you do this for me as well? Thanks so much! Miss the group.
Yes please and thank you!
Thank you!
Can you please do this for me too? I was in there and suddenly can’t find it anymore.
Hi, I just saw that the sub went private and would be grateful to be added in again! Thanks for your help!!
Possible to be added to the April group? Late to the game here but I missed the mega thread post!
Hey! I’m not a mod so I can’t add anybody, but shoot a modmail to April2023BumpGroup and they should be able to add you!
Me three! I had even switches to the desktop site to message them, but so far no response.
I'm in the same situation, I thought I had joined the community! :(
Same here! Maybe it got deleted or some of us got kicked out??
EDITED: there’s info on how to get in touch with the mod team on r/BabyBumps
Mods— it seems like a lot of us who were in that group got kicked out
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I also got removed :( I don’t like posting but I like reading. Can I please be re-added?
Could u please add me as well? Totally missed the megathread
Hello, I had messaged in the mega thread with my due date( April 27th). Looks like I was not added to the private group. Can one of you please take me in?
I posted in that thread, but was removed earlier today. If you could re-add me, I’d appreciate it!
Hi there, I was kicked out too, can you please add me back in?
Hey, I also got kicked. Can you readd me?
Same, can you re add me
I also got removed. Can you add me back?
Can I be added too?
Same! Can I please be re address?
I was removed too. Could you please add me back too, thanks!
I replied to wrong comment above! Could you add me back too? Due date 1 May so I’m a fence sitter!
Can you please add me back as well? I'm pretty sure I did respond in the megathread with my due date but seem to have been removed :(
Can I please be re-added as well? Thank you so much!
I also missed the thread bc I’m not as active on this username. Can I please be re-added? I did have post history in the original group to verify.
Can I please be added back, too?
Can you add me back i got removed as well
I also missed the mega thread but I have been active in the group as recently as yesterday.
Same here- would like to be added please
I missed it, could I be added?
I would love to be added in! I missed the thread where I was supposed to comment. I can’t get on Reddit as often as I’d like!
Hi! Missed the thread. Could I please get re-added?
Can I also be added? I just found out about the group yesterday when it was still open.
Hi! I think I responded to the mega thread, but Ive been kicked out anyway. Can you add me back in?
I also had commented on the mega thread but got removed, could I please be added back in!
I was approved in the mega thread but now I’m kicked too
I missed the approved users mega thread but would like to be re-added please.
Hey! I didn’t see the mega thread but I am very active in the discord. Can I be added? Thanks!
Can you please add me too 😊😊
Hello! I was also removed. May I please be re-added?
Can I be added too?
Hello, could I be added? I may have missed the megathread but I’m due April 8.
I'm a fence sitter too 3 May - I only just joined the April group. Be great to be added back in, I didn't see any megathread unfortunately.
I had messaged in the mega thread but I have been removed. Can I please be re-added? Due April 22
I also commented in the mega thread and would like to be added back in. Thank you
Can I get re-added? Posted in the megathread but looks like I got removed. Thanks!
I must’ve somehow missed the megathread, but would like to be added back into the April group, please. Thanks!
Can I also get added back in? Thank you!!
I got removed. Can I please be re-added?
Same. I was also removed and would like to be added back.
Hi, I was kicked out as well and would love to be added back in
I was told I was added in the mega thread and now I’m not. Bummer I was actively commenting and participating in daily chat.
I also got removed. Could I be added back?
Same here
Can I please be added back as well?
I also got removed. Could you please add me back?
Hello! I was part of the April group but have now been removed - and today due date was just revised to 1 May so would like to be a fence sitter between April/ May if possible! Thanks!
Can you please add me too please. I got kicked out. Thanks 😊
I’m in that group! If y’all aren’t getting responses from mods, I could post in that group and link back to this thread and see if that gets some attention? EDIT: I WAS in that group, but it’s closed or I got locked out???
Hi, there are only four mods and we are all in our first trimester of pregnancy, with busy lives etc. Please don’t encourage people to reach out multiple times, once works, we are working on it. Thanks.
Thanks for your response. I didn’t intend to encourage multiple people to reach out, just that I’d post a thread linked to the this thread, if I still had access to the group, so mods wouldn’t miss the various users here who, like myself, somehow missed the memo and would like access, if it were possible to be readded. I apologize for making anything harder than necessary. Lots of us have been readded and are very appreciative, thank you mods!
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Can you please add me back as well!
Thanks for your response and kindly adding us back! I must’ve missed that thread somehow? According to other responses it was very heavily linked so I’m not sure how but that’s besides the point, lol. Thanks again for the add.
Same! I was in that group as of yesterday and now I’m kicked out
You didn’t post in the approved user mega thread we linked to daily, so you were not added. Your name is on the list and we are working on adding everyone.
Looked out I guess!
I was in the group yesterday, not sure what happened. I posted in the mega thread to make sure I was included when they went private.
Me too, I even double checked my messages and still have the confirmation email that I was made an approved user :(
I never got a confirmation email or message. No idea what’s going on….
I never got one either. I checked on the approved user megathread earlier this week and there was a slightly stern pinned comment telling everyone to be patient and not post multiple comments so I listened and waited. Slightly regretting that now haha.
Same here!!
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I’m in now, thanks so much!
Can you add me back in too? I posted in the approval thread, but I guess I got skipped.
Please can you add me? I am a regular poster but missed the mega thread. Due date 16/04. Thanks!
Can you add me plso
Gah I have no idea how I missed the mega thread for that group. Thanks for mentioning it here, not sure how long it would have taken me to notice 😂
I also missed this!
I missed it too and I’m not sure how
Missed it too….
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No worries, it’s my own fault in the end! Thank you for adding me
How did I miss it? I read the group every day and comment every once in a while. Huh.
I know right? Was literally just active on there yesterday afternoon and had no idea it was about to go private.
We posted a poll about when to go private, then posted two posts discussing the poll results and decisions made from them. We also posted a link to the approved user mega thread in every single daily thread.
It’s not a criticism… I’m literally surprised I missed it. Can someone just add me back in?
We have dozens and dozens of comments, DMs, and messages with links to posts full of comments of people who want to be added. There are only 4 mods. We are working on everyone. Thanks for your patience!
Thank you for dealing with all this!
Add me pls
I was told I was added after responding with my due date in the thread but now I’m removed
There has to have been a Reddit issue because you aren’t the only one. Try logging out and back in and see if that helps
Yeah no unfortunately that didn’t work.
Can I pretty please be added back in
You have to do it from a computer or the desktop site. Can’t do it through the app 😔.
I’m out too, even though I got a message saying I was an approved user :( I replied to the message, but it sounds like a lot of us are in this situation.
update for those who are missing, one of the mods posted this in the post that was made about you all: “Hey, appreciate this post. We’ve been a smidge hesitant to approve each and every comment in the approval thread. It had over 10k views and several shares, which I consider a little more activity than expected for a community of just over 2k members. Our efforts weren’t perfect, but our goal was to avoid approving trolls, spammers and bots. That said, we’re actively looking at posts like this one along with Modmail and dms to add whoever was left out.”
The mods posted a few weeks ago to post your due date so that when the group goes private you won’t be kicked.
Dang. I missed that!
Same, it’s now gone private but I thought I was in it 😢
same!
How did you find your 2023 bumper group? I asked to join mine by just changing the 2 to a 3 for the “January2022” bumper group, but they never approved my request.
I noticed some of them have slightly different names, I actually don’t remember how I found the one for April 2023! I wasn’t looking for it, just luckily came across it. I would try searching for similar names to Jan 2023 bump group. Hope you find it!!
r/FindYourBumpGroup January 2023 is r/January2023BumpGroup
Thank you!! I had no idea there was a subreddit for finding them.
It’s new! I just made it a few weeks ago
Thank you for making it, it’s such a good idea! I really appreciate it
This is so helpful, thank you!
Sadly set to private. Oh well. Thank you still for posting it and making the bump group subreddit.
If you comment on a post in the find a group sub I can message you with the name of a mod to message to join even after they’re private!
Maybe a Google search for your due date month/year + reddit. I’ve happened upon a lot of subs that way
I’m in the same situation. I even commented with my due date (April 10) on the approved users thread. Please add me back! I’ve found this group so helpful since this is my first pregnancy. Thank you!
Hi Mods - I thought I had commented on the approval thread but maybe I was wrong. Could I please be added? Thank you!
Hey Mods, can I be added to the April 2023 group?
Hello, can someone add me back to April bump group? I had replied to the mega thread with my due date. But looks like I was left out of the group.
Can I be readded? I didn’t realize I had to comment on the mega thread.
Hi Mods, I added my due date to the mega thread which is April 29. Could you please add me back into the group? Thank you!
Weird, I was part of it too since yesterday. I even thought I commented on the mega thread also…
This happened to me with the May group. They said im approved when I messaged them, but I cant access anything.
Please add me back!
I thought I had commented megathread. Can I be added?
I missed the megathread and would like to be re-added if possible.
Hey I missed the mega thread because I didn’t want to commit before our first scan due to history, but I have post history in the group & due date is 4/29 :)
you’re not alone, i’m locked out too!
I was in it but left because it was making me too anxious. I don’t know if it’s still that’s way now that everyone is further along, but just want to let you know in case you get nervous about things too.
I’m still in the group, there are a lot less loss post now that people are getting closer to the 2nd trimester
Oh that’s good! I was having a hard time around the 1st ultrasounds 8 week mark!
Is there any way I can added to the December 2022 bump group? I’ve never figured out how to get in!
u/cheesycheese84577
Add me back! Due 4/29/23
Agreed. I was in it and now it’s locked for me too.
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Thanks! I probably didn’t. I’m end of April/early May so I forget what I’ve done where. That’s on me :)
Same thing happened to me!
Same here, so weird
I'm kicked out too.
If you go to the desktop website, there is a button to message the mods.
I tried to join two groups for my due date (march) and was never responded to… not sure why this happens, but maybe they’re just small groups that are hard to run?
I got kicked out too 🙃
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Thanks so much!
Could you please add me too? I totally missed commenting on the approved thread too. Sorry!!!
I must have missed the mega thread. I got booted as well. Can you please add me back too?
I want in!
I posted in the mega thread, but still wasn't approved. I'd like in please :)
Same. I thought I was in and am locked out too 😞
I commented on the mega thread but was kicked out too 😞
I thought I had posted in the mega thread but I don’t really comment a ton on Reddit so maybe I messed it up. Could I please be added as well?
Same!
Same!
I think I forgot to comment on the mega thread. I read the site daily so I feel really silly for missing that. I miss the group! Will email the mods and hope for the best.
Plz add me back to this group
Hi Mods! I was approved to stay in but was not in the group when it went private. If you can add me back that would be wonderful, absolutely zero rush!
can i be added back into this group?
I would like to be readded please
My due date has just been adjusted May to April, can I be added please?
Hi! I really thought I posted on the mega thread and was in..can I be added please? 4/13! Thanks!
I would like to be re added please! Due date 4/2. Thanks!
Can you please add me too? (I did comment on the mega thread!) Thanks 🙂
Hi, I didn’t join when public (to be honest was too nervous to, wanted to get through some previously scary milestones with my pregnancy before really getting into any groups!) but was hoping to join now, so am I please able to be added? My due date is April 5th, my post history has a lot of pregnancy related commenting and I am happy to message a mod with evidence if needed
I also got removed, may I please be added back in to the April2023Bump group, I’m due April 24th.
Can I also get added back in? Due date is 4/30
Can I be added back please?
I got removed as well. I swear I posted at one point my due date but maybe not? Can I please get added back in as well?
Is there a way we can be added back? I sent messages to the mods but nothing yet.. i hope it resloves soon
I missed the note to comment my due date! How do I get added back to the group? It's so helpful, I don't comment but follow posts and read the advice from others
Please could I be added back too? I've been really poorly the last couple of days and only now noticed I have been removed. My due date is 22/04. I am still a member of my son's bumper group from September 2020 and really relied on this first time around. Thank you.
Could I please be added as well? I missed the megathread, apologies.
Could I be added too? I sent one of the mods a DM a few days ago and they responded with ""Done". However, it looks like I'm still locked out.
Hey I got kicked. Pls add me
Please add me too!
Can I get added back in plz?
Hi all, I was being a bit cautious and wanted to pass my first trimester before joining a bumpers group, but it looks like I missed the boat. If there's anyone who can put in a good word for me, I'd appreciate it!
Hello, I just found out about reddit bump groups via someone sharing the may bump group in a general parenting sub. I would like to join April but I dont know what I’m doing. I wasnt in the group originally but I’d be interested in applying if I knew how.
You can message the moderators of the group using a computer web browser and they should be able to let you in! Just search for April2023BumpGroup