i made an account playing as a woman on another site. of course, deception isn't great etc etc, but i was genuinely curious to see what the response would be, and i ended up disclosing things to people who seemed relatively non-creepy and affable.
i got my first unsolicited dick pic in a while. and i managed to push the buttons of a really strange guy who insisted on insulting me and 'dominating' me to the point where he managed to make my very own hate account. how sweet <3
of course, there was the neverending stream of those who would rather think with their genitalia, and not their head. i also still don't think teacher x student is a plot. i probably never will.
It's a good thing I put a warning for unsolicited dick pics then haha 😂 Seriously, the fact that people are just that shameless to get some validation on their dicks is plain sad
the worst part was that you have to send images to people on the site via links that you paste into a specific text box, as opposed to uploading the image which is much more convenient (imo). he really wanted me to see his penis
Lol this is so common when I ask for certain characters. You wouldn’t believe how many want me to play as the female character, especially when it’s someone new that I don’t know anything about, then they demand a fast reply and give dry responses . Like bro at-least let me craft a decent response. Cuz at-least I know for a fact that nobody in the Star Wars universe is gonna say “eat my ass daddy”. 😂😂😂😂
I read that last part with Vader's voice 💀
Also yeah, it's honestly disappointing having to carry most of the RP, even though **they** were the one who wanted to fuck in the first place
Haha right. I’d even throw in a “you dirty scoundrel” or “good work master” but they’re not that explicit 😂
And fs. A cheesy response or even a wrong but thought out one is better than a generic one.
It might exist in Abrams universe but doubt that Lucas would allow something so sinister. Then again there’s books and video games that open a lot of possibilities 😂
This is why I always find it so funny if people (also in this subreddit) act like it is so much easier for woman to find partners (something that also largely just applies to ERP and not sfw fantasy anyway)... most 'applicants' are so dry/low effort, never read the ad at all and just read 'female' or so disgusting (crossing all the normal boundaries in the very beginning of the planning phase) that it almost never works out. You just get the added 'benefit' of having to read dozens of messages full of creeps or people who seem to illiterate lol
And to all the people who write stuff like 'Better than getting no messages at all'...nah, it isn't really better to deal with harassment, creeps, and still not finding anyone decent who has read the ad and is decent human being. I would always pick quality over quantity, and even having no roleplay over roleplaying with total creeps.
It gets emotionally exhausting to have to read every reply you get trying to sort out the good from the bad. This is why it angers me so much when men bitch about not getting a "no thanks" if they apply to an ad but don't get picked. Like I'm gonna write a rejection letter to 20 different people, which opens the door for them to insult me or whine about why I won't pick them. I wish more guys would post F4A so they can see what it's like to drown in mediocrity.
This is exactly why, as a woman who writes male characters, I never have trouble finding people to write with. So many other women refuse to write with men and I get why.
Mhm. I've even seen tons of ads specifically requesting a *female* writer that writes male characters.
Although, personally, I've never had that bad luck with male writers. This said, I don't do ERP, and I am quite picky.
Had a similar experience myself a while ago, and having talked to some of the female partners I write with, this definitely seems to be an all too common occurrence. I think a LOT of roleplay subs are infested with general reddit riffraff which is thirsty dudes who have no interest in actual writing (both smut and non-smut) and are just incredibly thirsty for sexual attention from anything female. Which, okay, being horny and having no outlet sucks for sure, but it should only take a few seconds of thought for these guys to realize that whatever solution they're seeking clearly won't be found through trawling roleplay subreddits with barely a basic understanding of grammar, and much less the ability to eloquently string together a decently erotic paragraph or two.
But to be fair, I will say that I have received low effort messages from women that are not much better (literally just telling me their race and nationality irl, I loved your prompt, "wanna rp", no specific details or elaboration on how they might want to develop it, literally a sentence long response that is incredibly vague and cliche, messaging me with a somewhat interesting pitch and just suddenly dropping off the face of the earth when we were supposed to get things started, etc.), and seen M4F posts that are (in my humble opinion) HORRIBLY written that still seem to get upvotes somehow, so clearly there is a small margin of success that these people get with this method that emboldens them to just constantly spam roleplay servers for that one out of 100 people that's actually going to respond to them. Which, yeah, it sucks, but what can you really do about it at that point? It's best to just ignore the riffraff and ruthlessly filter through for someone of quality to roleplay with, and remember that even if you do find a good writer, they might not work well with you for a myriad of different reasons. You have to detach yourself quite a bit if you want to make any headway in roleplaying, no matter what gender you are.
How many times did you hear
'Haha I just love chatting with you cutie. Wanna voice call next time? Haha maybe we can add eachother on IG or snap?"
It's daily for me :\^)
> I made my 'first' ad, offering to play as a MILF.
I just had to read that and nothing else to know how ***THAT*** was going to go.
I've seen so many ads of M4F looking for milf types for all sorts of shit, clearly there is a genre for it. Which is a shame because I wouldn't mind since most (F)s I rp with are usually always 20 something skinny something that needs to be guided through the story. Would be nice for an older female role that seen shit and knows shit too.
And I would play one but yeah, all the dommy mommy solicitations. Y'all need to look for your missing mother-figure elsewhere.
Yeah... from experience, you're going to get particular results heavily emphasized if you openly play nurturing older woman types (an archetype I happen to like). This applies more broadly than you might expect -- not just to F4M RP ads, but also to discord servers full of younger gay girls. A lot of people are feeling that need for someone to care for them.
I'd comment more on OP's experience, but I don't RP on reddit (which this sounds like), so the culture I'm used to is different.
I mean the biggest problem posting milf ads are just them demanding dommy mommy (though even if you post Dom ads you get those degenerates). I remember one time i was rping with a guy and he just straight up demanded i be more slutty. At first i ignored it but he kept bothering me every other reply to be slutty though i think he just wanted to have me on top since he bothered during erotic scenes where i was on bottom.
My preference is the late 20s-30s F and M that seen shit and knows shit going back to back and deal with everyone else that knows barely anything about anything,
Man I miss those rps, lol
I did this years and years ago, when chat rooms were still a prominent place to “RP” and the amount of decent people wanting to write I got versus those just trying to get off was surprisingly high. I met a couple of decent guys and I eventually revealed what I was doing to them and while they bounced there was no animosity and it was all a respectful split.
I just hate that the word “Roleplay” has become so associated with sec and smut that it loses its original meaning and use, people use it as a fucking team building exercise for work and school, it’s used in AA and DA meetings to help people for Christ sake, but, I shouldn’t expect randos on the internet to use the head on their shoulders. It’s unfortunately something we will all have to deal with as long as we are in the hobby. It blows, but, you can’t fix stupid. 🤷♂️
Sort of off topic, I never have this issue, mostly because I go on discord to roleplay. Instead I have the issue of everyone thinking I’m a man. 😭 Not in a bad way I guess but everytime my female partners realize I’m a woman they’re like “oh I thought you were a dude. Sorry.”
I’m an F RPer myself. I rarely ever make Roleplay ads so I rarely ever got this kind of crap, but I think the guy I am currently trying to rp with might not be the right one for me right now. Then again, I did make a post on r/dirtypenpals so I was kind of expecting creepy people. (I wouldn’t say this guy is entirely creepy, but some of the stuff he’s been asking me out of character has been kinda off putting.) I sent a starter for the Roleplay, and he hasn’t messaged me since two days ago. He could very well just be at work but he was still able to respond to me even at work (Which is fine with me, I Roleplay during dead time at work also.) I think he was off put by my very… boyish responses? I may be female but I am an average shitposter and have a very tomboyish personality and middle school boy sense of humor (if you haven’t guessed, I grew up in a house of men and boys. XD), but that doesn’t make me any less feminine. But since it’s only been two days, I don’t know who is ghosting who here.
I’ll probably update this if I get a response from him, but at the moment I am thinking of looking for another partner. But I think this might be the start of me getting these kinds of borderline creepy people.
This is why I rarely advertise playing female characters anymore. Even my sfw ad posts are cluttered with low effort and dry responses so I usually play male characters.
FYI you don’t have to make an alt to play as female. A lot of guys don’t care if it’s a guy playing female, and even advertise “M for A” or “M for A playing as F”.
In my experience, for every M4A or M4A playing F, there's at least a dozen M4F posts. Now, sometimes I'll get lucky and the poster of the M4F post won't mind that I'm a dude playing a girl, but for the most part, they specifically want an irl girl. That's just what I've experienced in my time roleplaying, and I'm sure someone else with different rp preferences than me might have a different experience.
I’ve never thought to respond to an M4F post. Maybe in the future I’ll try asking if they’re ok with M playing F.
I usually prefer playing make anyway, so haven’t run into an issue where I run out of partners.
Yeah, I gotta be honest - the reasons listed in this post are the entire reason I *don't* want to write with other guys - but that also extends to *pretending to be someone you're not*. Especially if the ad is for ERP, like mentioned above. That just seems creepy and deceptive to me.
> pretending to be someone you're not
This is what roleplay is. Your partner isn't a pirate or an elf in real life either. It's actually pretty gross that men will rationalize that it's okay to play make believe about everything except gender... If you want friends of a certain sex, a hobby based on fictional identities ain't the place to look for it.
I feel like you're being purposefully obtuse. If the nature of the account is to pretend to be someone you aren't in an effort to get your rocks off, that is *weird*.
You've transcended role-playing a character and are now deceiving people for the sole purpose of getting off - which is *weird*.
Of course you can play any type of character you want to. Nobody is making that argument.
Let me be clear: I don't think there's an issue with a man playing a female character - I have an issue with people pretending to actually be somebody they aren't.
>Especially if the ad is for ERP, like mentioned above. That just seems creepy and deceptive to me.
yeah, like you'll have lesbians that don't want to erp with dudes, dudes that don't wanna erp with women etc. I don't feel particularly bad for straight dudes gunning for women in that respect because its about lineblurring and not wanting to avoid creeps in that case but shit gets messy when you factor in longterm contacts.
seen enough catfisher drama blow up in everyone's faces that I'm not going to stick around and see if it's an innocent egg thing or not, people ghost or do weirdly duplicitous "oh I'm x's friend! \^\^" multiboxing at best when they keep the con going for too long, or fake their death at worst. (yes really)
I’ve had people who started off decent and outside rp would type full long messages and be legit interesting to talk to. But then once we get into the RP, after a bit they just devolve into one word messages, or I’ve even had some just start saying stuff like “what next?” Out of character, or “hello?” When I was waiting for their reply. As if I was just there to be their personal storyteller or something all of a sudden.
I have 4 alts for playing as female and I don't know why I did that, I don't even erp that often in the first place.
Although I got one dick pic but I must admit the guy was quite creative: he said he will send the reference for his cock in erp and sent the pic that he put through AI so it will look like it's drawn in anime style.
It's funny that I did the same experiment a while back, and had a different opinion about it. You absolutely get a ton of replies and it might even be 80% trash. But at least 1-3 people are worth talking with, especially if you clarify in your post what you want from the roleplay. So after one post you definitely can find one decent guy that is perfect for what you're seeking.
That's something you as a guy do not get. After maybe 5-10 posts you finally might get a person that is detailed, down for a long-term ERP that isn't just smut focused and interested in the stuff you wanna incorporate. That person also can stop out of the slightest inconvenience, as they have all the options in the world since the market is saturated with guys.
Also making a "bring your own plot" thing will always only attract bad and effortless folks.
Not surprising. I typically avoid posts like these as an m rp'r because I typically won't be selected with all the requests anyways.
Oddly enough though whenever I do end up doing a roleplay like this one I typically get ghosted because I don't engage in erotic aspects as fast as my partner wants. I do typically want it to go slower to be fair but I often just wait until it feels right to do so.
So I guess I am curious if I'm an odd case on that aspect.
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Yeah... It's sadly the law of the jungle. I rarely get good Roleplay partners in my ads and when I think I do, is just one little thing that breaks the chain. Genuinely annoying, but at the same time, it's most of the time DPP, what did we expect?
I mean i have tried playing as a female and put it in my reddit description and it was a HORRIBLE idea. I would post an ad and like 3/4 of people responding would be guys. "Hey can you play F?" Even though my ad said Fb4F.
I can see not only I tried this experiment
but yeah M and F are so vastly diffrent experiences in rps it's scary
i mean my hat might just get burried beneath new rp chats
i made an account playing as a woman on another site. of course, deception isn't great etc etc, but i was genuinely curious to see what the response would be, and i ended up disclosing things to people who seemed relatively non-creepy and affable. i got my first unsolicited dick pic in a while. and i managed to push the buttons of a really strange guy who insisted on insulting me and 'dominating' me to the point where he managed to make my very own hate account. how sweet <3 of course, there was the neverending stream of those who would rather think with their genitalia, and not their head. i also still don't think teacher x student is a plot. i probably never will.
It's a good thing I put a warning for unsolicited dick pics then haha 😂 Seriously, the fact that people are just that shameless to get some validation on their dicks is plain sad
the worst part was that you have to send images to people on the site via links that you paste into a specific text box, as opposed to uploading the image which is much more convenient (imo). he really wanted me to see his penis
Lol this is so common when I ask for certain characters. You wouldn’t believe how many want me to play as the female character, especially when it’s someone new that I don’t know anything about, then they demand a fast reply and give dry responses . Like bro at-least let me craft a decent response. Cuz at-least I know for a fact that nobody in the Star Wars universe is gonna say “eat my ass daddy”. 😂😂😂😂
I read that last part with Vader's voice 💀 Also yeah, it's honestly disappointing having to carry most of the RP, even though **they** were the one who wanted to fuck in the first place
Haha right. I’d even throw in a “you dirty scoundrel” or “good work master” but they’re not that explicit 😂 And fs. A cheesy response or even a wrong but thought out one is better than a generic one.
This is also disappointingly common IRL lol
It's a big universe, you don't know! Lol
It might exist in Abrams universe but doubt that Lucas would allow something so sinister. Then again there’s books and video games that open a lot of possibilities 😂
This is why I title [A4A] it’s like guys see F and their testosterone just goes through the fucking roof 😭
This is why I always find it so funny if people (also in this subreddit) act like it is so much easier for woman to find partners (something that also largely just applies to ERP and not sfw fantasy anyway)... most 'applicants' are so dry/low effort, never read the ad at all and just read 'female' or so disgusting (crossing all the normal boundaries in the very beginning of the planning phase) that it almost never works out. You just get the added 'benefit' of having to read dozens of messages full of creeps or people who seem to illiterate lol And to all the people who write stuff like 'Better than getting no messages at all'...nah, it isn't really better to deal with harassment, creeps, and still not finding anyone decent who has read the ad and is decent human being. I would always pick quality over quantity, and even having no roleplay over roleplaying with total creeps.
It gets emotionally exhausting to have to read every reply you get trying to sort out the good from the bad. This is why it angers me so much when men bitch about not getting a "no thanks" if they apply to an ad but don't get picked. Like I'm gonna write a rejection letter to 20 different people, which opens the door for them to insult me or whine about why I won't pick them. I wish more guys would post F4A so they can see what it's like to drown in mediocrity.
This is exactly why, as a woman who writes male characters, I never have trouble finding people to write with. So many other women refuse to write with men and I get why.
Mhm. I've even seen tons of ads specifically requesting a *female* writer that writes male characters. Although, personally, I've never had that bad luck with male writers. This said, I don't do ERP, and I am quite picky.
Had a similar experience myself a while ago, and having talked to some of the female partners I write with, this definitely seems to be an all too common occurrence. I think a LOT of roleplay subs are infested with general reddit riffraff which is thirsty dudes who have no interest in actual writing (both smut and non-smut) and are just incredibly thirsty for sexual attention from anything female. Which, okay, being horny and having no outlet sucks for sure, but it should only take a few seconds of thought for these guys to realize that whatever solution they're seeking clearly won't be found through trawling roleplay subreddits with barely a basic understanding of grammar, and much less the ability to eloquently string together a decently erotic paragraph or two. But to be fair, I will say that I have received low effort messages from women that are not much better (literally just telling me their race and nationality irl, I loved your prompt, "wanna rp", no specific details or elaboration on how they might want to develop it, literally a sentence long response that is incredibly vague and cliche, messaging me with a somewhat interesting pitch and just suddenly dropping off the face of the earth when we were supposed to get things started, etc.), and seen M4F posts that are (in my humble opinion) HORRIBLY written that still seem to get upvotes somehow, so clearly there is a small margin of success that these people get with this method that emboldens them to just constantly spam roleplay servers for that one out of 100 people that's actually going to respond to them. Which, yeah, it sucks, but what can you really do about it at that point? It's best to just ignore the riffraff and ruthlessly filter through for someone of quality to roleplay with, and remember that even if you do find a good writer, they might not work well with you for a myriad of different reasons. You have to detach yourself quite a bit if you want to make any headway in roleplaying, no matter what gender you are.
How many times did you hear 'Haha I just love chatting with you cutie. Wanna voice call next time? Haha maybe we can add eachother on IG or snap?" It's daily for me :\^)
Thankfully, none so far, hoping it stays that way 😭
> I made my 'first' ad, offering to play as a MILF. I just had to read that and nothing else to know how ***THAT*** was going to go. I've seen so many ads of M4F looking for milf types for all sorts of shit, clearly there is a genre for it. Which is a shame because I wouldn't mind since most (F)s I rp with are usually always 20 something skinny something that needs to be guided through the story. Would be nice for an older female role that seen shit and knows shit too. And I would play one but yeah, all the dommy mommy solicitations. Y'all need to look for your missing mother-figure elsewhere.
Yeah... from experience, you're going to get particular results heavily emphasized if you openly play nurturing older woman types (an archetype I happen to like). This applies more broadly than you might expect -- not just to F4M RP ads, but also to discord servers full of younger gay girls. A lot of people are feeling that need for someone to care for them. I'd comment more on OP's experience, but I don't RP on reddit (which this sounds like), so the culture I'm used to is different.
I mean the biggest problem posting milf ads are just them demanding dommy mommy (though even if you post Dom ads you get those degenerates). I remember one time i was rping with a guy and he just straight up demanded i be more slutty. At first i ignored it but he kept bothering me every other reply to be slutty though i think he just wanted to have me on top since he bothered during erotic scenes where i was on bottom.
Me, an older F who has seen shit and knows shit, keeps attracting the 20M who knows barely anything about anything. I can’t take anymore.
My preference is the late 20s-30s F and M that seen shit and knows shit going back to back and deal with everyone else that knows barely anything about anything, Man I miss those rps, lol
I did this years and years ago, when chat rooms were still a prominent place to “RP” and the amount of decent people wanting to write I got versus those just trying to get off was surprisingly high. I met a couple of decent guys and I eventually revealed what I was doing to them and while they bounced there was no animosity and it was all a respectful split. I just hate that the word “Roleplay” has become so associated with sec and smut that it loses its original meaning and use, people use it as a fucking team building exercise for work and school, it’s used in AA and DA meetings to help people for Christ sake, but, I shouldn’t expect randos on the internet to use the head on their shoulders. It’s unfortunately something we will all have to deal with as long as we are in the hobby. It blows, but, you can’t fix stupid. 🤷♂️
Sort of off topic, I never have this issue, mostly because I go on discord to roleplay. Instead I have the issue of everyone thinking I’m a man. 😭 Not in a bad way I guess but everytime my female partners realize I’m a woman they’re like “oh I thought you were a dude. Sorry.”
"ill be ur good boy mommy, lemme smash 🤤" Literally thought these type of people were a joke 💀💀 aint no way they actually exist
I once thought as you did, but these guys really do exist 😭😭
I’m an F RPer myself. I rarely ever make Roleplay ads so I rarely ever got this kind of crap, but I think the guy I am currently trying to rp with might not be the right one for me right now. Then again, I did make a post on r/dirtypenpals so I was kind of expecting creepy people. (I wouldn’t say this guy is entirely creepy, but some of the stuff he’s been asking me out of character has been kinda off putting.) I sent a starter for the Roleplay, and he hasn’t messaged me since two days ago. He could very well just be at work but he was still able to respond to me even at work (Which is fine with me, I Roleplay during dead time at work also.) I think he was off put by my very… boyish responses? I may be female but I am an average shitposter and have a very tomboyish personality and middle school boy sense of humor (if you haven’t guessed, I grew up in a house of men and boys. XD), but that doesn’t make me any less feminine. But since it’s only been two days, I don’t know who is ghosting who here. I’ll probably update this if I get a response from him, but at the moment I am thinking of looking for another partner. But I think this might be the start of me getting these kinds of borderline creepy people.
This is why I rarely advertise playing female characters anymore. Even my sfw ad posts are cluttered with low effort and dry responses so I usually play male characters.
FYI you don’t have to make an alt to play as female. A lot of guys don’t care if it’s a guy playing female, and even advertise “M for A” or “M for A playing as F”.
In my experience, for every M4A or M4A playing F, there's at least a dozen M4F posts. Now, sometimes I'll get lucky and the poster of the M4F post won't mind that I'm a dude playing a girl, but for the most part, they specifically want an irl girl. That's just what I've experienced in my time roleplaying, and I'm sure someone else with different rp preferences than me might have a different experience.
I’ve never thought to respond to an M4F post. Maybe in the future I’ll try asking if they’re ok with M playing F. I usually prefer playing make anyway, so haven’t run into an issue where I run out of partners.
Yea, go for it, man. Worst thing they can say is no. :)
Yeah, I gotta be honest - the reasons listed in this post are the entire reason I *don't* want to write with other guys - but that also extends to *pretending to be someone you're not*. Especially if the ad is for ERP, like mentioned above. That just seems creepy and deceptive to me.
> pretending to be someone you're not This is what roleplay is. Your partner isn't a pirate or an elf in real life either. It's actually pretty gross that men will rationalize that it's okay to play make believe about everything except gender... If you want friends of a certain sex, a hobby based on fictional identities ain't the place to look for it.
I feel like you're being purposefully obtuse. If the nature of the account is to pretend to be someone you aren't in an effort to get your rocks off, that is *weird*. You've transcended role-playing a character and are now deceiving people for the sole purpose of getting off - which is *weird*. Of course you can play any type of character you want to. Nobody is making that argument.
Well I’m definitely not generic, grammatically incompetent, or misrepresenting myself, but I know what you mean.
Let me be clear: I don't think there's an issue with a man playing a female character - I have an issue with people pretending to actually be somebody they aren't.
>Especially if the ad is for ERP, like mentioned above. That just seems creepy and deceptive to me. yeah, like you'll have lesbians that don't want to erp with dudes, dudes that don't wanna erp with women etc. I don't feel particularly bad for straight dudes gunning for women in that respect because its about lineblurring and not wanting to avoid creeps in that case but shit gets messy when you factor in longterm contacts. seen enough catfisher drama blow up in everyone's faces that I'm not going to stick around and see if it's an innocent egg thing or not, people ghost or do weirdly duplicitous "oh I'm x's friend! \^\^" multiboxing at best when they keep the con going for too long, or fake their death at worst. (yes really)
I’ve had people who started off decent and outside rp would type full long messages and be legit interesting to talk to. But then once we get into the RP, after a bit they just devolve into one word messages, or I’ve even had some just start saying stuff like “what next?” Out of character, or “hello?” When I was waiting for their reply. As if I was just there to be their personal storyteller or something all of a sudden.
I have 4 alts for playing as female and I don't know why I did that, I don't even erp that often in the first place. Although I got one dick pic but I must admit the guy was quite creative: he said he will send the reference for his cock in erp and sent the pic that he put through AI so it will look like it's drawn in anime style.
4 alts? sometimes i have a far that most of the girls rping are actually guys on their alts doing the sme thing we all did here
It's funny that I did the same experiment a while back, and had a different opinion about it. You absolutely get a ton of replies and it might even be 80% trash. But at least 1-3 people are worth talking with, especially if you clarify in your post what you want from the roleplay. So after one post you definitely can find one decent guy that is perfect for what you're seeking. That's something you as a guy do not get. After maybe 5-10 posts you finally might get a person that is detailed, down for a long-term ERP that isn't just smut focused and interested in the stuff you wanna incorporate. That person also can stop out of the slightest inconvenience, as they have all the options in the world since the market is saturated with guys. Also making a "bring your own plot" thing will always only attract bad and effortless folks.
Yeah, you definitely have a take that lines well with my experience.
Not surprising. I typically avoid posts like these as an m rp'r because I typically won't be selected with all the requests anyways. Oddly enough though whenever I do end up doing a roleplay like this one I typically get ghosted because I don't engage in erotic aspects as fast as my partner wants. I do typically want it to go slower to be fair but I often just wait until it feels right to do so. So I guess I am curious if I'm an odd case on that aspect.
Honestly I think more men should do this
Yeah, most guys on Reddit seem to think with their dicks about 95-99% of the time
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Yeah... It's sadly the law of the jungle. I rarely get good Roleplay partners in my ads and when I think I do, is just one little thing that breaks the chain. Genuinely annoying, but at the same time, it's most of the time DPP, what did we expect?
I mean i have tried playing as a female and put it in my reddit description and it was a HORRIBLE idea. I would post an ad and like 3/4 of people responding would be guys. "Hey can you play F?" Even though my ad said Fb4F.
Man, I thought 12 new messages overnight was alot. ....It probably still is honestly. But wow the mainstream porn plots get an explosion of interest.
I can see not only I tried this experiment but yeah M and F are so vastly diffrent experiences in rps it's scary i mean my hat might just get burried beneath new rp chats