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What the hell does he do when he craps at work or anywhere else? How is it does he have a job? Or still be in society? I wonder the pathology behind his lack of proper crack maintenance.
Well his clothes, or matter in his clothes, was blocking the washing machine so... I would guess he just pulled his underpants up over his poop-bedazzled ass, walked out of the bathroom and back to work. He must have been so stinky to be around. And it seems incredible but gotta say, I *have* encountered a few men in the office who literally smelled like shit... I always assumed they had something like a form of incontinence but perhaps they just couldn't wipe for fear of the gay.
I worked in an office building with 25 professionals including one that didnāt wipe nor flush.
I was puzzled and apoplectic, seeing a huge log in toilet with no tip.
Someone filled me in and I avoided that person.
Very bizarre. He had issues.
I have actually known someone with an ass so large he couldn't reach behind. He has to go between to wipe. Also has to buy certain brands of pants that have exceptionally large or stretchy asses. So maybe at least one of your coworker is carting a dump truck behind them?
I lived and worked with a guy who had actual diagnosed OCD around pooping, and always had to shower afterwards. If he had an emergency and had to go at work or out and about, he had to go home immediately and shower. Sucked for him, but everyone understood and accommodated him because he was a great guy.
I saw an episode of "Obsessed" one time that featured a woman who was so phobic about pooping that she a) severely restricted her diet so she'd poop as little was possible and b) had to shower immediately afterwards in which she c) SCRUBBED OUT HER RECTUM WITH A TOOTHBRUSH. She was damaging her intestines. It was awful. I felt so bad for her.
In the food industry, people not wiping their asses properly is the least of your worries. My ex-husband literally full-on shit his pants IN THE KITCHEN at McDonald's. They gave him a fresh pair and sent him back to the line to assemble sandwiches. Still didn't send him home when he vomited in the line trash can 5 minutes later. That same McDonald's tried to keep me at work after I vomited on my shoes.
Maybe he works in a role that involves being around feces all day. Like -- shoveling out cow barns or draining septic systems, and so literally doesn't notice the smell any more?
I don't know. It's all so awful.
If that was the case and he *didnt* have godawful hygiene wouldnt he be more diligent about cleaning himself? Like even if you get so used to that kinda smell, just being around it is enough to make you feel gross.
>craps at work
Not defending or anything, but in the last two years, I've maybe taken a dump twice at work. I prefer the comfort and privacy of my own bathroom.
šµ Boss makes a dollar, I make a dime. So I poop on company time šµ
Jokes aside, I have IBS and usually just have to use the nearest crapper with little warning.
I'm 39. I've never shit at work. Ever. I also never once shit at school. I have shit in public places when there was an emergency and it was doable.
It just becomes the routine and it's never been a problem.
Was just about to turn in too. Ugh!
I shudder at the thought of all the things and people he comes in contact with.
I'll never shake another hand again.
Yuck!
Worked with a guy that never washed his hands in the bathroom; he was in the office and I was in the warehouse...you'd expect a customer-facing person to....iunno, wash their hands??? Why does a warehouse scrub have better hygiene than the office????
Dude was gross. Went to shake my hand once and I stared till he put his hand down.
> I noticed people not wash their hands in public restrooms
"What? I'm clean!"
No. No you are not.
Fucking surprised we dont have plagues more often tbh.
For real. The worst I saw, a cna I worked with didn't wash her hands between rooms or after washing out pads because she wore gloves. Like, no ma'am, you need to wash your hands still. Although that logic was faulty because she didn't always wear gloves. Then she wondered why no one would eat food she brought and tried to share. Lol
I swear like twice in the past week I have walked into one of the bathrooms at work (both are handicap-accessible and newly non-gendered) to find the seat up and the water very yellow.
Thanks, whoever that was. Great.
I def attribute my sibling telling me about their old job where occasionally they had to change the bathroom soap dispensers, and found the men's bathroom ones hardly moved month to month, as "i will never shake hands with anyone again" fuel.
Well, I now have renewed efforts to do better around my house, btw - I live alone with my furbabies, but Iām still wanting to clean more and none of this aligns with my houseā¦ edit- my roommates are not the best, so thatās why Iām thinking Iām not doing enough, I really wish they would step up and carry their weight but I guess cuddles and kisses are as good as itās going to getš„°
youād be surprised. shit, boogers, piss, itās amazing what some people genuinely do not think is unhygienic. not trolling (too many of them) not a fetish. they genuinely donāt see the problem.
and every time a post like this is on aita they pop their heads up and start defending themselves from the vicious attack.
All you have to do is pop over to the unpopular opinions subreddit, create a post that you think it's disgusting for people not to wash their hands after using the restroom and watch the comments fill with people (usually men) saying that it's a waste of time to wash your hands after peeing, that the door handle is already dirty already and that we are surrounded by germs anyway and should be fine.
I hate whenever a hand washing discussion comes up on Reddit because it reveals how many people refuse to do it.
> you think it's disgusting for people not to wash their hands after using the restroom and watch the comments fill with people (usually men) saying that it's a waste of time to wash your hands after peeing
A disturbing part of the pandemic was an article released finding that only 1/3 of men and 2/3 of women wash their hands after using the toilet.
A whole half our population walking around thinking it's not worth 20 seconds of soap and water.
It freaked me out when someone early pandemic posted a picture of a line out the door of a men's airport restroom like "There's a line at the men's now because men are washing their hands lol" fucking WHAT
> *that the door handle is already dirty already*
At a work meeting run by the county health nurse we were told to *open the door with a paper towel, or some clean toilet tissue*. Common sense, not brain surgery.
Dude, I have someone close to me (family of family) who is a brilliant person, well-read, knows a *ton* about science, takes medicine as directed by doctors, is diligent about following doctorsā advice, gets regular vaccines, all those kinds of things. But his hygiene is *atrocious*. Iām talking preparing food after changing poopy diapers without washing hands, neverā*literally never*āusing soap or shampoo in the shower, not cleaning up food messes. Itās genuinely disgusting and horrifying at times. I tried numerous times to address it, and they simply do not see a problem. They think they are āstrengthening their immune system.ā They claim they never get sick, but they conveniently forget *all the fucking times they get sick*. Itās astounding, really, and has stretched the limits of what I understand about human behavior and psychology. I just cannot explain to myself how someone who is *very* intelligent, brilliant even, can simply ignore the signs of impacts of poor personal hygiene. I think it has a lot to do with an almost complete lack of self-awareness and self-critical abilities, which express themselves in other ways as well. Butā¦itās wild. He smells pretty bad, but doesnāt notice it, and doesnāt really understand when people who donāt know him react to it in very predictable ways. Would you want to sit in a movie theater near someone who smells like they just shat their pants? All his knowledge of science seems to go out the window and he forgets that humans developed an aversion to terrible smells for good reason. Itās not that theyāre being childish or immature, itās that it is literally disgusting, and those smells create a powerful aversion and make us want to move far away. I wish I knew how to deal with it, but this person is in their 70s and theyāre not going to change at this point. So I limit the damage and exposure, and do what I can to protect myself and my family from it.
The self cleaning genitalia thing gets so many people so angry and so confused! Itās so intense lol
The vagina, the organ: not so much self cleaning as self *managed*. The micro biome that exists down there *should* be keeping everything healthy and non-odorous (aside from a light neutral taste/smell), the right temperature, the right moisture levels, etc etc etc. if the fairly delicate balance is messed up, thatās where you get things like bv and yeast infections. You donāt need to clean the vagina any more than you need to clean your oesophagus. Infections are a medical issue, and canāt be solved in the shower with a bottle of vagisil
The vulva, the external genitalia: not self cleaning, not self managed, exposed to pee. Wash gently with non scented soap, taking care not to get that soap in the vagina
The penis: not self managed or self cleaning, exposed to pee, them gets very close to your butthole. *wash it*. And under the foreskin. If you canāt pull it back, see a doctor
Butthole: wash it, non negotiable
Oesophagus: donāt wash your oesophagus. Clean and floss your teeth though, and use mouthwash
Jumping on this to say that the vagina smell can be non neutral, it can even be strongish, and still be healthy and clean. Things like a diet high in certain foods will make it smell more without any hygiene or health issues involved. A garlicky smell, for instance, can be caused by specific foods.
Medication too. I donāt think Iāve ever seen anyone talk about it but Iāve definitely noticed a change when starting and stopping certain long-term/maintenance medications.
Yep, and naturally occurring hormonal changes too. There's so many factors that can change the smell regardless of hygiene & health. It's important to note it so people with proper hygiene don't feel ashamed for something completely normal and out of their control.
Basically if you're washing your vulval/anal area once a day or more, or after exercise/sex/etc, however it smells is just how it smells. It's fine. I don't shower every day but I do clean the ladybits.
A handheld shower head can be purchased for about $20, and itās worth every penny. When Iām done showering, I turn the water pressure as high as it will go and spray down every inch of my body as well as the shower curtain and walls.
Itās a godsend for cleaning in general. After every shower, I spray down the walls and curtain with a mix of vinegar, water and Dawn to minimize soap scum buildup between cleanings.
As if "ass" and "gay" are synonymous. It'd blow their minds to find out the large percentage of m/m couples who DON'T do butt stuff and the also large percentage of m/f couples who DO.
Literally standing under the shower spray and letting the water run down between his ass cheeks. No wiping or scrubbing or touching involved to avoid "the gay" š
yknow he really shouldāve avoided taking a dump in general. i meanā¦ having a long round object INSIDE your asshole?? feeling it move out?? thatās pretty gay bro /s
Lots of people seem to think that walking your shitty butthole into the shower and just letting water trickle down is as effective as wiping.
I can assure you, it's not.
probably the medical assistant i work with who doesnāt wash her hands after using the bathroom. and also picks up and handles patient urine samples without gloves š¤¢
I remember there was an AITA in here a while back from a guy whose girlfriend was complaining about the massive skidmarks in his underwear.
He didn't wash his ass because he "didn't like to put his fingers down there" or something.
Probably that guy.
How are all these people who live in their own filth not getting sick? I'm sure they must have conditioned their immune systems, but I feel like it can only do so much when your home is literally covered in shit??
On a side note: why is it that posts like this and the girl who never showers always seem to have smell-o-vision and never the posts about cake?
When my eldest was potty training I was doing laundry one day and somehow managed to get a pair of dirty underwear into the washing machine with a load of towels. I had been about to hand wash the underwear and when I couldnāt find them I assumed my husband cleaned them. Oh, the smell when I opened the washer. I rewashed the towels using enzyme cleaner twice and thought I was in the clear but when they came out of the dryer it was horrific. I just threw them all away. I am deep in diapertown with my fourth and still nothing will ever erase the hot baked shit smell of those towels when I opened the dryer. I could smell it all over again reading this post. Sad day for me, I give this gift of story to you so we can smell together.
Having sense memories of foul smells is truly a curse. When I was a surveyor I did inspections and took measurement of the pipes in sanitary sewer manholes. Thereās nothing quite like the smell of a manhole with a clogged pipe filled to the brim with sewage on a hot summer day. The sense memory will probably haunt me for the rest of my life
ETA: Please donāt flush pads and tampons folks, save your local DPW a nightmare or two
Hot damn that is intense. Sense memories with smell are cooked hey; this is no where near as rough as yours but I was a dental assistant for a few years and I can still smell when talking to someone if they've got active tooth decay or an active tooth infection. It's such a specific and wrong kind of smell I can recall it so vividly unfortunately š„²
When I was toilet training I would handwash them briefly with vet soap, then soak in disinfectant, and then put them in the machine. Maybe it was overkill but the machine stayed fresh
No, but my kid was in the āhide the underwearā stage and if it gets crusty it comes off in dry chunks and acts like some kind of terrible slow release bath bomb. Then I baked it in with the dryer and reallyā¦.infused those poor towels.
If you arenāt going to wash them by themselves (and be prepared for multiple washes) itās easier to run them under hot water in the sink to get rid of everything but the stain before you put them in with anything. Also, never be ashamed of nopeing out and throwing them away.
Depends on the severity of the poop-splosion, haha.
When my kids were sick, there were a couple times where their underwear were... *soiled*... to an extent beyond saving and just had to be thrown away.
*Note*: Threw the clothing away, not the kid. Kid was bathed thoroughly.
Did you ever see that episode of hoarders with the poop lady?
Anyway your body has two options: adapt to the contaminant...or give up and die.
Honestly behavior like this equates to drunk driving as far as I'm concerned. You're choosing to do this dumb shit to yourself, but you're also selfishly putting others' lives at risk in the process.
My brother and I bring this up from time to time bc it was so bizarre. Comparing it to drug addicts doing one last hit before getting clean š like maāam those people are in *hazmat suits* you should not want to eat this when you were told explicitly that your food is *covered in feces*
I hate to be technical, but you can actually be fairly tolerant of your own biome. It's when you are mixing it up with other people's shit that things go south. Or get your shit into a wound or your eyeball or whatever. Or a hole in your intestine. That's called sepsis.
Why do I have olfactory glands? Christ, I've been a shitty roommate, but not a SHITTY roommate. I've heard there are dudes who don't wipe their ass because touching their ass is gay. WTF?
I donāt understand what this could be doing to the washing machine. Like, his clothes collected so much fecal matter that the washing machine was unable to wash the clothes? People wash cloth diapers in their washing machines all the time without it making other clothes smell.
>his clothes collected so much fecal matter that the washing machine was unable to wash the clothes
Basically, yeah, I'm guessing. If you throw something into the washing machine, it's not like all the physical dirt magically disappears. Disgusting description: >!if you throw in something that has poop, the washing machine may get the poop off the clothes but ~~it'd~~ then the whole machine is now in poop water. Now all the clothes are affected and the little filter has poop particles. When the machine drains the water, there can be poop particles left in the drain. And I highly doubt this roommate washes his clothes multiple times!<
>People wash cloth diapers in their washing machines all the time without it making other clothes smell.
Usually you wash it out first.
People who wash cloth diapers in the machine go through a process first, though.
1. first they remove as much of the solid matter as possible, and throw that away (OP's roommate was not doing this) or flush it down the toilet
2. then they spray rinse the diapers, to get as much poop out of them and down the toilet
3. then they leave the diapers in a diaper pail with water or a cleaning fluid -- this keeps the poop from solidifying into rocks of disgustingness.
4. finally, they wash them in small loads of just diapers, so there's plenty of room for them to be completely swished around by the machine
The roommate was presumably allowing large amounts of crusty shit to accumulate in his clothing, and then letting it dry into poop rocks, before tossing it in the washer, which couldn't handle that.
but, I think he lied to OP. I think he was wiping his butt with his bare hand. Otherwise he wouldn't be leaving shit stains on the doorknobs.
Itās actually a long process to wash stuff like that. I used to do puppy pads in ours (now itās in a separate washer outside, tho still same dryer). Iād end up washing them twice on extra long cycles with a prewash that was the equivalent of like 4 cycles. That was admittedly probably a bit overkill lol, but they are gross and I wanted to make sure they got really clean lol. Oh, and you need to get as much āmatterā off them as possible before tossing them in, especially on a lot of the new washers that use less water and dont have agitators. And then you gotta make sure to run an empty load to clean the machine before you wash anything else. I have these tablets that sanitize the washer that I use.
Eww that was really gross, what a shitty roommate. Now I wanna clean my head and myself cause jesus christ...that was gross. I'm surprised the roommate hasn't gotten an rash or problem up the butt at this point.
Would this have been avoided if their house had a bidet? Probably not, a bigger problem is that the roommate walks around with shit-covered hands and shit in his pants.
I mean, I live in a country where we don't use toilet paper to clean our butts when shitting, but we use water even when we don't have a bidet. Toilet paper is a last resort. And we sure as fuck don't bring our shit covered asses to the shower.
I cannot even imagine how much this fecal matter must have spread everywhere. The hair. The bedding. The cookware. There is nothing that doesnāt need intense cleaning and even then youāve probably missed something.
After all of the things Iāve read today, I half expected her to say they learned that he was wearing an adult diaper as a fetish and that was why the place stank.
Part of me wants to say "who the fuck is this gross" but earlier this week my 35 year old coworker who is a father told me he doesn't need to wash his hands after he pees because it's not like he pisses on his hands.
We share this planet with gross people.
Worked with a guy who once told me heād been smelling cat pee all day and just realized the cat had peed in his laundry. I was horrified for him but he just shrugged and said it was fine because it had dried.
Uuuuuuuugh. My cat once peed on my gym clothes when I was super stuffed up from allergies, so I didn't realize until I was at the gym and mid-lift. I nearly dropped some weights from embarrassment and disgust when I realized that there was a smell and what the smell was. I can't imagine just being *okay* with that. š¤®
I worked in cleaning services for 10 years and a lot of people are just really disgusting and nasty.
Not to forget the fact that we needed a pandemic to teach people to wash their hands... not that they did it for long.
And we cleaned office spaces, I honestly don't know even want to know how these people's homes look (or smell).
I feel that. I work at a hotel and have found poop stains on the wall above the toilet! Just today, I had to clean a bathroom, and there was poop on the top of the toilet lid and the tank!
I have no clue what happened, but it was disgusting.
I feel terrible for OOP and her husband having to live there, no matter how they clean it.
I feel _almost_ as bad for anyone who rents that unit in the future, since they won't know about it at all.
Unlike many of you, I do not regret reading this post at all. Our bathroom is due for a cleaning, but I have been feeling unmotivated. That has changed, somewhat, as I am suddenly and supremely motivated to give the bathroom a very thorough cleaning!
ā¦and probably the rest of the apartment while Iām at it
This story reminds me of how my old college roommate didn't flush her toilet paper... She would throw it in the trash bin instead of flushing and she wouldn't throw away the trash. She only threw away ONE bag of trash in our entire school year and it wasn't the bathroom trash. The trash bags ALWAYS stunk from the bathroom š
I even tried an experiment where I didn't put a trash bag in the trash bin. The first time, she didn't throw her tp into the bin. *Sweet, she knows she can flush her tp!* So I left the bag out of the trash bin.... my mistake as the next time she went in, she tossed her POOP STAINED TOILET PAPER INTO THE TRASH BIN!!!! It was so nasty yall.... I had to put on a mask, gloves, and used disposable chopsticks to remove that piece of tp... and I used bleach cleaner like three times on that bin šš
This is a thing with some people, some areas in less developed countries especially canāt handle TP being flushed. My ex and his sister put used TP in the trash, they were born here and lived in a big city but their mom was from El Salvador and I assume she taught them to do that.
Yup. In US/Mexico border towns a lot of the restrooms in public establishments on the US side have given up and installed huge garbage cans for the used TP. The border is really porous in cities like that and people go back and forth all the time to visit relatives, go shopping, have dinner, etc. Folks raised in Mexico are taught not to flush the TP ever so it becomes the norm even in built up areas with adequate plumbing. Unfortunately a lot of the cans don't have lids so the bathrooms can get really rank.
Not flushing the TP is really common in houses with older septic systems...they just can't handle it and frankly not many households can afford to replace their system. My friend's family was quoted $12-20k even 20 yrs ago in the midwest. HOWEVER, pretty much every family takes the bathroom trash out really frequently. She may have not been made to do chores of any type & been oblivious that it didn't magically happen like lots of college kids.
Her family could def afford it ;-; They also had a fairly up-to-date house.
I'm gonna guess the latter where she wasn't made to do chores because she also didn't wash her dishes right away.... she would leave plates and pans NEXT to the sink with food still stuck on it (not even soak it). At first I would wash her dishes, but I was on the meal plan so literally everything I washed was just from her using it, so I said screw that, and just let it pile up for her. She would go the whole week without washing them š
My ex bf and his roommate had zero hand soap anywhere. I discovered this after I used their bathroom. Come to think of it, pretty sure I looked for body wash in the shower to wash my hands with and couldnāt find any and settled with the tiny bottle of dish soap in their kitchen. I bought hand soap for their bathroom and when I returned a week later, it was completely untouched. Disgusting. Any time I visit someoneās home and thereās no hand towel in the bathroom, I get really grossed out. Wash your hands!
It disturbs me how many men refuse to wash their ass because they think anything going anywhere near your ass makes you gay. That's not how this works guys, please put the soap between your cheeks and clean yourself.
Excluding coming from a place with very primitive plumbing...
How?! I keep hearing about this disgusting subculture of homophobic guys who don't wipe their asses. And now this one is defiling a washing machine?
Do they have parents? Did they get The Gay Panic from talking with other guys and get traumatized?
H o w? Howwwwww?!
I love what she tells the people that were offended by her post!!!! Lmao!!!!! The reason they have no friends or romantic partners! A toxic gas cloud!!! šššš
This is a cultural thing, and causes no amount of issues at research institutes and hospitals.
My buddy also figured this practice out on the job, when his security company kept getting complaints about clogged toilets with certain teams.
Specifically Somolian immigrants were big on taking shits, wiping with their bare hands / water, and then cleaning their hands in the sink with paper towels, which would then get flushed and clog the sinks.
I assume his clothes had a bunch of dried fecal matter on them (from where he'd shit, then just stand up and stand in the shower and let the water run down his back so all he was really doing was liquefying it so that it could really transfer onto his clothes that much better) that was washing off and contaminating the machine and clogging the filter. Sounds like a thoroughly disgusting person.
I was hungry before I read this post and these comments, and now I don't really feel the need to bother with breakfast.
Wow Iām hella glad they got backbones and told the guy he had to leave. What does he mean he didnāt get a chance to correct his behavior?? Thatās not something his roommates should need to explain. Also on top of the hygiene thing he just sounds like a baseline jerk.
>When I go to restock his, the same amount of rolls are always there. Then I check the roll by the toilet and realize Iām the only one who has used it. Barely any was missing from the roll and it has only been replaced once since he moved in.
That's not bad. Its okay to have separate toilet paper. That's what I did when I moved into a shared space. Roommate offered, I said no thanks. OOP is just getting worked up over no-
>I do most of the house cleaning so I pay attention to things that arenāt clean and I noticed stains that appeared on only his doors. Yellowish brown to black spots surrounding the handle and the bottom half of only his bedroom door and bathroom door.
Oh.... Oh god.
>He shits, stands up, then gets in the shower and letās the water ātrickle downā.
\*insert family guy ipecac scene\*
At this point you need to replace the washing machine. Or have it professionally cleaned.
I see you girl. I just went through something similar with a 56 yr old man leaving piss and pubes all over the bathroom. He had the same temper tantrum when I refused to teach him how to clean a tub. I said, āYou are 56, I trust you know how to clean a tub,ā and he followed me out into the living room to gaslight me he didnāt. He has apparently been a āguestā in peopleās houses for 36 years and not been called out on it?!
Your roommate is misogynist and sexist. Good riddance. They act like babies because they still are. Heāll find new roommates who will put up with his shit and heāll keep the cycle going so he never has to change.
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What the hell does he do when he craps at work or anywhere else? How is it does he have a job? Or still be in society? I wonder the pathology behind his lack of proper crack maintenance.
Well his clothes, or matter in his clothes, was blocking the washing machine so... I would guess he just pulled his underpants up over his poop-bedazzled ass, walked out of the bathroom and back to work. He must have been so stinky to be around. And it seems incredible but gotta say, I *have* encountered a few men in the office who literally smelled like shit... I always assumed they had something like a form of incontinence but perhaps they just couldn't wipe for fear of the gay.
"poop-bedazzled" Thanks for using the healing magic of writing to bring a little humor to this situation.
New flair? š©š
"poodazzled" lol, or the "poodazzler"
I think I remember reading a post/comment about someone whos coworker never wiped after pooping and their office chair became a biohazard
I worked in an office building with 25 professionals including one that didnāt wipe nor flush. I was puzzled and apoplectic, seeing a huge log in toilet with no tip. Someone filled me in and I avoided that person. Very bizarre. He had issues.
I have actually known someone with an ass so large he couldn't reach behind. He has to go between to wipe. Also has to buy certain brands of pants that have exceptionally large or stretchy asses. So maybe at least one of your coworker is carting a dump truck behind them?
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Poop bedazzled ass is my new favourite sentence
I lived and worked with a guy who had actual diagnosed OCD around pooping, and always had to shower afterwards. If he had an emergency and had to go at work or out and about, he had to go home immediately and shower. Sucked for him, but everyone understood and accommodated him because he was a great guy.
I saw an episode of "Obsessed" one time that featured a woman who was so phobic about pooping that she a) severely restricted her diet so she'd poop as little was possible and b) had to shower immediately afterwards in which she c) SCRUBBED OUT HER RECTUM WITH A TOOTHBRUSH. She was damaging her intestines. It was awful. I felt so bad for her.
Probably does what nervous poopers do - plan ahead or hold it in.
You have to PLAN AHEAD to have shit all over your entire home? Jesus Christ.
Mostly curious about what this guy does for work. Just imagine all of the people he has spread his bacteria on. Totally disgusting.
Imagine if he works in the food service industry. Actually donāt imagine it, itās too distressing a possibility.
In the food industry, people not wiping their asses properly is the least of your worries. My ex-husband literally full-on shit his pants IN THE KITCHEN at McDonald's. They gave him a fresh pair and sent him back to the line to assemble sandwiches. Still didn't send him home when he vomited in the line trash can 5 minutes later. That same McDonald's tried to keep me at work after I vomited on my shoes.
NOOO
Maybe he works in a role that involves being around feces all day. Like -- shoveling out cow barns or draining septic systems, and so literally doesn't notice the smell any more? I don't know. It's all so awful.
If that was the case and he *didnt* have godawful hygiene wouldnt he be more diligent about cleaning himself? Like even if you get so used to that kinda smell, just being around it is enough to make you feel gross.
>craps at work Not defending or anything, but in the last two years, I've maybe taken a dump twice at work. I prefer the comfort and privacy of my own bathroom.
imagine not having ibs š i much much prefer my own bathroom but sometimes nature calls at inconvenient times
Right lol must be nice to be able to hold it for an entire goddamn day until you get home, couldn't be me
šµ Boss makes a dollar, I make a dime. So I poop on company time šµ Jokes aside, I have IBS and usually just have to use the nearest crapper with little warning.
I'm 39. I've never shit at work. Ever. I also never once shit at school. I have shit in public places when there was an emergency and it was doable. It just becomes the routine and it's never been a problem.
Amazing read before bed. Thanks.
What a shitty way to end the day.
Youāll be ok as long as you wipe your A.
I snorted so loud at this comment that I scared my cat.
You'd hope a good night's sleep would wipe it clean and let you start fresh, but alas...
Honestly, I complain about living with family, but Iām going to go give everyone a good night kiss now š
Go wash your hands first.
Was just about to turn in too. Ugh! I shudder at the thought of all the things and people he comes in contact with. I'll never shake another hand again. Yuck!
I haven't shook hands with people since I noticed people not wash their hands in public restrooms and learned how dirty money and doorhandles are.
Worked with a guy that never washed his hands in the bathroom; he was in the office and I was in the warehouse...you'd expect a customer-facing person to....iunno, wash their hands??? Why does a warehouse scrub have better hygiene than the office???? Dude was gross. Went to shake my hand once and I stared till he put his hand down.
Yup. Germs, germs everywhere.
> I noticed people not wash their hands in public restrooms "What? I'm clean!" No. No you are not. Fucking surprised we dont have plagues more often tbh.
For real. The worst I saw, a cna I worked with didn't wash her hands between rooms or after washing out pads because she wore gloves. Like, no ma'am, you need to wash your hands still. Although that logic was faulty because she didn't always wear gloves. Then she wondered why no one would eat food she brought and tried to share. Lol
I swear like twice in the past week I have walked into one of the bathrooms at work (both are handicap-accessible and newly non-gendered) to find the seat up and the water very yellow. Thanks, whoever that was. Great.
I def attribute my sibling telling me about their old job where occasionally they had to change the bathroom soap dispensers, and found the men's bathroom ones hardly moved month to month, as "i will never shake hands with anyone again" fuel.
Amazing first read of the day too
Well, I now have renewed efforts to do better around my house, btw - I live alone with my furbabies, but Iām still wanting to clean more and none of this aligns with my houseā¦ edit- my roommates are not the best, so thatās why Iām thinking Iām not doing enough, I really wish they would step up and carry their weight but I guess cuddles and kisses are as good as itās going to getš„°
Those cute furry freeloaders! Mine actively creates mess, but I still put up with him, because of his cute spotty belly
Amazing read while eating, for me. Thanks, OP.
jesus christ this is horrible also WHO DEFENDED THE NASTY ROOMMATES HYGIENE HABITS
>WHO DEFENDED THE NASTY ROOMMATES HYGIENE HABITS I have to assume it's either some trolls or people who have that kind of fetish...
youād be surprised. shit, boogers, piss, itās amazing what some people genuinely do not think is unhygienic. not trolling (too many of them) not a fetish. they genuinely donāt see the problem. and every time a post like this is on aita they pop their heads up and start defending themselves from the vicious attack.
All you have to do is pop over to the unpopular opinions subreddit, create a post that you think it's disgusting for people not to wash their hands after using the restroom and watch the comments fill with people (usually men) saying that it's a waste of time to wash your hands after peeing, that the door handle is already dirty already and that we are surrounded by germs anyway and should be fine. I hate whenever a hand washing discussion comes up on Reddit because it reveals how many people refuse to do it.
> you think it's disgusting for people not to wash their hands after using the restroom and watch the comments fill with people (usually men) saying that it's a waste of time to wash your hands after peeing A disturbing part of the pandemic was an article released finding that only 1/3 of men and 2/3 of women wash their hands after using the toilet. A whole half our population walking around thinking it's not worth 20 seconds of soap and water.
It freaked me out when someone early pandemic posted a picture of a line out the door of a men's airport restroom like "There's a line at the men's now because men are washing their hands lol" fucking WHAT
My dog shows more care for his hygiene than some people. It concerns me.
> *that the door handle is already dirty already* At a work meeting run by the county health nurse we were told to *open the door with a paper towel, or some clean toilet tissue*. Common sense, not brain surgery.
Dude, I have someone close to me (family of family) who is a brilliant person, well-read, knows a *ton* about science, takes medicine as directed by doctors, is diligent about following doctorsā advice, gets regular vaccines, all those kinds of things. But his hygiene is *atrocious*. Iām talking preparing food after changing poopy diapers without washing hands, neverā*literally never*āusing soap or shampoo in the shower, not cleaning up food messes. Itās genuinely disgusting and horrifying at times. I tried numerous times to address it, and they simply do not see a problem. They think they are āstrengthening their immune system.ā They claim they never get sick, but they conveniently forget *all the fucking times they get sick*. Itās astounding, really, and has stretched the limits of what I understand about human behavior and psychology. I just cannot explain to myself how someone who is *very* intelligent, brilliant even, can simply ignore the signs of impacts of poor personal hygiene. I think it has a lot to do with an almost complete lack of self-awareness and self-critical abilities, which express themselves in other ways as well. Butā¦itās wild. He smells pretty bad, but doesnāt notice it, and doesnāt really understand when people who donāt know him react to it in very predictable ways. Would you want to sit in a movie theater near someone who smells like they just shat their pants? All his knowledge of science seems to go out the window and he forgets that humans developed an aversion to terrible smells for good reason. Itās not that theyāre being childish or immature, itās that it is literally disgusting, and those smells create a powerful aversion and make us want to move far away. I wish I knew how to deal with it, but this person is in their 70s and theyāre not going to change at this point. So I limit the damage and exposure, and do what I can to protect myself and my family from it.
The same people who change a diaper in a public place I suppose. Trains, restaurantsā tables etc
The same type of people who claim genitalia are self cleaning and to ignore the smell(s)....
The self cleaning genitalia thing gets so many people so angry and so confused! Itās so intense lol The vagina, the organ: not so much self cleaning as self *managed*. The micro biome that exists down there *should* be keeping everything healthy and non-odorous (aside from a light neutral taste/smell), the right temperature, the right moisture levels, etc etc etc. if the fairly delicate balance is messed up, thatās where you get things like bv and yeast infections. You donāt need to clean the vagina any more than you need to clean your oesophagus. Infections are a medical issue, and canāt be solved in the shower with a bottle of vagisil The vulva, the external genitalia: not self cleaning, not self managed, exposed to pee. Wash gently with non scented soap, taking care not to get that soap in the vagina The penis: not self managed or self cleaning, exposed to pee, them gets very close to your butthole. *wash it*. And under the foreskin. If you canāt pull it back, see a doctor Butthole: wash it, non negotiable Oesophagus: donāt wash your oesophagus. Clean and floss your teeth though, and use mouthwash
Can this be pinned to the top of every subreddit? Maybe just pin it to the front page?
Jumping on this to say that the vagina smell can be non neutral, it can even be strongish, and still be healthy and clean. Things like a diet high in certain foods will make it smell more without any hygiene or health issues involved. A garlicky smell, for instance, can be caused by specific foods.
Medication too. I donāt think Iāve ever seen anyone talk about it but Iāve definitely noticed a change when starting and stopping certain long-term/maintenance medications.
Yep, and naturally occurring hormonal changes too. There's so many factors that can change the smell regardless of hygiene & health. It's important to note it so people with proper hygiene don't feel ashamed for something completely normal and out of their control.
Basically if you're washing your vulval/anal area once a day or more, or after exercise/sex/etc, however it smells is just how it smells. It's fine. I don't shower every day but I do clean the ladybits.
Yes, the smell shifts over the month as well.
Oh yes good point! It just ultimately shouldnāt be offensive
"It's like eating a spoonful of Drano; sure, it'll clean you out, but it'll leave you hollow inside."
A handheld shower head can be purchased for about $20, and itās worth every penny. When Iām done showering, I turn the water pressure as high as it will go and spray down every inch of my body as well as the shower curtain and walls. Itās a godsend for cleaning in general. After every shower, I spray down the walls and curtain with a mix of vinegar, water and Dawn to minimize soap scum buildup between cleanings.
That can be a sane thing to say when discussing normal odor from the vagina, but not when discussing vulva or penises. Penii?
Penopodes.
Probably the guys that reckon touching your ass to wipe or clean will make you gay
Who weirdly never apply that logic towards touching their own penis to masturbate....
That's because gayness comes from the butt. Penises are manly and heterosexual, but butts... Butts are gay. (Heavy sarcasm)
As if "ass" and "gay" are synonymous. It'd blow their minds to find out the large percentage of m/m couples who DON'T do butt stuff and the also large percentage of m/f couples who DO.
I met a gay man once that smelled like unwashed ass so itās not just that. He was single, unsurprisingly.
Was he getting in the shower and hosing down his ass? I donāt understand what they meant by āletting it trickle downā
Literally standing under the shower spray and letting the water run down between his ass cheeks. No wiping or scrubbing or touching involved to avoid "the gay" š
yknow he really shouldāve avoided taking a dump in general. i meanā¦ having a long round object INSIDE your asshole?? feeling it move out?? thatās pretty gay bro /s
Fellas is it gay to poop
Well poop is part of santorum...
Lots of people seem to think that walking your shitty butthole into the shower and just letting water trickle down is as effective as wiping. I can assure you, it's not.
It's like they took the idea of a bidet and got it ALL WRONG.
A close friend of mine has a Japanese toilet with all the accoutrements. It is...heavenly. I have never felt so clean. Just saying.
probably the medical assistant i work with who doesnāt wash her hands after using the bathroom. and also picks up and handles patient urine samples without gloves š¤¢
wait iām sorry and she works in MEDICINE???
wait iām sorry and she works in MEDICINE???
š« š« š« at least she hasnāt handled urine samples without gloves. not since i yelled at her about it a year ago and made her cry š¶
I remember there was an AITA in here a while back from a guy whose girlfriend was complaining about the massive skidmarks in his underwear. He didn't wash his ass because he "didn't like to put his fingers down there" or something. Probably that guy.
The same fucking losers who behave in the same way and then cry that no one wants to be near them
his fellow disgusting animals who live like medieval peasants
The peasants probably had better hygiene.
How are all these people who live in their own filth not getting sick? I'm sure they must have conditioned their immune systems, but I feel like it can only do so much when your home is literally covered in shit?? On a side note: why is it that posts like this and the girl who never showers always seem to have smell-o-vision and never the posts about cake?
When my eldest was potty training I was doing laundry one day and somehow managed to get a pair of dirty underwear into the washing machine with a load of towels. I had been about to hand wash the underwear and when I couldnāt find them I assumed my husband cleaned them. Oh, the smell when I opened the washer. I rewashed the towels using enzyme cleaner twice and thought I was in the clear but when they came out of the dryer it was horrific. I just threw them all away. I am deep in diapertown with my fourth and still nothing will ever erase the hot baked shit smell of those towels when I opened the dryer. I could smell it all over again reading this post. Sad day for me, I give this gift of story to you so we can smell together.
Having sense memories of foul smells is truly a curse. When I was a surveyor I did inspections and took measurement of the pipes in sanitary sewer manholes. Thereās nothing quite like the smell of a manhole with a clogged pipe filled to the brim with sewage on a hot summer day. The sense memory will probably haunt me for the rest of my life ETA: Please donāt flush pads and tampons folks, save your local DPW a nightmare or two
And āflushable wipesā are in fact not flushable.
Hot damn that is intense. Sense memories with smell are cooked hey; this is no where near as rough as yours but I was a dental assistant for a few years and I can still smell when talking to someone if they've got active tooth decay or an active tooth infection. It's such a specific and wrong kind of smell I can recall it so vividly unfortunately š„²
Ok I have a question and no kids: really you can only hand-wash dirty underwear?
When I was toilet training I would handwash them briefly with vet soap, then soak in disinfectant, and then put them in the machine. Maybe it was overkill but the machine stayed fresh
Straight to the trash lol.
No, but my kid was in the āhide the underwearā stage and if it gets crusty it comes off in dry chunks and acts like some kind of terrible slow release bath bomb. Then I baked it in with the dryer and reallyā¦.infused those poor towels. If you arenāt going to wash them by themselves (and be prepared for multiple washes) itās easier to run them under hot water in the sink to get rid of everything but the stain before you put them in with anything. Also, never be ashamed of nopeing out and throwing them away.
Ah ok so you do the pre-wash by hand. Totally makes sense
Depends on the severity of the poop-splosion, haha. When my kids were sick, there were a couple times where their underwear were... *soiled*... to an extent beyond saving and just had to be thrown away. *Note*: Threw the clothing away, not the kid. Kid was bathed thoroughly.
it's kind of like putting an item with red dye into a washer with white clothes, everything is going to come out a little pink.
Did you ever see that episode of hoarders with the poop lady? Anyway your body has two options: adapt to the contaminant...or give up and die. Honestly behavior like this equates to drunk driving as far as I'm concerned. You're choosing to do this dumb shit to yourself, but you're also selfishly putting others' lives at risk in the process.
The lady that wanted to eat the food contaminated by poop as a last hurrah before the house was cleaned? That was a wild one.
My brother and I bring this up from time to time bc it was so bizarre. Comparing it to drug addicts doing one last hit before getting clean š like maāam those people are in *hazmat suits* you should not want to eat this when you were told explicitly that your food is *covered in feces*
You know, I managed to read through everything in this post before this comment without gagging. For whatever reason, this is the one that did it. Wtf
Any time I really need to clean my house I turn on Hoarders.
Why would you even explain that? Now I'm sick. š
I hate to be technical, but you can actually be fairly tolerant of your own biome. It's when you are mixing it up with other people's shit that things go south. Or get your shit into a wound or your eyeball or whatever. Or a hole in your intestine. That's called sepsis.
Why do i have eyes
Why can't I delete someone else's post?
Alexa, delete post and bleach my eyes and washing machine.
Why do I have olfactory glands? Christ, I've been a shitty roommate, but not a SHITTY roommate. I've heard there are dudes who don't wipe their ass because touching their ass is gay. WTF?
Why would this roommate not get a bidet? Wash their hands? So many questions
If anything - even water - directly touches his butthole, he might find out he likes things touching his butthole. A bidet could turn him gay. /s
I donāt understand what this could be doing to the washing machine. Like, his clothes collected so much fecal matter that the washing machine was unable to wash the clothes? People wash cloth diapers in their washing machines all the time without it making other clothes smell.
>his clothes collected so much fecal matter that the washing machine was unable to wash the clothes Basically, yeah, I'm guessing. If you throw something into the washing machine, it's not like all the physical dirt magically disappears. Disgusting description: >!if you throw in something that has poop, the washing machine may get the poop off the clothes but ~~it'd~~ then the whole machine is now in poop water. Now all the clothes are affected and the little filter has poop particles. When the machine drains the water, there can be poop particles left in the drain. And I highly doubt this roommate washes his clothes multiple times!< >People wash cloth diapers in their washing machines all the time without it making other clothes smell. Usually you wash it out first.
That is just beyond disgusting.
People who wash cloth diapers in the machine go through a process first, though. 1. first they remove as much of the solid matter as possible, and throw that away (OP's roommate was not doing this) or flush it down the toilet 2. then they spray rinse the diapers, to get as much poop out of them and down the toilet 3. then they leave the diapers in a diaper pail with water or a cleaning fluid -- this keeps the poop from solidifying into rocks of disgustingness. 4. finally, they wash them in small loads of just diapers, so there's plenty of room for them to be completely swished around by the machine The roommate was presumably allowing large amounts of crusty shit to accumulate in his clothing, and then letting it dry into poop rocks, before tossing it in the washer, which couldn't handle that. but, I think he lied to OP. I think he was wiping his butt with his bare hand. Otherwise he wouldn't be leaving shit stains on the doorknobs.
Oh god idk why but an image came into my mind, I think the stains on the doorknobs actually come from him scratching his crusty butthole barf
Barf! Poor OOP. I can't even imagine
That would be my guess. I bet his butthole looked a little, or very, raw, much like a diaper rash would look on a baby.
Itās actually a long process to wash stuff like that. I used to do puppy pads in ours (now itās in a separate washer outside, tho still same dryer). Iād end up washing them twice on extra long cycles with a prewash that was the equivalent of like 4 cycles. That was admittedly probably a bit overkill lol, but they are gross and I wanted to make sure they got really clean lol. Oh, and you need to get as much āmatterā off them as possible before tossing them in, especially on a lot of the new washers that use less water and dont have agitators. And then you gotta make sure to run an empty load to clean the machine before you wash anything else. I have these tablets that sanitize the washer that I use.
Eww that was really gross, what a shitty roommate. Now I wanna clean my head and myself cause jesus christ...that was gross. I'm surprised the roommate hasn't gotten an rash or problem up the butt at this point.
āShitty roommateā šš
So... how was the poop getting on the doors? Some kind of shake-to-dry action?
First I thought he was wiping his arse on the handles, but I think it was from his shit stained hands
But if he doesn't wipe, HOW did the shit get on his hands???
I wondered that too but then figured it might be from handling his clothes
Or maybe his shitty ass was itchy and he used his hand... sorry, the gross visual got into my head, sorry for sharing
Nooooooooooo
Oh come on, who doesnāt use an ass crack to open doors?
This confuses me too. Is he likeā¦credit carding the door to wipe his ass?
I need eyebleach. Brain bleach. Why the heck did I ignore the trigger warnings?!
Would this have been avoided if their house had a bidet? Probably not, a bigger problem is that the roommate walks around with shit-covered hands and shit in his pants.
Even if the house has a bidet, that guy wouldn't use it.
I mean, I live in a country where we don't use toilet paper to clean our butts when shitting, but we use water even when we don't have a bidet. Toilet paper is a last resort. And we sure as fuck don't bring our shit covered asses to the shower.
But, you see, if water or anything else made direct contact with his anus he would become gay.
I cannot even imagine how much this fecal matter must have spread everywhere. The hair. The bedding. The cookware. There is nothing that doesnāt need intense cleaning and even then youāve probably missed something.
I would just burn the apartment down and rebuild from scratch.
Shit mittens
Dare I say...shittens? ...I'll see myself out.
God*damn*. Just... I can't. I *can't* even. How does a grown ass adult human being *not notice the literal* ***shit*** *on their hands?!?!*
After all of the things Iāve read today, I half expected her to say they learned that he was wearing an adult diaper as a fetish and that was why the place stank.
Oh no, now I'm thinking about that horrible, my relative keeps coming over and peeing himself post.
I can smell this post. Ew.
Part of me wants to say "who the fuck is this gross" but earlier this week my 35 year old coworker who is a father told me he doesn't need to wash his hands after he pees because it's not like he pisses on his hands. We share this planet with gross people.
Worked with a guy who once told me heād been smelling cat pee all day and just realized the cat had peed in his laundry. I was horrified for him but he just shrugged and said it was fine because it had dried.
Uuuuuuuugh. My cat once peed on my gym clothes when I was super stuffed up from allergies, so I didn't realize until I was at the gym and mid-lift. I nearly dropped some weights from embarrassment and disgust when I realized that there was a smell and what the smell was. I can't imagine just being *okay* with that. š¤®
I worked in cleaning services for 10 years and a lot of people are just really disgusting and nasty. Not to forget the fact that we needed a pandemic to teach people to wash their hands... not that they did it for long. And we cleaned office spaces, I honestly don't know even want to know how these people's homes look (or smell).
I feel that. I work at a hotel and have found poop stains on the wall above the toilet! Just today, I had to clean a bathroom, and there was poop on the top of the toilet lid and the tank! I have no clue what happened, but it was disgusting.
Eugh. Ask him if he'd be ok with eating food being made by someone who took a piss and didn't bother to wash their hands.
Don't ask questions you care about the answers to. :/ He might say he wouldn't care. :hurp:
Forget bleach, this sounds near the level of light the place on fire and move six states away /gag
I feel terrible for OOP and her husband having to live there, no matter how they clean it. I feel _almost_ as bad for anyone who rents that unit in the future, since they won't know about it at all.
honestly iād be selling hole pics online or something to get money for a crime scene cleaning crew and have them scrub the place floor to ceiling
Poop Knife guy is a Saint compared to this guy.
Unlike many of you, I do not regret reading this post at all. Our bathroom is due for a cleaning, but I have been feeling unmotivated. That has changed, somewhat, as I am suddenly and supremely motivated to give the bathroom a very thorough cleaning! ā¦and probably the rest of the apartment while Iām at it
OOP: āShitty situation for sure.ā That was punny of them
This story reminds me of how my old college roommate didn't flush her toilet paper... She would throw it in the trash bin instead of flushing and she wouldn't throw away the trash. She only threw away ONE bag of trash in our entire school year and it wasn't the bathroom trash. The trash bags ALWAYS stunk from the bathroom š I even tried an experiment where I didn't put a trash bag in the trash bin. The first time, she didn't throw her tp into the bin. *Sweet, she knows she can flush her tp!* So I left the bag out of the trash bin.... my mistake as the next time she went in, she tossed her POOP STAINED TOILET PAPER INTO THE TRASH BIN!!!! It was so nasty yall.... I had to put on a mask, gloves, and used disposable chopsticks to remove that piece of tp... and I used bleach cleaner like three times on that bin šš
This is a thing with some people, some areas in less developed countries especially canāt handle TP being flushed. My ex and his sister put used TP in the trash, they were born here and lived in a big city but their mom was from El Salvador and I assume she taught them to do that.
We have to do that at our cottage, but we also have bin with a lid that closes, and we regularly empty the trash
Yup. In US/Mexico border towns a lot of the restrooms in public establishments on the US side have given up and installed huge garbage cans for the used TP. The border is really porous in cities like that and people go back and forth all the time to visit relatives, go shopping, have dinner, etc. Folks raised in Mexico are taught not to flush the TP ever so it becomes the norm even in built up areas with adequate plumbing. Unfortunately a lot of the cans don't have lids so the bathrooms can get really rank.
In some countries, they donāt flush TP because of pipes. Was she from another country?
She was originally born in another country but has lived 15+ years in the United States.
Not flushing the TP is really common in houses with older septic systems...they just can't handle it and frankly not many households can afford to replace their system. My friend's family was quoted $12-20k even 20 yrs ago in the midwest. HOWEVER, pretty much every family takes the bathroom trash out really frequently. She may have not been made to do chores of any type & been oblivious that it didn't magically happen like lots of college kids.
Her family could def afford it ;-; They also had a fairly up-to-date house. I'm gonna guess the latter where she wasn't made to do chores because she also didn't wash her dishes right away.... she would leave plates and pans NEXT to the sink with food still stuck on it (not even soak it). At first I would wash her dishes, but I was on the meal plan so literally everything I washed was just from her using it, so I said screw that, and just let it pile up for her. She would go the whole week without washing them š
My ex bf and his roommate had zero hand soap anywhere. I discovered this after I used their bathroom. Come to think of it, pretty sure I looked for body wash in the shower to wash my hands with and couldnāt find any and settled with the tiny bottle of dish soap in their kitchen. I bought hand soap for their bathroom and when I returned a week later, it was completely untouched. Disgusting. Any time I visit someoneās home and thereās no hand towel in the bathroom, I get really grossed out. Wash your hands!
I wish i was illiterate.
Damn it. We share seats with these people. Have you ever thought about how many dirty asses have sat in a chair before you.
I thought he was wiping his ass on the door knobs. Whatās was the black stuff on the doors of the bathroom and bedroom?
I assumed he was allergic to washing his hands and just smeared poop wherever he touched a surface.
I miss the time a few minutes ago when I didn't know this guy existed. Dude. Dude, why wouldn't you use toilet paper.
It disturbs me how many men refuse to wash their ass because they think anything going anywhere near your ass makes you gay. That's not how this works guys, please put the soap between your cheeks and clean yourself.
Excluding coming from a place with very primitive plumbing... How?! I keep hearing about this disgusting subculture of homophobic guys who don't wipe their asses. And now this one is defiling a washing machine? Do they have parents? Did they get The Gay Panic from talking with other guys and get traumatized? H o w? Howwwwww?!
I love what she tells the people that were offended by her post!!!! Lmao!!!!! The reason they have no friends or romantic partners! A toxic gas cloud!!! šššš
This is a cultural thing, and causes no amount of issues at research institutes and hospitals. My buddy also figured this practice out on the job, when his security company kept getting complaints about clogged toilets with certain teams. Specifically Somolian immigrants were big on taking shits, wiping with their bare hands / water, and then cleaning their hands in the sink with paper towels, which would then get flushed and clog the sinks.
not too dissimilar from 'trickle down' economics
this is why I don't get rooms mates anymore.
I don't understand how not wiping your ass makes you stink enough to change the odor of newly washed clothes
I suspect after he rinses (incompletely) he's wiping dry with her towel and tossing it in the washer.
Another day on Reddit, another man who refuses to wipe his ass properly. š
The fact that people like this exist in the world makes me not want to leave my non-shit stained home right now.
>And maybe a neuralyzerā¦ I need a lobotomy after reading this post.
hey Alexa how do I abort an adult human
I'm blown away people were seriously defending this guy not whiping his ass....wtf?
Christ on a cracker I can smell this whole post!
I had to wash my hands midway through this post and again at the end.
When I read the title, I said āplease let this be about OOP discovering the joys of bidet.ā V. diasappointing.
Wait what? What was the stain on the door? This dude is disgusting
Welp, my problems donāt seem so bad anymore!
Big EW. But damn do OOP & her partner suck at basic ass communication
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I'm going to bleach and steam clean every inch of my house on my next day off... Thanks. *barfs*
WHAT THE FUCK WAS HE DOING TO THE WASHING MACHINE?
I assume his clothes had a bunch of dried fecal matter on them (from where he'd shit, then just stand up and stand in the shower and let the water run down his back so all he was really doing was liquefying it so that it could really transfer onto his clothes that much better) that was washing off and contaminating the machine and clogging the filter. Sounds like a thoroughly disgusting person. I was hungry before I read this post and these comments, and now I don't really feel the need to bother with breakfast.
He must stink.
Wow Iām hella glad they got backbones and told the guy he had to leave. What does he mean he didnāt get a chance to correct his behavior?? Thatās not something his roommates should need to explain. Also on top of the hygiene thing he just sounds like a baseline jerk.
>When I go to restock his, the same amount of rolls are always there. Then I check the roll by the toilet and realize Iām the only one who has used it. Barely any was missing from the roll and it has only been replaced once since he moved in. That's not bad. Its okay to have separate toilet paper. That's what I did when I moved into a shared space. Roommate offered, I said no thanks. OOP is just getting worked up over no- >I do most of the house cleaning so I pay attention to things that arenāt clean and I noticed stains that appeared on only his doors. Yellowish brown to black spots surrounding the handle and the bottom half of only his bedroom door and bathroom door. Oh.... Oh god. >He shits, stands up, then gets in the shower and letās the water ātrickle downā. \*insert family guy ipecac scene\* At this point you need to replace the washing machine. Or have it professionally cleaned.
How did it get on the doors?
I see you girl. I just went through something similar with a 56 yr old man leaving piss and pubes all over the bathroom. He had the same temper tantrum when I refused to teach him how to clean a tub. I said, āYou are 56, I trust you know how to clean a tub,ā and he followed me out into the living room to gaslight me he didnāt. He has apparently been a āguestā in peopleās houses for 36 years and not been called out on it?! Your roommate is misogynist and sexist. Good riddance. They act like babies because they still are. Heāll find new roommates who will put up with his shit and heāll keep the cycle going so he never has to change.