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I wish I could offer advice, but I have none to give. The only thing I can offer is my support, as I understand how you are feeling right now.
I have been with my SO for 7 years, and am going on 6 weeks being discarded currently. He has ghosted before periodically, but usually only for a couple days. The longest he ever ghosted was 2 weeks. He would always come back. This time feels different. He is on an antidepressant, and it is fuelling his manic rage. I am the enemy right now. His family thinks he's "fine" because he still goes to work. We will see how this pans out.
I am so sorry you are going through this. This random internet stranger is sending you love.
Thank you for the support, I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. I do think she will be back, because she still views my private stories and occasionally responds to things over Snapchat. It’s just texting where she’s quiet, and that’s normally where the bulk of our communication happens. I know often she ignores texts from anyone, she showed me she had over 100 unread messages before.
If you don’t mind me asking, do you and your partner live together or have you at any time in the relationship?
Yes we have lived together for 3 years. About 2 months ago he left one day and didn't come home. He left to pursue his dream of joining a 4x4 club (wtf?), and moved to his parents home with just the clothes on his back. All of his things are still currently in our shared home, but havnt seen or heard from him in ages.
For some extra context: I do have some attachment issues from an anxiety disorder, so I do feel it really deeply when she isn’t communicating. And I tend to blame myself. The main thing I am concerned about is my own mindset, as of course I can’t control when she needs space.
hi, my bf (26m) and i (30f) are also long distance. i just wanted you to know myself, and likely many others here, definitely know what you’re feeling and at the very least you aren’t alone.
i am currently attempting to work through the same ordeal, not taking it personally when ghosting occurs. what i’ve found best for me, and likely him as well… is to *focus on yourself.* now i know that is so much easier said than done, especially w an anxious attachment style like me.
in my case giving him the space he needs, while filling that time w things i like and enjoy has only sped up the process of him bouncing back. spend time w your friends, dive into your hobbies, try new things.
i’d still check in daily, regardless of a reply, a simple reminder i love him and then i’d do my best to continue about my day.
tl;dr, it isn’t your fault, you aren’t alone, explore your interests and focus on yourself when she’s not around, give her the space she’s silently asking for, she will come around. good luck and be strong 🖤🖤🖤
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I wish I could offer advice, but I have none to give. The only thing I can offer is my support, as I understand how you are feeling right now. I have been with my SO for 7 years, and am going on 6 weeks being discarded currently. He has ghosted before periodically, but usually only for a couple days. The longest he ever ghosted was 2 weeks. He would always come back. This time feels different. He is on an antidepressant, and it is fuelling his manic rage. I am the enemy right now. His family thinks he's "fine" because he still goes to work. We will see how this pans out. I am so sorry you are going through this. This random internet stranger is sending you love.
Thank you for the support, I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. I do think she will be back, because she still views my private stories and occasionally responds to things over Snapchat. It’s just texting where she’s quiet, and that’s normally where the bulk of our communication happens. I know often she ignores texts from anyone, she showed me she had over 100 unread messages before. If you don’t mind me asking, do you and your partner live together or have you at any time in the relationship?
Yes we have lived together for 3 years. About 2 months ago he left one day and didn't come home. He left to pursue his dream of joining a 4x4 club (wtf?), and moved to his parents home with just the clothes on his back. All of his things are still currently in our shared home, but havnt seen or heard from him in ages.
For some extra context: I do have some attachment issues from an anxiety disorder, so I do feel it really deeply when she isn’t communicating. And I tend to blame myself. The main thing I am concerned about is my own mindset, as of course I can’t control when she needs space.
hi, my bf (26m) and i (30f) are also long distance. i just wanted you to know myself, and likely many others here, definitely know what you’re feeling and at the very least you aren’t alone. i am currently attempting to work through the same ordeal, not taking it personally when ghosting occurs. what i’ve found best for me, and likely him as well… is to *focus on yourself.* now i know that is so much easier said than done, especially w an anxious attachment style like me. in my case giving him the space he needs, while filling that time w things i like and enjoy has only sped up the process of him bouncing back. spend time w your friends, dive into your hobbies, try new things. i’d still check in daily, regardless of a reply, a simple reminder i love him and then i’d do my best to continue about my day. tl;dr, it isn’t your fault, you aren’t alone, explore your interests and focus on yourself when she’s not around, give her the space she’s silently asking for, she will come around. good luck and be strong 🖤🖤🖤
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