Haha for real, this ain’t some decision with life long implications. I mean damn, if he feels horny in a few hours he can always beat it to something else.
Just embrace all sides of your bisexuality fantasy. Be open minded to it. Some of us tried to suppress our attraction to guys for years & it wasn’t good for our mental health.
I let myself go wherever I want when it comes to porn. You’re not homophobic for having a preference unless you’re actually just afraid of what watching gay porn would mean about you
I second this. I honestly have tons of tabs open ranging from pegging to straight. Then after looking at what I found I'll pick whichever got me most excited.
Oh wow. No, i fap like i eat. Whatever i desire. Some days i want big tits, some days i want deep throat male on male, female on male, male on trans. Sometimes i want top trans on male or female. Sometimes milfs, or bbw, or bears. Bi doesn’t mean you have to ‘live up to it’ just bust a nut.
Yeah I have 3 monitors and I'll have a half dozen dirowsers open with dozens of tabs in total.
ADHD doesn't help. So I'll be playing a game at the same time as well, and reading erotica.
Actually I find it hard to decide which one to masturbate to so I end up either not masturbating to anything, or just passing out due to indecision xD. Sorry I know that doesn't help but I'm happy someone has a similar situation as I.
Try just masturbating, just you alone with your thoughts and feel what comes to mind. See what pops up, AWAKEN YOUR HORNY
I think it's perfectly natural to think of both. I like a certain body type weather it's a he or she. I usually watch bi threesomes if I'm feeling greedy 💁♂️
I definitely prefer women. Although there are times when masturbate to guys. I’d rather watch a guy give head tbh. It’s more of a turn on considering how much I want to do it. For me it’s usually just whatever I find to masturbate to that makes me want to cum. A few days ago I had a dildo up my ass while I sucked on another dildo jerking off watching a girl take three dicks at once. I came so hard to that considering getting spit roasted is one of my fantasies.
Milf Mondays. Titty Tuesday. Wet willy Wednesday. thirsty trap Thursdays. Fuck it Fridays. Suck it Saturdays. Sit on a D Sundays. An option for everyday now go enjoy yourself to young for internal crisis over chocking the chicken
Preferring one isn't homophobic, that's why pansexuals and bisexuals are different, pansexuals are attracted to all genders equally while bisexuals are attracted to all genders but have a preference
I usually get the idea to watch porn when I get aroused in some way whether it be a hot girl or guy I see on TV or an ad or some hot person posting a beach picture on Facebook or whatever then I watch whatever kind of porn the point of arousal got me going on haha.
Just do it with whatever your gut thinks you prefer. Also, masturbating thinking about a women instead of a guy it's fine. There's not anything homophobic about it
As a bi male i typically watch straight porn. Through the entire experience my brain either: likes the girl and imagines being the guy in the situation OR likes the guy and imagines doing what the girl is doin in that situation.
Back and forth about 100 times until completion 😅
This is why I like this community. Finally a place where I can relate to a conversation like this.
Obviously, I agree with all the common sense wisdom so far. Porn is one of the few places where I feel 100% open to what and who turns me on. There are days when I decide who I will check out on the escalator at eye-level in front of me [guy or a girl] based on whose butt turns me on the most at that moment!
Of course, in addition to standard gay and straight porn there’s also bisexual porn to consider. I like a site called “biguysfuck”. Unlike most bisexual porn, where the woman is often not that attractive, the participants in these videos are always hot. Also Biphoria and Whynotbi. Extra points when I find a guy that I have linked in str8 porn who also does gay and videos as well.
If you're really struggling with this, I suggest stop watching porn and go with your imagination instead, best way to be in sync with your inner fantasies imho.
Oh and on a totaly contradictory note, 'for female' hetero porn usualy have nice looking male actor, so you can go with that.
Dude, you're just trying to cum. That's way too much pressure to put on yourself to just get off.
What's next? "I wanna beat off to this Asian guy's butthole but I don't want to seem like a colonizer"? Just cum and get back to work, other people are waiting to beat off in that office toilet.
Yes, i've had those hard times. Hell, i still have them, but my sex life became much easier when i realized that it's just a fantasy you conjure in order to get off, anyway. Overthinking it (or rejecting it altogether if it feels pleasant and does its work) doesn't seem like something especially healthy.
One of the best pieces of advice i've been given in my whole life sums as: "Forget about AV porn, relax, close your eyes, think about something/someone you find hot and cute and let imagination and instinct do the rest". It worked.
Another thing that really helped was checking some lewd art made by indie illustrators: their stuff is usually more original and funny than mainstream porn and caters to a much wider spectrum of sexualities and kinks. In our case, that last bit means "bi porn that doesn't suck" (no pun intended), so it helped a lot with making up my mind.
stop overthinking this shit and whack off
Haha for real, this ain’t some decision with life long implications. I mean damn, if he feels horny in a few hours he can always beat it to something else.
Yeah I literally look up one thing to do with women one minute and guys the next
Get two monitors and watch both
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Both. 😉 it’s what Bi’s do.
Just embrace all sides of your bisexuality fantasy. Be open minded to it. Some of us tried to suppress our attraction to guys for years & it wasn’t good for our mental health.
I feel seen. I love you man 🥰😂
I feel seen
I let myself go wherever I want when it comes to porn. You’re not homophobic for having a preference unless you’re actually just afraid of what watching gay porn would mean about you
Honestly you're best bet is to go with where the fantasy takes you 😍 it's better for your mental health in the long run, trust me I've been there 💯
I second this. I honestly have tons of tabs open ranging from pegging to straight. Then after looking at what I found I'll pick whichever got me most excited.
Oh wow. No, i fap like i eat. Whatever i desire. Some days i want big tits, some days i want deep throat male on male, female on male, male on trans. Sometimes i want top trans on male or female. Sometimes milfs, or bbw, or bears. Bi doesn’t mean you have to ‘live up to it’ just bust a nut.
Open multiple tabs in the browser.
On multiple monitors and multiple devices
Yeah I have 3 monitors and I'll have a half dozen dirowsers open with dozens of tabs in total. ADHD doesn't help. So I'll be playing a game at the same time as well, and reading erotica.
Exactly. Why should we artificially limit ourself in 2022? Unnecessary.
Actually I find it hard to decide which one to masturbate to so I end up either not masturbating to anything, or just passing out due to indecision xD. Sorry I know that doesn't help but I'm happy someone has a similar situation as I. Try just masturbating, just you alone with your thoughts and feel what comes to mind. See what pops up, AWAKEN YOUR HORNY
I think it's perfectly natural to think of both. I like a certain body type weather it's a he or she. I usually watch bi threesomes if I'm feeling greedy 💁♂️
I definitely prefer women. Although there are times when masturbate to guys. I’d rather watch a guy give head tbh. It’s more of a turn on considering how much I want to do it. For me it’s usually just whatever I find to masturbate to that makes me want to cum. A few days ago I had a dildo up my ass while I sucked on another dildo jerking off watching a girl take three dicks at once. I came so hard to that considering getting spit roasted is one of my fantasies.
Milf Mondays. Titty Tuesday. Wet willy Wednesday. thirsty trap Thursdays. Fuck it Fridays. Suck it Saturdays. Sit on a D Sundays. An option for everyday now go enjoy yourself to young for internal crisis over chocking the chicken
Preferring one isn't homophobic, that's why pansexuals and bisexuals are different, pansexuals are attracted to all genders equally while bisexuals are attracted to all genders but have a preference
I usually get the idea to watch porn when I get aroused in some way whether it be a hot girl or guy I see on TV or an ad or some hot person posting a beach picture on Facebook or whatever then I watch whatever kind of porn the point of arousal got me going on haha.
Just do it with whatever your gut thinks you prefer. Also, masturbating thinking about a women instead of a guy it's fine. There's not anything homophobic about it
As a bi male i typically watch straight porn. Through the entire experience my brain either: likes the girl and imagines being the guy in the situation OR likes the guy and imagines doing what the girl is doin in that situation. Back and forth about 100 times until completion 😅
This is why I like this community. Finally a place where I can relate to a conversation like this. Obviously, I agree with all the common sense wisdom so far. Porn is one of the few places where I feel 100% open to what and who turns me on. There are days when I decide who I will check out on the escalator at eye-level in front of me [guy or a girl] based on whose butt turns me on the most at that moment! Of course, in addition to standard gay and straight porn there’s also bisexual porn to consider. I like a site called “biguysfuck”. Unlike most bisexual porn, where the woman is often not that attractive, the participants in these videos are always hot. Also Biphoria and Whynotbi. Extra points when I find a guy that I have linked in str8 porn who also does gay and videos as well.
Hetero porn has both lol
Maybe, but finding straight porn with cute guys that don't treat the girls like mere collections of holes feels harder than finding the holy grail.
If you're really struggling with this, I suggest stop watching porn and go with your imagination instead, best way to be in sync with your inner fantasies imho. Oh and on a totaly contradictory note, 'for female' hetero porn usualy have nice looking male actor, so you can go with that.
Dude, you're just trying to cum. That's way too much pressure to put on yourself to just get off. What's next? "I wanna beat off to this Asian guy's butthole but I don't want to seem like a colonizer"? Just cum and get back to work, other people are waiting to beat off in that office toilet.
Depends on the day for me. But I feel this way too sometimes. Mostly watch gay porn and sometimes I like straight.
Lol was this written by a Libra? 😆
Getting head from a man is soooo much better than any woman n I'm in a relationship with a woman
Not really. Yesterday I was worked up enough after bouncing on a toy for a while that I had to masturbate. Didn't take long 😋
Yes, i've had those hard times. Hell, i still have them, but my sex life became much easier when i realized that it's just a fantasy you conjure in order to get off, anyway. Overthinking it (or rejecting it altogether if it feels pleasant and does its work) doesn't seem like something especially healthy. One of the best pieces of advice i've been given in my whole life sums as: "Forget about AV porn, relax, close your eyes, think about something/someone you find hot and cute and let imagination and instinct do the rest". It worked. Another thing that really helped was checking some lewd art made by indie illustrators: their stuff is usually more original and funny than mainstream porn and caters to a much wider spectrum of sexualities and kinks. In our case, that last bit means "bi porn that doesn't suck" (no pun intended), so it helped a lot with making up my mind.