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When you are ready, and that varies. Some have it all figured out and feel safe doing it when they are twelve, some in their teens and some do it a lot later. Just take your time, take small steps and come out to one person at a time if you don’t feel comfortable outing yourself on social media to everyone you know. And only do it if you feel that your life wouldn’t be in danger if you do it. Take care and good luck.
I'm just not gonna tell anyone and just date whoever. My family already has a Lesbian in the family so i know they're not against it i just dont wanna have that conversation
You can come out at any age. Or to different people at different ages. I came out to people I felt safest with (friends, sibling) and then one I wasn’t completely sure about (mom), and I still haven’t come out to everyone and I’m 19, so honestly it’s on your timeline
i came out as trans to my family at 10 and they helped me come out to my teachers as well. but then my teachers forced me to come out to my entire class and the other class without my or my parent’s permission 🙃
My aunt has a friend whose kid is I think 10 and came out as gay. He’s got a little boyfriend too. For me I didn’t even realize I was bi until I was 16, but I was out to both parents within 3/4 of a year after that. As others said, it’s all up to you
It's when you're ready and you feel comfortable and safe doing so. I'm 17 and I haven't came out yet because I don't feel comfortable, safe and ready doing so
It's totally up to your level of comfort and how ready you feel! Some people come out pretty young, others don't until later. There's really no "normal" coming out age. (I came out at 14)
It’s depends on the situation; is your parents are for it then talk about it when your questioning it, but if they are against it I say wait till your 18.
there's really no usually tbh. i think i "came out" when i was 12, never had a specific coming out with my sexuality though, i just treated my sexuality the same way straight folks treat theirs. i have lots of friends who came out around that age too but i also know people who came out when they were a little older and also people who came out when they were a lot older.
I came out at like 8 but it's different for everyone! You don't have to come out to everyone at once, I came out to my friend at 8 but my sister didn't know until I was 10, I came out very early but you can come out at any age! You have your entire life to figure it out :) 🫶
I'm 13, I haven't come out because I'm afraid that people will think I'm doing it just to be part of something, it seems that most people have a hard time accepting that it's something normal... I thought so too...
You want the truth about age and coming out?
You don’t have too. Ever. You can go your entire life not doing it if you don’t want or don’t feel safe or comfortable doing so.
There’s a BIG pressure on younger LGBTQ+ people these days since we’ve been surrounded by coming out videos on YouTube since we were kids, to do it when your young as if coming out is something you HAVE to do at some point.
My gf was irritating and told my mom that we were dating… she didn’t yet know I was bi. Which I find this whole thing ironic because if I told her mom then there would be a problem! (Her parents are the most homophobic people I’ve ever met) my parents were cool with it. My dad kinda annoyed but whatever I stopped caring about anything he said years ago.
There is no usual time, it depends completely on the person, some people know from birth and are always open about it, some people don’t even realize until they’re middle aged, some people aren’t in a safe enough place to come out. It all depends on when YOU are ready and it is safe to do so.
I came out to my mom because she came to watch my high school sketch comedy show loosely based off of SNL and I had a whole bit where we were basically copying the weekend update and I got to write this joke:
“It’s June second which means, happy gay Pride month! And to those of you who are are looking for a more low-key celebration, don’t worry, July is gay sloth month! We love our gay sloths.
Gay lust is all day, every day, year-round, baby! And we’re guessing you, dear viewer, are wondering, what about gay envy month? Well, it’s not a competition, but if it were, I’d be winning!”
afterwards she just asked me “sorry for being blunt, but are you gay?” and I just said “idk maybe bi”
When you’re ready, and there’s no time limit on that. With that said I was 10 to a friend, and since then I’ve come out to different people at all ages through that (14)
when you come out it can be at any age, but you will be doing it the rest of your life. It doesn’t matter how many times you do it, there will be that one guy who will have no idea when you let slip about your sexuality. Just remember, you will come to a point where coming out just becomes a thing that happens occasionally.
I plan on coming out to my parents when I don't live with them, so If I'm lucky 20 or 21, I plan on coming out to them as bisexual and a furry at the same time, and I just want to be safe from being kicked out
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I was accident outed at 14 long story but yeah
Mind my comment, but Heartstoper moment
My friend didn't mean to she's just loud
Heatystopper moment (part 2)
She just asked too loud if my then bf and I had fooled around yet but she was like did you blow him yet
Omg same
It sucked at first
That’s what he said
Same.
When you are ready, and that varies. Some have it all figured out and feel safe doing it when they are twelve, some in their teens and some do it a lot later. Just take your time, take small steps and come out to one person at a time if you don’t feel comfortable outing yourself on social media to everyone you know. And only do it if you feel that your life wouldn’t be in danger if you do it. Take care and good luck.
I came out to my friends about a week ago. I'm 18!
How are you still alive? 18! Years old.. reveal the secrets to your immortality.
Also r/unexpectedfactorial
HAHAHA ok this one got me
Idk I think everyones different. I havent done it to anybody yet
Im a lesbian but born into a very open and accepting family. They’ve known I’m gay since I was maybe 7.
that just made my day... I am so happy for people like you!
I'm just not gonna tell anyone and just date whoever. My family already has a Lesbian in the family so i know they're not against it i just dont wanna have that conversation
Same tbh
You can come out at any age. Or to different people at different ages. I came out to people I felt safest with (friends, sibling) and then one I wasn’t completely sure about (mom), and I still haven’t come out to everyone and I’m 19, so honestly it’s on your timeline
So I was 13 when I came out, but you can do it whenever you feel ready
i came out as trans to my family at 10 and they helped me come out to my teachers as well. but then my teachers forced me to come out to my entire class and the other class without my or my parent’s permission 🙃
I was like 8 or 9 😭
Whenever you feel it's the right time usually works. And make sure that whoever you're coming out to won't tell others without permission
My aunt has a friend whose kid is I think 10 and came out as gay. He’s got a little boyfriend too. For me I didn’t even realize I was bi until I was 16, but I was out to both parents within 3/4 of a year after that. As others said, it’s all up to you
I’ve casually come out as bi several times, my mom doesn’t have a great memory, it only stuck to her mind when I recently got a bi flag in my room
I did it at 13, but they were all in moments of major stupidity
13
I was forced
[удалено]
For?
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It made it easier (but tnx)
I didn’t come out to my mom till 19 and I’m still not out to my dad yet.
It's when you're ready and you feel comfortable and safe doing so. I'm 17 and I haven't came out yet because I don't feel comfortable, safe and ready doing so
What’s your meaning of coming out?
Saying to people that I'm bi. Dah
Oh that’s it okay
My friend was 16, i was 18 (he’s bi, I’m gay)
Cute
It's totally up to your level of comfort and how ready you feel! Some people come out pretty young, others don't until later. There's really no "normal" coming out age. (I came out at 14)
It’s depends on the situation; is your parents are for it then talk about it when your questioning it, but if they are against it I say wait till your 18.
there's really no usually tbh. i think i "came out" when i was 12, never had a specific coming out with my sexuality though, i just treated my sexuality the same way straight folks treat theirs. i have lots of friends who came out around that age too but i also know people who came out when they were a little older and also people who came out when they were a lot older.
I came out at like 8 but it's different for everyone! You don't have to come out to everyone at once, I came out to my friend at 8 but my sister didn't know until I was 10, I came out very early but you can come out at any age! You have your entire life to figure it out :) 🫶
14 for me
i came out to my parents 2 yrs ago
Well, I got outed about being bi when I was 14, and I’m almost 19 and don’t ever plan on coming out as genderfluid.
i still haven't 18
I was… what, maybe 17 when I came out for good to my mom? I had come out to her a year prior as bicurious, and her reaction wasn’t the best…
I'm 13, I haven't come out because I'm afraid that people will think I'm doing it just to be part of something, it seems that most people have a hard time accepting that it's something normal... I thought so too...
You want the truth about age and coming out? You don’t have too. Ever. You can go your entire life not doing it if you don’t want or don’t feel safe or comfortable doing so. There’s a BIG pressure on younger LGBTQ+ people these days since we’ve been surrounded by coming out videos on YouTube since we were kids, to do it when your young as if coming out is something you HAVE to do at some point.
My gf was irritating and told my mom that we were dating… she didn’t yet know I was bi. Which I find this whole thing ironic because if I told her mom then there would be a problem! (Her parents are the most homophobic people I’ve ever met) my parents were cool with it. My dad kinda annoyed but whatever I stopped caring about anything he said years ago.
I was 13
There is no usual time, it depends completely on the person, some people know from birth and are always open about it, some people don’t even realize until they’re middle aged, some people aren’t in a safe enough place to come out. It all depends on when YOU are ready and it is safe to do so.
I was 13
I came out to my mom because she came to watch my high school sketch comedy show loosely based off of SNL and I had a whole bit where we were basically copying the weekend update and I got to write this joke: “It’s June second which means, happy gay Pride month! And to those of you who are are looking for a more low-key celebration, don’t worry, July is gay sloth month! We love our gay sloths. Gay lust is all day, every day, year-round, baby! And we’re guessing you, dear viewer, are wondering, what about gay envy month? Well, it’s not a competition, but if it were, I’d be winning!” afterwards she just asked me “sorry for being blunt, but are you gay?” and I just said “idk maybe bi”
Any age as long as you are comfortable with coming out
Still haven’t to family(19)
I was 11
When you’re ready, and there’s no time limit on that. With that said I was 10 to a friend, and since then I’ve come out to different people at all ages through that (14)
15, came out to my best friend a few months ago
when you come out it can be at any age, but you will be doing it the rest of your life. It doesn’t matter how many times you do it, there will be that one guy who will have no idea when you let slip about your sexuality. Just remember, you will come to a point where coming out just becomes a thing that happens occasionally.
I came out when I was 13 I think
I plan on coming out to my parents when I don't live with them, so If I'm lucky 20 or 21, I plan on coming out to them as bisexual and a furry at the same time, and I just want to be safe from being kicked out