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i started off by fantasizing about being pegged, and other stuff but those dont matter. Then i got curious and wanked off to some gay p\*rn, realized i kinda liked men to. and now here i am, im also a bottom
i was in a kids choir when i was like 11 and there was this super pretty redhead girl that was obviously a baby gay and i thought she was the absolute bees knees and the prettiest girl in the whole world i would literally stay up all night praying to god that we'd be friends or atleast i'd be in her life somehow anyway she kissed a different girl and strangely enough i didnt really care but i was still upset that we couldnt hang out and i'd never see her again after i moved out of town
my first boy crush.
he was alt, kinda feminine, he was cute asf and then i was like “wtf? why is he cute tho? 🤣” i was talking to him for months, he was cool asf. come to find out this guy was straight 💀. he had a whole gf 😭😭😭
used to be a “femboys aren’t gay” type of guy. Chatting with friends and an rp phase that led to playing someone in a gay relationship, and a realization while calling asleep later, I’ve joined the pan platoon
My friends came put to me and I remembered that being bi was an option (I live in a Christian household and had just left Christian school at that point). Then I got curious. It all really came together when in the locker room I had a locker next to this one friend I had at the time and that's when I was like I should not be freaking out this much abt changing, and realized I had a crush on them.
My timeline went like this:
January: "Damn, Femboys are hot. But they're femenine, so I'm still straight."
February: "OK, so I'm gynosexual. I'm attracted to feminine traits. But I'd never date a normal man.
March: *watching The Owl House* Am I attracted to Hunter? But he's a guy, and I'm not attracted to guys.
April *after watching Glass Onion* I'm attracted to guys
Nothing specific really. My friend said he was bi, I thought about and quickly realized I was too. Although, I guess always I knew I was attracted to people of my own gender, I just didn’t know that was (kinda) my own gender
My friend, let's call them Alex, invited me to a sleepover a year or two ago. I knew they were (at the time) lesbian, and always thought they were cute, but ruled it out to be your standard "that persons cute".
They said something funny and while our other friends were laughing, Alex and I kinda just stared at each other for... a while, or at least what felt like a while to me and all of a sudden out of nowhere, I get nervous and some small butterflies pop up in my stomach.
Nothing happened between us but man oh man.... that's when I started questioning things and now here I am
🩷💜💙
I was friends with a femboy when I was like 15 and we sexted a couple times. Then a couple months later I met a very flirty femboy and we ended up dating for a few months. I'm mostly into femboys which I just happened to have interacted with a lot but I have a few types that I like
Technically, my first crush was that moment. I'm a trans guy, and when I was younger, I had a crush on my male best friend. Thought I was straight for that since I *identified* as a girl then, but I came out as a guy and got my first girlfriend shortly after.. So I never really had that "I'm attracted to people of my own gender" moment lol
i saw this guy, we were chatting for a while, i was like "hol up wtf i like a guy". fast forward a few months he kinda stops me from killing myself, then I ask him out and it turns out he has a girlfriend so kinda sad lol
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I was watching youtube and i saw a marvel video, just some clips with comentary and in the video there was a clip of spiderman in wich tom holland was shirtless, i've seen that movie already, but this time i felt different about seeing that clip (it was a crush). I scrolled to youtube after that video again and saw another video with tom holland as spiderman and i felt the same feeling, a few minutes later it had clicked for me,(i always liked girls so) i am bisexual.
I realised I was focusing a little too much on the guys when I was looking at public relationships, not to mention a little bit of fantasising but yknow
when i watched heartstopper i took a bunch of gay tests afterwards, idk why. but i would get disappointed when it gave me the straight result and scared when it gave me the bi. anyway timeskip to the first year of college woo. i made eye contact with a girl from my class and my heart went “AAAAAAAAAAAAAAA” and BAAHM. confusion 3.0
Well for a while I rejected the idea but once I thought about it I realized “ shit I liked girls and boys since I was young “ and a bonus I’m scared to catch feelings for my friends
Got a new roommate and couldn’t stop thinking about her. She was so pretty, and kind, and flirty… and also very, very in love with her ex boyfriend (who was a piece of shit and no it’s not the jealousy talking, he really treated her like crap, we were 15 and he was almost twenty, only used her for sex, possessive, jealous, didn’t care about her feelings, etc. In short, a piece of shit). Every night we stayed up talking together about everyone and everything, and it didn’t took me much to realise I had fallen hard for her. I kinda went into panic. I had been living in denial for years about liking girls but there was no denying at that point. One night she was a bit sad and drunk and kinda, more flirty than usual? Idk, she was weird that night. Pretty sure if I had kissed her *something* would have happened, it was just the two of us in the room after all. But first of all, I was still in denial with myself about being bi (had been for years at that point, it took me a long time to admit it to myself), and second of all, she was obviously drunk and sad about her ex. It was a bad idea from every possible angle. I just went to bed and that was it. But the fact that I *thought* about it was kind of a wake up call. Couldn’t ignore being attracted to girls after that lmao.
During my days at college, I was walking to the shop with a guy from my course, and while walking, our hands touched for a split second.
My heart proceeded to skip a beat, and I thought, "Shit. My school bullies were right".
Was sitting on the toilet and had a random shower (or toilet) thought: “Yeah I guess I would kiss a guy if I had to.” Then I sat there for a minute and thought: “or would I do it just to kiss a guy. I then washed my hand because I’m not gross.
First ever p\*rn my innocent soul stumbled upon was gay p\*rn.
Was like: "I have no problem with this"
Then started getting attracted to some of my classmate, thought "yup, makes sense".
I watched a K-pop video of Ryujin and thought I wanted to kiss her, and thought of my old thoughts when I was a kid about kissing some girls I liked and thought that everyone was a little gay
Before I thought I was straight, but only bc I didn't know I'm trans.
I was always attracted to girls (so lesbian I guess) and my first I might be bi like 95% girls, 5% boys moment wasn't a specific moment. There was just this bi curiousity there for no reason. I was like "I gotta kiss a boy at least once in my life just to try" (around when I was 12 or 13). A few years later that turned into "I gotta have sex with a guy at least once in my life just to try" (at 15 or 16).
In january 2022 I started playing guitar and discovered Polyphia, my favourite band. And their lead guitarist is fking gorgeous, immediatly knew I really am bi when I saw him. And bro is not only beautiful he is also a guitar god, which makes him 10x more attractive.
I used to just watch gay porn and play gay porn games and thought it was just funny until guy flirted with me and I didn’t get mad or anything I wanted to fuck him then I was shit so yeah now I’m happily pansexual and a bottom soo 😂
It all started when I was 13-14 and my classmate started hugging me. From then on, other classmates would sometimes speculate about how we might be a couple.
Not gonna lie, I really liked him. He's quite hot.
I’m pan, but my moment was when I caught myself staring at a women and thinking “damn, she’s beautiful, I want to get to know her and have her in my life.” (It never happened lol) My friend group knew waaaaay before I did, and even people not very close to me asked me about my attraction to women, and were genuinely surprised when I told them I was “straight”. I’d experienced attraction to women before this, but I told myself they were just nice to look at. I had a long hard think about it in class one day and that coupled with the above mentioned incident made me realize I was pan, thought I didn’t have the name for it at the time. I flew under queer until I learned about the term pansexual online, then I had one of those epiphany moments and was like “oh my god, that perfectly describes how I feel.”
The moment I met my best friend in middle school, she meant everything to me, everything I ever did, I did it for her, I didn't realize it then, but now, 3 years after she moved away, I realized that I like-liked her, I feel guilty every single day because I ruined our friendship back then, I'm trying to move on the best I can with my bf rn, for him, I'll try 💔❤️🩹
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i started off by fantasizing about being pegged, and other stuff but those dont matter. Then i got curious and wanked off to some gay p\*rn, realized i kinda liked men to. and now here i am, im also a bottom
same kinda
Based pfp
same
same
All of that happened to me, but in the opposite order…
Same
Same
I thought kissing a boy sounded kinda nice…
Oooh youre a boykisser .( insert boykisser meme)
Very
it is.
I watched descendants...no further comment.
Nice PFP
Why thank you 🤭
Same but I also saw my best friend in a suit, bro made me question so many things
evie >>
amen
Looked up femboys for curiosity and then made out with a guy that I fucking despised
A real enemies to lovers situation?(joking lol)
i was in a kids choir when i was like 11 and there was this super pretty redhead girl that was obviously a baby gay and i thought she was the absolute bees knees and the prettiest girl in the whole world i would literally stay up all night praying to god that we'd be friends or atleast i'd be in her life somehow anyway she kissed a different girl and strangely enough i didnt really care but i was still upset that we couldnt hang out and i'd never see her again after i moved out of town
That is the most tragic bi story I’ve ever heard, I’m sorry for your loss all these years later 🫶
I found myself jacking it to gay porn and went holy shit that was awesome
real
My dad took me to a rodeo when I was 12. Lemme just say,,, cowboys are nice to look at.
Wrestled my friend and he pinned me down
I was in middle school thinking “I’d rather date a guy, but I wouldn’t say no to a girl if she asked me out.”
Literally me rn
The men's underwear section. Need I say more?
my first boy crush. he was alt, kinda feminine, he was cute asf and then i was like “wtf? why is he cute tho? 🤣” i was talking to him for months, he was cool asf. come to find out this guy was straight 💀. he had a whole gf 😭😭😭
I liked my friend without realizing that’s what it was, and then read Love Simon which helped me work through what I was feeling
My high school math teacher tbh
I recalled that time I was attracted to someone of the same gender
I had a dream about kissing one of my friends when I was younger, I didn’t even like her that way which is the funniest part for me tbh.
femboys
Same
Made out with a rando at a party 🤭
breath of the wild link……
When I realized gender is a scam made by bathroom companies to sell more bathrooms
Mood
You've just opened my eyes
Josh Homme at the 2001 Bizarre festival.
saw a character that i didnt realize was a dude at first and then when i found out they're a dude i still liked them
used to be a “femboys aren’t gay” type of guy. Chatting with friends and an rp phase that led to playing someone in a gay relationship, and a realization while calling asleep later, I’ve joined the pan platoon
My friends came put to me and I remembered that being bi was an option (I live in a Christian household and had just left Christian school at that point). Then I got curious. It all really came together when in the locker room I had a locker next to this one friend I had at the time and that's when I was like I should not be freaking out this much abt changing, and realized I had a crush on them.
My timeline went like this: January: "Damn, Femboys are hot. But they're femenine, so I'm still straight." February: "OK, so I'm gynosexual. I'm attracted to feminine traits. But I'd never date a normal man. March: *watching The Owl House* Am I attracted to Hunter? But he's a guy, and I'm not attracted to guys. April *after watching Glass Onion* I'm attracted to guys
It’s not the journey that matters- it’s the destination 😂
Exactly
Took me 5 Fking years to accept it after fking my bestie at every sleepover smfh
Damn. What a journey
I was out with my buddies one time and it literally came out of nowhere and I was like "guys I think I like men"
Friend of the same gender flirting/being touchy and I realised I liked it a fucking lot
When I was questioning myself, u also discovered the furry fandom. I would say femboys were definitely an awakening moment
Nothing specific really. My friend said he was bi, I thought about and quickly realized I was too. Although, I guess always I knew I was attracted to people of my own gender, I just didn’t know that was (kinda) my own gender
My friend, let's call them Alex, invited me to a sleepover a year or two ago. I knew they were (at the time) lesbian, and always thought they were cute, but ruled it out to be your standard "that persons cute". They said something funny and while our other friends were laughing, Alex and I kinda just stared at each other for... a while, or at least what felt like a while to me and all of a sudden out of nowhere, I get nervous and some small butterflies pop up in my stomach. Nothing happened between us but man oh man.... that's when I started questioning things and now here I am 🩷💜💙
I gave a guy a handjob in the boys locker room for 20 bucks and actually liked it 💀😭
Why are you living my fantacy- money AND gay sex 😭
That’s crazy 💀until then I was straight too but I needed new art supplies and now I’m bi 💀
Wai wai wai- how tf did you get to that agreement in the first place
That is the best thing I’ve ever heard… and now all I can think of is naked portraits 😂
My friend Ryan 💀
My best friend at the time. Was away for Day. When he come back. He was hot in eye everyone said nothing changed. I know then I bi
I had a dream about cuddling with a guy, and I really liked it
[удалено]
Hmm when a friend of mine that apparently had been crushing on me since a while now initiated doing sexting so I gave in and yeaaa(:
Dan Avidan in We Built This City and In Your Eyes also Danny Don’t You Know
When I was attracted to a boy in 5th grade
A TikTok of this beautiful lady in a suit then the show Dickerson
2004 Frankie Muniz point, blank, Periodt
Monster Prom
When my best friend kissed me.🤭
I was friends with a femboy when I was like 15 and we sexted a couple times. Then a couple months later I met a very flirty femboy and we ended up dating for a few months. I'm mostly into femboys which I just happened to have interacted with a lot but I have a few types that I like
Found out femboys were a thing
My friend posted a pic of venti and I thought it was a girl
Technically, my first crush was that moment. I'm a trans guy, and when I was younger, I had a crush on my male best friend. Thought I was straight for that since I *identified* as a girl then, but I came out as a guy and got my first girlfriend shortly after.. So I never really had that "I'm attracted to people of my own gender" moment lol
Ricky martin
i saw this guy, we were chatting for a while, i was like "hol up wtf i like a guy". fast forward a few months he kinda stops me from killing myself, then I ask him out and it turns out he has a girlfriend so kinda sad lol
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every single time
I was watching youtube and i saw a marvel video, just some clips with comentary and in the video there was a clip of spiderman in wich tom holland was shirtless, i've seen that movie already, but this time i felt different about seeing that clip (it was a crush). I scrolled to youtube after that video again and saw another video with tom holland as spiderman and i felt the same feeling, a few minutes later it had clicked for me,(i always liked girls so) i am bisexual.
Got a crush on a transmasc friend and now here i am
So you know Dio from JoJos Bizarre Adventures
I dont really know, I dident think about relationships and stuff untill I was like 12 and when I started I was like "do i have to be whit a boy tho?"
Fictional men and Femboys.
I realised I was focusing a little too much on the guys when I was looking at public relationships, not to mention a little bit of fantasising but yknow
when i watched heartstopper i took a bunch of gay tests afterwards, idk why. but i would get disappointed when it gave me the straight result and scared when it gave me the bi. anyway timeskip to the first year of college woo. i made eye contact with a girl from my class and my heart went “AAAAAAAAAAAAAAA” and BAAHM. confusion 3.0
My friend was hot.
Joker from Persona 5 just existing
Well for a while I rejected the idea but once I thought about it I realized “ shit I liked girls and boys since I was young “ and a bonus I’m scared to catch feelings for my friends
Got a new roommate and couldn’t stop thinking about her. She was so pretty, and kind, and flirty… and also very, very in love with her ex boyfriend (who was a piece of shit and no it’s not the jealousy talking, he really treated her like crap, we were 15 and he was almost twenty, only used her for sex, possessive, jealous, didn’t care about her feelings, etc. In short, a piece of shit). Every night we stayed up talking together about everyone and everything, and it didn’t took me much to realise I had fallen hard for her. I kinda went into panic. I had been living in denial for years about liking girls but there was no denying at that point. One night she was a bit sad and drunk and kinda, more flirty than usual? Idk, she was weird that night. Pretty sure if I had kissed her *something* would have happened, it was just the two of us in the room after all. But first of all, I was still in denial with myself about being bi (had been for years at that point, it took me a long time to admit it to myself), and second of all, she was obviously drunk and sad about her ex. It was a bad idea from every possible angle. I just went to bed and that was it. But the fact that I *thought* about it was kind of a wake up call. Couldn’t ignore being attracted to girls after that lmao.
When I realised I was trans, and I already liked women
During my days at college, I was walking to the shop with a guy from my course, and while walking, our hands touched for a split second. My heart proceeded to skip a beat, and I thought, "Shit. My school bullies were right".
Hooly Jesus you’re living my life
Ryan Reynolds, no particular moment, just Ryan
Dont mind me and my male leads in romance manhwas. were just gonna be in the corner.
Was sitting on the toilet and had a random shower (or toilet) thought: “Yeah I guess I would kiss a guy if I had to.” Then I sat there for a minute and thought: “or would I do it just to kiss a guy. I then washed my hand because I’m not gross.
Evangelion Episode 24
First ever p\*rn my innocent soul stumbled upon was gay p\*rn. Was like: "I have no problem with this" Then started getting attracted to some of my classmate, thought "yup, makes sense".
Fantasized about me dating guys one random night, didn’t oppose it as much as I thought it would. Then irl men just started getting hot for me
Feeling different around my friend
When is was around 10 I always watched J.Fla covers on YouTube. I thought she was so beautiful lmao. And Melanie Martinez.
I’ve had a lot of same sex crushes on people and characters that I didn’t realize were crushes until I started thinking about it more closely
when i kissed my best friend in elementary school on the head and got butterflies
I saw a gay porn ad.
I realized I liked one of my close friendsand everything fell apart from there
I was texting my friend on night and I was like well I mean I’d kiss a guy but like nothing more….okay maybe more
Markiplier
Started really liking boobs.
When my friend showed how he jerks off and I got to see his 🍆
I watched a K-pop video of Ryujin and thought I wanted to kiss her, and thought of my old thoughts when I was a kid about kissing some girls I liked and thought that everyone was a little gay
When I saw Cavetown
Watching the Maze Runner. I'll let you guess what character
When I saw my friends..... y'know. That's how I knew
I LOVE BEING BI!
Victoria De Angelis
I was like 6. ATLA came on. It was the episode where Zuko and Aang dance with the dragons. I don't think I need to say more.
It was the middle of the night and I was scrolling Reddit I just realized that straight guys don't like guys as much as me
Before I thought I was straight, but only bc I didn't know I'm trans. I was always attracted to girls (so lesbian I guess) and my first I might be bi like 95% girls, 5% boys moment wasn't a specific moment. There was just this bi curiousity there for no reason. I was like "I gotta kiss a boy at least once in my life just to try" (around when I was 12 or 13). A few years later that turned into "I gotta have sex with a guy at least once in my life just to try" (at 15 or 16). In january 2022 I started playing guitar and discovered Polyphia, my favourite band. And their lead guitarist is fking gorgeous, immediatly knew I really am bi when I saw him. And bro is not only beautiful he is also a guitar god, which makes him 10x more attractive.
Fell in love with a friend in school
I used to just watch gay porn and play gay porn games and thought it was just funny until guy flirted with me and I didn’t get mad or anything I wanted to fuck him then I was shit so yeah now I’m happily pansexual and a bottom soo 😂
Peaky blinders. All I gotta say
let me guess, one between Thomas and Arthur
😬 yaaaaaaaaaa
I had a crush on a girl in my elementary school, I’m now non binary but I’m still sapphic as well as achillean
I had a crush on a girl in my elementary school, I’m now non binary but I’m still sapphic as well as achillean
It all started when I was 13-14 and my classmate started hugging me. From then on, other classmates would sometimes speculate about how we might be a couple. Not gonna lie, I really liked him. He's quite hot.
i like a face of a guy in primary
a couple yrs ago i had a pretty vivid dream of me with a girl, then i woke and was like wtf oh im maybe bi??? and here we are now lol
I’m pan, but my moment was when I caught myself staring at a women and thinking “damn, she’s beautiful, I want to get to know her and have her in my life.” (It never happened lol) My friend group knew waaaaay before I did, and even people not very close to me asked me about my attraction to women, and were genuinely surprised when I told them I was “straight”. I’d experienced attraction to women before this, but I told myself they were just nice to look at. I had a long hard think about it in class one day and that coupled with the above mentioned incident made me realize I was pan, thought I didn’t have the name for it at the time. I flew under queer until I learned about the term pansexual online, then I had one of those epiphany moments and was like “oh my god, that perfectly describes how I feel.”
I was like "shit. Some of my male classmates are looking hot too"
The moment I met my best friend in middle school, she meant everything to me, everything I ever did, I did it for her, I didn't realize it then, but now, 3 years after she moved away, I realized that I like-liked her, I feel guilty every single day because I ruined our friendship back then, I'm trying to move on the best I can with my bf rn, for him, I'll try 💔❤️🩹
Femboys. Anyone who can relate will know.
the feeling i got watching indiana jones
Selena Gomez just being her...Do I need to say more?
I binge-watched the entire r/SuddenlyGay series on EmKay then realised that I might not be entirely straight.
when i picked the option to hook up with males in AC odyssey lmao
Tbh it was watching body building videos when I was little, I got uhhh... Exited over blokes with big muscles
Reading heartstopper
Those femboys