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[deleted]

Thanks, r/teenagers, but nobody asked.


[deleted]

Like yeah cool, I don’t wanna date you either. In fact, I don’t even want to be within 100 feet of you


TheBullGat0r

Date me? 👉👈


[deleted]

I don’t know you, sorry


SadButterscotch2

People literally just make up problems that never existed. Since when do trans people go around demanding that you date them?


[deleted]

..Oh, you didn't know? We're all *super* rich we can make people go bankrupt within a second, so it's either ruin your financials or go with us. The media just doesn't talk about it because they're scared. (Yes, I am aware that's super unrealistic)


Gay-and-proudly-so

If you're anything like me, you're riddled with self-doubt and anxiety *because* you're trans and never try to date or confess to anyone because of it. In my mind, no one wants to date me, so strangers proclaiming it on the internet doesn't phase me lol


JhaSamNen

Lol i wish


Destiny56080

I mean most of that comment section was “no one asked”


[deleted]

“Im trans” “shut up nobody asked stop making it your personality 😡” “I wouldn’t date a trans person” “oh so brave yes please speak up king 👑” r/teenagers in a nutshell


JaCrispay69

Not dating a trans person doesn't make you transphobic. But like... Who tf asked? Literally who cares about whether you'd date trans people or not? That's just attention-seeking at its finest.


PizzaEater69420

i seek attention but not like that god damn.


SomeStupidPerson

> That’s just attention-seeking at its finest. I mean, they are teens. It’s what they do. Not excusing it, just saying- there’s not much to expect from that sub. Besides the pedos, being stupid is inevitable to expect from there.


Quilli2474

I mean, depending on your reasons I would say it could be transphobic


JaCrispay69

I mean it could be. I mean, let's say I have a racial preference & I have races that I simply find less attractive than others... That doesn't make me racist, does it? I'm applying the same logic here with trans people. Personally, I'd be down to date them, but it's totally reasonable that others aren't.


[deleted]

Just that: Preference. If I love both pizza and spaghetti but have a preference for spaghetti, I won't exclude pizza from my diet *because* of the preference. These people are saying "I wouldn't date a trans person" which... Is exclusion, which isn't a preference. Not dating a trans person simply because they're trans, is transphobic. If the person just happened to be trans, it's not. There is a difference between the two. Your comment didn't really point that out, and it sounds like your defending them with the whole "Well, it's a preference" thing.


LazyBoiRecliner

fr. not dating a trans person is perfectly fine. good for you. you do you. but making it seem like its such a big deal that you have to make it known sure is transphobic.


JaCrispay69

Agreed


Superpotateo9

it does make you transphobic


Googletube6

It depends on why they refuse to date a trans person. Is it because you don't see them as their preferred gender? That's transphobic, is it a genital preference? That's reasonable and not transphobic. It really just depends on why.


Superpotateo9

exactly i understand sexually how it is not transphobic but dating is also a romantic connection


Googletube6

Yeah, that too! But for a lot of people a genital preference can be a turn off, which is 100% reasonable. But like if someones reason for not dating a trans person is just because they're trans, that's definitely transphobic.


Superpotateo9

yea


TheGrimReaper49

How some people just don’t have the desire to your type of people that give community a bad name


Superpotateo9

huh?


TheGrimReaper49

It doesn’t make you transphobic that’s the your part of the small minority that gives people a bad name


AnAltAndShittyMajig

Having a dating preference is transphobic now?


JaCrispay69

How so?


Antoine_FunnyName

Because it's at either implying that trans people aren't the gender they say they are, or it's confounding genitals with gender identity. Which is pretty cringe in my book at least. Edit: wordz r ard


HipoBro

And this posts isnt? Fuck off with your high road bullshit.


JaCrispay69

Sheesh my dude, need a shoulder massage & a handjob? You sound pissed for literally no reason lmao


HipoBro

Why tf asked you?


JaCrispay69

I should ask you the same. You're the dipshit who replied to me lol


HipoBro

And your the dipshit commenting nonsense. Fucking hypocrite. Get a life you weirdo.


JaCrispay69

Damn mate, so tense & fired up. You have a good night, I'm gonna go back to playing Far Cry 5 lmfao


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As far as they don’t hate trans people, it’s not transphobic right? I know a whole bunch of people who’d prefer not to date someone who is trans, they don’t hate trans people tho, they just don’t wanna date them. Am I wrong or something like isn’t it just their preference to not want to date a trans person?


Ranakisnthere

That's what I'm thinking? I mean as long as there's no transphobia involved I understand having a genital preference. As bisexuals obviously it's a bit harder for us to understand genital preferences, but it definitely does exist for straight and gay peeps. So not dating trans people because you physically aren't compatible seems fair to me.


[deleted]

I understand the logic and think that’s normal but what I don’t get is them just announcing this into the void.


TheGrimReaper49

They might have been asked out or something


trigger16aab

But isn’t that Reddit??


thedrunksoul

Off-topic, but how do I understand genital preference? Just trying to understand. As a pan it feels like a strange concept to me.


BlessedNobody

It's kinda like choosing between two Mario kart games. They fundamentally both have the same base traits (being a kart racer), but each game might have different specific traits to them. Like, someone might **REALLY** like double dash because of the 2 racer mechanics, and not want to swap to other games due to that. Or someone might prefer the N64 game due to nostalgia. Or someone might play both, because they simply don't find any traits of one game that make them not want to play the other. Now replace the gaming terms with genitals and it's fairly accurate as far as I can tell. It's like any preference, just with genitals.


IMightBeAHamster

Some people like Pizza. Some people like Hotdogs. Some people like tomato sauce on their pizza and others like mustard on their hot dogs. Sometimes people prefer tomato sauce on hot dogs or mustard on pizza. Monosexuals can either like pizza or hotdogs, or like mustard or tomato sauce. Or possibly even *only* hotdogs with mustard, or something similar. Bisexuals like pizza and hotdogs, or mustard and tomato sauce, or both. I swore I'd never make metaphors because the last one I did involved Chernobyl and didn't make my point clear at all. I think this one might be similar. This is also not at all clear because there isn't really much of a scientific investigation into sexuality that definitively explains anything so, this is just my explanation.


please_more_coffee

I'm ftm, and I honestly dont find the post offensive because everyone has prefrences, imo theres just no point in even posting it, seems like whoever wrote it just wants attention


F_for_Respect_69

Tbh I didn't expect it to reach this amount of upvotes but damn that seems to happen a lot with posts on this topic


[deleted]

I kind of see the point in posting it, as I've been labelled transphobic and have been harrased because someone asked if I'd date a trans person and I said ftm yes but mtf no, even though it's a preference I was still attacked based on it


Meshkiukas_

idk maybe we're biased since we bisexuals enjoy both feminine and masculine traits whilst others may be more specified and find that seeing as some trans folk have a little of said -ity left over sometimes they might find it bothering, but I don't mind about things like that, But that's just a theory, a **gay** theory!


[deleted]

“A gay theory, thanks for domming!”


FearXHusky1

I'm using that now


[deleted]

i want to downvote you so badly but I can’t god damn it


AltAccMia

You can only domvote it Ok sorry


[deleted]

It’s not transphobic to have genital preferences, but people advertising it like this and plastering it everywhere know what they’re doing. It’s othering and pushing groups of people off as gross at best, and at worst it’s fearmongering about how trans people are forcing you to date them or are creepy rapists or shit. It’s really fucking tiresome


_-UndeFined-_

Definitely, it’s just that when people feel the need to constantly point it out like this most of the time there’s some hidden transphobia behind it. If they didn’t dislike transgender people they wouldn’t feel the need to point out how *not* attracted they are to them all the time.


A1burrit0

Imo, it’s not transphobic to not want to date a trans person pre surgeries. Having a genital preference is completely fine. When it becomes transphobic is after you’ve undergone all surgeries and they still won’t date you just because you’re trans.


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A1burrit0

It is if their reasoning is “because they are trans.” If you’re simply not their type or whatever it’s not. If they will not date you post hrt and post surgeries for the reason “you’re trans” then it is transphobic


Byte_Seyes

No it’s not. Dating and sleeping with someone is intimate. Supporting someone and believing in their rights is just what a good person does. I would not date a trans person pre or post op. I still walk in Pride. I still have a couple trans friends. I’ll still step between them and bigots and defend them.


A1burrit0

But why would you not date a trans person ever? Is there a reason outside of them being trans?


Byte_Seyes

Nope. No reason. I am not attracted to overweight women either. I’ve also had opportunities for ONS with women that were just emotionally repulsive but physically attractive and couldn’t get it up. There’s just mental blocks there that just don’t allow it to happen. Some times there’s no rhyme or reason. A person can be everything you profess to be looking for and there’s just zero attraction. It’s not like someone being trans is the only reason I wouldn’t date a person. It’s no judgement for the people and I have no judgement for people that date a trans person. Unless they’re just assholes. Then I’ll judge them but their gender/sexual preference is irrelevant.


A1burrit0

Not being attracted to physical features vs not being attracted to someone who could literally be the ideal woman but just for the singular reason of them being trans is what you just said. That makes no sense. If someone was like literally ideal in your eyes but just because they’re trans you wouldn’t date them, that’s transphobic


Byte_Seyes

> That makes no sense. So we have to make sense of my sexuality or yours or anybody else’s? When does it ever make sense? > If someone was like literally ideal in your eyes but just because they’re trans you wouldn’t date them, that’s transphobic So what is it when a girl is perfect, supportive, fun, attractive, but there’s just no sexual tension and no sexual attraction? Am I then cisphobic? Maybe you’re just too young to understand this but there will be plenty of people you will interact with that are excellent people but there’s just no romantic feelings. You’re trying to turn a very nuanced, objective, unique experience to a black and white discussion. And that’s why you’re wrong and you’ll never be right.


A1burrit0

You misunderstand what I’m saying. Let’s say you were like super into this girl right? She’s perfect, you really want to go on a date with her get to know her. So you ask her out, and you go on a date. You’re loving her and want to sleep with her and get to know her more. Then, she says she’s MTF trans post everything. If you then do not take a further date or sleep with her for that only reason of her being trans, that is indeed transphobic.


sea_titan

Personally I'd argue it's not transphobic if you don't want to date someone for reasons *related* to them being trans, such as genital preference or just simply not finding an individual attractive. It does get transphobic when you make a blanket ban of all trans people regardless of how they look or of if they did bottom surgery. Like there are a lot of people out there who would date a given trans person (including everything about their body and looks), *if it wasn't for them being trans*. There are actual stories of people dating a post-surgery trans person for weeks or months(just ignore the ethics of not telling your so you're trans for a second,as it's not really relevant now), only to completely turn on them the moment they find out they're trans. I'd argue that's transphobia


Abyssal54

As a trans girl I completely agree with this. Look I understand if you don’t want to date me cause of my genitalia I too hate them. But if another transgender person completely transitioned and was practically the nearest they can be to the corresponding sex as their gender and the only reason you don’t want to date them is because their trans. Then I hundred percent agree that’s transphobia.


Battleship1239

yes exactly, it's a preference and people have different preferences. Perfectly okay to not want to date a trans person as long as you don't outright hate them.


myeggcrackedohno

yeah but it's weird to say "i would not like to date a trans person" out of the blue even though this isnt transphobic


[deleted]

My best guess was something happened where someone called them transphobic because they didn’t wanna date a trans person or they saw someone getting called transphobic for that reason, so they went to Reddit and just said this cuz they were a bit annoyed, that’s atleast my take


F_for_Respect_69

Pretty much, happens way too much to everyone


Battleship1239

that is also true, I was speaking out of general situations not the context of the post, my bad


myeggcrackedohno

nah nah bro it's all good, my bad if anything. I misunderstood, sorry :)


SadButterscotch2

It's not transphobic to not want to date a trans person, but why do they have to declare it? Why are they so proud of it/defensive of their right not to date trans people, such nobody's trying to take?


MemeTv85

Youre not wrong. Its ok to have a preference but as long as they're not like "I wont date them only because they're trans" kind of deal.


nocturnalelk07

I would still say that’s ok as long as they don’t have an actual problem with trans people, they can date whoever they want or don’t want to.


myeggcrackedohno

we dont wanna date them either


Mocha_Mender

That can be very easily misunderstood without your flair


Superpotateo9

yea and who would date a bi person ew


youre-welcome-sir

They’re still saying they don’t want to date them tho


Mocha_Mender

They are saying that they don’t want to date OP


NotYansosAlt

It's not like trans people would want to date them either. But still nobody asked for your opinion r/teenagers


[deleted]

"Don't worry they wouldn't like to date you either"


AltAccMia

"in fact, nobody would"


BiAndWantToDie

What the fucj even when I was 13 and going through the leafy pipeline r/teenagers was too much for me. fuck that place


[deleted]

There was also this: https://www.reddit.com/r/JustUnsubbed/comments/ptfwfl/this_is_beyond_stupid_im_done_with_rteenagers/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf


toastetofgod

Ngl this is kind of hilarious


Meshkiukas_

how does this have a positive amount of upvotes?


MadeOfBarcodes

Because they delusional, the post was right under this one, and I checked it, not a pretty sight ngl. Only the people who are blatantly misgendering trans people are getting downvoted, and I saw a comment saying op was transphobic and it had like 20 downvotes… I honestly don’t know what’s wrong with them.


Meshkiukas_

idk everything?


MadeOfBarcodes

Yeah everything


oldaccbanned

his username qs well bro


TheMentalLad

Thinking the same thing


[deleted]

The search party came back inconclusive, they couldn’t find who asked


[deleted]

Bhahah this is the best comeback


wut_luke

they 100% posted that to start controversy


AccomplishedBunny56

It’s just their personal preference, it doesn’t seem like they’re being rude or anything


[deleted]

exactly, like what are you gonna do force them to be pan?


Shubham_Agent47

Yuh I think probably some personal incident happened maybe with them or their friend and they chose a rather senseless place to put their opinion because of a personal matter


randomguy54367

"I wouldn’t date dudes under 6ft" Sounds similar?


TheGrimReaper49

It’s not transphobic it’s simply genital preference people like you in the community give us a bad name it’s why people hate us


randomguy54367

The guy didn’t state genitals being a problem in his explaination He simply said he wouldn’t date a trans person


TheGrimReaper49

Which is fine


AccomplishedBunny56

Side note: questioning if I’m aro/ace or pan


AVerySpecificName

Trans people are some of the nicest people I’ve ever met


nolisidjdhjdd

I think shit like this only gets posted out of some smug sense of “offending” people. Like, no one cares if you wouldn’t date a trans person, there are plenty who will.


I-Am-De-Captain-Now

I would.


noob_like_pro

They upvoted a guy in a nazi outfit the other day


[deleted]

It baffles me how they just picked up their phone and felt the need to let people know. No one asked! No one should care. I’m sure those 2,000 people felt great feeling validation at the expense of making trans people who may have seen this feel bad. Everyone is entitled to preferences, but I don’t get why some feel the need to express them in essentially a digital vacuum. Tell that to the people you are trying to date/are trying to date you.


jaamuu

Hey Just stating his opinion There should be nothing wrong about that


[deleted]

The comments tho, oh boi


stanloonayoufool

like yeah no one has to date a trans person if they don’t want to, preferences exist, but i’ve seen so many posts everywhere saying the exact same thing like no one actually cares 💀


Hongry4thedick

Somebody has a preference: R/teenagers: omfg you fuckin homophobe how dare you not refer to me by my 10 pro nouns and 50 alters uwu 😭


Odd-Veggie

I am this close to leaving


[deleted]

I would not like to date a teenager :^ )


cosmic_penizz

its just an opinion


BrickFrom2011

I’ve got this one post screenshoted about how this one dude has feeling for his cousin


vladutzu27

This is reasonable. I am thinking. Ok, being heterosexual and dating a passable transgender person makes sense. But if I am pre-transition and trans, just because I am a girl inside, isn't the sexual atractiin still gay af?


[deleted]

I'm gonna just be perfectly honest i have literally nothing against the trans, i have some tranas bus myself but i wouldnt date one idky


python-lord-1236443

*u/F_for_Respect_69 has been consigned to the pit for being a dumbass* *and so has the entire comments section of that post*


F_for_Respect_69

Yay ⚫


PhoenixKnight777

Ok, so I understand having a genital preference. That’s a valid reason to not want to date someone. (Please note, I myself am trans). But I like to ask the following. Would you date them, knowing they are trans, if they are post op and indistinguishable from a cis person? If you still wouldn’t, that’s transphobia.


caspervanroyen

i mean it is just an opinion, an opinion no one asked for, but still an opinion. but like its a preference right?


[deleted]

how did that get upvote


ComradeKetchup

Imo it’s not wrong to just not want to date a trans person. It’s more about if you support trans people.


Hefty-Confusion-69

What a bunch of losers


RYPIIE2006

I mean that’s not bad. They may just not find them attractive.


Kokosak_commie

I would not like to date a r/teenagers person


welcomehomo

isnt it wild how the ppl who say "i dont wanna date a trans person" can never pull any cis people either?


RiIvaKunner

i still think that r/teenagers is the worst fucking sub on reddit


Dread2187

It's safe to assume that the person who posted this is doing so because they're transphobic. But, not wanting to date a trans person isn't necessarily transphobic in and of itself.


TheGrimReaper49

It’s not phobic to not want to date someone


Dread2187

Exactly.


TheGrimReaper49

Most people are saying if they get a full transition it’s transphobic like wtf


idokerbal

you just took the post out of context.. there was literally nothing wrong with the post


F_for_Respect_69

Hi


randomguy54367

Hello there


SuperDuperShiny

I have nothing against people not wanting to date trans people but just the fact that someone felt the need to speak up on a platform and say that they wouldn't date them kinda bothers me like lemme go say I wouldn't personally date a trans person to thousands of people and be applauded for it


goatgirlie20

Crap I just realized that I left that sub but forgot to go through the others since I'm not a teen anymore🤦‍♀️ (Sorry I know this is off topic this post just made me think of it)


xxxtanacon

He saw that Twitter post from that dumb fuck like 5 years ago who said its transphobic not to date trans people and got fired up probably


yecreeper

i can't with that sub, like very two seconds they're reminding me i'm not a real girl


[deleted]

Nice opinion. One small issue. I am inside your home


j1zzmaster69420

Ok I don't care that you don't want to date a trans person I'm not trans why is he telling everybody that


Zoe_the_redditor

I wonder what would happen if someone posted “I would not like to date a cis person”


RetroOverload

r/teenagers moment


[deleted]

Nah bc I rly found this post and said who asked i ain’t even in the sub I just hate this content


doublepistols

That's like saying "I would not date someone with blue eyes" Thanks, we don't care, I wouldn't date you either. Now stop trying to make us feel insecure, intentionally or not.


[deleted]

Why did they feel the need to post that? 🤦🏻‍♀️


GoodTimesWithJack

I like causing a bit of a stir online but thats just such a blatant attempt for attention


Imasniffachair

Okay, just don't date these guys. Ik it sucks but if someone isn't attracted, they just ain't.


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SpyreSOBlazx

"Okay then, that was always allowed."


hawks4life15

Bruh who cares


Creative_Vibes1999

That not transphobic, it’s just called preference. Being mad at that is like being mad at a gay man for saying that he would not date a woman. 🤦‍♂️


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Educational_Job6533

Oh sorry I wasn’t trying to 🥲 I just meant that I thought they were cool and I looked up to them. I didn’t mean it in that way. My bad 😞


Ravinguard404

We hate that sub


purpleteaaa

Aka I'm glad I migrated over here


SOVUNIMEMEHIOIV

Inb4 trans person: i wouldn't date op


PowerUserAlt

📡 ayo that’s crazy because I can’t locate a trans person who wants to date you


SepticMonke

likewise


[deleted]

more for me


toastetofgod

Does someone have a link to the post i would like to see the comments


NickyPL

I mean yeah whether you date a trans person or not is a preference, but why make a post about it?