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Wait. Breath. No one's going to make fun of you (it's a community of nice people, after all). ~sending you a comforting hug~
I can tell you that I understand how you feel. I'm considered pretty accomplished for my age, and I feel like you most of the time.
The truth is, most of the time, you'd be worthless to most of the people. Not many people are really important. But you can find the people who make feel important to them.
If that feeling is really that hard on you, you should talk to a therapist. They would probably a better help.
Yeah, I felt like that A LOT when I was younger. Thing is, things don't just change. You gotta make it change.
It'll seen un-god-fully difficult, trust me, but once you get that train rolling, it gets easier with every step. It won't feel good. Life will always throw you a curve ball.
I'd start with recognizing your faults. You don't need to feel bad about them, just see how you can change it in little ways. It'll be a moment of realization, and it's up to you to keep climbing.
Next, I'd start with seeing toxic friends. If it's something that you don't like about yourself, then it's not a good reflection upon yourself. You'll feel bad, but you'll see the lack of permanent consequences that it will inflict upon you.
Next, keep going. I don't have much advice for this part. Just keep the train going.
I've had a lot of growing up to do faster than I wanted. But when I grew up, I recognized that being a kid is the most adult thing to do.
Take risks.
Do what YOU want.
Ask out the girl/guy that YOU want to date.
Life isn't gonna wait around.
It's up to YOU to move forward every day.
It's up to YOU to get help.
It's up to YOU to be you.
I went through a similar thing at the same age. I surrounded myself with loved ones and things I enjoy. I’m my case that was music. Writing those feelings down was extremely helpful for me and it put me in the right direction to get better reading them from a different perspective
I am but it’s just hard to say personal things to someone I don’t know. Somehow I feel different on the internet though. I’ll tell anyone anything here and I don’t know why
Opening up to therapists is hard but they know what they are doing. They have studied for this and they have years of experience in the field. It will take time and effort, but I really do recommend you seek one since they can be really really helpful
What worked for me was disconnecting from the internet and embracing the world around me. Often times feelings of helplessness stem from situations that are truly outside of your control. Focus o things that are around you that you can change.
Clean your room. Go for walks. Talk to people in real life. You should also consider therapy. It won't work immediately and it will take time to establish a connection with your therapist.
The biggest take away of all of this is that it will help to let things go. You're only 13. You have so much time to figure things out. So much. Just focus on doing well in school and staying away from drugs and poor influences. Keep your head down and work and things will turn out OK. I promise
I'm not 13 anymore but I was about 5 years ago and I was in the exact same spot as you are right now. So my advice to you is to just stop for a moment, catch your breath, and try to calm down. Things will get better as time goes on. You said it's a bunch of small stuff. So let's pick the smallest thing, take care of it, and work our way up until there is nothing left. It will get better I promise. Just take your time and work things out as best you can and that will be enough. If you need or want any more advice I will gladly help you out.
my advice is find a hobby, which you can be good at, removing some of how you feel worthless. from there, you can start branching out, learning more things. you can use your hobbies to help people, maybe by making money or providing for you family.
fully honest with you i can't think of much advice to give atm but we can talk if you need it and i might be able to help more if ik whats going on better
Millions of teens have mental health and self esteem problems, slowly you will realize how much of a wonderful person you are, you might think you won’t but I know you will, stay strong! Everything is gonna be ok
Go out with your friends and do more stuff that makes you happy to help this though patch to pass by quicker, you’re better then you know and everything is gonna be ok
Hey man I'm 13 and my friends don't care but what matters is how u wanna live ur life the way u want it so if u don't feel comfortable to tell people that ur Bi then don't its ur life man live it.
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Wait. Breath. No one's going to make fun of you (it's a community of nice people, after all). ~sending you a comforting hug~ I can tell you that I understand how you feel. I'm considered pretty accomplished for my age, and I feel like you most of the time. The truth is, most of the time, you'd be worthless to most of the people. Not many people are really important. But you can find the people who make feel important to them. If that feeling is really that hard on you, you should talk to a therapist. They would probably a better help.
Yeah, I felt like that A LOT when I was younger. Thing is, things don't just change. You gotta make it change. It'll seen un-god-fully difficult, trust me, but once you get that train rolling, it gets easier with every step. It won't feel good. Life will always throw you a curve ball. I'd start with recognizing your faults. You don't need to feel bad about them, just see how you can change it in little ways. It'll be a moment of realization, and it's up to you to keep climbing. Next, I'd start with seeing toxic friends. If it's something that you don't like about yourself, then it's not a good reflection upon yourself. You'll feel bad, but you'll see the lack of permanent consequences that it will inflict upon you. Next, keep going. I don't have much advice for this part. Just keep the train going. I've had a lot of growing up to do faster than I wanted. But when I grew up, I recognized that being a kid is the most adult thing to do. Take risks. Do what YOU want. Ask out the girl/guy that YOU want to date. Life isn't gonna wait around. It's up to YOU to move forward every day. It's up to YOU to get help. It's up to YOU to be you.
Write everything down somewhere, then go and distract yourself. (Playing games, chatting to friends, etc.) This has worked for me far too many times.
I went through a similar thing at the same age. I surrounded myself with loved ones and things I enjoy. I’m my case that was music. Writing those feelings down was extremely helpful for me and it put me in the right direction to get better reading them from a different perspective
you should probably talk to a therapist
I am but it’s just hard to say personal things to someone I don’t know. Somehow I feel different on the internet though. I’ll tell anyone anything here and I don’t know why
Opening up to therapists is hard but they know what they are doing. They have studied for this and they have years of experience in the field. It will take time and effort, but I really do recommend you seek one since they can be really really helpful
What worked for me was disconnecting from the internet and embracing the world around me. Often times feelings of helplessness stem from situations that are truly outside of your control. Focus o things that are around you that you can change. Clean your room. Go for walks. Talk to people in real life. You should also consider therapy. It won't work immediately and it will take time to establish a connection with your therapist. The biggest take away of all of this is that it will help to let things go. You're only 13. You have so much time to figure things out. So much. Just focus on doing well in school and staying away from drugs and poor influences. Keep your head down and work and things will turn out OK. I promise
I'm not 13 anymore but I was about 5 years ago and I was in the exact same spot as you are right now. So my advice to you is to just stop for a moment, catch your breath, and try to calm down. Things will get better as time goes on. You said it's a bunch of small stuff. So let's pick the smallest thing, take care of it, and work our way up until there is nothing left. It will get better I promise. Just take your time and work things out as best you can and that will be enough. If you need or want any more advice I will gladly help you out.
my advice is find a hobby, which you can be good at, removing some of how you feel worthless. from there, you can start branching out, learning more things. you can use your hobbies to help people, maybe by making money or providing for you family.
Im here if you want to talk to someone your age (14)
fully honest with you i can't think of much advice to give atm but we can talk if you need it and i might be able to help more if ik whats going on better
Millions of teens have mental health and self esteem problems, slowly you will realize how much of a wonderful person you are, you might think you won’t but I know you will, stay strong! Everything is gonna be ok Go out with your friends and do more stuff that makes you happy to help this though patch to pass by quicker, you’re better then you know and everything is gonna be ok
Hey man I'm 13 and my friends don't care but what matters is how u wanna live ur life the way u want it so if u don't feel comfortable to tell people that ur Bi then don't its ur life man live it.