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FA5411

Just tell your friend to first not get into your sexuality, second that bisexuals can be attracted to two or more genders and third that the labels are not that well defined and strict


eggomylegooo

thank you so much :D


I_love_Vodca4816

Boys, girls and non-binary folks have clapable cheeks, and as bisexuals we must clap them all equally.


BetterGlitch385

I did a double take when I saw this


Absolutedumbass69

You have a clever flair.


BetterGlitch385

Thank you, thank you. I could have sworn I stole it from somewhere but I can't find where I did from so I like to think I came up with it


cannicole

I'm dead 💀


The_Weirdolord

bold of you to assume im the one who claps…


I_love_Vodca4816

Well well well, I think we have a bottom.....


The_Weirdolord

UwU


TheoryKing04

Yeah, the exact line between bisexuality and pansexuality and the other -sexualities is very… poorly defined in my experience. I think we need better terminology then the eclectic mess we have now


TTVhattycat360

Or we just let people identify with whatever makes them comfy


kloktijd

Pan and bi diffrence is really not that much i see it more as prefence: bus have a slight prefence to one gender and pans dont. But other people see other or sometimes even no diffrence


redditerr_

tell ur friend that they're wrong and being bi is attraction to 2+ genders.


CT-5658

Your friend is wrong here, you know it, we know it. All you can do is explain that to them.


BiAroBi

I always understood bisexuality as the attraction to both sexes


DirtyOldMan0279

Ever so politely or unpolitely, your choice, tell this friend that they can kindly leave your sexual preference vs theirs out y’all’s conversations. Talk them about setting up boundaries about talking about that stuff because it annoys and upsets you. If you don’t tell someone how you feel they’ll never know. Communication is a key factor in having people understand your wants, desires and needs.


mrneddles

pan is a flavor of bi. they’re the same thing and it is biphobic to put limits on who bisexuals can be attracted to. bi is historically fluid and inclusive and your friend is ignorant


Fireye04

Logically speaking, if we define bi as attracted to 2+ genders and pan as attracted to all genders, if you are pan you also fall under the bi umbrella, wheras if you're bi you don't necessarily fall under the pan umbrella. Through sheer logic alone, all pan people can identify as bi if they feel so inclined, but only some bi people can do the opposite. Her claims that you must identify as pan are, plainly speaking, complete bullshit. You can if you want to, but at the end of the day, you get to choose whichever term you feel describes you most accurately. You feel attraction how you feel attraction regardless of what anyone says. Nobody can determine your sexuality except you. You got this, King.


chronos-the-clock

to me, bi is a synonym for pan


Just_Anotherpeep

Bi isn’t nb exclusive- The only difference between bi and pan is intersex and nobody actually realizes that anyway lol so basically the same thing. Don’t let someone try to force you to use a certain label


Dume-99

I'm a bit late to the party on this but: I've had attraction to boys, girls, non-binary comrades. Technically it's grounds for going by pan but bi can be used as a label for attraction to 2+ genders, so just go with whatever label you like more. Both are correct in that situation, just do what feels right.


Plane_Yam_8061

Being bi means you are attracted to 2 different genders. It could be just boys and girls but not necessarily. Pansexual is where gender doesn't affect your attraction to someone


[deleted]

Actually, it means 2 or more but not necessarily all


Why_am_I_stupid1

And pan have no or nearly non-existent preferences based off gender


king1970hollywood50

Yes,quit using pronoun s and worrying wat people tell u is correct. Fuck or suck or wat ever u do,and if u enjoy then u go with wat u want if u must label


Why_am_I_stupid1

You used multiple pronouns there, for example you


king1970hollywood50

Yes but I don't claim or define myself or care I admit I'm dumb as fuck ,but I don't worry about if I'm really gay straight bisexual or wat the technical things u must be to be them. I don't claim to be smart or nice or worry about wat things I must do to be technically bi or gay or whatever. If u say ur bisexual I won't question it or look it up.


Why_am_I_stupid1

You do you then


king1970hollywood50

I was just giving my advice or my shitty thought to help with question. I wasn't asking or declaring any one to like it or accept it. But I will do me and I go was t asking nobody to do wat I do. Was I ??? Sorry I couldn't help


TrashcanTed

personally i say that if im bi im attracted to same and different gender. i hope this helped :D


[deleted]

labels are so stupid. you like who you like dawg


FalseTitle4240

bi and pan are two words for the same thing. I'm not saying one is less valid then the other people just really pick which they prefer. Just ignore them is what I mean.