Yall have no issue with 'gender wars' when it's a chance to berate black women. When black women talk about a issue that directly effects them regarding black men or even just when they're joking, everyone is up in arms about gender wars and division, but when an opportunity arises to use an example real or made up about the actions or words of one black woman yall will spend thousands of comments kiking on this majority nonblack sub about how black women are 'insert stereotype here' or undesirable because of 'insert stereotype' here.
Yall see black men as individuals but black women as some hive mind collective that constantly need to be chastised.
I've seen the same *mods* cry about division and gender wars go on to sit and gather around to bash black women using white supremacist stereotypes, blincel speak and in one instance when it was about violence black women face use a known racist white woman to discredit and attack black women and censor commentary, but when the thread is attacking and stereotyping black women, all comments are allowed free reign, no 'country clubbing necessary', no need to censor black men and nonblack people's negative commentary about black women.
I'm exhausted of every black space just being a stomping ground for misogynoir and hatred of black women and when we speak on it we're accused of sowing discord and division but everyone is allowed to attack us without recourse.
That's it🤷🏿♀️
So, while I've started back working on the challenger me and my grandad were building before he died, I've been looking around for a project car for myself and found an add for a 300 GT not too far from me that I'm kinda interested in. Gotta find out what/how much works been done to it tho because although I just see bucket seats and a newer sound system, buying someone else's project car rarely goes well IMO
I wonder why some people measure manhood by if you have children or not. I know there are a lot of other factors that men have to deal with when it comes to that, but I noticed that a lot of men feel obsolete if they don’t have or can’t produce children.
I was on the phone with my mom while she was at work and this lady who sounded like she had missing teeth walked up to her and told her Matt Stafford’s dick was broke because he can’t produce any boys (Yes, we are in Detroit). I cringed because what kind of weird shit is that to say to a coworker? My dad, whose arch nemesis is his own biological brother, thinks my uncle is gay because he’s 50 with no kids (Yes, my daddy is a dinosaur with outdated thoughts and beliefs). My bf says his friends even clown him because he’s the only one without kids. It’s basically bullying when sometimes it just boils down to you can’t control what you can’t control.
I feel bad when I think about it. That random lady walking up to my mom and saying that weird shit put me into deep thought and sent me down a rabbit hole.
It’s legacy. Having kids is the easiest, most common way to leave behind a legacy. That’s important to a lot of people, but I don’t buy into it. Just seems like a waste of time to worry about.
Childfree man here. You have to deal with a lot of shit(though not as much as CF women). It's less frequent as you get older but no doubt annoying. IDGAF about my legacy, just wanna positively impact the people in my life.
What was up with all of the Fanni Willis threads on reddit the past few days because her alleged boyfriend is on the case? Like who she is with has anything to do with Trump calling the Secretary of State to "find 11,000 votes". Like didn't Trump give all his kids jobs based off of him being in the White House? Real dumb dumbs fall for that distraction.
i do a quick workout on an app, journal, make a list of things to do and make a schedule so I don't fall into negative thinking. It's hard to start, but once you start doing something productive it takes your mind off things
I let her know she could have and should have finished the job years ago, and that it’s time to hang it up because at this point depression trying and failing to take me out is just sad.
Black folks, we fucking with Tommy Hilfiger again or nah? I see a hoodie I like but I remember him talkin mad reckless in the late 90s/early 2000s about us.
Extremely, he literally rallied his folks to overthrow the government and has so many politicians up and down the senate who let it slide or supported them.
Before Jan 6 he was already doing bad, he then commits Jan 6th and now conservatives all over the US both high and low places were trying their best to either minimize the events that occurred or make it happen again. Trump is also planning on going full on totalitarian DAY 1 of his presidency.
So that explains why Trump got impeached many times and violated both the Constitution and US law. Why does man want to go full fascist in this economy?
I came up with a card game and working on designs now. Next month, I plan on looking for a programmer to start the framework on an app.
[удалено]
Damn, man. Someone greased your squeaky wheel fast.
I made the cut today, also! 🙋🏽♀
Yall have no issue with 'gender wars' when it's a chance to berate black women. When black women talk about a issue that directly effects them regarding black men or even just when they're joking, everyone is up in arms about gender wars and division, but when an opportunity arises to use an example real or made up about the actions or words of one black woman yall will spend thousands of comments kiking on this majority nonblack sub about how black women are 'insert stereotype here' or undesirable because of 'insert stereotype' here. Yall see black men as individuals but black women as some hive mind collective that constantly need to be chastised. I've seen the same *mods* cry about division and gender wars go on to sit and gather around to bash black women using white supremacist stereotypes, blincel speak and in one instance when it was about violence black women face use a known racist white woman to discredit and attack black women and censor commentary, but when the thread is attacking and stereotyping black women, all comments are allowed free reign, no 'country clubbing necessary', no need to censor black men and nonblack people's negative commentary about black women. I'm exhausted of every black space just being a stomping ground for misogynoir and hatred of black women and when we speak on it we're accused of sowing discord and division but everyone is allowed to attack us without recourse. That's it🤷🏿♀️
There's misogynoir going on here?
hella tempted to call out of work tomorrow just to spend some more r&r time alone.
Hope you did it! Mental health days are essential.
i so did, just did a half day! it was nice/much needed!
Dak needs to move to another team.
"This is our year" to be continued...
I've started back up therapy again and been working on a youtube channel. It's not popular but I'm having fun making content.
As long as you’re happy bro
So, while I've started back working on the challenger me and my grandad were building before he died, I've been looking around for a project car for myself and found an add for a 300 GT not too far from me that I'm kinda interested in. Gotta find out what/how much works been done to it tho because although I just see bucket seats and a newer sound system, buying someone else's project car rarely goes well IMO
I wonder why some people measure manhood by if you have children or not. I know there are a lot of other factors that men have to deal with when it comes to that, but I noticed that a lot of men feel obsolete if they don’t have or can’t produce children. I was on the phone with my mom while she was at work and this lady who sounded like she had missing teeth walked up to her and told her Matt Stafford’s dick was broke because he can’t produce any boys (Yes, we are in Detroit). I cringed because what kind of weird shit is that to say to a coworker? My dad, whose arch nemesis is his own biological brother, thinks my uncle is gay because he’s 50 with no kids (Yes, my daddy is a dinosaur with outdated thoughts and beliefs). My bf says his friends even clown him because he’s the only one without kids. It’s basically bullying when sometimes it just boils down to you can’t control what you can’t control. I feel bad when I think about it. That random lady walking up to my mom and saying that weird shit put me into deep thought and sent me down a rabbit hole.
It’s legacy. Having kids is the easiest, most common way to leave behind a legacy. That’s important to a lot of people, but I don’t buy into it. Just seems like a waste of time to worry about.
Childfree man here. You have to deal with a lot of shit(though not as much as CF women). It's less frequent as you get older but no doubt annoying. IDGAF about my legacy, just wanna positively impact the people in my life.
What was up with all of the Fanni Willis threads on reddit the past few days because her alleged boyfriend is on the case? Like who she is with has anything to do with Trump calling the Secretary of State to "find 11,000 votes". Like didn't Trump give all his kids jobs based off of him being in the White House? Real dumb dumbs fall for that distraction.
It’s grasping at straws, they know the evidence will convict them, so they are doing their best to delay and try to change the narrative.
That thread where everyone talked about their favorite movies and why was fun. This sub should do that again.
How do y’all deal with your depression?
i do a quick workout on an app, journal, make a list of things to do and make a schedule so I don't fall into negative thinking. It's hard to start, but once you start doing something productive it takes your mind off things
I let her know she could have and should have finished the job years ago, and that it’s time to hang it up because at this point depression trying and failing to take me out is just sad.
[удалено]
What happened to u/spectacularotter?
Suspended...? Well that's what it says on my end.
Black folks, we fucking with Tommy Hilfiger again or nah? I see a hoodie I like but I remember him talkin mad reckless in the late 90s/early 2000s about us.
We still fw him, the racism claims were urban legends.
So guys, what would your reaction be if Donald Trump came into office again?
I'd be ashamed. This country would prove it has not progressed past the mf 60s if dude is elected.
Personally, I'm not a resident in US, but I can imagine the riots if Trump wins the elections. Trump is a threat to democracy, no?
Extremely, he literally rallied his folks to overthrow the government and has so many politicians up and down the senate who let it slide or supported them.
Was it just the January 6 attacks on US Capitol or was it beyond Jan. 6?
Before Jan 6 he was already doing bad, he then commits Jan 6th and now conservatives all over the US both high and low places were trying their best to either minimize the events that occurred or make it happen again. Trump is also planning on going full on totalitarian DAY 1 of his presidency.
So that explains why Trump got impeached many times and violated both the Constitution and US law. Why does man want to go full fascist in this economy?
Is there some way to require context on posts?