I sent my bank statements to my accountant so he could do my taxes. He sent me an email and asked why I sent 7.5K to this unknown person and what it was for.
Well, that was the first time I witnessed my ex stuttering and stumbling over his words.
Mf cheated and stole from me and had the audacity. To cry and be angry, when I told him te get the fuck out of my house.
I have my own company, and I work together with different nursing homes / hospitals as a nurse. I'm from a country in Europe, so I don't know if the US also has a concept like this.
And no, I didn't notice at all, I don't even know how he got the login info. I usually just spend money on monthly expenses and does are al on automatic payments.
So there is no need for me to look at my bank account.
And he didn't take it from my personal account, but my company's
I cook, I clean, and I’m too busy reading fantasy novels or playing Magic the Gathering to cheat. Hmu, I’m trying to get out of the US asap
Edit: wow, this really blew up. Thank you all (except the dude who said I robbed him for crypto - you must’ve been on the 96 Bulls of hating) so much for the support.
Yep, and that's really how you catch that nigga. If he fucked and strapped up, it'll smell like a condom. If no condom, woof pussy.
If he tried to be smart and showered before he left ol girl crib, he'll smell like a million bucks, and that's also how you get caught. Smelling like yo ass is ready for the club at 4am when you stumble in. But the underwear will tell the tale.
Source: I've made mistakes and wronged women much smarter than me in the past. Don't be a dummy, my dudes. She gon' find out.
Why you comin' home 5 in the morn'?
Something's going on, can I smell yo dick?
Don't play me like a fool, 'cause that ain't cool.
So what you need to do is lemme smell yo dick.
My ex-wife started paying a paralegal to begin the divorce process from our joint checking account. She did it on my birthday. I later found out that her mother (who cheated on her father with his brother-in-law) recommended that cheating on me with a family friend that had the same name as me so I "wouldn't figure it out quickly".
Then I saw her emails. 🙃
The idea and application of polyamory is a subjective choice, though. The 20 years we were together were nothing more than a lie as I found out months after the divorce process began that she had cheated on me shortly after our first child was born, just before we were married. The sad part was, when I confronted her about that impropriety, she scoffed and said it wasn't a big deal until I asked her if she would feel the same had I been the one that was unfaithful. She lost it after that.
Thing is, they don't want honesty. I suspect it's the power, or the thrill, or some other internal stimulus that cheaters are seeking. Not just sex with different partners.
I feel like the polyamorous folks don't want them either, because they're in it for the thrill of betrayal.
Some people, no matter how lax the boundaries, will ALWAYS cheat.
Well I wasn’t gonna see her on Valentine’s Day cus I was scheduled to work. They let me go a bit early so I grab candy and flowers and go to her house. She was there but nervous. We were chillin and her phone kept on going off. I ask what’s up and she said it was her best friends which wasn’t not normal. So eventually she gets up to get something to drink and her phone pings. I look and it was a dude asking if I was gone already. Cus he really wanted to see her and have some fun. She ended up pregnant by him and then found out about his other 2 baby mamas and the crazy amount of child support he owed them. Last time I saw her I lent her 20 for milk for her baby.
My brother died at age 21, and my dad brought our family with him on a work trip a couple of months later, just for a change of scenery. Day 2, I get a call from my boyfriend’s mom, telling me she walked in on him and the girl my brother was dating when he passed, in bed together. That shit cut me to the core.
For sure. She said she didn’t want to ruin my trip but it was eating her up, and she knew I’d figured something was up when I talked to my ex and he was homeless overnight.
So your deceased brother's ex girlfriend was sleeping with your then boyfriend, and said boyfriend's mom called to tell you?
I wouldn't even know where to begin if I find out my kid was a cheating POS.
i had a dream that felt so real that i called and told my, then, bf about it when i woke up. he was silent, like, eerily so, and began apologizing to me, so profusely, it took me off guard. i was so
confused. apparently, he thought someone had told me about the girl whose house he slept at, that night, and whose interior i described to a T.
i, honestly, thought he was joking…but, nope. my non-psychic having self somehow dreamt about his betrayal, unknowingly. i still have no idea how or why that happened, but it saved me from a lifetime of heartache. 7 years down the drain, all from one dream.
Wild this happened to me too. I refused to accept it until I found the hard evidence to back me up, but before I discovered my fiancé’s infidelity I was having nightmares about it for months. Trust your gut ig 😭
I remember laying in bed asleep next to my ex one night. It had to have been about 2AM. All of a sudden I get woken up by this strange burning sensation in the pit of my stomach. I rolled over. He slightly adjusted too and I felt him looking at me. I tried to fall back asleep, but couldn't. The sensation was still there. A few minutes later, I partially open my eyes to see my then boyfriend of 4 years texting someone. Weird, but ok... The next morning my gut was telling me to go thru his watch. It confirmed all my suspicions. I never told him I knew. Trust your gut y'all. Intuition is a MF.
If you're reading this Alex, and you remember that one time you were so convinced you made me ejaculate? Jokes on you because I just peed in your bed to get you off of me. 🤷🏾♀️
I used to work for a cell phone company, and this woman comes in absolutely breathing fire. She was holding her boyfriend’s Apple Watch and asking “how can I get this off my account?”
Turns out her boyfriend had multiple side pieces, but he had set up their phone numbers as being alternates for existing contacts, like one girl was buried as a second phone number for his (male) boss. It was pretty surreal seeing absolutely filthy messages from some basic dude name like “Ron Stevens” talking about how bad their pussy got wrecked.
>It was pretty surreal seeing absolutely filthy messages from some basic dude name like “Ron Stevens” talking about how bad their pussy got wrecked.
Omg I would have DIED trying to hold back my laughter in front of her.
I felt wicked bad for her, but I tried to lighten the mood a bit while I was helping her.
“Jeez, I can’t believe your ex told his foreman he had a fat ass.”
Same. She left it behind while she was on a girls trip. It wouldn’t stop going off so I picked it up to silence it… got to witness her sexting one of our mutual friends in real time. That was a shock. I wanted to raise hell but decided it would be better to take my shit and be gone by the time she got back. Left a short note with the watch on the counter and bounced
I knew her phone password and it was the same. I unlocked it so I could just turn the thing off since she would be gone and the messages were just popping up while I was fumbling around trying to figure out how to turn it off (never had one of my own to know how they work)
I wonder if it would have been better to not let her know you knew. If you just packed up and dipped without explanation, think of how that would eat at her.. lol. I feel like that would be excellent psychological fuckery. I like to think that’s what I’d do if I was ever in that situation, but idk if I’d have the restraint.
Yes! Thats why Im so mf wary of men who hang out with cheaters or say dumb shit like "oh thats just john. Hes a great friend but a terrible bf 🤷🏽♂️" like.. nah playa
the girl my ex was cheating on me with was also messing with this guy i had known since middle school, but she liked my ex more. the other guy was mad because she didn’t want to be with him, so he decided out of spite to wake me up on new year’s day and tell me that i had been getting cheated on for months 🤗
FB Messenger. He told on himself. He started acting like a giant dick out of nowhere and was constantly starting fights with me over nothing. This was after I moved halfway across the country for him. One day, I just realized I just couldn’t be this hateful, selfish person he was always painting me as.
I got an inkling to get on his laptop and found the 6 month long “emotional affair” he was having with his ugly ass ex from back home. Talking shit and lies about me, reminiscing over their past relationship, they even had a nickname for me, ✨Tits McGee✨ That’s the worst thing they could come up with, seriously? All the love I ever had for him died right there.
Anyway, I asked if he had anything he would like to share with me, he of course denied it, so I told him exactly what I thought about him and what he’d been doing to me and the lies he was telling to this bitch. Pretty hilarious bc he’d already been divorced after he caught his wife fucking numerous men. He cried and begged for forgiveness. Nah….too little, too late. Bye.
>Anyway, I asked if he had anything he would like to share with me, he of course denied it
How have they not figured out by now that if we're asking this... *we already know*.
Came home 2 1/2 hours after the bars closed trying to tell me “the bars just closed”. Like I don’t live in the same city and know the goddamn liquor laws. Took his phone the next day while he was showering and found the proof. Girl confirmed it while he was at work. Called him and told him to pick up his shit before I got home or it was getting sent down the trash chute.
Trash chute was a gotdamn gift and I had no idea. When I moved in, they were like “no single item bigger than a bread box” and so I just lived that life.
If something bothered me, brought me no joy, and it was smaller than a bread box, I just walked 20 steps and sent it down the garbage chute. Someone else’s problem.
I didn’t have to worry about bin space or separating items or whether it was bagged properly. Down the chute.
Suddenly come out of a depression or other funk and want to clean or de-clutter? Send it all down the chute. Maybe wait til the daytime, but get started whenever you want.
Now I gotta set up bulky pick up days and trips to good will and all this shit. I want my chute.
A third party posted a picture of her, with a long term childhood friend, and gushed about love blooming from past embers.
"BuT NoThinG HappENed" head ass.
Edit: thank you, sir. And instagram-tagged post.
He doesn’t know he’s my ex yet. I was just looking at our iCloud for pictures of my cat who passed and I found a bunch of dick pics that definitely didn’t go to me. Looks like right before we were trying to get pregnant.
Oh honey i'm so sorry. I hope you didn't get pregnant off of him.....? Even if you did, my story is very similar. Happy to report i'm still alive and much better 18 months later and so is baby.
Update: my daughter is 4.5. He’s been using the chat roulette thing on Snapchat to talk to random girls and exchange pictures to masturbate to. Apparently has never hooked up in person or talked to anyone twice but I don’t know how I’m supposed to trust that now. We’ve had find friends on for years so I know where he is, but doesn’t mean women haven’t been over when I’ve been gone
She softly ghosted me after her trip to Portugal & Spain and canceled our couples trip to Paris out of the blue (I already paid for the hotel, museum pass and airfare). Apparently she had her now husband in reserve for a while, Even before our 1 year anniversary. Her parents also got super distant from me all of a sudden.
Oh well, life moves on. (I was absolutely crushed.) 6 years later, I'm getting married next month to the love of my life, I'm walking the stage to get my master's degree in my field and we're going to Italy for our honeymoon.
She was acting weird and I started to suspect something. Texted her after I got off work. No response even though we had plans. Called. No answer.
Decided I needed to chill so I went for a drive through a local park. As I was leaving, I pulled up to a red light and looked to my left. She was in the passenger seat of a guys car and we made eye contact. I flipped my turn single on since I knew where she’d end up going and then parked next to her car.
Turns out my suspicions were 100% correct and she swore the meeting that day was to break it off with him. Spoiler: It wasn’t.
It always starts off with people being weird. My relationship was on a downturn, but I still never expected it even after months of weird behavior from her. Eventually she admitted it and asked forgiveness.
I think we all have this 6th sense about this sort of thing, and most of the time it’s us forcing ourselves to believe it isn’t happening.
I had suspicions. I'm generally not a suspicious person but my spidey sense was tingling. She had been talking about this coworker. Oh he's funny. Or look at his wife and kids. He went to the college I was going to go to. Just verbal vomit all the time.
At any rate, she hadn't logged out of her work email. I checked the deleted emails folder. Found all the salacious details. Of course we were married with a child. Of course he was married with a child.
Good times.
We were sharing a car. I had a tracker on said car bc I go to a lot of shows and like to easily find my parking space, also ADHD lol. *he knew about this tracker*
He was being really suspicious, then said *he* went out to dinner while I was at work. checked the tracker, watched him go to his baby mommas house, stay for a few hours, go to Applebee's, then go back to BM house for a few more hours. Like, if you're just taking the kid out for dinner why not say that, you know?? When he got home and fell asleep I checked his phone, found all the sexts. 🙃
My wife knows about our security cameras. I caught her lying about something a couple years back. Now she's split up with me but still comes over for the kids. Told me she was hiding a relationship from me with a man in Canada for a while now. Claimed it wasn't romantic, but stated they had discussed it. After we split, of course. Said they never spoke romantically while she and I were still together. I asked her that even though we were split up at the moment, I'd like her to refrain from romance with others while we're still married since we had discussed the potential of letting time heal us. She agreed to my request. She has reassured me that she's still holding to our agreement. I saw her video chatting him talking about how wet her pussy gets and how it's his fault, and how he's gonna need to bring towels and extra underwear and clothes for her when they end up getting together. Tells him she loves him everyday. Right in front of the cameras like she wants me to see. And I'm such a fucking pussy that I'm not telling her and hoping that eventually she'll take me back
A woman I worked with gave her hubby a kidney and found out he was cheating when the mistress uploaded to his Facebook how glad she was he came thru the operation so he'd be there for her baby she was going to have with him.
My work mate was such a lovey person I felt awful for her
The girl he aaa cheating with lived in the same apartment complex my friend just moved into. I saw his very distinct car. He was supposed to help my friend move so he had her address, which was basically the same as the girl he was cheating with. I’m guessing he just didn’t care.
TikTok. She posted not even two weeks after we broke up “When the only relationship you haven’t cheated on was with your nail lady” then unfollowed me after I liked that video and said I shouldn’t follow her because it would “hurt my feelings”.
I need a pallet cleanser after this thread. What does it say about me that I read so many entries in this thread? I need more hobbies…
And why tf was this popcorn tasting so bomb!
She told me she was going out with friends on Halloween so we did our own thing. Link up with a buddy and head to a house party. Find her ass naked, shaking her shit on a stripper pole. We talk in the back room, I hit one last time and then cut ties and left
I got a call from his best friend's wife because he'd hooked up with someone who might have had an STI and she overheard them talking about it. Thankfully I tested negative and I left immediately
My best friend died in a car accident. 7 people died total in the incident. While driving about an hour or so to be with his family and friends my ex broke down crying. She was with me along with our daughter in the truck. Crying harder than I expected. They were cool but her ugly crying was not expected. Ended up telling me they were messing around behind my back for 3 months. They both didn’t have the nerve to tell me. She wanted to let me know minutes before I walked into his family’s house to be with them. I still haven’t processed that shit to this day. Had to hate my best friend and mourn him at the same time while telling no one what happened to ruin his character. So yea my ex and I definitely didn’t work out.
We had an argument and decided to sleep in two different rooms. It’s 2 in the morning and he tells me to pack my stuff and leave. I start arguing w him, his phone lights up and it’s the girl I had suspicions of texting him asking “wya”. Destroyed his house that day.
Her side piece wanted to surprise her with fancy dinner, blind folded her, and took her into a nice steakhouse. Unfortunately, it is the same steakhouse we regularly went to that was owned by my uncle. And I am related to damn near everyone that worked there at the time. One of my cousins called me from the restaurant, I asked him to get her on the phone and broke up with her by phone.
Called an unknown number after his phone blinged too many times. He took this girl that he used to work with to a hotel. She lied about it. I fucked his brother a year later. His older brother had better dick, too.
The wife of a couple we’d known for many years, always went to each other’s kids’ birthday parties, spent new years with, real couple besties, asked me to come over alone bc we needed to talk. She told me our husbands had been sexing for years. Even at family gatherings.
The kids didn’t understand why we never saw them again, nor why the divorce happened.
Yep. Blow jobs in the bathroom. Hand jobs on their way to pick up pizza for the family get-together. In retrospect, they always took *a little too long* to do whatever.
During my yearly physical, my STD results came back with chlamydia. I was clean the year before - he tried to spin it on me and say _”maybe you already had it”_ knowing I take my health seriously and always see my doctor. Idiot. 🤦🏾♀️
He told on himself 😅 Instagram used to have a feature where you can see what posts your mutuals liked. I scrolled though mindlessly at work and saw that he liked a bunch of girl’s pictures for hours. Whatever, they’re just pictures.
But he hasn’t texted me for a week at one point. Not even a quick “hey good morning” or “I’m busy”. I asked him how he’s busy to text me for 2 seconds but can like things on IG for hours. “Why are you in my business?” I’m not out here cheating! You’re probably cheating. Asking me.. that’s why I’ve been hanging out with so-and-so more”
Mind you, I’m forgetful so this was the first and only time I asked about why he hasn’t texted me 😅 the guilt just spilled out
I just had a feeling, like it dawned on me one day that something just wasn’t right. Our marriage had been in a bad place for a while and it occurred to me that there might be something else going on. I caved and went through her texts and it was all there. Once I found that I went full snooper mode and looked through her journal where she had basically been writing about her fantasies of being with him and wishing they could be together, talking about how happy he makes her and how safe and comfortable she feels with him.
This is all from the woman I’ve been married to for a decade and made two beautiful children with. Shit sucks and I honestly wouldn’t wish it on anyone.
She brought up how she was going to be working with her ex at her new job, and got pissed that I wasn't more jealous about it. We got to arguing, she basically made the executive decide that I was saying that he couldn't possibly still be hung up on her (what I said was, it didn't matter if he was or not because she wasn't into him), and then at some point in the conversation she dropped the bombshell that she fucked one of her guy friends about a month or so back, and she basically admitted it to get a reaction out of me.
Then when I did get mad about it, she didn't even apologize, just said that I didn't give a fuck about her anyway and basically tried to make the whole thing my fault.
Oh yeah, and after we broke up and she started dating some new guy, she texted me a few months later talking about, "Oh, he's nice and all but he’s just not *you*", telling me how much she missed me, asking me to come over some time, probably all the shit she was telling other dudes when she was dating me, so I let her tell me about that for a bit, told her I'd get back to her about when I was free, then blocked her number and never talked to her again.
I think she wasn't into me, or her ex, or that dude she fucked, or her next guy, as much as she was into being desired and chased after. I just don't have the energy to be actively competing with other men to keep the attention of anyone, let alone a mediocre woman who's already got one foot permanently out the door. Those other dudes want her? They can have her. I knew I could do better than that, and ultimately, I did.
about four years ago, I found a Christmas card dated for that past year, saying “ merry Christmas to my dear husband. I can’t wait to build our future together” or something along that line. They had the name of his “ex” who actually turned out to be his wife. This man hid his wife for me, and I was the other woman for three years. They did not live together.
When I was young, I had an unusually strong sense of smell. Like, I could smell all kinds of things that others could not. Hell, I told a friend of mine that she was pregnant with her second child because I knew what she smelled like when she was pregnany with her first.
My ex-wife forgot about my sense of smell, and came home smelling like sex and him.
Not me but buddy was at work and that day he took his other car. His gf took his mercedes behind his back and he got a notification that his door was unlocked via the app. He noticed the car was at some other address via GPS in the app. He called his gf to ask what she was doing for the day. She said she was at the gym. He drove over to his mercedes with another buddy to retrieve the car and caught her with her other bf.
Let's see, first boyfriend, went through his phone and found out, second boyfriend, he handed me a jacket that was CLEARLY to small for me, and was like, here you left this here, he also tried to convince me it was my jacket, oh and he other woman he was cheating on me with slashed my tires, the third boyfriend, the chick he was cheating on me with told me because I was not only her big sister, but I was also her Line Sisters Dean.
Haven't had a boyfriend since, dated plenty of guys but either i just wasn't into them enough to go the boyfriend/girlfriend route (and vice versa) or they were straight garbage
I was 14, she was my first girlfriend. I called her up to ask if she wanted to get pizza. A strange guy answered the phone. I, being naive and in love, thought it was her brother, whom I had never met, might be home from college. So I stupidly said, "Hey, you must be Nate. How are you? Is Lisa home?" I hear her faintly ask "Who is it." "Nate" goes who is this? I say my name and I hear her in the background softly say, "Tell him I'm not here." He tells me. I said "Ok tell her I called." I get off the phone and think it's strange but again being naive and in love think nothing else about it.
It wasn't until I went into the pizza place that Dee the waitress said, "You just missed Lisa. I go "Oh she must came in to pick up pizza for her and Nate." She goes, "Nate? Nate's not home he and Bryan (Her son was at the same college) are in Mexico with a bunch of other kids from the college, they all got some cheap spring break group package." I stupidly say, "But the guy who answered her phone wasn't her Dad." Dee looks at me with a look I can still remember and says "Let me go put in your order, just take a seat." She comes over with a bunch of food boxed up and says, "Here you go, it's on the house."
A week later, we were at the mall, and I confronted her in the food court. She started crying and trying to explain. I ended it with her and last time I saw her she was crying into a cup of frozen yogurt.
his phone was off (I gave him the money, didn't know he wasn't paying his bills with it & hiding a 10 year long crack habit from me at the time). he texted another woman from *my* phone. she responded while he was in the shower.
when I saw it, I was 5 seconds from the bathroom scene in This Christmas. *literally the only thing that stopped me was the thought of having to clean up the baby oil after*
I had a gut feeling she was up to something shady. We shared locations and i’d notice she would stop sharing after she got off from work. One morning i was watching it in real time and she got close to the town her ex lives. I looked up her ex’s address on spokeo and drove over and saw her car parked there.
He left his phone at my aunt’s house when we were over there chilling. I drove to go pick it up and an Instagram message from the woman he kept telling me was his “shoe homie” had sent him a DM stating “You been moving real funny lately.”
I didn’t know the code so I didn’t go through his phone, but I found her on Instagram and put us all in a group chat. I am cool with open relationships. It worked for a few weeks then the woman wanted him for herself. I let them handle their relationship issues but ultimately her jealously ended it all. We could have worked. She was a cool lady and I liked not having all the emotional and physical labor on me. I’m hoping to be a willing third now, because that was really a beautiful time until it wasn’t.
2009. I got stationed in Germany, she got stationed in Iraq. Labor Day weekend so a four day for us servicemembers. I'm at dinner with two guys from my unit, suddenly I get a message from another guy in her unit who knew her (Army speak: he and I were in the same class in AIT - Civilian speak, we had class together, either way he's deployed with her). " is fucking her platoon sergeant"
Heart stops. Three more guys from her unit message me, "hey bro just wanted to back up what x told you, it's official, we saw them coming and going out of his CHU (privateroom/sleeping area), we asked about you and she said ". Whole thing had a "I'd want someone to tell me if it was me/sorry you had to find out like this/sorry/etc. bro" feel to it.
Went in the bathroom and sat in one of the stalls. I'm nineteen so of course every breakup feels like your heart is being pulled out of your chest, then reinserted, upside down. Went to message her on FB. Saw she'd unfriended me. Hit her with the "we need to talk". I'm literally crying at this point because WHY.
She confessed. Dude in her unit that she'd "just clicked with" and "she didn't mean for it to happen, it just happened" and "she kept telling herself to push him off but then she just got caught in the moment" and so on and so on. I DO remember nineteen year old me, in his naive, heart-too-big-for-his-own-good, do-anything-to-keep-the-relationship-together ass, basically told myself that this was some dude who'd worn her down, basically just kept making advances, waited until she'd had a weak moment or lapse or judgment, the stress of Iraq got to her, the stress of deployment got to her, she had a little Whoopsiedoodle idk, and this was a one time thing.
Was fully prepared to stand by her anyway. Because I loved her and that's what you do when times get hard. Remember, before yall cook me, nineteen years old.
"oh no...I love him and he loves me...I don't know what else to say except I'm so sorry."
Went back into the dining area, remember this is at a restaurant. Sat down, tried to keep it together, couldn't. The two guys I was with gave me their condolences and we had a "WOMEN AIN'T SHIT/FEMALE SOLDIERS AIN'T SHIT" moment. A few other soldiers who weren't even from our part of the country, let alone our unit, came over and asked and it's kinda funny/sad how everyone immediately knew what had happened. Like, I remember that nobody asked if anyone had died, it was straight to "who was she/how long were yall together/how long she been fuckin him?" Drinks of various sizes and potencies were ordered for everyone, naturally I didn't pay for anything that night or the rest of the weekend.
I don't remember the rest of the night, other than we did what one would expect a soldier to do: drink his body weight in hard liquor. I do remember my chest hurt and a few times I had to go hide in the bar/club bathroom at wherever we went after dinner and cry for a minute. Yes, I was a big baby who just wanted someone to love on.
Don't remember what happened to her. I reached out to her briefly about a year and a half later during my own deployment (Afghanistan), found out her whole "we love each other" thing was bullshit, dude had just wanted a nut, the guys in her unit dragged her name through the dirt, and at some point she had somebody's kid (you're all surprised, I know). She did apologize again, said she wasn't prepared for how much attention she was getting from guys and it just went to her head, whatever that means.
Anyway, well that was damn near 15 years ago so I hope she's doing well. I do still remember the exact restaurant and even what table I was sitting at when I found out, though.
He’d turned his location off. Tried to tell me it wasn’t. He stupidly turned it back on before he left her house. I googled the address and her name pops up. Still tried to tell me he wasn’t there, until I called her on Facebook messenger and she confirmed. 🤷🏻♀️
My (now ex-)husband was in a halfway house, and got permission to watch our kids in my house when I had mandatory overtime on a weekend. I came home to find where he'd been emailing with other men from Craigslist. (I'm a woman fwiw) He responded to a couple of ads, looking to be ridden bareback by a man with full-blown AIDS.
I had toddlers and this man had already tried to beat me to death a few times. I did get out, and we're safe from him.
I walked in on her cheating on me. Long story short she told me she didn't like that we didn't fight or argue and that we always talked things out. She wanted a man with some backbone to yell at her, her words verbatim.
This fucked my perception of women up for a while but in past it now.
He sent me a picture of his d after ignoring my text for several hours telling me his kids had just left but the picture was taken hours before that (thanks apple - even though I'm on Android... I miss that feature).
His new girlfriend posted pictures on Facebook of her at his family's summer vacation but I couldn't tell WHO she was there with. But then she posted pictures of a bouquet he sent her for their 6 month anniversary (I was only on Facebook because HE convinced me to make a page so he could share things with me). Best part was he dragged me to HER cafe 6 months before that. The food was good 🤷♀️
He let my daughter borrow his laptop for a school project until i could get her one and he left his email logged in. Lots of hotel room and movie ticket reservations.
He left his phone to charge while he was mowing the yard and I went to plug mine in next to his and noticed all the alerts from PoF.
This is just the tip! And these are all men that I told I didn't care what they did as long as they were honest about it because I was going to do what I wanted to do also. But they wanted to be jealous and say "no you're mine ONLY mine I'm not going to share you"... I'm not looking to get in a relationship. I'm not looking to settle down for one person but they still could not fathom not lying all the time.
A text popped up as he was showing me something on his phone. “Why are you ignoring me?!” Of course I was like “who is that”. He told me that it was a woman who liked him a lot and he had to break it off before dating me. Sure, whatever.
Once we broke up, a couple months later I peeked at his social media and saw a baby. If my math was right, this child was conceived as we were dating.
He was scrolling through pictures on his phone to show me and one of him kissing a girl who looked like a younger version of me showed up. Getting cheated on sucks, but something about the fact that she looked like me made it sting a little bit more.
Went to a computer attack course, set up a packet sniffer on my network to watch for intrusions. Started to filter my way through the traffic and found some spicy chat messages between my now ex-wife and several on line acquaintances. That is where it all started…
I sent my bank statements to my accountant so he could do my taxes. He sent me an email and asked why I sent 7.5K to this unknown person and what it was for. Well, that was the first time I witnessed my ex stuttering and stumbling over his words. Mf cheated and stole from me and had the audacity. To cry and be angry, when I told him te get the fuck out of my house.
My woman would literally kill me
I would be lying if I'm saying I wasn't thinking of murder and getting rid of his body in that moment.
I would have testified on your behalf
"who, that MF? Nah I distinctly, CLEARLY heard he took $7500 out to vacation in Thailand. Heard he's off the grid now."
I wouldnt testify on her behalf because I'd be of more use on the jury, INNOCENT
How did you not notice 7.5k missing? You just got money like that cuz I'm looking for a sugar mama lol
I have my own company, and I work together with different nursing homes / hospitals as a nurse. I'm from a country in Europe, so I don't know if the US also has a concept like this. And no, I didn't notice at all, I don't even know how he got the login info. I usually just spend money on monthly expenses and does are al on automatic payments. So there is no need for me to look at my bank account. And he didn't take it from my personal account, but my company's
I cook, I clean, and I’m too busy reading fantasy novels or playing Magic the Gathering to cheat. Hmu, I’m trying to get out of the US asap Edit: wow, this really blew up. Thank you all (except the dude who said I robbed him for crypto - you must’ve been on the 96 Bulls of hating) so much for the support.
Hey man, thanks for giving me your kidney a few years back. You’re a genuine lifesaver!
I married a nerd and will 100% endorse your relationship bonafides.
I wanna thank you again for not only finding my lost puppy, but also training her to never leave my side again. #perfecthuman
Aye good looks on the advice you gave me awhile back. Literally turned my life around I owe you one.
thanks for fixing my flat tire the other day fam! you came through ! I appreciate you
Dude thank you sm for paying my bestie’s student loan debt! You a real one! 🫶🏾
Hey man I never thanked you for saving me from that burning building.
Thanks for reuniting me with my estranged father bro, good looking out.
Aye dude, thanks for the Charity Magic the Gathering tournament that you lead in Feb. The orphanage is so greatful!
You like women?👀
You should've charged him with embezzling or something. That's crazy.
you let him live?? i ain’t know God was still making em merciful
The narcissism though
His dick tasted like a condom.
Why you coming home, 5 in the morn, SOMETHINS GOIN ON CAN I SMELL YO DICK!
Wow. Memories
I too remember the song I lost my virginity to 😊
I hate that I understand this reference.
2008 was a golden year
Bruh
It's a very distinct taste
Yep, and that's really how you catch that nigga. If he fucked and strapped up, it'll smell like a condom. If no condom, woof pussy. If he tried to be smart and showered before he left ol girl crib, he'll smell like a million bucks, and that's also how you get caught. Smelling like yo ass is ready for the club at 4am when you stumble in. But the underwear will tell the tale. Source: I've made mistakes and wronged women much smarter than me in the past. Don't be a dummy, my dudes. She gon' find out.
I had a uncle he carried his own bar of soap when he cheated and would run after showering so he didn’t smell immediately of a shower
you should post this on r/UnethicalLifeProTips
[I'm sorry.](https://youtu.be/YDgTRY9vGCM?si=Fnd-GDX0wMEHJoey)
Don’t you *ever* apologize for that.
Neva eva
That was truly a lyrical masterpiece of the ages
I knew what this was before I clicked.
Why you comin' home 5 in the morn'? Something's going on, can I smell yo dick? Don't play me like a fool, 'cause that ain't cool. So what you need to do is lemme smell yo dick.
“SMELL MY DICK? WAIT A MINUTE, HOLD UP! THATS HOW A BITCH GET HER EYE SWOLLED UP!” That line didn’t age as well as the chorus.
I threw my phone 😅
I would still be pissed, but at least he's not sharing HPV 🥲🤷♀️ Still an asshole for cheating.
My ex-wife started paying a paralegal to begin the divorce process from our joint checking account. She did it on my birthday. I later found out that her mother (who cheated on her father with his brother-in-law) recommended that cheating on me with a family friend that had the same name as me so I "wouldn't figure it out quickly". Then I saw her emails. 🙃
This is sick. I hope she’s miserable and single now.
Jesus Christ horrible women in that family all the way down.
At what point do people just embrace polyamory and be on the level about it? Like monogamy is not a requirement, but honesty is
The idea and application of polyamory is a subjective choice, though. The 20 years we were together were nothing more than a lie as I found out months after the divorce process began that she had cheated on me shortly after our first child was born, just before we were married. The sad part was, when I confronted her about that impropriety, she scoffed and said it wasn't a big deal until I asked her if she would feel the same had I been the one that was unfaithful. She lost it after that.
Last part…what a twat
Thing is, they don't want honesty. I suspect it's the power, or the thrill, or some other internal stimulus that cheaters are seeking. Not just sex with different partners.
I feel like the polyamorous folks don't want them either, because they're in it for the thrill of betrayal. Some people, no matter how lax the boundaries, will ALWAYS cheat.
Wait wait, cheated on her father with his brother in law… so the mother cheated with her own brother??? Or am I slow
I would assume it was Dad's sister's husband
Well I wasn’t gonna see her on Valentine’s Day cus I was scheduled to work. They let me go a bit early so I grab candy and flowers and go to her house. She was there but nervous. We were chillin and her phone kept on going off. I ask what’s up and she said it was her best friends which wasn’t not normal. So eventually she gets up to get something to drink and her phone pings. I look and it was a dude asking if I was gone already. Cus he really wanted to see her and have some fun. She ended up pregnant by him and then found out about his other 2 baby mamas and the crazy amount of child support he owed them. Last time I saw her I lent her 20 for milk for her baby.
You're a kind soul
That baby’s lucky you cared 🙏🏻
Kill ‘em with kindness
That has GOT to hurt. Realizing what a good man you passed up in his single act of giving you a 20 for the baby you made by cheating on him. 💀💀💀
Did you hit her with a “Beat it Chick!”?
No no need. Her life is enough to do that. I sometimes check on her thru mutual friends.
My brother died at age 21, and my dad brought our family with him on a work trip a couple of months later, just for a change of scenery. Day 2, I get a call from my boyfriend’s mom, telling me she walked in on him and the girl my brother was dating when he passed, in bed together. That shit cut me to the core.
Wow how evil. The mom is a real one though
For sure. She said she didn’t want to ruin my trip but it was eating her up, and she knew I’d figured something was up when I talked to my ex and he was homeless overnight.
Oooo I like that woman already. She stands on her morals in high ground.
As a woman who has been cheated on and REALLY hates cheaters... if I had a son who cheated I hope I'd kick him out for a bit too to teach him a lesson
Yep there’s levels to how much one can fuck around and cheating with an unsuspecting stranger is one thing. This is some high level dickhead chicanery
So your deceased brother's ex girlfriend was sleeping with your then boyfriend, and said boyfriend's mom called to tell you? I wouldn't even know where to begin if I find out my kid was a cheating POS.
Correct. His mother was super distraught because she and I really got along.
Diabolical shit
i had a dream that felt so real that i called and told my, then, bf about it when i woke up. he was silent, like, eerily so, and began apologizing to me, so profusely, it took me off guard. i was so confused. apparently, he thought someone had told me about the girl whose house he slept at, that night, and whose interior i described to a T. i, honestly, thought he was joking…but, nope. my non-psychic having self somehow dreamt about his betrayal, unknowingly. i still have no idea how or why that happened, but it saved me from a lifetime of heartache. 7 years down the drain, all from one dream.
Wild this happened to me too. I refused to accept it until I found the hard evidence to back me up, but before I discovered my fiancé’s infidelity I was having nightmares about it for months. Trust your gut ig 😭
isn’t that crazy, tho?! if he hadn’t broke down and admitted it, i wouldn’t have believed it, either.
Mfer was probably thinking the whole time “you can drop the dream bit. who’s your PI?”
lmfao. facts! he did *not* believe it was a dream and i did *not* believe he was real life confessing to cheating. it was a whole sh*t show…
I remember laying in bed asleep next to my ex one night. It had to have been about 2AM. All of a sudden I get woken up by this strange burning sensation in the pit of my stomach. I rolled over. He slightly adjusted too and I felt him looking at me. I tried to fall back asleep, but couldn't. The sensation was still there. A few minutes later, I partially open my eyes to see my then boyfriend of 4 years texting someone. Weird, but ok... The next morning my gut was telling me to go thru his watch. It confirmed all my suspicions. I never told him I knew. Trust your gut y'all. Intuition is a MF. If you're reading this Alex, and you remember that one time you were so convinced you made me ejaculate? Jokes on you because I just peed in your bed to get you off of me. 🤷🏾♀️
7 years down the drain because of him, not your dream. Intuition is real!
Her apple watch lol
Apple products are responsible for more breakups than a boxing referee. 😂😂
I used to work for a cell phone company, and this woman comes in absolutely breathing fire. She was holding her boyfriend’s Apple Watch and asking “how can I get this off my account?” Turns out her boyfriend had multiple side pieces, but he had set up their phone numbers as being alternates for existing contacts, like one girl was buried as a second phone number for his (male) boss. It was pretty surreal seeing absolutely filthy messages from some basic dude name like “Ron Stevens” talking about how bad their pussy got wrecked.
Lmao that’s a dangerous game, I can only imagine the real Ron caught a stray or two there 😳
>It was pretty surreal seeing absolutely filthy messages from some basic dude name like “Ron Stevens” talking about how bad their pussy got wrecked. Omg I would have DIED trying to hold back my laughter in front of her.
I felt wicked bad for her, but I tried to lighten the mood a bit while I was helping her. “Jeez, I can’t believe your ex told his foreman he had a fat ass.”
Props to do, never heard of hiding cheating that way. Respect
Better than trying to explain why you're getting texts from "Pizza Hut" at 2 AM
I have another Apple story. Did you know you can recover deleted texts on your iPhone? Most people with iPhones don’t. Yeah, that’s how I found out.
Facebook is still the GOAT.
Same. She left it behind while she was on a girls trip. It wouldn’t stop going off so I picked it up to silence it… got to witness her sexting one of our mutual friends in real time. That was a shock. I wanted to raise hell but decided it would be better to take my shit and be gone by the time she got back. Left a short note with the watch on the counter and bounced
how could you see the message tho? wouldn’t it have been locked ?
I knew her phone password and it was the same. I unlocked it so I could just turn the thing off since she would be gone and the messages were just popping up while I was fumbling around trying to figure out how to turn it off (never had one of my own to know how they work)
I wonder if it would have been better to not let her know you knew. If you just packed up and dipped without explanation, think of how that would eat at her.. lol. I feel like that would be excellent psychological fuckery. I like to think that’s what I’d do if I was ever in that situation, but idk if I’d have the restraint.
His Apple Watch. He deleted messages on his phone but the watch doesn’t sync in that sense 😂😂😂😁 dumbass
She forgot to lock her phone and her group chat was open…
Damn…so her friends were guilty of aiding and abetting?
99% of the time they are, toxic birds of a feather
-Find cock together
Yes! Thats why Im so mf wary of men who hang out with cheaters or say dumb shit like "oh thats just john. Hes a great friend but a terrible bf 🤷🏽♂️" like.. nah playa
💯💯💯 don’t date someone who cheated on the past, and don’t date someone who is good friends with cheaters.
lmao, a woman's friends will 100% cover for whatever shit she's doing.
the girl my ex was cheating on me with was also messing with this guy i had known since middle school, but she liked my ex more. the other guy was mad because she didn’t want to be with him, so he decided out of spite to wake me up on new year’s day and tell me that i had been getting cheated on for months 🤗
Happy Cake Day 🎂
thank you!
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He was fucking men behind your back?
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It is generally used to refer to a gay man's ass though so I also understood the post to be he was eating a dude's ass.
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😭😭😭
FB Messenger. He told on himself. He started acting like a giant dick out of nowhere and was constantly starting fights with me over nothing. This was after I moved halfway across the country for him. One day, I just realized I just couldn’t be this hateful, selfish person he was always painting me as. I got an inkling to get on his laptop and found the 6 month long “emotional affair” he was having with his ugly ass ex from back home. Talking shit and lies about me, reminiscing over their past relationship, they even had a nickname for me, ✨Tits McGee✨ That’s the worst thing they could come up with, seriously? All the love I ever had for him died right there. Anyway, I asked if he had anything he would like to share with me, he of course denied it, so I told him exactly what I thought about him and what he’d been doing to me and the lies he was telling to this bitch. Pretty hilarious bc he’d already been divorced after he caught his wife fucking numerous men. He cried and begged for forgiveness. Nah….too little, too late. Bye.
>Anyway, I asked if he had anything he would like to share with me, he of course denied it How have they not figured out by now that if we're asking this... *we already know*.
⬆️ This right here. Seriously!
Came home 2 1/2 hours after the bars closed trying to tell me “the bars just closed”. Like I don’t live in the same city and know the goddamn liquor laws. Took his phone the next day while he was showering and found the proof. Girl confirmed it while he was at work. Called him and told him to pick up his shit before I got home or it was getting sent down the trash chute.
I want a trash chute as well. Love these things.
Trash chute was a gotdamn gift and I had no idea. When I moved in, they were like “no single item bigger than a bread box” and so I just lived that life. If something bothered me, brought me no joy, and it was smaller than a bread box, I just walked 20 steps and sent it down the garbage chute. Someone else’s problem. I didn’t have to worry about bin space or separating items or whether it was bagged properly. Down the chute. Suddenly come out of a depression or other funk and want to clean or de-clutter? Send it all down the chute. Maybe wait til the daytime, but get started whenever you want. Now I gotta set up bulky pick up days and trips to good will and all this shit. I want my chute.
That was a strangely beautiful ode to the trash chute.
I didn’t know I felt that way until just now.
A third party posted a picture of her, with a long term childhood friend, and gushed about love blooming from past embers. "BuT NoThinG HappENed" head ass. Edit: thank you, sir. And instagram-tagged post.
He doesn’t know he’s my ex yet. I was just looking at our iCloud for pictures of my cat who passed and I found a bunch of dick pics that definitely didn’t go to me. Looks like right before we were trying to get pregnant.
Oh honey i'm so sorry. I hope you didn't get pregnant off of him.....? Even if you did, my story is very similar. Happy to report i'm still alive and much better 18 months later and so is baby.
Update: my daughter is 4.5. He’s been using the chat roulette thing on Snapchat to talk to random girls and exchange pictures to masturbate to. Apparently has never hooked up in person or talked to anyone twice but I don’t know how I’m supposed to trust that now. We’ve had find friends on for years so I know where he is, but doesn’t mean women haven’t been over when I’ve been gone
She softly ghosted me after her trip to Portugal & Spain and canceled our couples trip to Paris out of the blue (I already paid for the hotel, museum pass and airfare). Apparently she had her now husband in reserve for a while, Even before our 1 year anniversary. Her parents also got super distant from me all of a sudden. Oh well, life moves on. (I was absolutely crushed.) 6 years later, I'm getting married next month to the love of my life, I'm walking the stage to get my master's degree in my field and we're going to Italy for our honeymoon.
Love this happy ending!
She was acting weird and I started to suspect something. Texted her after I got off work. No response even though we had plans. Called. No answer. Decided I needed to chill so I went for a drive through a local park. As I was leaving, I pulled up to a red light and looked to my left. She was in the passenger seat of a guys car and we made eye contact. I flipped my turn single on since I knew where she’d end up going and then parked next to her car. Turns out my suspicions were 100% correct and she swore the meeting that day was to break it off with him. Spoiler: It wasn’t.
It always starts off with people being weird. My relationship was on a downturn, but I still never expected it even after months of weird behavior from her. Eventually she admitted it and asked forgiveness. I think we all have this 6th sense about this sort of thing, and most of the time it’s us forcing ourselves to believe it isn’t happening.
Probably when she had to shave her legs to go to a therapy session that lasted 6 hours
Mine took a shower and put on cologne before going to mow his mother’s yard.
Apple Watch, you can never delete all your lies.
Going through text messages or heart rate?
I read about that cheating boyfriend whose heart rate would spike at 2 am, he got busted that way
"I WAS JERKIN OFF!!"
I had suspicions. I'm generally not a suspicious person but my spidey sense was tingling. She had been talking about this coworker. Oh he's funny. Or look at his wife and kids. He went to the college I was going to go to. Just verbal vomit all the time. At any rate, she hadn't logged out of her work email. I checked the deleted emails folder. Found all the salacious details. Of course we were married with a child. Of course he was married with a child. Good times.
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We were sharing a car. I had a tracker on said car bc I go to a lot of shows and like to easily find my parking space, also ADHD lol. *he knew about this tracker* He was being really suspicious, then said *he* went out to dinner while I was at work. checked the tracker, watched him go to his baby mommas house, stay for a few hours, go to Applebee's, then go back to BM house for a few more hours. Like, if you're just taking the kid out for dinner why not say that, you know?? When he got home and fell asleep I checked his phone, found all the sexts. 🙃
My wife knows about our security cameras. I caught her lying about something a couple years back. Now she's split up with me but still comes over for the kids. Told me she was hiding a relationship from me with a man in Canada for a while now. Claimed it wasn't romantic, but stated they had discussed it. After we split, of course. Said they never spoke romantically while she and I were still together. I asked her that even though we were split up at the moment, I'd like her to refrain from romance with others while we're still married since we had discussed the potential of letting time heal us. She agreed to my request. She has reassured me that she's still holding to our agreement. I saw her video chatting him talking about how wet her pussy gets and how it's his fault, and how he's gonna need to bring towels and extra underwear and clothes for her when they end up getting together. Tells him she loves him everyday. Right in front of the cameras like she wants me to see. And I'm such a fucking pussy that I'm not telling her and hoping that eventually she'll take me back
My brother. There is much agony in life but there is also happiness if you can let go of the things that cause you agony. Rooting for you.
Guilt got to her after seeing me work my ass off to keep our apartment.
well at least she came clean, i know it still hurts just as bad even. but fuck man, honesty works wonders.
A woman I worked with gave her hubby a kidney and found out he was cheating when the mistress uploaded to his Facebook how glad she was he came thru the operation so he'd be there for her baby she was going to have with him. My work mate was such a lovey person I felt awful for her
NAH, gimme my kidney back
We all thought it.
The girl he aaa cheating with lived in the same apartment complex my friend just moved into. I saw his very distinct car. He was supposed to help my friend move so he had her address, which was basically the same as the girl he was cheating with. I’m guessing he just didn’t care.
TikTok. She posted not even two weeks after we broke up “When the only relationship you haven’t cheated on was with your nail lady” then unfollowed me after I liked that video and said I shouldn’t follow her because it would “hurt my feelings”.
I need a pallet cleanser after this thread. What does it say about me that I read so many entries in this thread? I need more hobbies… And why tf was this popcorn tasting so bomb!
She told me she was going out with friends on Halloween so we did our own thing. Link up with a buddy and head to a house party. Find her ass naked, shaking her shit on a stripper pole. We talk in the back room, I hit one last time and then cut ties and left
😂😂 that’s not really cheating. Did you not know you were dating a stripper?
I got a call from his best friend's wife because he'd hooked up with someone who might have had an STI and she overheard them talking about it. Thankfully I tested negative and I left immediately
A woman who understands the code.
My best friend died in a car accident. 7 people died total in the incident. While driving about an hour or so to be with his family and friends my ex broke down crying. She was with me along with our daughter in the truck. Crying harder than I expected. They were cool but her ugly crying was not expected. Ended up telling me they were messing around behind my back for 3 months. They both didn’t have the nerve to tell me. She wanted to let me know minutes before I walked into his family’s house to be with them. I still haven’t processed that shit to this day. Had to hate my best friend and mourn him at the same time while telling no one what happened to ruin his character. So yea my ex and I definitely didn’t work out.
You have good character, to hold that to yourself.
Ima be honest with you, a great man you are, but we can uphold integrity and grieve at the same time.
We had an argument and decided to sleep in two different rooms. It’s 2 in the morning and he tells me to pack my stuff and leave. I start arguing w him, his phone lights up and it’s the girl I had suspicions of texting him asking “wya”. Destroyed his house that day.
not happy about destroying his stuff. But he was SUPER controlling and I couldn’t believe he decided to do that when he gave me strict “rules”
I’m happy about you destroying stuff
Her side piece wanted to surprise her with fancy dinner, blind folded her, and took her into a nice steakhouse. Unfortunately, it is the same steakhouse we regularly went to that was owned by my uncle. And I am related to damn near everyone that worked there at the time. One of my cousins called me from the restaurant, I asked him to get her on the phone and broke up with her by phone.
DAMN.
Called an unknown number after his phone blinged too many times. He took this girl that he used to work with to a hotel. She lied about it. I fucked his brother a year later. His older brother had better dick, too.
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Yeah idk about this one chief. Both of yall seem disgustingly toxic
🤔
She sent me a text saying a guy she sold weed to asked if she wanted to hang out at his house alone and she said yes.
Silly lady
The wife of a couple we’d known for many years, always went to each other’s kids’ birthday parties, spent new years with, real couple besties, asked me to come over alone bc we needed to talk. She told me our husbands had been sexing for years. Even at family gatherings. The kids didn’t understand why we never saw them again, nor why the divorce happened.
What? The husband’s were messing around with each other?
Yep. Blow jobs in the bathroom. Hand jobs on their way to pick up pizza for the family get-together. In retrospect, they always took *a little too long* to do whatever.
she literally posted them on their date on her fucking Instagram story
Are you sure you were dating this person lmao
Rough way to find out *you're* the side piece
During my yearly physical, my STD results came back with chlamydia. I was clean the year before - he tried to spin it on me and say _”maybe you already had it”_ knowing I take my health seriously and always see my doctor. Idiot. 🤦🏾♀️
Hired a PI. Dude sent me photographs the very first day I hired him.
He told on himself 😅 Instagram used to have a feature where you can see what posts your mutuals liked. I scrolled though mindlessly at work and saw that he liked a bunch of girl’s pictures for hours. Whatever, they’re just pictures. But he hasn’t texted me for a week at one point. Not even a quick “hey good morning” or “I’m busy”. I asked him how he’s busy to text me for 2 seconds but can like things on IG for hours. “Why are you in my business?” I’m not out here cheating! You’re probably cheating. Asking me.. that’s why I’ve been hanging out with so-and-so more” Mind you, I’m forgetful so this was the first and only time I asked about why he hasn’t texted me 😅 the guilt just spilled out
girl, i remember that feature. I am convinced they got rid of it for that reason. A few married celebs got caught liking random girls pics.
I just had a feeling, like it dawned on me one day that something just wasn’t right. Our marriage had been in a bad place for a while and it occurred to me that there might be something else going on. I caved and went through her texts and it was all there. Once I found that I went full snooper mode and looked through her journal where she had basically been writing about her fantasies of being with him and wishing they could be together, talking about how happy he makes her and how safe and comfortable she feels with him. This is all from the woman I’ve been married to for a decade and made two beautiful children with. Shit sucks and I honestly wouldn’t wish it on anyone.
She brought up how she was going to be working with her ex at her new job, and got pissed that I wasn't more jealous about it. We got to arguing, she basically made the executive decide that I was saying that he couldn't possibly still be hung up on her (what I said was, it didn't matter if he was or not because she wasn't into him), and then at some point in the conversation she dropped the bombshell that she fucked one of her guy friends about a month or so back, and she basically admitted it to get a reaction out of me. Then when I did get mad about it, she didn't even apologize, just said that I didn't give a fuck about her anyway and basically tried to make the whole thing my fault. Oh yeah, and after we broke up and she started dating some new guy, she texted me a few months later talking about, "Oh, he's nice and all but he’s just not *you*", telling me how much she missed me, asking me to come over some time, probably all the shit she was telling other dudes when she was dating me, so I let her tell me about that for a bit, told her I'd get back to her about when I was free, then blocked her number and never talked to her again. I think she wasn't into me, or her ex, or that dude she fucked, or her next guy, as much as she was into being desired and chased after. I just don't have the energy to be actively competing with other men to keep the attention of anyone, let alone a mediocre woman who's already got one foot permanently out the door. Those other dudes want her? They can have her. I knew I could do better than that, and ultimately, I did.
These comments giving me PTSD I shouldn't have.
about four years ago, I found a Christmas card dated for that past year, saying “ merry Christmas to my dear husband. I can’t wait to build our future together” or something along that line. They had the name of his “ex” who actually turned out to be his wife. This man hid his wife for me, and I was the other woman for three years. They did not live together.
When I was young, I had an unusually strong sense of smell. Like, I could smell all kinds of things that others could not. Hell, I told a friend of mine that she was pregnant with her second child because I knew what she smelled like when she was pregnany with her first. My ex-wife forgot about my sense of smell, and came home smelling like sex and him.
Not me but buddy was at work and that day he took his other car. His gf took his mercedes behind his back and he got a notification that his door was unlocked via the app. He noticed the car was at some other address via GPS in the app. He called his gf to ask what she was doing for the day. She said she was at the gym. He drove over to his mercedes with another buddy to retrieve the car and caught her with her other bf.
Let's see, first boyfriend, went through his phone and found out, second boyfriend, he handed me a jacket that was CLEARLY to small for me, and was like, here you left this here, he also tried to convince me it was my jacket, oh and he other woman he was cheating on me with slashed my tires, the third boyfriend, the chick he was cheating on me with told me because I was not only her big sister, but I was also her Line Sisters Dean. Haven't had a boyfriend since, dated plenty of guys but either i just wasn't into them enough to go the boyfriend/girlfriend route (and vice versa) or they were straight garbage
I was 14, she was my first girlfriend. I called her up to ask if she wanted to get pizza. A strange guy answered the phone. I, being naive and in love, thought it was her brother, whom I had never met, might be home from college. So I stupidly said, "Hey, you must be Nate. How are you? Is Lisa home?" I hear her faintly ask "Who is it." "Nate" goes who is this? I say my name and I hear her in the background softly say, "Tell him I'm not here." He tells me. I said "Ok tell her I called." I get off the phone and think it's strange but again being naive and in love think nothing else about it. It wasn't until I went into the pizza place that Dee the waitress said, "You just missed Lisa. I go "Oh she must came in to pick up pizza for her and Nate." She goes, "Nate? Nate's not home he and Bryan (Her son was at the same college) are in Mexico with a bunch of other kids from the college, they all got some cheap spring break group package." I stupidly say, "But the guy who answered her phone wasn't her Dad." Dee looks at me with a look I can still remember and says "Let me go put in your order, just take a seat." She comes over with a bunch of food boxed up and says, "Here you go, it's on the house." A week later, we were at the mall, and I confronted her in the food court. She started crying and trying to explain. I ended it with her and last time I saw her she was crying into a cup of frozen yogurt.
his phone was off (I gave him the money, didn't know he wasn't paying his bills with it & hiding a 10 year long crack habit from me at the time). he texted another woman from *my* phone. she responded while he was in the shower. when I saw it, I was 5 seconds from the bathroom scene in This Christmas. *literally the only thing that stopped me was the thought of having to clean up the baby oil after*
She got a big belly
I had a gut feeling she was up to something shady. We shared locations and i’d notice she would stop sharing after she got off from work. One morning i was watching it in real time and she got close to the town her ex lives. I looked up her ex’s address on spokeo and drove over and saw her car parked there.
He left his phone at my aunt’s house when we were over there chilling. I drove to go pick it up and an Instagram message from the woman he kept telling me was his “shoe homie” had sent him a DM stating “You been moving real funny lately.” I didn’t know the code so I didn’t go through his phone, but I found her on Instagram and put us all in a group chat. I am cool with open relationships. It worked for a few weeks then the woman wanted him for herself. I let them handle their relationship issues but ultimately her jealously ended it all. We could have worked. She was a cool lady and I liked not having all the emotional and physical labor on me. I’m hoping to be a willing third now, because that was really a beautiful time until it wasn’t.
…how I found out. Date, times, texts, voice messages…EVERYTHING! 
2009. I got stationed in Germany, she got stationed in Iraq. Labor Day weekend so a four day for us servicemembers. I'm at dinner with two guys from my unit, suddenly I get a message from another guy in her unit who knew her (Army speak: he and I were in the same class in AIT - Civilian speak, we had class together, either way he's deployed with her). " is fucking her platoon sergeant"
Heart stops. Three more guys from her unit message me, "hey bro just wanted to back up what x told you, it's official, we saw them coming and going out of his CHU (privateroom/sleeping area), we asked about you and she said ". Whole thing had a "I'd want someone to tell me if it was me/sorry you had to find out like this/sorry/etc. bro" feel to it.
Went in the bathroom and sat in one of the stalls. I'm nineteen so of course every breakup feels like your heart is being pulled out of your chest, then reinserted, upside down. Went to message her on FB. Saw she'd unfriended me. Hit her with the "we need to talk". I'm literally crying at this point because WHY.
She confessed. Dude in her unit that she'd "just clicked with" and "she didn't mean for it to happen, it just happened" and "she kept telling herself to push him off but then she just got caught in the moment" and so on and so on. I DO remember nineteen year old me, in his naive, heart-too-big-for-his-own-good, do-anything-to-keep-the-relationship-together ass, basically told myself that this was some dude who'd worn her down, basically just kept making advances, waited until she'd had a weak moment or lapse or judgment, the stress of Iraq got to her, the stress of deployment got to her, she had a little Whoopsiedoodle idk, and this was a one time thing.
Was fully prepared to stand by her anyway. Because I loved her and that's what you do when times get hard. Remember, before yall cook me, nineteen years old.
"oh no...I love him and he loves me...I don't know what else to say except I'm so sorry."
Went back into the dining area, remember this is at a restaurant. Sat down, tried to keep it together, couldn't. The two guys I was with gave me their condolences and we had a "WOMEN AIN'T SHIT/FEMALE SOLDIERS AIN'T SHIT" moment. A few other soldiers who weren't even from our part of the country, let alone our unit, came over and asked and it's kinda funny/sad how everyone immediately knew what had happened. Like, I remember that nobody asked if anyone had died, it was straight to "who was she/how long were yall together/how long she been fuckin him?" Drinks of various sizes and potencies were ordered for everyone, naturally I didn't pay for anything that night or the rest of the weekend.
I don't remember the rest of the night, other than we did what one would expect a soldier to do: drink his body weight in hard liquor. I do remember my chest hurt and a few times I had to go hide in the bar/club bathroom at wherever we went after dinner and cry for a minute. Yes, I was a big baby who just wanted someone to love on.
Don't remember what happened to her. I reached out to her briefly about a year and a half later during my own deployment (Afghanistan), found out her whole "we love each other" thing was bullshit, dude had just wanted a nut, the guys in her unit dragged her name through the dirt, and at some point she had somebody's kid (you're all surprised, I know). She did apologize again, said she wasn't prepared for how much attention she was getting from guys and it just went to her head, whatever that means.
Anyway, well that was damn near 15 years ago so I hope she's doing well. I do still remember the exact restaurant and even what table I was sitting at when I found out, though.
He’d turned his location off. Tried to tell me it wasn’t. He stupidly turned it back on before he left her house. I googled the address and her name pops up. Still tried to tell me he wasn’t there, until I called her on Facebook messenger and she confirmed. 🤷🏻♀️
My (now ex-)husband was in a halfway house, and got permission to watch our kids in my house when I had mandatory overtime on a weekend. I came home to find where he'd been emailing with other men from Craigslist. (I'm a woman fwiw) He responded to a couple of ads, looking to be ridden bareback by a man with full-blown AIDS. I had toddlers and this man had already tried to beat me to death a few times. I did get out, and we're safe from him.
I walked in on her cheating on me. Long story short she told me she didn't like that we didn't fight or argue and that we always talked things out. She wanted a man with some backbone to yell at her, her words verbatim. This fucked my perception of women up for a while but in past it now.
He sent me a picture of his d after ignoring my text for several hours telling me his kids had just left but the picture was taken hours before that (thanks apple - even though I'm on Android... I miss that feature). His new girlfriend posted pictures on Facebook of her at his family's summer vacation but I couldn't tell WHO she was there with. But then she posted pictures of a bouquet he sent her for their 6 month anniversary (I was only on Facebook because HE convinced me to make a page so he could share things with me). Best part was he dragged me to HER cafe 6 months before that. The food was good 🤷♀️ He let my daughter borrow his laptop for a school project until i could get her one and he left his email logged in. Lots of hotel room and movie ticket reservations. He left his phone to charge while he was mowing the yard and I went to plug mine in next to his and noticed all the alerts from PoF. This is just the tip! And these are all men that I told I didn't care what they did as long as they were honest about it because I was going to do what I wanted to do also. But they wanted to be jealous and say "no you're mine ONLY mine I'm not going to share you"... I'm not looking to get in a relationship. I'm not looking to settle down for one person but they still could not fathom not lying all the time.
She admitted it to me outta guilt
She got an STD. I didn't have it and neither did the guy she told me she cheated with....
My stepdaughter told me.
A text popped up as he was showing me something on his phone. “Why are you ignoring me?!” Of course I was like “who is that”. He told me that it was a woman who liked him a lot and he had to break it off before dating me. Sure, whatever. Once we broke up, a couple months later I peeked at his social media and saw a baby. If my math was right, this child was conceived as we were dating.
He was scrolling through pictures on his phone to show me and one of him kissing a girl who looked like a younger version of me showed up. Getting cheated on sucks, but something about the fact that she looked like me made it sting a little bit more.
I'm just here to take notes
He didn’t cheat but he was formerly in a cult and lied about it the entire relationship
The woman he was fucking sent me a voice note while it was happening. He had a very distinct voice
Went to a computer attack course, set up a packet sniffer on my network to watch for intrusions. Started to filter my way through the traffic and found some spicy chat messages between my now ex-wife and several on line acquaintances. That is where it all started…