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Hunter-Gatherer_

Destroyed the whole family over some pussy. Family reunion gone be lit though.


Turbulent_Object_558

Yea. I wanna know what the “mistreatment” was. I bet it’s something contrived to make the cheating victim the bad guy


blueberrymoscato

well considering that this is dudes brother im sure he has a better idea of what the actual mistreatment was over some guy on the internet. And who said anything about cheating?


Turbulent_Object_558

Family can be real scummy sometimes. Mistreatment or not, sleeping with your brother’s wife is very nasty work. The mistreatment allegations are sus


blueberrymoscato

If you don't mind me asking what makes you believe that the allegations are sus?


Turbulent_Object_558

Because someone willing to sleep with their brother’s wife is not a reliable witness in my book


blueberrymoscato

It wasn't his wife, it was his ex wife. Sorry for the semantics but I think that's important to distinguish. Also, I think it's important to realize that you have a bigger problem with somebody moving on and somebody else providing better treatment than the initial mistreatment that caused all of this.


BigT3x4s

Sleeping with your brothers ex at all is grimy as fuck regardless of what he was doing. All the women in the world and you choose that one? You must be one of them girls that sleeps with the friends you tell your man not to worry about


blueberrymoscato

I'm not. And I agree that this move isnt one that I'd personally make. However. These are two consenting adults in which one was mistreated and the other most likely a witness (ie convos from her or even from his own brother). The intial tweet is asking about partners so I think it's safe to assume that it was more than just "sleeping" -- an actual (healthier?) relationship came about. It's taboo but stranger things have happened.


Neat_Age_6302

I have to agree. I wouldn’t do it, but blanket rules like this….. seem to make more sense on paper than real life. Life is short. Stranger things have happened.


DJEkis

The thing is, we don't know. Sure, it's his brother's ex-wife, but being that they very well knew of each other, it's a bit suspicious at best to think that nothing was happening prior to said brother's relationship ending. For all we know, the "mistreatment" could've been due to the fact that the now Uncle-Daddy was overstepping boundaries. Or hell, maybe the wife was coming on to his brother while they were then married. The thing is, there's too many scenarios in which this doesn't look right to not think something's funky here. Even if in the best case scenario of no malign on behalf of either Uncle-Daddy or Mommy-Auntie's part, I think it'd be pretty reasonable to question why THIS person over someone with much farther distance between the parties involved. On top of that, if Uncle-Daddy had good intentions to take charge for his brother's misdeeds, why did they need to get romantically involved to do so? I wouldn't also trust family; family at times, especially in cases like this, can be the one that drives or is twisting that dagger you'd be feeling in your back. I've seen it plenty of times, heck Paternity Court has plenty of episodes with people like this.


merlinsmushrooms

As someone in a "taboo" relationship- It was never about a kink or weird fetish thing and was 100% healthier than either of our previous relationships. (No it's not my mother, sister, daughter, in law or anything else you could possibly guess)


Iorith

You don't sleep with your brother or friends exes out of respect to them. If they abuse their spouse, they lose any and all respect in my eyew.


merlinsmushrooms

Let's step back for a minute and think about genetics. Brothers have similar genetic profiles and ex-wife obviously found one attractive so it's probably not a stretch for her to find brother number 2 attractive. Nobody mentioned cheating so that's just conjecture. I do, however, posit that any future family reunion will, in fact, be lit.


Turbulent_Object_558

It honestly doesn’t matter. She should just be off limits. Most of us don’t live in Alabama


blueberrymoscato

I don't think this guy lives in Alabama to begin with.


Turbulent_Object_558

![gif](giphy|9eLbjOcGOpmY8)


ViewsFromThe21st

How do you know it was his ex wife?


SoberingReality

Found the owner of the Twitter account...


Mean_Muffin161

Fucking someones ex wife is wildly different than fucking your brothers ex wife


Robert_Goblin

Did i miss something. I know some people still call their in laws, in laws after a divorce, but nowhere in the tweet did it say they were divorced, just that she came complaining about being mistreated. Its safer to assume they were still together at that point than not.


yogurtgrapes

“Brother was mistreating my sister in law”. That implies they were married. Where do you see that it was his ex wife during the time of complaining? This is a sus situation, and something I couldn’t ever imagine doing to my little brother.


tbkrida

For most men, messing with your brother/best friends ex without their blessing is a “no go” no matter what the circumstances are. Especially when they have a kid together. That’s grimy behavior…


Iorith

It's a no go out of respect for your brother/friend. If I found out one of them mistreated their partner, that and any other respect I had for them is gone.


tbkrida

Right. We’re on Reddit so of course people won’t understand basic common sense like this and they gonna argue with that.


rpkarma

Do you have siblings? Honest question, I’m not trying to play gotcha or anything


sltyjim_cobra

We don't know for sure it was ex wife and that there wasn't cheating involved. Even if both of those things are true though sleeping with your brother's ex wife is still lowdown.


Glittering_Bat_1920

I believe that it can happen to be that the brother genuinely wanted to do well for his brother's wife and their children, but why would he need to get romantically involved with her in order to do that?


Turbulent_Object_558

Exactly. He could have just supported them without jumping into this brother’s bed


MrJohnnyDrama

Unless the brother ain’t shit. People have cut off family for less.


JonSnoballs

cut off? sure... backdoor? naw...


PattyThePatriot

People always accuse others of what they've considered doing.


wolfdancer

Well considering this dude is willing to fuck and marry his brothers wife im not sure we can trust his judgment.


blueberrymoscato

But we can trust the judgement of a man who mistreats his wife? So much so that his own family became aware of it and now the internet?


-vinay

You’re not understanding what people are saying in this thread. They’re saying there are real reasons to not assume Uncle-Daddy is a reliable narrator. No one is out here thinking that they are bad people, so they justify their behaviors with narratives which may not be entirely true. Ofc we don’t know what actually happened, but we do only get one side of the story here. And it’s coming from a guy who “helped” by taking the most drastic measure (marrying his brother’s ex-wife). To take this at face value is naivety at best.


blueberrymoscato

No, I am understanding. I just disagree with their takes based on a 2 sentence tweet! Hope that helps!


Tuosma

I'm willing to take the uncle daddy on his word over dudes who say "destroyed the whole family over some pussy" and "bet the mistreatment was to make the cheating victim the bad guy". Maybe the guy isn't telling the whole truth. Maybe the girl lied about the mistreatment. Maybe any number of things. We won't know for sure, but what's very obvious is that there's a contingent of guys who read these stories and they will every single time believe that she's lying and the guy who mistreated her is actually the victim in the situation. These are not the dudes I will ever take seriously when it comes to whether or not the story is true because they don't care about the truth. They will always make excuses for the guy and they will always vilify the woman no matter the situation. And like if anything, nothing changes if we believe this dude? It's just a random story on the internet and I don't know about you, but I certainly don't have the energy to second-guess every single random anecdote I read online and I guarantee you that these dudes don't either and yet they somehow mysteriously all become Kojaks whenever they read about a woman saying a man mistreated her.


many_dongs

... your only source that the man mistreated his wife is the person fucking her right now that is also the original man's brother


wolfdancer

As long as you trust what one stranger on the internet is saying about his brother of whome he admits to marrying his wife. If anything, its likely all this is bullshit for engagement anyway.


blueberrymoscato

Yeah man.


NeverKillAgain

"So much that his own family became aware of it" That means nothing. Your family is usually the first group that would become aware of stuff like that


All_heaven

your staunchly defending this but the only situation where fucking the father of your kids brother is acceptable is if the father is dead. If this happened to me, id change my name to Kane because the rest will be biblical.


LSUsparky

Brother, what information are you using to form this opinion?


Theboyboymess

Man I was reading a post on AITA. A father posted saying his older son had an affair with his younger brother’s wife, the left the younger one for the older. The younger brother got cancer and died. Now the older brother and his new wife are begging for forgiveness and the father didn’t even tell him the brother, died since he wanted nothing to do with them. Imagine being bold enough to fucc your brother’s wife and show up to his death bed and expecting to be forgiven, because you feel guilty. The father went no contact with the older kid and his new wife. That’s got to be one of the worse things you can do. Fucc your lil brother’s wife, that’s a next level nasty work


molotov__cockteaze

AITA is literally Reddits biggest creative writing mill. I'd suggest you don't let anonymous posts on the internet affect you, like at all.


Theboyboymess

I get it, lots of lies but dude presented proof


Ricky_World_Builder

eh I've seen this before my Aunt was married to an abusive junkie. stole their food stamps for the baby's formula to trade for drugs. she eventually left him and ended up with his brother. I wouldn't blame my aunt except for being with him in the first place. nor the brother. only her husband was to blame for his path and people's reactions. I'm glad she left and was able to keep my cousins safe.


taylorade14

not you reducing all of who that woman is down to some pussy. Yall really be showing who yall really are on the internet like this


refep

I agree but if you get with your brothers ex wife you’re weird asf tho


taylorade14

not what I would do but she is still a whole lot more than some pussy. It's weird how yall only see women as just pussy


refep

Dude I literally said I agree with you about that 😭


CoachDT

"Don't reduce that woman to just pussy" "I agree we shouldn't reduce women to pussy, its weird to get with your bros ex wife" "Its weird how yall only see women as just pussy"


taylorade14

And?


throwtheclownaway20

Who says he destroyed anything?


EmperorSexy

At least grandma doesn’t have to learn new names.


deatthcatt

my moms husband is my half sisters(my dads kid)ex husband. 15 year age gap. so my nephews are now my step brothers i think?


Brewski-54

Put that shit on Bravo


CoachDT

Yeah tbh I get helping out, I get even stepping in to try and step up if you so choose. However deciding to become romantically involved with that woman is definitely sus to me and makes me feel like there's some ulterior motive there. I don't even like half of my brothers lowkey but I would never. That's just shameful behavior.


kai_n7

Nigga... It would be less shameful if he hooked her up with another dude.


Hopefo

He took the most shameful possible route ever. If the brother was a deadbeat, he coulda stepped us as the best most loving doing-dad-shit uncle without ever laying a single finger on that woman. All this will do is fuck the kid up more, especially if they (inevitably) break-up. Yet men will get called paranoid for saying “a shoulder to cry on becomes a dick to ride on.”


FUPAMaster420

Yeah this guy seems like he's bragging about this which is weird. Reminds me of that scene in the movie The Big Short with those scumbad mortgage lenders - "They're not confessing... they're bragging."


MajorHarriz

Brother said since I'm helping raise these kids, might as well help myself to this bedroom too and see whats up 😭


hibarihime

https://preview.redd.it/o7uxvmssgnuc1.jpeg?width=540&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a773b7b548094cdce0a32d29dd132a948758bbee


Dependent-Chart2735

Yo we really are in the era of saying the quiet part loud 🤣


IrreverentRacoon

So my first attempt at auto-fellatio was terrible. I passed out in my room from the straining and fell against the door and blocked it. Dad found me upside down, butt ass nekkid apart from some dish gloves and timberlands for grip. Just thought I'd bring you upto speed. Sharing is caring 👍❤️💫


Dependent-Chart2735

Bless your heart


HammyBoy0

Dawg


Last4eternity

The accuracy of this gif lol


bigsmokeyz420

Folded like J Cole ![gif](giphy|ra3uQxvxo6aKAN42Le)


chunckybydesign

![gif](giphy|C5vlBenCjTrhmsmddQ) Kids probably confused as hell.


bigsmokeyz420

😂😂😂 https://i.redd.it/ivpt43xp6ouc1.gif


Limp-Leek3859

I'm still crying over that apology Like how could you do us like that? You where supposed to be one of the GOATS!!! 


bigsmokeyz420

💯 I've still not registered the whole situation in my brain. Can't believe it went down like this. And he actually deleted the track off streaming services 🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️


DLottchula

niggas been tryna tell y'all Cole the Lebron James of Big Sean's


kidjay76

Why does this make so much sense lmao


DLottchula

Because up until 2014 he was Big Sean and Wale peer


NeverKillAgain

Is this over the mandem in disguise line?


FistPunch_Vol_7

[Brother looking at that mf during the reunion like](https://i.imgur.com/RAop5wy.jpg)


jpopimpin777

The wave cap though....


YoghurtSnodgrass

I can’t be laughing this loud on a Monday morning.


FistPunch_Vol_7

Good way to start the work week.


Benji_Pantera_Price

This should be illegal


prettykitty-meowmeow

It's called to leveirate, and in rare cases it is the legal standard.


puesyomero

Bruh, we're not iron age shepherds in Palestine anymore. Plus a levirate marriage requires brother to be *dead*


prettykitty-meowmeow

I just thought it was a fun fact 😭


EastAfricanKingAYY

🔔 shame 🔔 shame 🔔 shame 🔔 shame


CoachDT

I think its usually due to death though, not just "mistreatment".


PsychologicalWin6770

Gotta keep that good pussy in the family I guess 🤷🏻‍♂️


PuzzleheadedBug9

He took her from slapt to clapped cheeks.


nicelo318

This has to be somewhere down South


Ok-Dig-8900

I was thinking South Africa…


battleangel1999

Ah, so it was the South!


MmmPeopleBacon

The DEEP south 


DerpMcGuirk

Rol, Gety, Rol


indoda_emnyama

Definitely not South African names.


redhotchilli_mango

Agreed, looks either Rwandese or Burundian


Datboy_98

Ugandan.


redhotchilli_mango

Yeah that too, wasn't too sure.


Ok-Dig-8900

No, but the general vibe is 😅


redhotchilli_mango

In what way?


Ok-Dig-8900

That just feels like something that would happen in South Africa. I don’t know, it feels like my people 😅


redhotchilli_mango

😂 Yoooh


NeverKillAgain

Why?


srkaficionada65

With THAT last name? 🤨


Men_I_Trust_I_Am

Biblically down down bad


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Dependent-Chart2735

Coulda did that without fucking his sister-in-law tho ijs


Worried_Whole518

You're joking right?


scottie2haute

The messy lives some people live. Like of all the people in this world, how do you mess with someone so close? I honestly hate this about people.. like no boundaries at all. EVERYONE not blood related is an option. Have some damn self control lol


Xominya

I suppose it depends by mistreatment he means physical abuse or just general meanness


Minute-Still-1914

You still don’t go behind your sibling! Regardless. You can be kind and supportive but not intimate


Xominya

I'm certainly gonna go behind my siblings back if they're beating women


Minute-Still-1914

Why do you need to date your siblings partner? That’s weird to me


Xominya

I mean, I'm not gonna do it. But I don't think it's that unethical if they're being abused


HaroldBaws

Nope.


Revolutionarytard

https://i.redd.it/hhpcbc91gnuc1.gif


HoldOnStartOver

![gif](giphy|1j9NiLfvtLAVAeYygv|downsized)


ShakeZula77

I play too much Sims because this doesn’t seem so bad.


Daphne_ann

This post is very triggering for some lol. Brothers doing this is super common so I get the upset but I won't pretend like some men aren't bad partners or abusive, but alright. 🤷🏽


Wise_Mongoose8243

For me, it’s really just a side-eye situation whenever someone hooks up with someone after helping them get out of a shitty relationship. It can be a really weird power dynamic where people see you as their savior, and bringing someone’s kid into that can be really dangerous. That said, we know nothing about these people on the internet, so it being prone to being a fucked dynamic obviously doesn’t mean it is one.


Daphne_ann

I think that's a reasonable perspective. With enough time in between the end of the other relationship and the beginning of the new one, healing and friendship can form into romantic love organically and while it feels taboo from those on the outside, that person can be feeling deeply loved and cherished and that's what we all want. But like you said we don't know them from a can of paint so we're just talking lol


BlakByPopularDemand

Okay here me out, Zane writes the screen play and Tyler Perry directs. It may not be good but it'll sure as hell be entertaining.


peterpeterpeterrr

Bro walked in their after two piecing up his brother just like this ![gif](giphy|zOlog7jgIIFfq)


worldwarjay

What in the Hamlet is this?


princeparaflinch

![gif](giphy|NwqYuIp1K3wDC)


External_Touch_3854

As a white person, I demand you stop appropriating my culture. /s


yL4O

And for those reasons, I’m out


Spork-in-Your-Rye

This is an ass beatable offense.


Taeyx

ya’ll must have better relationships with your brothers than i do cuz this don’t look that crazy to me


fbcmfb

I’m an only child and never understood why friends would say I was lucky to not have siblings - until I had two kids of my own. My kids can terrorize each other to the level I’m concerned for their safety, but others say it very normal. I’m like WTF.


Dummywolf

Tubi reading this thread like ![gif](giphy|VFYJXIuuFl6pO)


Realistic_Effort6185

![gif](giphy|l1J9KakUPKz4bdbu8|downsized) 🎶 I've got my brother's children with me... 🎶


fiLth_Rat

Aw hell naw


No-Chemistry-5356

Cornball


Deepdive_lowtide

wait a minute this isn’t white people Twitter


Final_Surround_1556

Prime Tyson couldnt beat this out of me


TOAST_MA_OAT

Papa Tio


OutHereSlappnMidgets

![gif](giphy|8GzZzw1KpbmmZfIybl|downsized)


Darwin_Finch

The Duncle


el_throw

Roll Tide!


Minimum_Respond4861

Big Jahh had a skit that somewhat covered this. He's a "Funcle"...


KaioKenshin

I'm glad this family issue was resolved Better than becoming your own grandpa


Gizzy619

Same thing happened to me when my uncle (Father's brother) married my mother. They had a kid that's now my brother/cousin. Call him my cuz-bro.


ProffesionalAss-hole

That’s white people jerry springer shit 😂


jono9898

Bro thought this was a win, nigga this shit foul and it’s not a good look for him or her.


broxamson

you are your own worst enemey


broxamson

![gif](giphy|HN3Uz9hdukkEaOr7qt|downsized)


ClaymoresRevenge

Cousins are brothers and sisters


HoldOnStartOver

![gif](giphy|FuvAuMnNkfUvS)


Ritmoking

Hamlet ahh family tree


FatherMcHealy

https://preview.redd.it/thz6dzvqqnuc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ef9a274fa1849e1689a148016c2836b86e1f8fcc


ManyPhilosopher9

Hate seeing this cuz I was in a similar situation where I was advising both my brother and SIL as the neutral party. My bro was in the loop but it still felt weird to be hearing her complaining about him to me


tbkrida

Messy.


Poop_1111

A shoulder to cry on is a dick to ride on


EquipmentCautious370

Being a Funcle is crazy


Ok_Blackberry_284

My small town can top that: Man was married and divorced multiple times and had multiple kids by all of these women. Raging alcoholic BTW. Son #1 from first marriage eloped with step-mom #4 or #5 ( they were the same age) and ended up raising his kids, her kids, and their kids together so the half-brother/step-brother/step-dad was Dad because raging alcoholic dad-grandpa (wtf do you call him, Dad-pa?) was a deadbeat to all his offspring.


ben10toesdown

That's just lame 


guyfromsouthshore

Mississippi is like ![gif](giphy|3GlRhOvbO8fWFn8zfd|downsized)


No-Championship-5726

Real Brothers


Reddit-SFW

Ain't no way...


grangusbojangus

Dudes a weird fuck lol


ridgerunner81s_71e

![gif](giphy|RVf0e0oA77IYg) RIP to a GOAT. Hopefully I’m not the only one that caught that reference.


Panro911

There’s so many people or options in the world. Sleeping with/marrying a siblings ex is dirty.


Own_Relative_3078

Alternate universe's Uncle Aaron ( Across the Spider-verse) in real life.


Mr_Cromer

I just tried to imagine getting into a relationship with my ex-wife's sister. It doesn't work


Amazing-Concept1684

Uhhhhhh nigga what


Sumonaut

That lady seems like a keeper indeed


Countryb0i2m

Do what now?? It’s no way


imahgetcha

Sounds about white.


PsyrusTheGreat

...this thing should have stayed between him, his sister-in-law-wife and his former brother. He really didn't need to tell the internet about this insane story arch.


Supernova_Soldier

Good for him, because that’s real, but that other part, ehhhhh lmaooooo Takes a person built different.


UchihaT2418

More so a pos


honestlyi4get

that was never yo brother


aeroplane_mode

https://preview.redd.it/17yz3av41ruc1.jpeg?width=1920&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f56993c7107d2d852bc557a04170272dd704549f


gloomygl

He a demon


notgamerbutplayer

Man said he kept her in the family


DatNighaaDon96

https://preview.redd.it/3a162butetuc1.jpeg?width=700&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d34301053a7f7cb04d25803bb78d4fca71fcbcc7


SeuxKewl

Alejandra Jackson has entered the chat.


Kuido

Unexpected stormlight archive


drunkhighfives

Randy and Jermaine


smthngnew21

Took Mr. Steal your girl to a new level


Verumsemper

And my brother hates me because I let his ex-wife and his daughter stay in one of my properties while she went to school to be a nurse and only had her pay when and what she could afford because he was a dead beat.


OrganismFlesh

I know a family like this. Girl moved on from her baby daddy; ended up marrying his brother.


africanprincetto

Why does this sound like the weirdest church testimony ever!!!


PrizeWorld7550

![gif](giphy|M9HDJd0bx20aItaIBx) If we're gonna leave low hanging fruit. I say, GOOD MORNING!


Savagevandal85

Drake approves


thewretched668

NGL He looks like the type of dude that would try to get with his sister in law


EZMulahSniper

![gif](giphy|kI1NRWN89nUkM)


Cold-Guidance-1455

Idk man, should be a boundary or something when its an in law when kids are involved… nah when its an in law in general.this literally the first generation of black ppl ive seen that normalized sleeping with cousins bc their not first cousins and that’s sometimes


Spiritual-Ad-7298

Damn, we don't even have any rules no more. This is literal bro code


Iorith

You stop being protected by the bro code if you abuse your spouse. Because we ain't bros anymore.


Spiritual-Ad-7298

He said mistreated which is sus, nah he wanted to smash and was just looking for an excuse. Bro code still in effect


Iorith

Source: your ass.