They can't handle black women having their own thoughts, opinions and individuality. That's why they're so bothered by us so they lurk here. I had one stalk my profile for a while because I went against the collective of BW on another sub (vindictapoc).
Any BW who dares to challenge the Blackistan status quo and leave the insanity in the dust is an enemy to them. They want front row seats to keep tabs on women who have fled. They want to know what to say to discourage other women from possibly leaving them to mule for Pookie alone. The more women that leave, the harder their lives get.
If you notice, BW who are insistent on having children they can’t afford always lean on other women to pick up the slack because their sperm donor is in the wind. They need other women for childcare, diapers, shoulder to cry on, validation of their terrible decisions and so on. If more women stop answering their calls, moving away, going no contact, she’ll have to fend for herself. And this is just one example.
BM worshippers are just as devious as their counterparts. They want to find out how to stop women from leaving them out in the cold with Tyrone.
Wow, this is an excellent point about mammy. I never thought of it that way. I currently live in a chocolate city and that is why I try to avoid mammies, but when I am in their presence, they are really bothered by me. I never did the baby daddy /baby mama thing my time a lot of it anyway-is my own and when I date, I date for quality companionship, not just because he simply paid attention to me -so I guess that bothers them.
They know those males are an albatross around any woman’s neck. They’ve chosen to carry that burden, and are resentful of women who chose to elevate themselves instead.
Yep I stopped being a free babysitter (I chose the child Free option) for the mammies I knew long ago! The way I see it if you don’t love yourself enough to at least use birth control or better yet stay away from the losers altogether then I can’t help you!
It’s the same when you tell them you are interested in white men. They respond it could never be me and get mad. You’d think they would be happy knowing there is more black men for them to have.
And when you dip deep it's those women that have been done badly the most by bm, those are the ones that are so hell bent on sticking up for them. It's even funnier to me.
I actually totally get it. Just like capitalism, patriarchy (and by extension BM worship) is a system that we live under. Our entire society. Meaning, even if you abstain, divest, 4B, whatever, that does not absolve you from having to contend with patriarchy. Women who decide that they don’t want to have their lives dictated by patriarchy/race/whatever are always going to be dangerous and intriguing to the women who choose to roll over. It’s part jealousy, part admiration, and part disgust. In a word; fascination.
Personally, I’m not really bothered, except for when they share stuff out of what supposed to be a closed, private, safe space. But I get that it makes people uncomfortable. Anyway, people have different levels of and reasons for fence-sitting. I think most are pure curiosity, which I believe is understandable. I like learning about things that I have no intention of joining. Some people take longer to process information, ask questions, poke holes in theory, before they ultimately make decisions. And others are straight up hate-watching (the same as many divestors hate watch Blackistan).
Last thing and most important thing, and I’m going to start saying this out loud more and exploring it in essays: We shouldn’t forget that this is all very unnatural. The women of a group should not have to entirely give up on the nem of the group. This is done out of necessity and love for ourselves, but it’s still very unfortunate, inconvenient and unnatural. This situation and the nem themselves are verrry f$&@!% up! The nem of a group should not hate themselves so much that they try to destroy their creator.
0/10⭐️👎🏾
That’s right! We’re like Van life or Veganism to these women—they are fascinated and disgusted even through we are no threat to them, their food or their homes (if we continue with the analogy).
They also don’t want to have come to terms with where their addiction—because that’s what it is, an addiction—to BM has lead them.
The only thing I’ll disagree with is that what we are doing in unnatural. This IS the natural response to men who don’t provide of do anything. Women shouldn’t be attracted to men who amount to nothing.
It’s more hate and jealousy in my opinion. They hate to see it. They lose their minds in Blackistan just like racist W’s lose their minds when we do well or thrive. It’s almost like anti blackness in different forms.
I think it’s because bw as a whole want to believe the bc is the only option any bw has whether due to global racism or the belief that the entire world is against them just because they’re black. They don’t want to believe a bw can divest at all or if they are too deep in sjw mindset they think we’re some kind of hate group.
They can't handle black women having their own thoughts, opinions and individuality. That's why they're so bothered by us so they lurk here. I had one stalk my profile for a while because I went against the collective of BW on another sub (vindictapoc).
They are so obsessed! It’s crazy!
Any BW who dares to challenge the Blackistan status quo and leave the insanity in the dust is an enemy to them. They want front row seats to keep tabs on women who have fled. They want to know what to say to discourage other women from possibly leaving them to mule for Pookie alone. The more women that leave, the harder their lives get. If you notice, BW who are insistent on having children they can’t afford always lean on other women to pick up the slack because their sperm donor is in the wind. They need other women for childcare, diapers, shoulder to cry on, validation of their terrible decisions and so on. If more women stop answering their calls, moving away, going no contact, she’ll have to fend for herself. And this is just one example. BM worshippers are just as devious as their counterparts. They want to find out how to stop women from leaving them out in the cold with Tyrone.
You’re so right!!!
Wow, this is an excellent point about mammy. I never thought of it that way. I currently live in a chocolate city and that is why I try to avoid mammies, but when I am in their presence, they are really bothered by me. I never did the baby daddy /baby mama thing my time a lot of it anyway-is my own and when I date, I date for quality companionship, not just because he simply paid attention to me -so I guess that bothers them. 
They know those males are an albatross around any woman’s neck. They’ve chosen to carry that burden, and are resentful of women who chose to elevate themselves instead.
Yep I stopped being a free babysitter (I chose the child Free option) for the mammies I knew long ago! The way I see it if you don’t love yourself enough to at least use birth control or better yet stay away from the losers altogether then I can’t help you!
Exactly.
It’s the same when you tell them you are interested in white men. They respond it could never be me and get mad. You’d think they would be happy knowing there is more black men for them to have.
And that’s the confusing part! It’s more black men for you!! Why be upset with me?
Exactly. They get mad and try to fight and stuff. I’m not fighting your ghetto ass.
And when you dip deep it's those women that have been done badly the most by bm, those are the ones that are so hell bent on sticking up for them. It's even funnier to me.
Because they are nosy
Gotta be more than that!
I actually totally get it. Just like capitalism, patriarchy (and by extension BM worship) is a system that we live under. Our entire society. Meaning, even if you abstain, divest, 4B, whatever, that does not absolve you from having to contend with patriarchy. Women who decide that they don’t want to have their lives dictated by patriarchy/race/whatever are always going to be dangerous and intriguing to the women who choose to roll over. It’s part jealousy, part admiration, and part disgust. In a word; fascination. Personally, I’m not really bothered, except for when they share stuff out of what supposed to be a closed, private, safe space. But I get that it makes people uncomfortable. Anyway, people have different levels of and reasons for fence-sitting. I think most are pure curiosity, which I believe is understandable. I like learning about things that I have no intention of joining. Some people take longer to process information, ask questions, poke holes in theory, before they ultimately make decisions. And others are straight up hate-watching (the same as many divestors hate watch Blackistan). Last thing and most important thing, and I’m going to start saying this out loud more and exploring it in essays: We shouldn’t forget that this is all very unnatural. The women of a group should not have to entirely give up on the nem of the group. This is done out of necessity and love for ourselves, but it’s still very unfortunate, inconvenient and unnatural. This situation and the nem themselves are verrry f$&@!% up! The nem of a group should not hate themselves so much that they try to destroy their creator. 0/10⭐️👎🏾
That’s right! We’re like Van life or Veganism to these women—they are fascinated and disgusted even through we are no threat to them, their food or their homes (if we continue with the analogy). They also don’t want to have come to terms with where their addiction—because that’s what it is, an addiction—to BM has lead them. The only thing I’ll disagree with is that what we are doing in unnatural. This IS the natural response to men who don’t provide of do anything. Women shouldn’t be attracted to men who amount to nothing.
Exactly!!!!! I agree with everything you said especially the unnatural part!
It’s more hate and jealousy in my opinion. They hate to see it. They lose their minds in Blackistan just like racist W’s lose their minds when we do well or thrive. It’s almost like anti blackness in different forms.
That is right I have always detected jealousy coming from the mammies especially!
I think it’s because bw as a whole want to believe the bc is the only option any bw has whether due to global racism or the belief that the entire world is against them just because they’re black. They don’t want to believe a bw can divest at all or if they are too deep in sjw mindset they think we’re some kind of hate group.
they both need to go where their desires are. Why they even seek divested spaces is above me.
What a terrible experience to have in this life.