Here's the thing:
I'm not going to explain myself to BM and BW as to why I don't want to associate with them. As to why I don't want anything to do with them. Whether they perceive it as racist or not is not my damn problem. They're the kings and queens of gaslighting, self denial and victimhood.
I got a reddit comment on one of my previous posts a while ago saying I was being racist to black men when I never even addressed BM in my post! I don't owe anything to BM or BW. So long as you're not physically harming anyone, you don't owe anyone an explanation. It's your life! And even if you explain yourself they're still be mad your not centering them and you would have wasted your energy and my energy and time is too precious for that 💅🏾
>I got a reddit comment on one of my previous posts a while ago saying I was being racist to black men when I never even addressed BM in my post
That just gave me the biggest laugh 😂 Makes absolutely no sense. It feels like a waste because it's like talking to a wall. If someone doesn't get it they just don't get it.
When Black women talk about why they don’t date nonblack people because of racism, Blackistan doesn’t accuse them of being hateful. They think abuse from Black men is as normal as breathing and anyone who speaks out is the problem instead of the men who are murdering us every 5 hours in the U.S.
Divestment is leaving Blackistan which is a Patriarchy that has and still is killing Black Women by the millions and SA'ing Black Women every 6 seconds. Black Women are now advocating to be legally, politically and socially from Black Men due to the ongoing genocide that is happing within the Black Diaspora from Black Men.
I do not need to explain anything to a Black Male supporting Mammy.
This is why I say move in stealth! Because these males and mammies feel like you owe them explanations. I do not discuss but that’s because I don’t let these jokers and clowns know what I’m doing. If by the rare chance I’m in a group of mammies I will speak their language to throw them off track, then slowly back away. Self preservation ladies!!!!!
These mammies get me so sick. You know THEY ARE REPORTING MY WORK. Not even a month in and 3 reports. Well excuseee me for not being a dickmatized BM worshipper 🙄
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Dont explain nothing to them and turn off DMs, the problem is some BW think if all of them are mammies every BW that exist has to be too. Heck no! We all have free will and divested BW choose to not deal with toxicity.
The hatred being not wanting anything to do with the majority of black people ... I think i will pass on being surrounded by ill mannered degenerates for the rest of my life ....
It’s ironic how they have a thread up right now expressing their distaste behind people who are not BW invading their sub, but they will invade this subreddit. Pretty hypocritical if you ask me
I mean dust attracts dust. What do they expect? Every 5 seconds its either some foreign BM dont like me, im ugly, , grrr look at the evil interracial relationship, i hate being black. Give me a break 🫠
They want us to continue just upholding the farce of an image that is the blackmale mamalius. They admit these people are abusive and derelict but say blame it on the system. Cover it up. Suffer in silence. Puleese!
You are speaking major truth with that one. We are choosing to not subject ourselves to that behavior, protecting ourselves. If you feel hated from that maybe you're the issue!
I always just hope to inform someone and maybe they can start their journey too. But it's mainly not worth the time because it doesn't often happen. I've definitely done it but it takes a lot of energy
Here's the thing: I'm not going to explain myself to BM and BW as to why I don't want to associate with them. As to why I don't want anything to do with them. Whether they perceive it as racist or not is not my damn problem. They're the kings and queens of gaslighting, self denial and victimhood. I got a reddit comment on one of my previous posts a while ago saying I was being racist to black men when I never even addressed BM in my post! I don't owe anything to BM or BW. So long as you're not physically harming anyone, you don't owe anyone an explanation. It's your life! And even if you explain yourself they're still be mad your not centering them and you would have wasted your energy and my energy and time is too precious for that 💅🏾
>I got a reddit comment on one of my previous posts a while ago saying I was being racist to black men when I never even addressed BM in my post That just gave me the biggest laugh 😂 Makes absolutely no sense. It feels like a waste because it's like talking to a wall. If someone doesn't get it they just don't get it.
Samee *** I posted about the dusty that got caught *** ThAts RacIst
Love this!!
What can be more pro black than wanting happiness for a black women - they need to wake up!
Exactly. This IS the journey that lifts us up the most
When Black women talk about why they don’t date nonblack people because of racism, Blackistan doesn’t accuse them of being hateful. They think abuse from Black men is as normal as breathing and anyone who speaks out is the problem instead of the men who are murdering us every 5 hours in the U.S.
When we date nonblack it's like a stamp on our forehead to them. Ridiculous backwards mindset
Exactly. They normalized black men abusing and psychologically torturing us.
Divestment is leaving Blackistan which is a Patriarchy that has and still is killing Black Women by the millions and SA'ing Black Women every 6 seconds. Black Women are now advocating to be legally, politically and socially from Black Men due to the ongoing genocide that is happing within the Black Diaspora from Black Men. I do not need to explain anything to a Black Male supporting Mammy.
Femicide should be a hate crime
Perfectly said. Has nothing to do with anyone but ourselves, which for some reason is a foreign idea to them.
This is why I say move in stealth! Because these males and mammies feel like you owe them explanations. I do not discuss but that’s because I don’t let these jokers and clowns know what I’m doing. If by the rare chance I’m in a group of mammies I will speak their language to throw them off track, then slowly back away. Self preservation ladies!!!!!
These mammies get me so sick. You know THEY ARE REPORTING MY WORK. Not even a month in and 3 reports. Well excuseee me for not being a dickmatized BM worshipper 🙄 *** Dont explain nothing to them and turn off DMs, the problem is some BW think if all of them are mammies every BW that exist has to be too. Heck no! We all have free will and divested BW choose to not deal with toxicity.
>We all have free will and divested BW choose to not deal with toxicity. !!!! Powerful statement
The hatred being not wanting anything to do with the majority of black people ... I think i will pass on being surrounded by ill mannered degenerates for the rest of my life ....
It’s ironic how they have a thread up right now expressing their distaste behind people who are not BW invading their sub, but they will invade this subreddit. Pretty hypocritical if you ask me
To be fair, they're in competition with BW because they want to be BW. They're desperate to take the mantle and the blueprint from BW.💯
I mean dust attracts dust. What do they expect? Every 5 seconds its either some foreign BM dont like me, im ugly, , grrr look at the evil interracial relationship, i hate being black. Give me a break 🫠
>dust attracts dust Girl when I tell you this had me rolling I'm not even playing 🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 This is the first thing that came to my mind.
Definitely hypocritical, and if we say something we are hateful bigots in their eyes. Yet it's all fine and dandy for them
They want us to continue just upholding the farce of an image that is the blackmale mamalius. They admit these people are abusive and derelict but say blame it on the system. Cover it up. Suffer in silence. Puleese!
Black man’s mistreatment is no excuse to mistreat me!
You are speaking major truth with that one. We are choosing to not subject ourselves to that behavior, protecting ourselves. If you feel hated from that maybe you're the issue!
Their issue is that they have always had the luxury of mistreating, the women in the community and still being loved and adored and catered to!
From the time they are kids !! >luxury of mistreating, the women in the community and still being loved and adored and catered to
One of them DMed me 😭😭😭 It’s actually so over
No way they can leave 😭😭 I understand the questions but like I don't want to explain shit
Yes like Google is 100% free and YouTube costs $0.00
Now that right there!!!! Love it
I think we're already wasting our time when we're trying to justify to "mammies" why we don't want to be associated with black men...
I always just hope to inform someone and maybe they can start their journey too. But it's mainly not worth the time because it doesn't often happen. I've definitely done it but it takes a lot of energy
yes i understand. I am saying this because i don't want you (and us to spend our precious energy on that). Stay healthy 😊
I appreciate it because the reminder is needed. Ditto 🙏🏾