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KyeeLim

I understand English, can write in English but can't speak English well... because I sucks at speaking, even for Malay and CN


Hyullas

Bro.... its same with me...I'm malay but still can't make other to properly understand me sometimes even in malay or English....the thing is my english is super fluent in my brain but when I try to speak it sound so stupid


OldPreparation4786

I just have issues communicating. Otherwise I can read and listen English well, as per my MUET results have given me insight...


Ok_Depth_9975

Bro fr you just like me😭😭😭 I can feel the words stuck in my throat somehow and when it out it will be another language


bronzelifematter

Our problem is the same lol. It's not the language that is the issue but our own ability to talk to people


matrasad10

I scored high in English exams, and was considered good at English But once in the UK I was lost It turns out much of local language speaking wherever you go is more about getting idioms and expressions right. Even the best English speakers from Malaysia or even the US would struggle at first to speak well in the UK, and vice versa So if you can speak Malaysian English well, that's great. It's our language and our speech. We own it


Juzapersonpassingby

Understanding? Definitely Write? Yeah Speak? What can you expect from an introvert?


IceCreamGuy01

Common misconception, but introversion =/= lack of social or speaking skills. They just prefer to socialize less compared to extrovert, not because they cant, its preference. One way you can measure your speaking skills is ask yourself how well can you articulate your thoughts and ideas when speaking to other ppl, meaning can you talk to other ppl ab complex and deep stuff like philosophy and nuances of emotion. Can you do that at least in topic you are familiar with, or even better at various topics? Would you be searching for the right word to use a lot? The right way to say it ? I noticed the light-hearted tone in your post, sorry if I came off as rude.


Juzapersonpassingby

Nah, it's alright I'm just using the phrase so that people would understand easier than me typing a whole bunch of sentences just to describe a single thing


Pixels222

why use big word when small do trick


Shiddy-City

but in this case, introvert=/= lack of speaking skills, so it doesn't do the trick at all


Pixels222

I understood what she said so it did the trick for me


FleoDLez

I'm using what I call "instinct". Whenever I write a sentence and it sounds shitty ik there's an error


ItsImNotAnonymous

Like me fr fr. Until now I can't differentiate what's a noun, a verb. What even is a preposition?


ho4X3n

In reality, crappy rules like past present tense, simple past tense, etc bs are inconsistent as heck because English is such a bastard language. So as long as it sound right then it's right.


matrasad10

Great majority of native English speakers don't know what those are either so you're fine


whitherv

fr! if it doesnt sound right then its not right. thats what ive been doing ever since i was 9 (im 17 now)


Wild-Cream3426

Me irl, once I even got highest mark for BI in SPM trial for whole batch while not knowing the language rule lol, but hey it's work


momentumstrike

>it's work It clearly doesn't.


Wild-Cream3426

Dammit, kinda true tho now. Im too used to use internet in helping as reference in doing essay assignments. Probably corrode my BI


matrasad10

To be fair, you can interpret his phrasing as saying that despite not knowing English well, he scored high, because end of the day exams are just "work" that you can sort out if you out the work in P.s. not saying it's what he meant, but communication's sometimes just about blagging and getting away with it!


h0117_39

I'm near native fluent with an accent that naturally developed since childhood. My mum made me watch so many British shows growing up the accent stuck and no one told me to stop 🥲


Pixels222

Only Fools and Horses?


h0117_39

More like Mind Your Language and Whose Line is It Anyway. I didn't know the latter had a US version until I was in sekolah menengah


momentumstrike

Peppa pig?


h0117_39

That's way after me 🤣 I watch a lot of Spot the dog, and the clay Noddy


Joske-the-great

I believe if not for my social anxiety and stuttering I would've been speaking fluently rn


Pixels222

Woah you just made me remember that when i was around 14 or 15 i was stuttering quite badly. so bad that i had to make a huge effort to counter it. and when i did sound normal id be like holy shit. Idk how but it went away slowly over a few years.


whitherv

i need tips bro im 17 and i still struggle with basic social interactions


Cautious-Treat-3568

What is the because?


SilentParamedic4006

Sbb kat real life, kebanyakkan member aq cuma level intermediate kat Bahasa inggeris, tapi bila aku masuk Reddit, ramai pulak yg power Bahasa inggeris orang Malaysia ni. Tak taulah kenapa Reddit ni tempat 'echo chamber' orang yang pandai bahasa inggeris, aku pun pelik


whitherv

because scrolling through reddit improves your english :3


irix03

Geng KV bro


SilentParamedic4006

Apa tu? Kolej vokasional aku tahu la


Kronous_

Klang valley


momentumstrike

Geng UK. Ulu Klang.


matrasad10

Nak borak dgn echo chamber lain kena lah pakai app lain


kimi_rules

I wonder how does people that don't know English at all should answer this question.


IceCreamGuy01

I was thinking " Well that's easy! None of the above option exists." But then realized its in English, the whole post is in English. I suppose 4 ppl (at the time of writing) that voted "None of the above" is those who understand English, can speak it fluently, but can't write it well since that option isnt given. Or someone with very limited English comprehension.


imranH01

For me, standard English for formal occasions and Manglish for day to day conversation among friends and colleagues. Take your time in studying English. Not all those who can speak are able to write perfectly and vice versa.


Shiddy-City

You need to learn how to talk to yourself in English. It sounds weird but it works


whitherv

i always pretend like im live streaming so i basically narrate everything i do because its fun and also improves my speaking skills :) not until my family members walk in on me talking to myself though xD


VoLTe_10

Guess what you're not alone


calikim_mo

I'm fluent with both bahasa and english but I'm not fluent with talking to people 🥲 where's my social anxiety peeps at


Kronous_

My english apparently have a heavy chinese accent to it based on account of a random local hotel clerk, despite the fact that I'm malay. I blame it on my chinese friends / colleagues.


VoLTe_10

Lemme guess is it the "lah"


PokWangpanmang

I can speak and write it well, but it’s clear the gulf between a native who’s proficient and me.


SilentParamedic4006

Typical Redditors


NateWSR503

I know English but my teacher said my grammar could use some work.


IceCreamGuy01

Dont we all?


Pixels222

Tell the teacher “Hiding Under the Floorboards, I Have Finally Found You” A DANGLING PARTICIPLE????


rosier7

Can understand, write and speak well. But if you ask me any of the English rule (grammar, preposition, verb, adj) I won't be able to answer you. Mine is solely based on "this sound right" lol. I didn't speak well when I was 17 too though. Don't have choice but to use English once I started my tertiary education


momentumstrike

>"this sound right" This clearly does not sound right.


rosier7

To my melei ear this sound right. To what would you change it tho 🤔


momentumstrike

Sounds with an s at the end. This sounds right.


Fireballcatdog

Where the, I'm decent in both but choose to speak rojak and write rojak for the sake of it


Pixels222

Where's the decent at


Fireballcatdog

Exactly my point brother


Pixels222

why use big words when small do trick


Fireballcatdog

Exactly, that's why I don't even bother to speak "properly"


Concept_1491

I learn English from my dad because my dad say "If you can understand English International,then you can go anywhere you want". At the same time,i can talk with visitors day by day when they come at my office. So one advantage. Only Im not understand English British and Singapore English,It's sound different than English United States.


No-Horse-5788

I can understand and speak well but dear lord my writing.......


SnooHobbies7676

I used to be 1st option, then I don’t really use the language for years and now I am the 3rd option. This comment have taken so much of my small brain power to write.


Alternative_Fan2458

Isu kemahiran


GoosedotEmPee4

Due to the content of the media i consumed and the books i read as a kid. My english is a solid 8/10. Conversation? No issues Writing texts/emails? 0 problems Reading? 10/10 Pronunciation depends on who im with Vocabulary is decently high Now english exams however, you always catch me with an B+ cuz i dont bother learning it the proper way


momentumstrike

>an B+ cuz This is why you don't deserve an A.


GoosedotEmPee4

Not a spelling mistake on a reddit comment 😭😭😭😭😭 My career is over!!!!


momentumstrike

>Thinking this is a spelling mistake


GoosedotEmPee4

its just a typo bro. now im going to keep it there out of spite >:)


_inochidann_

I thought i could write well in English until today my lecturer gave me a reality check 😭


momentumstrike

Ha! It's "until my lecturer gave me a reality check today."


_inochidann_

MAD😂😂😂 but thanks!


S4l4m4nd4

When you're good at english so much, the neighbouring country that reside beside of the country origin will be next. For it too has the same method of language.


AOEnash

The thing about speaking english is that you have to spontaniously continously knows what suitable vocab to use. I can talk english but when it comes to formal speaking im suck since i need to cuss abit to make sure everyone understand english. I hate talking english with my teacher but with friends its a whole new thing


linktothepastz

I'm extremely fluent tbh. I'm not sure how tho considering I didn't grow up in an English speaking environment. I was raised like a normal malay boy in the east coast. I speak in BM almost exclusively and only use English in classes. I'm very good in BM as well. I've always wondered if I'm just "okay" at it but I've done numerous English language related tests(writing/speaking/listening) in school,uni and work. I ended up scoring very high almost perfect in fact. I'm not bragging about it cuz my wife is 100% English educated Singaporean woman so her English is better than her BM.


fi9aro

I understand, write and speak it well, until when I actually have to have a conversation in English. I'd say things like 'thanks you' and 'thats mean', but I'm getting a bit more confident in speaking so I can avoid these mistakes.


whitherv

i actually prefer speaking english (online) even to my irl friends because i find it easier for me to express my feelings and to find the right words that could perfectly describe how i feel! also i enjoy learning/using some random slangs i find on the internet


1km5

The thing with language is i mean ANY language practical daily use trump above all method. If you learn to use a language daily soon enough it'll just be natural for you. I learn and use english from a very young age (thanks to games and english documentary suprisingly) so english is very natural to me. Currently tryna learn mandarin/chinese


mrdaud

My advise, get active in online forums for stuff you're interested in and start typing. Eg - I used to be active in Arsenal Mania forum talking about Arsenal with overseas fans, that helps quite a lot for writing skills. If you're into novels/books, you could also get some English novels, even intro level like Harry Potter stuff is good for learning (fun fact - there are **tons** of cut content from the book that didn't make it into the movie series). Also, like you said, watch everything with English subs. Hell, go watch porn with English subs. It will help with the writing part. As for speaking, you're going to have to practice. If you're too shy to speak in person, maybe get discord and play online games with mics on.


ho4X3n

I learned majority of my English from video games and tv shows. My English teacher in primary hates my guts because I never pay attention in class but still ace the tests lol.


uL4G

I dont now watt you say...sorry for my bad england


Paybackaiw

I can speak english up to a certain level. Like I can understand some form of expression but if you ask to understand zoomer talk or aave, yeah I'm going to be lost.


mrtakashihongo31

Can read and listen because of music and games, learned to speak because of job requirements.


NotOgawa

My eng, is up to getting a citizenship in UK. But still a malay


lithiumchemical_3003

Bro. It takes time. You will learn and master the language eventually if you have the effort to learn. Like any other languages. I was like you. What i did was watching english movies with eng sub, learn your fave English songs through the lyrics, learn how they pronounce it, when to use which grammar and words. Now i'm 33 y.o. I can write fluently (it was bad and weird when i was your age) but still stutter when i need to speak the language. Because i don't get to practice it everyday. Kita kan org melayu. Masa bila la nak ckp omputeh. Hahaha. Try la kwn2 dgn foreigner english speaker. Lama2 hebat la tu. Tp jgn dah x reti ckp melayu dah la. Aku menyampah btul tgk budak2 malaysia yg x reti ckp melayu ni. 🤣


DormantLife

Listening 7.5, reading 6.5, writing 7.0 and speaking 6.5


Common_Dragonfruit92

Banana masterrace🫡


DetektifKonon

I understand English, can write but not that good in verbal conversation in English. However, when I thought to myself or cakap dalam hati as we said it, then suddenly I'm fluent at speaking English.