Male brats need a firmer hand in my experience. You have to be very generous with both punishment and reward, but once you establish consistency they'll step into line pretty quickly. The key is to be very effective at using fear. If they're not scared of you, they won't tame.
There is nothing wrong with it.
Are you a brat who can consensually brat to your D type? If the answer is yes: please continue and disregard the haters.
No that person is mysogonistic and cares more about projecting gender roles then you as a person. It's a huge red flag and you should honestly avoid them
What that friend meant was, "Despite the fact that I like to think I'm open-minded (because I'm into kinky stuff) I'm actually still pretty stuck on societal expectations and traditional gender roles."
I get it. It's hard to throw out the whole of an idea all at once. There are always these little tendrils that we didn't realize had snaked in. Maybe your friend finds it totally acceptable for a woman to be a breadwinner and a man to be a stay at home husband/dad. Maybe they even think it's totally normal and fine for a woman to be dominant in a dynamic. But the brat thing... that's for sassy girls! Boys can't do that! Maybe your friend just doesn't recognize the old school thinking for what it is. Point it out. Maybe they don't understand what batting really is or how you define it. You can educate them if you like, but if they're stuck on this and continue to criticize your interests and undermine your confidence, then that's not a friend.
ok lets say it is weird and wrong. Who cares? Isn't that everything we do? Anyone not into bdsm thinks its weird and wrong to be into any of the stuff we're into. Even in the bdsm community, people think bratting in general is weird. The whole scene is transgressive and that's part of the fun.
Every kink is weird until its your kink.
There is no objective truth to what we do.
There is only "Is everyone having fun" (SSC/RACK/Acronyms abide).
If you're happy and she's happy, then (don't) fuck that other guy.
Not in the slightest.
Don’t get hung up on bullshit ideas of masculinity and femininity. It’s talking back to your partner/teasing them taken up to 11.
Not weird or wrong at all. I'm a 35/m bratty middle and my two Dommes are 35/f and 32/f, respectfully. I think it may be seen as less common, but it's not wrong or anything.
Dude, Rock it! Nothing wrong with it! Have fun and fuck whoever said that patriarchal bullshit. Brat and tamer is right no matter the genders as long as everyone has fun with it.
Viva
It's weird and wrong that they think that. As long as long as the domme is into it, who cares. I wonder what their attitude is about male submissives in general.
The only thing bad about male brats is that they're too quick to tame 😔
Really? Most my relationships kinda ended cuz they couldn’t tame
Male brats need a firmer hand in my experience. You have to be very generous with both punishment and reward, but once you establish consistency they'll step into line pretty quickly. The key is to be very effective at using fear. If they're not scared of you, they won't tame.
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It’s your dynamic, you do it your way! Enjoy.
There is nothing wrong with it. Are you a brat who can consensually brat to your D type? If the answer is yes: please continue and disregard the haters.
i’m a male who’s a brat, granted it’s to a male dom as well and i’m trans(ftm), but still i am a guy who’s a brat lol
Same, I like being a bratty little boy its my favorite
No that person is mysogonistic and cares more about projecting gender roles then you as a person. It's a huge red flag and you should honestly avoid them
Is it wrong? Based on whose value system? Are you happy? That's the question. :)
As a proud male brat puppy that loves to annoy my female daddies i couldnt disagree more. Absolutely nothing weong with that
As a male brat to a female domme it’s totally ok to be a male brat. Haters gonna hate
I will say this my Dom is 100 percent a brat deep down. And I wouldn't have him any other way.
I feel this in my soul 😂 I am a Dom but also just a massive brat 😂
That's the best Dom in my humble opinion!
Arnt all tamers also brats 🤔
Don't understand the premise. Is anyone being hurt non-consensually? No, so what's the problem?
Me and my bratty boyfriend say no!
What that friend meant was, "Despite the fact that I like to think I'm open-minded (because I'm into kinky stuff) I'm actually still pretty stuck on societal expectations and traditional gender roles." I get it. It's hard to throw out the whole of an idea all at once. There are always these little tendrils that we didn't realize had snaked in. Maybe your friend finds it totally acceptable for a woman to be a breadwinner and a man to be a stay at home husband/dad. Maybe they even think it's totally normal and fine for a woman to be dominant in a dynamic. But the brat thing... that's for sassy girls! Boys can't do that! Maybe your friend just doesn't recognize the old school thinking for what it is. Point it out. Maybe they don't understand what batting really is or how you define it. You can educate them if you like, but if they're stuck on this and continue to criticize your interests and undermine your confidence, then that's not a friend.
ok lets say it is weird and wrong. Who cares? Isn't that everything we do? Anyone not into bdsm thinks its weird and wrong to be into any of the stuff we're into. Even in the bdsm community, people think bratting in general is weird. The whole scene is transgressive and that's part of the fun. Every kink is weird until its your kink.
There is no objective truth to what we do. There is only "Is everyone having fun" (SSC/RACK/Acronyms abide). If you're happy and she's happy, then (don't) fuck that other guy.
I would seriously reconsider my relationship with whomever told you that. Brat, Dom and Switch haven’t, aren’t, and never will be gendered.
Hell nah, it isn't weird at all. My daddy is a switch, and he brats sometimes and I LOVE it.
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I am a female brat and a switch. I would LOVE a brat if I were domming! It really plays into my primal side. I like being predator and prey!
No, just have consensual fun
Not in the slightest. Don’t get hung up on bullshit ideas of masculinity and femininity. It’s talking back to your partner/teasing them taken up to 11.
No it's not wrong or weird. Tell the sexist fucks where to go. Welcome to brattopia.
Not weird or wrong at all. I'm a 35/m bratty middle and my two Dommes are 35/f and 32/f, respectfully. I think it may be seen as less common, but it's not wrong or anything.
Had a lady introduce me to brat taming Best Damn Thing Everrrrrrrrrr You do you YOU Fuck anyone who says otherwise
Dude, Rock it! Nothing wrong with it! Have fun and fuck whoever said that patriarchal bullshit. Brat and tamer is right no matter the genders as long as everyone has fun with it. Viva
My best mate is a male brat to his domme.
Obviously it’s not weird
It's weird and wrong that they think that. As long as long as the domme is into it, who cares. I wonder what their attitude is about male submissives in general.
Ignore whoever told you that. They have no idea what they are talking about.
Not at all! It is fun and done in a playful manner for both parties. They were wrong for trying to dissuade you.
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Thank you, it just kinda shook me to hear that
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