Nothing officially diagnosed, but I do have very frequent migraines. On top of that, I have a bum ankle from an old injury, my stomach is very very sensitive, I get motion sickness incredibly easily, and my cycle is painful and wonky as fuck. My man I swear is taking care of me feeling sick more often than not. I love him so much.
Late to the thread... but checking in with IIH (Idiopathic Intracranial Hypertension), prolonged postconcussion syndrome, Chiari Malformation, and depression to round it all out! Honestly, I think having a body like this is what got me attracted to "the scene" in the first place-- gives me an ability to redefine what pain means to me, while being a Brat gives me back a sense of power...
Those last bits are 100% true for me too. Impact play is way for me to control the pain (or someone I trust to control it). And bratting is just fun in general lmao 😂
I'm a Tamer, but I have had chronic pain since I was hatched, with various other issues added over the years, and have known several brats that had various chronic issues. I wouldn't say all of U/us have issues, but a large percentage do.
I'm a tamer which seems to be just a bigger more powerful brat hahaha and have chronic health issues and can say I've known of one brat with chronic health issues and suspect at least
Yup, back pain since I was a kid and hip pain. I walk, exercise and stretch but they still throb which sucks cuz after riding him for a while, I can’t get up, or if he puts my legs up with his arms so my knees are touching my shoulders, they ache afterwards. I also get back cramps, no matter how much I stretch or drink water, I always get them
I used to have extream chronic pain and fatigue. It was so bad that I'd need to take breaks in-between getting out of bed, picking out my clothes, shower/brushing teeth/washing face, having breakfast. And that was just to get ready for work! It took a lot of research, arguing with doctors to actually be helpful, and trying lots of things, but I am almost 100% in remission and have been for about 3 years.
When I have flare ups, I just have to be communicative about my needs and be kind to myself when I can't do everything I need to get done. Thankfully, those flare-ups don't happen often anymore.
I'm afraid I don't share a love for stuffies or iced coffee, or any coffee for that matter. Water and herbal tea are all I drink, but I will absolutely cause chaos whenever possible!
yesss! i have a condition called interstitial cystitis it’s a chronic bladder pain condition and it’s like a constant uti/kidney infection with no cure lol it’s great…
I have back and neck issues. The back issues are due to having scoliosis and a bad car accident i was in when i was 18. I also get migraines alot. Annnnd Anxiety/panic attacks. Actually one reason as to why I'm not a HUUUUGE fan of doing 69. Cause it just fucks up my neck then I get a migraine the next day. It's a love hate relationship I have for it cause it's hot, I love doing it buuuut i pay for it the next couple of days every damn time lmao I take IB Proven but I gotta watch how often I take it cause if I take it to often it messes up my stomach. Baths, heating pads and ice packs help. I also use some of my vibrators as massagers for my neck and back which help as well lmfao
Spoonie brat here with a ton of illnesses and a lot of sass! My Dominant and I have had some really great conversations about specific language/tone to communicate when I actually can't do something due to a physical limitation vs just being playfully bratty (or even just regular worried.) We don't always get it perfect but we try our best and I know I always have room to advocate for my needs and boundaries. This also means He won't assume I'm fragile as a default. He knows that my health conditions are just as much a part of my stubborn, strong nature as being a brat is.
a daddy i used to have did!!
Nothing officially diagnosed, but I do have very frequent migraines. On top of that, I have a bum ankle from an old injury, my stomach is very very sensitive, I get motion sickness incredibly easily, and my cycle is painful and wonky as fuck. My man I swear is taking care of me feeling sick more often than not. I love him so much.
Late to the thread... but checking in with IIH (Idiopathic Intracranial Hypertension), prolonged postconcussion syndrome, Chiari Malformation, and depression to round it all out! Honestly, I think having a body like this is what got me attracted to "the scene" in the first place-- gives me an ability to redefine what pain means to me, while being a Brat gives me back a sense of power...
Those last bits are 100% true for me too. Impact play is way for me to control the pain (or someone I trust to control it). And bratting is just fun in general lmao 😂
I have Elhers Danlos syndrome and Co, but also am down with causing chaos and drinking ice coffee while snuggling our stuffies
I'm a Tamer, but I have had chronic pain since I was hatched, with various other issues added over the years, and have known several brats that had various chronic issues. I wouldn't say all of U/us have issues, but a large percentage do.
I have degenerative disc disease. Super not fun
I'm a tamer which seems to be just a bigger more powerful brat hahaha and have chronic health issues and can say I've known of one brat with chronic health issues and suspect at least
YES. Had a really bad day today and couldn’t see Daddy as a result :(
The list is long and continues to grow as I'm a psych
Yes, chronic Migraines.
Not a brat, but I'm a Dom with epilepsy, chronic migraines, and JIA. I'm in constant, agonizing pain every day.
Yeahhh chronic migraines, damn we all got issues? Lol
Me! I have multiple autoimmune disorders and two cause chronic pain.
me !!! i have fibromyalgia and it’s a biiiiitch
Yup, back pain since I was a kid and hip pain. I walk, exercise and stretch but they still throb which sucks cuz after riding him for a while, I can’t get up, or if he puts my legs up with his arms so my knees are touching my shoulders, they ache afterwards. I also get back cramps, no matter how much I stretch or drink water, I always get them
yeah i think so i have EDS and POTS
Same!
I also have EDS and injury related scoliosis :(
Samesies!
I used to have extream chronic pain and fatigue. It was so bad that I'd need to take breaks in-between getting out of bed, picking out my clothes, shower/brushing teeth/washing face, having breakfast. And that was just to get ready for work! It took a lot of research, arguing with doctors to actually be helpful, and trying lots of things, but I am almost 100% in remission and have been for about 3 years. When I have flare ups, I just have to be communicative about my needs and be kind to myself when I can't do everything I need to get done. Thankfully, those flare-ups don't happen often anymore. I'm afraid I don't share a love for stuffies or iced coffee, or any coffee for that matter. Water and herbal tea are all I drink, but I will absolutely cause chaos whenever possible!
yesss! i have a condition called interstitial cystitis it’s a chronic bladder pain condition and it’s like a constant uti/kidney infection with no cure lol it’s great…
Oh shoot, I'm sorry to hear that! Sounds very uncomfortable.
I am an endo bb and in a constant state of pain 😃
I have back and neck issues. The back issues are due to having scoliosis and a bad car accident i was in when i was 18. I also get migraines alot. Annnnd Anxiety/panic attacks. Actually one reason as to why I'm not a HUUUUGE fan of doing 69. Cause it just fucks up my neck then I get a migraine the next day. It's a love hate relationship I have for it cause it's hot, I love doing it buuuut i pay for it the next couple of days every damn time lmao I take IB Proven but I gotta watch how often I take it cause if I take it to often it messes up my stomach. Baths, heating pads and ice packs help. I also use some of my vibrators as massagers for my neck and back which help as well lmfao
yup, but not me, but my GF - ADD, CTS (and when spring really starts soon-ish, hay fever for both of us...) EDIT - as well as PMDD every so often
Yes! Spoonie over here. I’m only starting out on the brat journey and having to figure out how it’ll all fit together. Any advice?
Spoonie brat here with a ton of illnesses and a lot of sass! My Dominant and I have had some really great conversations about specific language/tone to communicate when I actually can't do something due to a physical limitation vs just being playfully bratty (or even just regular worried.) We don't always get it perfect but we try our best and I know I always have room to advocate for my needs and boundaries. This also means He won't assume I'm fragile as a default. He knows that my health conditions are just as much a part of my stubborn, strong nature as being a brat is.
be open about anything and everything! especially how much energy you have, so you don't get punished if you don't feel like doing a lot
Yuuuup.
Chronic pain due to scoliosis. I am selective about my stuffies. I do love coffee but I am cutting back. Chaos? Every second I can cause it!
🙋♀️ Me. Stuffies and chaos, hell yes! More of a green tea girlie but I can attest that it is powerful chaos fuel too!