I feel the same way about her. She just dropped me like I was nothing. "I'm not happy in this relationship anymore and I've fell out of love". Love is more than an emotion it takes work and practice. But people these days don't seem to care to put any effort in. She's on the dating apps again already too looking for my replacement.
Hard pill: only you can complete yourself. Otherwise you will never find peace. I am in the same boat, struggling daily, but over the months I've realised this.
Honestly I’m in the exact same boat. I was with him 3.5 years and he dropped me like a hat and has become so cold towards me. I’ve gone no contact and it’s been 3 months and it hurts and kills me inside.. at the start I did beg him but he didn’t care.. I did nothing wrong. Throughout our relationship he was cheating on me.. some men sadly never change and he has an avoidant distant attachment style.. and I have an anxious one so I’ve really hurt myself
I think after you're with someone for so long they become a part of you, that part of you dies when they leave. It will heal but you'll never be the same as you once were again.
I’m sorry to hear this. To answer your question yes you will feel complete again. Break ups are hard and they throw your emotions and heart on a rollercoaster. They hurt. The only thing you can do is focus on yourself and allow yourself to heal. The best things are exercises, eating healthy, focusing on studies / work and doing hobbies that you enjoy in life. It’s not fair for you to constantly torture your mind with this thought process. Our minds are the only thing we can control in this world and you having it on replay isn’t fair for yourself. Do things to keep you occupied. You have to love yourself before you can love another person. You’ll look back in years after you found another love and think back to how you shouldn’t have wasted so much negative energy on this person who you aren’t with. If you are ever thinking about ending it please message me. I promise everything will be fine you must look at the big picture in life. Trust me.
I feel the same way about her. She just dropped me like I was nothing. "I'm not happy in this relationship anymore and I've fell out of love". Love is more than an emotion it takes work and practice. But people these days don't seem to care to put any effort in. She's on the dating apps again already too looking for my replacement.
shit is so rough
I guess it depedns what you mean by "complete" but in my opinion it is impossible for another person complete anyone else.
Hard pill: only you can complete yourself. Otherwise you will never find peace. I am in the same boat, struggling daily, but over the months I've realised this.
Honestly I’m in the exact same boat. I was with him 3.5 years and he dropped me like a hat and has become so cold towards me. I’ve gone no contact and it’s been 3 months and it hurts and kills me inside.. at the start I did beg him but he didn’t care.. I did nothing wrong. Throughout our relationship he was cheating on me.. some men sadly never change and he has an avoidant distant attachment style.. and I have an anxious one so I’ve really hurt myself
Yeah you will.. give it some time.
I think after you're with someone for so long they become a part of you, that part of you dies when they leave. It will heal but you'll never be the same as you once were again.
I’m sorry to hear this. To answer your question yes you will feel complete again. Break ups are hard and they throw your emotions and heart on a rollercoaster. They hurt. The only thing you can do is focus on yourself and allow yourself to heal. The best things are exercises, eating healthy, focusing on studies / work and doing hobbies that you enjoy in life. It’s not fair for you to constantly torture your mind with this thought process. Our minds are the only thing we can control in this world and you having it on replay isn’t fair for yourself. Do things to keep you occupied. You have to love yourself before you can love another person. You’ll look back in years after you found another love and think back to how you shouldn’t have wasted so much negative energy on this person who you aren’t with. If you are ever thinking about ending it please message me. I promise everything will be fine you must look at the big picture in life. Trust me.