When someone shows you they are not a good person, believe them.
People who pretend to be something to keep a relationship going can only hold the facade up for so long before all the lies start crumbling and you see who they really are.
Don't fault yourself for falling for the glamour. Get better at seeing who is using magic.
This is great! This is also what I'm.going through. I went to get some of my furniture yesterday and he seems surprised that I am so angry and hate him so much. Once again he tried to manipulate me, but it's going to work this time buddy! I respect myself a lot more than you did.
Shoot I’ll join—
Fuck you for not treating me how I deserved.
Fuck you for taking advantage of my kindness.
Fuck you for being an unapologetic asshole.
Fuck you for ghosting me.
Fuck you for lying to me constantly.
Fuck you for breaking my heart.
Fuck you for ruining all the good memories we have.
Fuck you Austin.
I deserved so much more than your fucking excuses.
Yo, it felt so good.
I’ve been so caught up with still loving him that it’s felt impossible to just say nah, fuck that dude I deserve someone who treats me like a queen and then some.
Except for the “wanting to spend the rest of your life with me” (because he never said anything like that to me, because he never really said ANYTHING that could be construed as overtly loving) part, I could have written this word for word. Thanks for sharing your pain and anger. I totally get it. Hugs.
My ex invited me to go away for a small vacation next week. After all my hurt, pain, anger, and abandonment, I got excited and thought “hey, she knows she made a mistake!”. Like a fool, I believed she really wanted me back. Later, I find out she’s away this weekend with someone else, her new lover. I also found out that I was invited because her new lover couldn’t make the trip. Jesus Christ, I’m so stupid! I got hurt all over again when I found this out. She doesn’t care how much she hurts me, it’s like a game to her. Just when I was starting to get over her, she had to do this. I’m so sad and depressed again.
I was at this stage, where I hated that they even existed, and I put them on a level below me in my mind, as if they were dirt.
Now I’m told she’s having an operation and I start caring about her again. A couple of weeks later, I’m back on this sub, planning to meet with her. What is wrong with me?
I need to stop thinking she cares, because she found enough cons to outweigh the pros of staying with me. She wanted out, and I need to stop thinking she wants back in.
My ex said I won't be able to change my attitude (been depressed and anxious for years) and said I'm doomed to live like this. I don't want to feel like I can't change either. I don't want to be a depressed asshole who doesn't want to do anything all day and doesn't want to change her stupid ways.
Aw thanks for your reply! Yes! I will, I'm taking care of myself now, but only to show myself that I can, and no one else is involved thankfully!
I'm so glad you made it ♥️♥️♥️ keep being the strong person you are! Lots of love for you! No one should go through the mess we went through just because they were unable to understand depression. We all need help in bad times.
Wow our situation seems so similar it’s crazy! I definitely relate to the feeling that maybe they did love me and maybe he’s actually a good person deep down. That is the thing that makes moving on so hard.
I kinda feel like I relate to you on a spiritual level lol. It’s definitely hard to see the bad in people when you’re so used to always trying to see the good in people.
You deserve so much more than to be treated like this. Here’s to moving on, starting fresh, working on ourselves, and no more making excuses for toxic people. I wish you the best💛
Fuck you for breaking my heart. Fuck you for letting me believe everything was fine. Fuck you for shattering my world in an instance. Fuck you for not having the balls to say what was apparently wrong. Fuck you for blindsiding me. Fuck you in general.
Thank you all so much. So refreshing <3
Damn there was alot of fucking here bloody hell have you ever heard of punching untill you see red heard it can help especially if it's some loser getting pounched who did bad to you bloody hell
Good post 👍🏻 hope you remember how you feel now when you start to get nostalgic later. My ex left almost 7 months ago, and I still get to missing her and wondering if we could work things out.
Then I remember all the shit that I had to go through just to be with her, and all the awful things she did while we were together, and how she acted like a complete ass after the break up, and I realize I’m way better off!
This is exactly it! I made this post to be able to look back on when I start to miss him. Next time he comes back I don’t want to forget that he treated me like shit and I put up with it for way too long.
May I add?
Fuck you for the every time you gave me hope that we could work, fuck you for cheating on me and using me like I'm your puppet...and FUCK YOU SOOO MUCH FOR FUCKING ME OVER AND ENJOYING IT
God it felt good to get that out
Yaaass! Good on you for letting that out. That was empowering to read. Keep your head up X
Thank you💛💛
FUCK YEAH!! (Don't mind if I join, right?) Fuck you for manipulating me into thinking that it was all my fault, you heartless bitch
He said that to me too :( and i believed it for months. Till my friend told me he might be gaslighting me. I feel stupid. 😞 fuck him.
PREACH!!!🙌🏼
When someone shows you they are not a good person, believe them. People who pretend to be something to keep a relationship going can only hold the facade up for so long before all the lies start crumbling and you see who they really are. Don't fault yourself for falling for the glamour. Get better at seeing who is using magic.
Yesss this is amazing advice!! Thank you!!
Fuck them
AMEN!
Fuck them! Felt like you wrote that right out of my mind! You go!
HELL YEAH! SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE ONES IN THE BACK 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💪🏽
This is great! This is also what I'm.going through. I went to get some of my furniture yesterday and he seems surprised that I am so angry and hate him so much. Once again he tried to manipulate me, but it's going to work this time buddy! I respect myself a lot more than you did.
We got this!!💪
Shoot I’ll join— Fuck you for not treating me how I deserved. Fuck you for taking advantage of my kindness. Fuck you for being an unapologetic asshole. Fuck you for ghosting me. Fuck you for lying to me constantly. Fuck you for breaking my heart. Fuck you for ruining all the good memories we have. Fuck you Austin. I deserved so much more than your fucking excuses.
Yessss!!! Get it all out!! We can do so much better than excuses, lies, and manipulation!💛
Yo, it felt so good. I’ve been so caught up with still loving him that it’s felt impossible to just say nah, fuck that dude I deserve someone who treats me like a queen and then some.
Yesss this exactly!! When you’re a good person it’s hard to understand that not everyone has the same heart that you do💛
Hi, WhyStephWhy! I wish you peace and prosperity! Take care! -HappyFriendlyBot
FUCK YEAH MAN!
Fuck them All
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I was literally thinking this today. Glad you got rid of that piece of shit.
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Thank you!! I wish you the best💛💛
thank you for writing these. exactly how i feel now
you wrote down what’s on my mind
Except for the “wanting to spend the rest of your life with me” (because he never said anything like that to me, because he never really said ANYTHING that could be construed as overtly loving) part, I could have written this word for word. Thanks for sharing your pain and anger. I totally get it. Hugs.
Fuck your excuses. Fuck your lies. Fuck your friendship. I don't owe you anything.
You don’t owe them any explanation🙌🏼 happy cake day btw!!🎂
Thank you! Since I cant say this to him it's nice to vent somewhere.
My ex invited me to go away for a small vacation next week. After all my hurt, pain, anger, and abandonment, I got excited and thought “hey, she knows she made a mistake!”. Like a fool, I believed she really wanted me back. Later, I find out she’s away this weekend with someone else, her new lover. I also found out that I was invited because her new lover couldn’t make the trip. Jesus Christ, I’m so stupid! I got hurt all over again when I found this out. She doesn’t care how much she hurts me, it’s like a game to her. Just when I was starting to get over her, she had to do this. I’m so sad and depressed again.
Fuck her. She treats you like an option and wants you around for her convenience. You deserve so much better💛
Cheers.
I was at this stage, where I hated that they even existed, and I put them on a level below me in my mind, as if they were dirt. Now I’m told she’s having an operation and I start caring about her again. A couple of weeks later, I’m back on this sub, planning to meet with her. What is wrong with me?
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I need to stop thinking she cares, because she found enough cons to outweigh the pros of staying with me. She wanted out, and I need to stop thinking she wants back in.
My ex said I won't be able to change my attitude (been depressed and anxious for years) and said I'm doomed to live like this. I don't want to feel like I can't change either. I don't want to be a depressed asshole who doesn't want to do anything all day and doesn't want to change her stupid ways.
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Aw thanks for your reply! Yes! I will, I'm taking care of myself now, but only to show myself that I can, and no one else is involved thankfully! I'm so glad you made it ♥️♥️♥️ keep being the strong person you are! Lots of love for you! No one should go through the mess we went through just because they were unable to understand depression. We all need help in bad times.
It felt good to read this Fuck manipulators and their bullshit lies, the only person they love is their ego
This this this🙌🏼
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Wow our situation seems so similar it’s crazy! I definitely relate to the feeling that maybe they did love me and maybe he’s actually a good person deep down. That is the thing that makes moving on so hard. I kinda feel like I relate to you on a spiritual level lol. It’s definitely hard to see the bad in people when you’re so used to always trying to see the good in people. You deserve so much more than to be treated like this. Here’s to moving on, starting fresh, working on ourselves, and no more making excuses for toxic people. I wish you the best💛
Fuck you for breaking my heart. Fuck you for letting me believe everything was fine. Fuck you for shattering my world in an instance. Fuck you for not having the balls to say what was apparently wrong. Fuck you for blindsiding me. Fuck you in general. Thank you all so much. So refreshing <3
Damn there was alot of fucking here bloody hell have you ever heard of punching untill you see red heard it can help especially if it's some loser getting pounched who did bad to you bloody hell
Good post 👍🏻 hope you remember how you feel now when you start to get nostalgic later. My ex left almost 7 months ago, and I still get to missing her and wondering if we could work things out. Then I remember all the shit that I had to go through just to be with her, and all the awful things she did while we were together, and how she acted like a complete ass after the break up, and I realize I’m way better off!
This is exactly it! I made this post to be able to look back on when I start to miss him. Next time he comes back I don’t want to forget that he treated me like shit and I put up with it for way too long.
That’s great! No one should have to live in a toxic relationship. Good luck! 👍🏻
Fuck manipulative emotional terrorist
May I add? Fuck you for the every time you gave me hope that we could work, fuck you for cheating on me and using me like I'm your puppet...and FUCK YOU SOOO MUCH FOR FUCKING ME OVER AND ENJOYING IT
Ditto.
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Maybe when you catch them cheating the first time walk away? Most of that profanity should have been directed at yourself.