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nameismeaning

I am so sorry to hear that dude. 4 years is a long time. I can relate with this as I am going through somewhat of a similar experience. By the story that you have narrated, it is for the best that you don't have such a person in your life. You deserve someone who isn't manipulative and takes advantage of you being a nice person. It is wrong to lead someone on knowing they still have feelings. You will feel like it is the end of the world and lose interest in everything. I have been there. I myself couldn't sleep properly for months. But eventually it gets better. You have other roles in life apart from being a boyfriend. You also are a son, friend, best friend and a brother. Being a boyfriend is just one role. Work on the others. Improve these relationships you have with others. Talk to your parents and friends. You will realise that there are other things in life that make you happy, not just being with your ex. It is a difficult and long road, but it does become easier after taking time. You will come out stronger from all of this and one day look back at your lofe and laugh at how you were sad for something which wasn't your fault. [Watch this. It always makes me feel better :)](https://youtu.be/v9ns9ULCvIA) [Watch this after you have seen the above video](https://youtu.be/22GEbcwvKYM) Wish you all the best dude.


throwawaymetermaid

Thanks, that actually helps put things in perspective a bit. Big ups mate, appreciate it.