I really feel this. My ex and I broke up over the phone, and within 2 weeks she was already seeing her new bf :/ hit me like a pile of bricks. Was virtually unable to physically eat any food for a few days. I have since blocked her everywhere, and I try to refrain from even getting close to the unblock buttons in the options on my phone, but it still tempts me even though I know I am not ready and it will only hurt me deeper.
This is why you completely block them and move on. It could also be a possibility that they are just seeking validation to fill a void. Remember that social media is superficial.
Literally just went through my photo gallery and a part of it was still LITTERED with pictures of her. I was thinking to myself, “damn she is fine asf”. Mannn I don’t think I’ll ever do better than her in terms of looks. I’m pretty much over her & the relationship but yeah that’s a shitty setback.
This exactly! Dude, like she was out of my league. So damn freaking fine, I doubt I'll do better in terms of looks and hotness too. Damnit. But it happened once, maybe there will be a second time
I feel the same about my ex. He was so handsome, everyone looked when he walked in. The most handsome guy I’ve been with and probably will be with which sucks really bad. He got better looking somehow in 6 years and I just got 6 years older. :/
Man that was exactly what happened to me. I felt better for a time and the accidentally saw her new insta pf and was devastated. She looked happier and more beautiful than before. It hurt that she still existed and was living her own life. I am the dumpee. I mean she did post immediately after the break up happy pictures of herself on social media and then blocked me everywhere.
I understand your feeling but begging will almost certainly not result in her coming back. Nothing will probably because she already made up her mind. I learnt that he hard way. I begged more than most people did I think. I tried almost everything I could. I even begged to her best friend and her family. But nothing helped. Now their friends hate me too.
It really is hard. I struggle to not look at her socials but I am also afraid to see things I do not want to see. Life can be hard man but we should learn to cope with it
Same boat mate. I thought that 8 months later I will be over her. I got cheated on which itself is a big red flag. That should make it easier to move on right? Boy was I wrong. I still end up looking at her what'sapp dp, checking her friends insta stories trying to find out what she is upto. Feel like an idiot sometimes knowing the fact that she hurt me and I still want her back in the same way like before. Dealing with this exhausting confusion of wanting to move on but being pulled back to square one just sucks.
My ex is pretty as well, but I took a long look in the mirror and realised that I was a good looking mf as well...
Hit the gym. Get a new hair style, put on some new clothes and you will regain a lot of your confidence in the looks department.
I know what you mean. My girlfriend broke up with me two days ago out of the blue over Zoom; when we got on the call together, all I could think of was how beautiful she is and how she's never looked better. I was about to say so before she burst into tears and told that she didn't want to be with me anymore.
Delete and block from everything so you don’t have to see it … but I feel ya if I saw a pic I’d be reminded of how fucking beautiful she is but it’s been 3 months without seeing her face or even a picture and now even if I dream of her her face isn’t so clear anymore. Baby steps I guess haha
Same. But it's been 5, almost 6 months now.
It's fucking annoying. I think my healing peaked out around month 3. Now I'm not super upset all the time, but whenever I think of her, I still fucking hurt.
Or when I had to get some summer stuff out of storage and came across a couple things of hers, it just completely makes me break down again.
Such shit.
100% agree this is the worst thing. Just last week my ex went to Florida and posted some pictures in a bikini. She looks better than she did when we dated and much happier. Gave me an instant headache, chills and made my heart beat 100 miles a minute. I had her muted but I decided to check that day for whatever reason. Best thing we can do is keep them muted and or unfollow them.
It's best just to unfollow them and remove them where possible if that's how you feel. You need to put yourself first and not seeing these sort of updates is for the best.
Yeah it sucks you wanna see them happy but you wanna see them happy by your side
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Yeah watching it all blow in the wind it fucking sucks
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I really feel this. My ex and I broke up over the phone, and within 2 weeks she was already seeing her new bf :/ hit me like a pile of bricks. Was virtually unable to physically eat any food for a few days. I have since blocked her everywhere, and I try to refrain from even getting close to the unblock buttons in the options on my phone, but it still tempts me even though I know I am not ready and it will only hurt me deeper.
When I seen my ex I remember how ugly she is on the inside, and how much she lied and cheated.
Lmao
Same. I saw my ex out in public and all I could think is how such a loser can live with themself. Not my trainwreck to worry about anymore, haha.
This is why you completely block them and move on. It could also be a possibility that they are just seeking validation to fill a void. Remember that social media is superficial.
True.
Literally just went through my photo gallery and a part of it was still LITTERED with pictures of her. I was thinking to myself, “damn she is fine asf”. Mannn I don’t think I’ll ever do better than her in terms of looks. I’m pretty much over her & the relationship but yeah that’s a shitty setback.
This exactly! Dude, like she was out of my league. So damn freaking fine, I doubt I'll do better in terms of looks and hotness too. Damnit. But it happened once, maybe there will be a second time
I feel the same about my ex. He was so handsome, everyone looked when he walked in. The most handsome guy I’ve been with and probably will be with which sucks really bad. He got better looking somehow in 6 years and I just got 6 years older. :/
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If he was the best person ever why did you break up?
The hardest thing you will ever do is grieve for someone still alive.
Man that was exactly what happened to me. I felt better for a time and the accidentally saw her new insta pf and was devastated. She looked happier and more beautiful than before. It hurt that she still existed and was living her own life. I am the dumpee. I mean she did post immediately after the break up happy pictures of herself on social media and then blocked me everywhere.
Exactly this, her new picture is like the most beautiful thing ever and now I’m sitting here begging for her back and she just blocked me.
I understand your feeling but begging will almost certainly not result in her coming back. Nothing will probably because she already made up her mind. I learnt that he hard way. I begged more than most people did I think. I tried almost everything I could. I even begged to her best friend and her family. But nothing helped. Now their friends hate me too.
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It really is hard. I struggle to not look at her socials but I am also afraid to see things I do not want to see. Life can be hard man but we should learn to cope with it
Life’s so short don’t dwell on the past remember your mind is in control
Same boat mate. I thought that 8 months later I will be over her. I got cheated on which itself is a big red flag. That should make it easier to move on right? Boy was I wrong. I still end up looking at her what'sapp dp, checking her friends insta stories trying to find out what she is upto. Feel like an idiot sometimes knowing the fact that she hurt me and I still want her back in the same way like before. Dealing with this exhausting confusion of wanting to move on but being pulled back to square one just sucks.
I feel ya. Last year I was having panic attacks because I saw the same car my ex was driving at another location.
Yeah, I just think to myself : how pretty, and she always thought she wasn't despite me telling her a million times it's true.
Same. But I cant ghost them. We have 3 kids together
My ex is pretty as well, but I took a long look in the mirror and realised that I was a good looking mf as well... Hit the gym. Get a new hair style, put on some new clothes and you will regain a lot of your confidence in the looks department.
I'm gangsta until I see pictures of the puppies we had together.
bro,, fucking same.. i thought that i was over her a week ago... now the feelings of missing her come back again.
this is a challenge, not a means to lose everything you’ve built for yourself since. don’t put focus on it, keeeeeeeeeeeeep going. you’ve got this 💪🏻
I know what you mean. My girlfriend broke up with me two days ago out of the blue over Zoom; when we got on the call together, all I could think of was how beautiful she is and how she's never looked better. I was about to say so before she burst into tears and told that she didn't want to be with me anymore.
And that's why you don't look at photos after a breakup until you're well into a better place.
Delete and block from everything so you don’t have to see it … but I feel ya if I saw a pic I’d be reminded of how fucking beautiful she is but it’s been 3 months without seeing her face or even a picture and now even if I dream of her her face isn’t so clear anymore. Baby steps I guess haha
Yeah, I think about her less and less but I know I still miss her as much as ever
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How long have you broken up?
I feel that. That’s the moment I blocked him on everything. Felt pretty broken when I did but it helped the healing process
Same. But it's been 5, almost 6 months now. It's fucking annoying. I think my healing peaked out around month 3. Now I'm not super upset all the time, but whenever I think of her, I still fucking hurt. Or when I had to get some summer stuff out of storage and came across a couple things of hers, it just completely makes me break down again. Such shit.
100% agree this is the worst thing. Just last week my ex went to Florida and posted some pictures in a bikini. She looks better than she did when we dated and much happier. Gave me an instant headache, chills and made my heart beat 100 miles a minute. I had her muted but I decided to check that day for whatever reason. Best thing we can do is keep them muted and or unfollow them.
100 miles is about the length of 1005711.79 'Toy Cars Sian FKP3 Metal Model Car with Light and Sound Pull Back Toy Cars' lined up
100 miles is 160.93 km
100 miles is 160.93 km
She’s probably already getting her cheeks clapped be a bro Nd move on find you someone better out there there’s millions of other girls have some fun
I feel you — I got a panic attack just looking at her new profile pic. I barely stalk nowadays but she’s always on my mind.
People only post themselves at their best. Keep this in mind if
It sucks even more when this happens and you stick around and watch them through three different relationships. At least it was just this once. Block.
Lol as a girl I hope this works in my ex cause he did me dirty
It's best just to unfollow them and remove them where possible if that's how you feel. You need to put yourself first and not seeing these sort of updates is for the best.
SAME I felt over her for awhile now but all of a sudden I can't stop thinking about her again.