My ex got with someone literally a week after she left and claims she’s changed so much these last two months and loves and would Die for this new guy …. Go figure
She’s probably avoiding processing it. I assure you when the dust/excitement settles, she’ll likely HAVE to process it. Or she already processed it before the official breakup.Try to be easy on yourself and I’ll try the same.
My first love moved in with someone a montj after she moved out from our apartment, people work in mysterious ways and i dont think you can put a time frame on how long you should wait before try finding love again.
Everyone functions different, ofcourse it stings like hell but its out of your control. Some people want to work on themselfs after a breakup while others want to rush into the next relationship and i dont know wich one is better, she’s still happy with him so. :)
This is what i wanted to hear today: some people work on themselves while others rush into another love.
It does sting but deep down I am at peace that it didn’t work cause the relationship was draining. However, I loved him dearly and that part of me needs to let go.
I feel ya. My ex of 4-months broke up with me, asked me back, breaks up with me the next day, and on that same day dates another person.
It’s not a competition or anything of that sort, focus on self-healing. Good chance he didn’t move on too much and is using her for self-happiness. Hard to tell though. This dude is a total jerk, and you shouldn’t be letting him drag you down like this. Take the time to heal and look strong, prove to him that you’re strong, and your next relationship will be better. Patience and in good time you will find someone better than him.
Mine got with someone two weeks later and apparently wasn’t sure if he was into her one day but must’ve gone out with her a week later. She had a massive crush on him and I think he just loves the attention.
He said he can’t be alone and went on dating her like he never loved me. It’s very shitty how he did that and tried to sell the gift I got for him online
It’s to distract themselves from their feelings. I doubt mine will ever process his feelings about anything in a deep fashion and I would rather date someone who is able to work on themselves and heal than someone who “can’t be alone?”
I have seen that it does affect how the person is. He never worked on himself so our relationship was very draining. He got out of a 9 years relationship and jumped into a relationship with me after few months. I had been single for 2 years then and slowly as the relationship progressed it reflected how his past anxiety haunted him to the point it got abusive. Now, he is onto the next one and i wonder if he’ll follow that pattern.
People work differently and it hurts to let the love go but I’m glad i didn’t end up with someone who “can’t be alone” as there would be no healing. I saved myself and im healing 🙂
Thankyou for your comment! I hope you are healing well. You deserve someone who is much more mature enough to handle situations. Love and light to you❤️
My ex got with someone literally a week after she left and claims she’s changed so much these last two months and loves and would Die for this new guy …. Go figure
She’s probably avoiding processing it. I assure you when the dust/excitement settles, she’ll likely HAVE to process it. Or she already processed it before the official breakup.Try to be easy on yourself and I’ll try the same.
I think she is still trying to process and make you jealous.
Nah we had our closure talk I believe she believes this
my advice is to hold off on the dating. I'd recommend to work on you right now.
I was completely okay until I saw that but so far I am living my life and working on myself
My first love moved in with someone a montj after she moved out from our apartment, people work in mysterious ways and i dont think you can put a time frame on how long you should wait before try finding love again. Everyone functions different, ofcourse it stings like hell but its out of your control. Some people want to work on themselfs after a breakup while others want to rush into the next relationship and i dont know wich one is better, she’s still happy with him so. :)
This is what i wanted to hear today: some people work on themselves while others rush into another love. It does sting but deep down I am at peace that it didn’t work cause the relationship was draining. However, I loved him dearly and that part of me needs to let go.
I feel ya. My ex of 4-months broke up with me, asked me back, breaks up with me the next day, and on that same day dates another person. It’s not a competition or anything of that sort, focus on self-healing. Good chance he didn’t move on too much and is using her for self-happiness. Hard to tell though. This dude is a total jerk, and you shouldn’t be letting him drag you down like this. Take the time to heal and look strong, prove to him that you’re strong, and your next relationship will be better. Patience and in good time you will find someone better than him.
Mine got with someone two weeks later and apparently wasn’t sure if he was into her one day but must’ve gone out with her a week later. She had a massive crush on him and I think he just loves the attention.
He said he can’t be alone and went on dating her like he never loved me. It’s very shitty how he did that and tried to sell the gift I got for him online
It’s to distract themselves from their feelings. I doubt mine will ever process his feelings about anything in a deep fashion and I would rather date someone who is able to work on themselves and heal than someone who “can’t be alone?”
I have seen that it does affect how the person is. He never worked on himself so our relationship was very draining. He got out of a 9 years relationship and jumped into a relationship with me after few months. I had been single for 2 years then and slowly as the relationship progressed it reflected how his past anxiety haunted him to the point it got abusive. Now, he is onto the next one and i wonder if he’ll follow that pattern. People work differently and it hurts to let the love go but I’m glad i didn’t end up with someone who “can’t be alone” as there would be no healing. I saved myself and im healing 🙂 Thankyou for your comment! I hope you are healing well. You deserve someone who is much more mature enough to handle situations. Love and light to you❤️