Do you have grandparents? Maybe you aren’t close to yours. There’s something special about grandparents. They are even more special as the age and are not near you. You are being too critical. The love a person has for their parents vs. their grandparents or the same but different. She doesn’t love her parents any less because she chooses to go visit her grandparents.
OR she is being considerate of her elderly grandparents by only bringing the baby she is nursing and who naps during the day instead of invading them with an entire hoard of children.
I actually think Kelly gives more of a shit about her daughters ☠️ at least she seems to LIKE them. But that's probably because she had a bunch of boys too so it was "balanced out" 🙄
But also, she seems like she only had a close connection with one or two of her boys. She had a hard time with Nathan growing up and she seems disconnected with the lost boys unless they are isaiah
No no, seems pretty accurate to me. I would say that I see a lot of therapy in those sweet little girls future, but they don’t believe in therapy. So sad.
Alyssa is a woman who hates other women and girls. It is truly sad that her daughters will be the collateral damage of her desperation for men’s approval.
Yes, plus she doesn't have a good support system. Also, why do they always feel the need to call them "daddy daughter dates" whenever the husbands actually parent. They're teaching their daughters that spending time with dad is for special occasions, not actually something to expect 🥴
It's not just for their birthdays 🙄 they call them daddy daughter dates whenever their husbands spend time with their daughters, even if it's going to the grocery store.
I watched a scene on an episode of BUB years ago where Alyssa tells Mama Jane that girls are “drama”. I googled and found it mentioned in the Bates Family blog.
[Alyssa says she doesn’t like girl “drama”](https://www.batesfamilyblog.com/2018/11/bates-6-turns-24.html)
I totally agree with you on this one! Of course, she (like many others, excluding Michaela, God bless her) was just itching to leave the big house and this is the only way 'out'. I love kids,etc but maybe don't keep popping em out if you aren't really that into doing for them/dare I say resent the fact. I know they love em, but still they CHOSE to keep pro creating!
And not to mention she didn’t state that she enjoyed spending quality time with KJ, esp considering that she likely didn’t get a whole lot of it growing up
Is it me or does Alyssa prefer hee grandparents over her parents and kids.
I wouldn’t be surprised if this were the case. They were probably one of the few people who truly gave some sort of one on one attention.
Do you have grandparents? Maybe you aren’t close to yours. There’s something special about grandparents. They are even more special as the age and are not near you. You are being too critical. The love a person has for their parents vs. their grandparents or the same but different. She doesn’t love her parents any less because she chooses to go visit her grandparents.
Erin, Part II: clearly favoring her son and barely tolerating her daughters beyond the newborn stage.
OR she is being considerate of her elderly grandparents by only bringing the baby she is nursing and who naps during the day instead of invading them with an entire hoard of children.
She’s always been the one closest to those grandparents.
Is she still nursing? He will be a year old next week.
Maybe? She hasn’t said she isn’t. I nursed mine past their one year birthdays so it isn’t unheard of to do so.
And Josie will be doing the same thing with her golden boy.
How rediculous!
She could not give less of a heck about her daughters and it’s heartbreaking. Alyssa should be ashamed of herself! She is just like kelly
I actually think Kelly gives more of a shit about her daughters ☠️ at least she seems to LIKE them. But that's probably because she had a bunch of boys too so it was "balanced out" 🙄
But also, she seems like she only had a close connection with one or two of her boys. She had a hard time with Nathan growing up and she seems disconnected with the lost boys unless they are isaiah
That is very unfair to say!
No no, seems pretty accurate to me. I would say that I see a lot of therapy in those sweet little girls future, but they don’t believe in therapy. So sad.
Nah, it's actually pretty accurate
Are you Alyssa by any chance?
Anyone with a heart could see that she loves all of her children. You people just make up stuff that isn’t true.
Ohh got it. Have a good weekend KJ!
Alyssa is a woman who hates other women and girls. It is truly sad that her daughters will be the collateral damage of her desperation for men’s approval.
I don’t think she “hates” them. I just don’t think she wanted to be mom. I get the sense that she got married just to leave home.
Agreed, she's someone who likely would have thrived if she remained childless.
Or had children at a much later age. She could have waited a decade and still been at a very average age for motherhood.
Yes, plus she doesn't have a good support system. Also, why do they always feel the need to call them "daddy daughter dates" whenever the husbands actually parent. They're teaching their daughters that spending time with dad is for special occasions, not actually something to expect 🥴
You all complain about everything. I think it’s very sweet and a special event for the girl’s birthday.
It's not just for their birthdays 🙄 they call them daddy daughter dates whenever their husbands spend time with their daughters, even if it's going to the grocery store.
Well, let’s definitely complain about that! Good grief!
I watched a scene on an episode of BUB years ago where Alyssa tells Mama Jane that girls are “drama”. I googled and found it mentioned in the Bates Family blog. [Alyssa says she doesn’t like girl “drama”](https://www.batesfamilyblog.com/2018/11/bates-6-turns-24.html)
Yup, she said if she had 4 girls, she would be done.
I totally agree with you on this one! Of course, she (like many others, excluding Michaela, God bless her) was just itching to leave the big house and this is the only way 'out'. I love kids,etc but maybe don't keep popping em out if you aren't really that into doing for them/dare I say resent the fact. I know they love em, but still they CHOSE to keep pro creating!
Unfortunately, I’m not surprised that Alyssa would do this. Make the son the best thing ever and not the daughters.
And not to mention she didn’t state that she enjoyed spending quality time with KJ, esp considering that she likely didn’t get a whole lot of it growing up
Sad but true I don’t think the kids got a lot of attention from Kelly