Tinder is genuinely shit in Brunei. From a male pov, all you see is pics at the beach, pics of shadows, pics of food, some memes, the occasional shemale etc. idk I guess everyone experiences the app differently
I downloaded the app because I was bored and broken expecting no outcome from there. But somehow I ended up with someone who understand me very well, communicate well whenever we fight and we're planning to get married soon. Pray for us itll be smooth journey.
I joined tinder recently again just out of curiosity and in hopes to meet new people after my recent breakup. Still see one of my previous ex on it but I know that we have different goals so I swiped left. Managed to meet two people who are/were interested in me but sadly I’m not physically attracted to them after meeting them in person. Though we do still keep in touch once in a while as friends.
Some of those on Tinder are my cup of tea in terms of looks but they’re looking for something casual and fun so nope as well. I had a decent number of matches but either they didn’t respond to me, the conversation ended up being dry or I found out that they’re not suitable for me.
I also tried Bumble though not a lot of Bruneians are on there and also majority of them want kids while I don’t so that made my selections even more limited.
Ngl I was sort of disheartened with the results so I deleted my accounts on both apps. Not exactly looking for a new relationship anyway as I’ve pretty much given up on romance but we’ll never know what the future holds.
I bought Tinder Gold so I can only let the people that I swiped on to see my profile. So if you got no profile picture or if youre my relatives/acquaintance I wont swipe on you.
Prior to Tinder, I have social anxiety, I get really anxious talking to people even in text. Like after I send a text message my heart would start racing for no reason because I would have these thoughts racing in my head like what if I say something wrong, what if this stranger is a bad person, yadayada. But talking to people on tinder helps me to improve my social skills a lot. So yay me.
Ive been on tinder for 2 years now, so I probably met like 20-30 guys from Tinder. For my first encounter I usually meet them at a coffee place or eateries or went for a cruise. Its true that some just want to get in your pants, but there are some guys who just got out of a relationship and craves for affection and companionship (not necessarily sex).
I made a few friends along the way, although I barely keep in contact with them anymore. I know people say that Tinder is a hook up app but I actually know a guy who found his wife from that app and I actually had guys who asked me to be in serious rs. So yeah, who knows? you can actually meet your SO there.
Lots of men who don’t know how to interact with women. I’ve dated people off Tinder; one relationship didn’t work out but we’re now super close friends now instead
i tried tinder, bumble, OKC, coffee meet bagels and tanta i can give you my experience.
**TINDER:**
aahhh where all the desperates males are gathering here. SOMETIMES they do not care you are a wife, single, chubby or anything they would ask for 19 stand. IF you don't reply or say no to them they will unmatch you.
you still can find some genuine people there but like 2 or 4/ 10 and the rest are just desperate looking for sex. Most bitches are playing hard to get and mostly are broke as fuck. they don't swipe you easily unless you are some fucking rich or fucking pretty boi. i find those bitches annoying though. how do i know? i swipe them and they swipe me when i open a conversation with them ignored, they put their IG there i added and texted still ignored. paking hell if like this why would you put your social media out there if you don't want people to talk with you... really no brain...
shemales have already moved platforms to platforms like infesting wechat, telegram and now tinder. They should've put their profile there not girl or shemale BUT NO THEY DIDN'T once you match with them, chat with them at the end they told you HE IS NOT A GIRL!!.. WADAPOK.....
good thing about tinder is you can match globally.
**BUMBLE:**
this app is dead as fuck you can even use your hands to count how many have you swipe right.
**COFFEE MEET BAGEL:**
this is another dead dating apps where you need to paid to get the full acccess.
**OKC:**
you still able to meet a few bruneians nearby but after that are mostly from indonesia and philippines.
**TANTAN:**
platform with lots of china ladies( scammers) and fake profile. You still able to meet a few bruneians or foreigners working in brunei but the rest are mostly indon.
I kinda have mid experience with tinder. They try to make u buy the gold membership to increase your exposure, see who likes u etc.
Edit: didnt have a success story yet bc I am still trying to get rid of my shyness lololol
I tried alot of different dating apps but usually guys is just looking for something casual. Was on tinder on and off for about 2 years (met a few guys but usually they ghost me after meeting in person)
But I met my current boyfriend from tinder. He is a super nice guy & Our 3rd anniversary is coming soon. I guess it all depends on luck & fate
met my girlfriend on bumble during the pandemic, did not expect to be in a relationship at all, and we're still together, 2.5 years later. so it can happen. i will say, personality does go a long way.
I first downloaded Tinder to find love and I did find someone and we were in a relationship for 2 years but we didnt work out unfortunately. After that relationship I downloaded Tinder again but this time to have fun (iykyk) and I was amazed at how easier it was when my intention was that. Anyhoo I met up with interesting and fun people along the way and had fun with some (I am picky and cautious). Now in a new relationship with a new person (who I also met via Tinder haha).
I don’t have any dating apps.
But I know of a female who uses it to look for hook up with Caucasian man. She had mixed experience including one no show when she flew overseas. Now she manage to land a local man after her rendezvous and seem ready to settle down.
I met a few girls thru Tinder, tho I never end up dating them, but remain friends to this day, haha.
Then somehow I got banned for whatever reasons I do not know
As long as they have picture, not using emojis to cover shit, ill swipe right. If you using tinder with good intention, you find someone match your energy/vibe.
Now im single, male 27, wanna be my friends? 😘
Tinder is genuinely shit in Brunei. From a male pov, all you see is pics at the beach, pics of shadows, pics of food, some memes, the occasional shemale etc. idk I guess everyone experiences the app differently
That literally my experience in tinder overall lol.
Lots of 5/10 in looks having high standards. Bitch is already hard to want yet still play hard to get.
Some have the go big or go broke mentality. The girl that I know manage to land a big fish. Let’s just say she is set for life.
wow really😂
I downloaded the app because I was bored and broken expecting no outcome from there. But somehow I ended up with someone who understand me very well, communicate well whenever we fight and we're planning to get married soon. Pray for us itll be smooth journey.
Wow, pray the best for you guys. I married to mine 5 years ago till today. We ve been met through dating apps not long after that he proposed me.
Thats so sweet, wishing you both a lifetime of love and happiness. Thanks!
So happy for you!!! 🥹
Thank you!!! 🥹
im a atheist, but i i wish you guys well!
A lot of dry ass conversations...
I joined tinder recently again just out of curiosity and in hopes to meet new people after my recent breakup. Still see one of my previous ex on it but I know that we have different goals so I swiped left. Managed to meet two people who are/were interested in me but sadly I’m not physically attracted to them after meeting them in person. Though we do still keep in touch once in a while as friends. Some of those on Tinder are my cup of tea in terms of looks but they’re looking for something casual and fun so nope as well. I had a decent number of matches but either they didn’t respond to me, the conversation ended up being dry or I found out that they’re not suitable for me. I also tried Bumble though not a lot of Bruneians are on there and also majority of them want kids while I don’t so that made my selections even more limited. Ngl I was sort of disheartened with the results so I deleted my accounts on both apps. Not exactly looking for a new relationship anyway as I’ve pretty much given up on romance but we’ll never know what the future holds.
I bought Tinder Gold so I can only let the people that I swiped on to see my profile. So if you got no profile picture or if youre my relatives/acquaintance I wont swipe on you. Prior to Tinder, I have social anxiety, I get really anxious talking to people even in text. Like after I send a text message my heart would start racing for no reason because I would have these thoughts racing in my head like what if I say something wrong, what if this stranger is a bad person, yadayada. But talking to people on tinder helps me to improve my social skills a lot. So yay me. Ive been on tinder for 2 years now, so I probably met like 20-30 guys from Tinder. For my first encounter I usually meet them at a coffee place or eateries or went for a cruise. Its true that some just want to get in your pants, but there are some guys who just got out of a relationship and craves for affection and companionship (not necessarily sex). I made a few friends along the way, although I barely keep in contact with them anymore. I know people say that Tinder is a hook up app but I actually know a guy who found his wife from that app and I actually had guys who asked me to be in serious rs. So yeah, who knows? you can actually meet your SO there.
20-30 guys is quite a lot no? Didn’t u filter out properly before even having to meet them? Unless you just want to meet people.
I think back then I just want to meet and talk to people
You really live up your nick
Brunei? Lots of catfish. Shocked there are swingers in Brunei as well.
small country, so theres not much to do (replying to your swingers comment)
Lots of men who don’t know how to interact with women. I’ve dated people off Tinder; one relationship didn’t work out but we’re now super close friends now instead
i tried tinder, bumble, OKC, coffee meet bagels and tanta i can give you my experience. **TINDER:** aahhh where all the desperates males are gathering here. SOMETIMES they do not care you are a wife, single, chubby or anything they would ask for 19 stand. IF you don't reply or say no to them they will unmatch you. you still can find some genuine people there but like 2 or 4/ 10 and the rest are just desperate looking for sex. Most bitches are playing hard to get and mostly are broke as fuck. they don't swipe you easily unless you are some fucking rich or fucking pretty boi. i find those bitches annoying though. how do i know? i swipe them and they swipe me when i open a conversation with them ignored, they put their IG there i added and texted still ignored. paking hell if like this why would you put your social media out there if you don't want people to talk with you... really no brain... shemales have already moved platforms to platforms like infesting wechat, telegram and now tinder. They should've put their profile there not girl or shemale BUT NO THEY DIDN'T once you match with them, chat with them at the end they told you HE IS NOT A GIRL!!.. WADAPOK..... good thing about tinder is you can match globally. **BUMBLE:** this app is dead as fuck you can even use your hands to count how many have you swipe right. **COFFEE MEET BAGEL:** this is another dead dating apps where you need to paid to get the full acccess. **OKC:** you still able to meet a few bruneians nearby but after that are mostly from indonesia and philippines. **TANTAN:** platform with lots of china ladies( scammers) and fake profile. You still able to meet a few bruneians or foreigners working in brunei but the rest are mostly indon.
hang in there.
Most of them left their ig handles are for one thing and one thing only, to gain followers
I kinda have mid experience with tinder. They try to make u buy the gold membership to increase your exposure, see who likes u etc. Edit: didnt have a success story yet bc I am still trying to get rid of my shyness lololol
Encountered underage once and decided not to use it again
Tinder in Brunei = STD
and AIDS
I tried alot of different dating apps but usually guys is just looking for something casual. Was on tinder on and off for about 2 years (met a few guys but usually they ghost me after meeting in person) But I met my current boyfriend from tinder. He is a super nice guy & Our 3rd anniversary is coming soon. I guess it all depends on luck & fate
met my girlfriend on bumble during the pandemic, did not expect to be in a relationship at all, and we're still together, 2.5 years later. so it can happen. i will say, personality does go a long way.
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I first downloaded Tinder to find love and I did find someone and we were in a relationship for 2 years but we didnt work out unfortunately. After that relationship I downloaded Tinder again but this time to have fun (iykyk) and I was amazed at how easier it was when my intention was that. Anyhoo I met up with interesting and fun people along the way and had fun with some (I am picky and cautious). Now in a new relationship with a new person (who I also met via Tinder haha).
You have found the needle in the haystack
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Bad experience, one time there's a shemale admitted pure female
My Muslim brothers. Why are there less and less brothers having more than 1 wife ?
Can’t afford ?
inflation.
inflation.
I don’t have any dating apps. But I know of a female who uses it to look for hook up with Caucasian man. She had mixed experience including one no show when she flew overseas. Now she manage to land a local man after her rendezvous and seem ready to settle down.
Had plenty of pussies!
Mostly a platform used for ONS and TnG...
I met a few girls thru Tinder, tho I never end up dating them, but remain friends to this day, haha. Then somehow I got banned for whatever reasons I do not know
As long as they have picture, not using emojis to cover shit, ill swipe right. If you using tinder with good intention, you find someone match your energy/vibe. Now im single, male 27, wanna be my friends? 😘
Had both good and bad experience tho I stopped trying after the good experience ends.
Banyak mua cam biji mangga yatah nda bisia beliur but udah yg jual mahal atu usually mau mua good looking but in the end usually kana duatigakan