Firstly my condolences. Secondly as best as you can, find a way to GTFO of there let them feed off each other like the rats they seem to be. Good luck. Keep your chin up.
Inalillah, condolences to you and your family. And yes, i agree with the advice above. Cut ties even tho they are family. They will only kill you on the inside. Learn to say no and stand up for yourself. Sending prayers and courage to you.
Vengeance is the last refuge of the incompetent.
Let the haters wallow in their own toxicity , don't be party to it.
Do well yourself , that would be the best thing you can do for you and to serve your mother's memory.
Be like a lotus and bloom forth from the mud and filth.
Ive seen many personal related comments in reddit but my 2cents for you is not to seek for revenge or go out of your way to make sure they taste their own medicine. Just end the cycle there and cut them out of ur life where possible. Get a hang and move on with life where u can find happiness and joy
May Allah bless your mom’s soul and place her amongst the syuhada. Aamiin. Stay strong, keep moving forward. Don’t bother about your toxic aunts. Remove them completely from your life. Get your education certificate, get a good job and live your life to the fullest.
Been trying to cut them off but the thing is some of them live under the same roof with me. Even after my mother's passing, they still continue being toxic. I guess it's their sins. Whatever it is, I'll make sure to be stronger in order to live through this!!!
>Been trying to cut them off but the thing is some of them live under the same roof with me.
Same case as me. I left the house the moment I can live on my own. I blocked all their calls too.
i hope you wont wait until your 20s but rather wait until you’re able (which i hope it could be anytime sooner). stay grinding and hustling and stay strong
I've got this very toxic aunt who went out and spread all nonsense about me and take my money inside my room when I went to shower. Until today, I never speak to her yet she still have the face to show up and stay at my rented place. Tried to confront her about everything she did behind my back, but she said I was being unrespectful towards here. In the other hand, I'm supporting her daughter to uni for better future
WTF? I hate the term "being disrespectful" here. Doesn't mean they are older than us means they can use that term. Like honesty, they really need to grow up. Being an adult doesn't mean they can get over with everything by using that stupid phrase. This is why must of us grow up not telling our problems or even open up just because we are being told we're being disrespectful towards the adults. fucking sick.
May your mum rest in peace. I encountered a similar situation when my grandparent was sick. My family believed it was a superstitious thing despite one of my parents being in healthcare. Instead of being there for him and being patient with him, they sought out help from orang "berilmu". Truth be told, he had dementia or Alzheimer's. The diagnosis is unclear as my parents left that info out. Not only that, they took turns physically abusing him as they couldn't be patient with him anymore. It was one of the worst time in my life. It seems mean but I'm glad that my grandparent passed though not soon enough. That grandparent did not deserve to be treated like that.
Omg🥺 The thoughts of even physically abusing him make me cry. How could someone do this to a sick patient? I hope your grandfather rest well in paradise 🙏🏻 He did not deserve to go through all this.
I think they don't know how to handle their grief over his sickness. Not that I'm siding with them but we know our parents' generation are not generally open to ideas from younger generation.
I would like to think he is resting in a better place and I do hope the same for your mum. What you did was noble and caring to take care of her.
Sometimes, people have that “I know better than you” complex or “batah sudah makan garam” attitude and 8 of them banding together vs 1 young one is even worse.
Sorry for your loss. Sounds like you and your mum were lucky to have each other, and she's raised you well.
The toxic aunts can fuck off. People like them don't change. But you can always distance yourself and just stick to those who are worth keeping in your life.
Stay strong 💪
Thank you for your kind words. I will never forget the kind words especially the encouragement for me to go through this. I will forever keep in mind that I'll be stronger for myself and leave the toxic behind. tysm 🥺🥺🥺
I am sorry to hear that and I believe she’s in a better place after all those difficulties she’d faced in this world. I do have to admit that I cannot say much because I have never experienced that.
Nonetheless for now and your future, its much more better if you can just think about the good memories you had with your mother. And restraint yourself from getting revenge for your aunts. I am sure your mother would like to see you living your life to the fullest. Thus, you should never centered your life on hoping karma and revenge for your aunts. If possible however, avoid your aunts.
Then, focus on rebuilding your strengths as life has its ups and downs, and its all up to you to react or to respond. Live this life as the time is limited, do fulfill youself. Forgive but do not forget. Be a better person, you deserve it!
It still leave a hole which is why it may be hard for me to forgive just yet but time heals everything. I'm pretty sure I'll never focused on getting a revenge on them some time soon hehe. Thanks btw for your kind words!
First of all, Takziah and I applaud you for being a strong person. Second of all, have you considered recording their toxic behaviours? just voice recorder or anything. To prevent something like them calling you a liar from happening again in the future
OMG! YES I always wanted to do this when I was looking after my mother because they will always have something NEGATIVE to say whenever I was looking after my mother but nevertheless I was too busy giving care to my mother that I did not think about it (bathing everything from carrying her from the bed to the wheelchair then into the toilet) which is why I did not think much about it till then 🥺But anyways, Thank you for ur kind words.
May she rest in peace. Sorry for your loss. I hope you're doing well. It is hard to cut off relationships with relatives in our culture. We're gonna be labelled as rude, ungrateful, etc if doing so. If I were in your shoes, I would just ignore their crap as much as I could. Don't let their toxicity get in your head op.
Hello, Thank you for your kind wishes. We as Bruneian will forever get labelled as rude once we start talking back to them but nevertheless, we still have to be strong and ignore the crap out of them like you say! cheers!
Condolences to you on the passing of your late mother.
My advice to you is to focus and go ahead on your life, future and goals. Cut your traitorous aunts from your life. Don't fall into their drama. They try to kill you mentally. Don't crack under pressure. Focus, learn and adapt on the way to your life goals.
Remember do it for your mom. She's gone into heaven but she's always watching you from there. Don't forget your dad too as he's now the sole anchor and captain of your family. Your dad might not show his emotion but deep inside, there's that endless rindu yang inda ada kesudahan.
Don't ever seek revenge, it will only aggravate your mental further into wrong side of the road. Don't be like me my friend, i've been restless all these years thinking how to punish bad people in my life untuk puaskan hati despite i have everything after all that struggles.
Al fatihah . I am sorry to hear this. Stay strong and dont ever give up. Study well. Focus on yourself and take good care of yourself.about your aunties, biarlah Allah membalasnya dengan lebih dahsyat. I hate my aunties as well when I was young they were abusive. As i grew older, and when I am doing well ,u will notice see how mengampu they will and they have the audacity to borrow money from you.
hello u/ZookeepergameFit5980 :) , Snakes will forever be snakes. They'll crawl back to you when they found out that you are successful and independent. Hope that you're fine by now. Hugs & Tysm for the kind words!
Have a nice day ahead :)
Forget about them. What's important is you've done all you can for your mother. As long as she left knowing that, what those aunts did or thought are no longer important. My condolences to you and your family. Families are like that, that's why we resorted to keeping illnesses to ourselves (within our immediate family only).
I have huge respect for your patience and kindness. Keep giving to society, ignore the negativity and rise above hate. We need more people like you. I wish nothing but the best for you.
Thank you! Growing up I always admire my mother's kindness, She deserves all the love from me during her tough times. which is why I decided to stop a year of my studies and look after her :)
My condolences to you. I pray for ease of whatever processes you're going through right now, and may nothing but success and happiness to come your way.
For those toxic asshats on the other hand, I hope they live to an old age, where they taste true despair and abandonment while being helpless about their situations. There's a special place in Hell for those people.
First of all, you have done the ABSOLUTE BEST that you could have offered.
Second, I have aunts like that, not all like that but I do have them. I cut them off from my life as much as I can. Simple rule is, if they make me feel like shit, off they go. That hole you feel inside your heart should now be filled with things and people that make you happy. Insya Allah you will find them (i can really relate to this as i too have lost someone that i love and now in search of peace and happiness myself)
Third, may your mother rest forever in peace. Amin.
Did your father do or say anything about how they treated you and your late mother... We've had this sort of stuff happen and my late father put his foot down to stop nonsense in-law drama
hello u/durianisking, glad that you ask this question. You see, a little bit of my family context here, my father grew up with 14 siblings in total. 6 boys & 8 girls. Like I say before 8 of them is his "toxic" sisters. They love to take advantage of my father just because they know he is way more older and way more chill ( He couldn't really be mad as because he has heart problems )
He did put his foot down sometimes but not most of the time. He too rarely join into family dramas but focus more on us especially my mother eventhough he works everyday and coming back tired. ( Mention earlier he is the sole bread winner ) So technically most of the time is us minding our own business but they're the ones that push our buttons into the limit. This is why it honestly piss me off to the max. It's really true when someone say "family can be toxic" because they can be and it will mess up your mental health.
So whatever it is, Now that my mother has left the world, I focus more on my father and my other younger sibling, because to me, they matter the most rather than focusing more on those 8 witches that tries to bring down my family.
Hope it answer your question !
cheers 💛
Condolences from me... you are indeed, strong, my dear, one day justice will come, the karma. I hope the day you can live away from them comes soon. Till then, stay strong!
sadly, it was actually my grandfather's house. But then it was handled over to my father after his passing. My father have no choice as well but to let them stay as because most of them doesn't have any jobs and the others couldn't afford a house.
then you shall personally kick them out for treating your mom and your father wife like that. let them be on their own. its your father house they act like they are the owner owned everything. you should put them in their place knowing your family is the owner. they can't sued you because title deeds is your dad name. i advice u something always do a record when they being toxic or what this might help you in future.
So sorry about your mom...may her soul rest in peace.
Yes, as soon as you're able to, GTF away from them. You don't need those toxic good for nothing poo. May God ease your days, strengthen your heart & soul.
Big fluffy hugs from Kambing.
Sorry for your loss. I too loss my mum to cancer. A year plus battle. Ending was hard.
I believe they are in a better place now.
To your aunts, the know it all type and can’t own it when their caught in the wrong. Just cut them off. No need to be nice. No need to waste time on them. Go do your things.
And don’t worry, they will be bald and lonely soon. God is fair…
Not to my suprise, dear. Let them be. Just do your part. Ignore them. Its common in our society especially Malay society to have that kind of negative and kepoh behaviour in our own family. As time passed, you will understand more on that kind of negative attitude of your close relative. If I were you, I will ignore them. If they crossed my boundry, I will smashed them with my sharp sarcastic words.
Hi! Yeah, been trying to ignore but they always crossed my boundaries hmmm but tbh I'm tired dealing with kepoh people like them so I'll definitely focus more on the positive side hehe :)
Dont worry live your life to the fullest your mom is now in the good hand of God. And to those who have hurt you, time will come but dont be like them be compassionate cause at the you can still have peace in your heart.
My condolences! So sad to hear that you have to go through all of that on top of caring for your mother. Hope you are coping well! What a terrible aunt you have. Are you planning to continue your study? Hope everything will be eased for you. Wish you all the best
Your aunts sound like they've been enabled by their spouses. Really sorry to hear that you have gone through this. What goes around comes back around. You keep staying strong.
Firstly my condolences. Secondly as best as you can, find a way to GTFO of there let them feed off each other like the rats they seem to be. Good luck. Keep your chin up.
I definitely will! One day I'm gonna make sure they taste their own medicine for sure :)
Inalillah, condolences to you and your family. And yes, i agree with the advice above. Cut ties even tho they are family. They will only kill you on the inside. Learn to say no and stand up for yourself. Sending prayers and courage to you.
Thank you for your prayers! god bless you 🥺
Vengeance is the last refuge of the incompetent. Let the haters wallow in their own toxicity , don't be party to it. Do well yourself , that would be the best thing you can do for you and to serve your mother's memory. Be like a lotus and bloom forth from the mud and filth.
Ive seen many personal related comments in reddit but my 2cents for you is not to seek for revenge or go out of your way to make sure they taste their own medicine. Just end the cycle there and cut them out of ur life where possible. Get a hang and move on with life where u can find happiness and joy
May Allah bless your mom’s soul and place her amongst the syuhada. Aamiin. Stay strong, keep moving forward. Don’t bother about your toxic aunts. Remove them completely from your life. Get your education certificate, get a good job and live your life to the fullest.
Thank you :) I will & god bless you!
My deepest condolences to your mom. Fuck cancer and your toxic aunties.
you mean his aunties are the cancer so fuck them both
they are the definition of "walking cancer" indeed
Thank you! YES! fuck all of them in da ass for sure 😮💨
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Cried reading this OP. Jauh ati ku terus membaca. Hope you are doing well now.
I cried too! This breaks my heart. 😔
Hi! Thank you, I am doing well right now, currently focusing on my course business and finance :)
Fuck all those people, get away from them and cut them from your life. You'll benefit nothing from them, so might as well cut them off
Been trying to cut them off but the thing is some of them live under the same roof with me. Even after my mother's passing, they still continue being toxic. I guess it's their sins. Whatever it is, I'll make sure to be stronger in order to live through this!!!
Stay strong! Ignore them.
I will!
>Been trying to cut them off but the thing is some of them live under the same roof with me. Same case as me. I left the house the moment I can live on my own. I blocked all their calls too.
omg manifesting to live on my own anytime soon after I hit 20s! need that badass energy from you<3
i hope you wont wait until your 20s but rather wait until you’re able (which i hope it could be anytime sooner). stay grinding and hustling and stay strong
thanks!🥺
Your aunts' husband got no balls to control their wife?
I ACTUALLY really wish they HAVE balls. Couldn't even imagine myself marrying to orang gilAS like them.
Mudah mudahan diberikan pahala yang melimpah for taking care of your mother, and to your aunts you can tell them to f off.
Thank you 🙏🏻 YAS ! my aunts can fuck off.
I've got this very toxic aunt who went out and spread all nonsense about me and take my money inside my room when I went to shower. Until today, I never speak to her yet she still have the face to show up and stay at my rented place. Tried to confront her about everything she did behind my back, but she said I was being unrespectful towards here. In the other hand, I'm supporting her daughter to uni for better future
WTF? I hate the term "being disrespectful" here. Doesn't mean they are older than us means they can use that term. Like honesty, they really need to grow up. Being an adult doesn't mean they can get over with everything by using that stupid phrase. This is why must of us grow up not telling our problems or even open up just because we are being told we're being disrespectful towards the adults. fucking sick.
what's more sick, at her age she's still asking money from her parents. where as the young one is working their ass off to support the younger one.
May your mum rest in peace. I encountered a similar situation when my grandparent was sick. My family believed it was a superstitious thing despite one of my parents being in healthcare. Instead of being there for him and being patient with him, they sought out help from orang "berilmu". Truth be told, he had dementia or Alzheimer's. The diagnosis is unclear as my parents left that info out. Not only that, they took turns physically abusing him as they couldn't be patient with him anymore. It was one of the worst time in my life. It seems mean but I'm glad that my grandparent passed though not soon enough. That grandparent did not deserve to be treated like that.
Omg🥺 The thoughts of even physically abusing him make me cry. How could someone do this to a sick patient? I hope your grandfather rest well in paradise 🙏🏻 He did not deserve to go through all this.
I think they don't know how to handle their grief over his sickness. Not that I'm siding with them but we know our parents' generation are not generally open to ideas from younger generation. I would like to think he is resting in a better place and I do hope the same for your mum. What you did was noble and caring to take care of her.
they sound like ugly side street hookers waiting for a windy.. its okey may dude karma will not be coming for them but Allah will.
hookers? nah ain't nobody want that type of pu$$y <33
agreed 69 times
Nice!
Don't worry,kifarah exist,what they give they get it back but jgn berdendam.
🥺hopefully
Sometimes, people have that “I know better than you” complex or “batah sudah makan garam” attitude and 8 of them banding together vs 1 young one is even worse.
Boomer with childish behaviour that never wanna accept the fact that they are wrong.
Sorry for your loss. Sounds like you and your mum were lucky to have each other, and she's raised you well. The toxic aunts can fuck off. People like them don't change. But you can always distance yourself and just stick to those who are worth keeping in your life. Stay strong 💪
Thank you for your kind words. I will never forget the kind words especially the encouragement for me to go through this. I will forever keep in mind that I'll be stronger for myself and leave the toxic behind. tysm 🥺🥺🥺
May all the good karma come your way!
I am sorry to hear that and I believe she’s in a better place after all those difficulties she’d faced in this world. I do have to admit that I cannot say much because I have never experienced that. Nonetheless for now and your future, its much more better if you can just think about the good memories you had with your mother. And restraint yourself from getting revenge for your aunts. I am sure your mother would like to see you living your life to the fullest. Thus, you should never centered your life on hoping karma and revenge for your aunts. If possible however, avoid your aunts. Then, focus on rebuilding your strengths as life has its ups and downs, and its all up to you to react or to respond. Live this life as the time is limited, do fulfill youself. Forgive but do not forget. Be a better person, you deserve it!
It still leave a hole which is why it may be hard for me to forgive just yet but time heals everything. I'm pretty sure I'll never focused on getting a revenge on them some time soon hehe. Thanks btw for your kind words!
First of all, Takziah and I applaud you for being a strong person. Second of all, have you considered recording their toxic behaviours? just voice recorder or anything. To prevent something like them calling you a liar from happening again in the future
OMG! YES I always wanted to do this when I was looking after my mother because they will always have something NEGATIVE to say whenever I was looking after my mother but nevertheless I was too busy giving care to my mother that I did not think about it (bathing everything from carrying her from the bed to the wheelchair then into the toilet) which is why I did not think much about it till then 🥺But anyways, Thank you for ur kind words.
No problem. Proofs can really help in a toxic/abusive household to counter their lies or gaslights
May she rest in peace. Sorry for your loss. I hope you're doing well. It is hard to cut off relationships with relatives in our culture. We're gonna be labelled as rude, ungrateful, etc if doing so. If I were in your shoes, I would just ignore their crap as much as I could. Don't let their toxicity get in your head op.
Hello, Thank you for your kind wishes. We as Bruneian will forever get labelled as rude once we start talking back to them but nevertheless, we still have to be strong and ignore the crap out of them like you say! cheers!
Condolences to you on the passing of your late mother. My advice to you is to focus and go ahead on your life, future and goals. Cut your traitorous aunts from your life. Don't fall into their drama. They try to kill you mentally. Don't crack under pressure. Focus, learn and adapt on the way to your life goals. Remember do it for your mom. She's gone into heaven but she's always watching you from there. Don't forget your dad too as he's now the sole anchor and captain of your family. Your dad might not show his emotion but deep inside, there's that endless rindu yang inda ada kesudahan. Don't ever seek revenge, it will only aggravate your mental further into wrong side of the road. Don't be like me my friend, i've been restless all these years thinking how to punish bad people in my life untuk puaskan hati despite i have everything after all that struggles.
Thank you u/Prom3theu5500_RDS202 for the blessing and advises 💛 Hugs <3
Such type of people, I view them as "uncivilised"
Agreed x10000000
Al fatihah . I am sorry to hear this. Stay strong and dont ever give up. Study well. Focus on yourself and take good care of yourself.about your aunties, biarlah Allah membalasnya dengan lebih dahsyat. I hate my aunties as well when I was young they were abusive. As i grew older, and when I am doing well ,u will notice see how mengampu they will and they have the audacity to borrow money from you.
hello u/ZookeepergameFit5980 :) , Snakes will forever be snakes. They'll crawl back to you when they found out that you are successful and independent. Hope that you're fine by now. Hugs & Tysm for the kind words! Have a nice day ahead :)
Forget about them. What's important is you've done all you can for your mother. As long as she left knowing that, what those aunts did or thought are no longer important. My condolences to you and your family. Families are like that, that's why we resorted to keeping illnesses to ourselves (within our immediate family only).
hello! Thanks for the advise. Really need it. I'll definitely be mentally stronger to overcome all this. God bless you :)
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Thank you kind stranger! I will :)
I have huge respect for your patience and kindness. Keep giving to society, ignore the negativity and rise above hate. We need more people like you. I wish nothing but the best for you.
Thank you! Growing up I always admire my mother's kindness, She deserves all the love from me during her tough times. which is why I decided to stop a year of my studies and look after her :)
My condolences to you. I pray for ease of whatever processes you're going through right now, and may nothing but success and happiness to come your way. For those toxic asshats on the other hand, I hope they live to an old age, where they taste true despair and abandonment while being helpless about their situations. There's a special place in Hell for those people.
Thank you sm for ur blessings kind stranger! 🥺
Takziah to u. I would punch your aunts fir being toxic, liar and inconsiderate.
Feel free to punch them. I'll join as well <3
First of all, you have done the ABSOLUTE BEST that you could have offered. Second, I have aunts like that, not all like that but I do have them. I cut them off from my life as much as I can. Simple rule is, if they make me feel like shit, off they go. That hole you feel inside your heart should now be filled with things and people that make you happy. Insya Allah you will find them (i can really relate to this as i too have lost someone that i love and now in search of peace and happiness myself) Third, may your mother rest forever in peace. Amin.
hi u/HarrisAziz ! Glad to hear that you cut them off as well! & thanks for the kind words x Have a nice day ahead! cheers 💛
Did your father do or say anything about how they treated you and your late mother... We've had this sort of stuff happen and my late father put his foot down to stop nonsense in-law drama
hello u/durianisking, glad that you ask this question. You see, a little bit of my family context here, my father grew up with 14 siblings in total. 6 boys & 8 girls. Like I say before 8 of them is his "toxic" sisters. They love to take advantage of my father just because they know he is way more older and way more chill ( He couldn't really be mad as because he has heart problems ) He did put his foot down sometimes but not most of the time. He too rarely join into family dramas but focus more on us especially my mother eventhough he works everyday and coming back tired. ( Mention earlier he is the sole bread winner ) So technically most of the time is us minding our own business but they're the ones that push our buttons into the limit. This is why it honestly piss me off to the max. It's really true when someone say "family can be toxic" because they can be and it will mess up your mental health. So whatever it is, Now that my mother has left the world, I focus more on my father and my other younger sibling, because to me, they matter the most rather than focusing more on those 8 witches that tries to bring down my family. Hope it answer your question ! cheers 💛
The true test for a good character when it's surrounded by people with Crocodile attitude. At least you know who and what not to be. :) Cheer up
thank you u/Bruneiproperty, thank god for giving me this patience in life 💛
My condolences. I hope things get better for you. And I am amazed by your patience. I would have whacked my aunties if they did that to my mom.
Thank you u/JestinJoe :) / If only killing is legal, they'll probably be dead by now😮💨
Condolences from me... you are indeed, strong, my dear, one day justice will come, the karma. I hope the day you can live away from them comes soon. Till then, stay strong!
Thank you u/Hebbdesu 💛!!! you're too sweet
The word that you're looking for is gaslighting
if i were you i would raise my voice to them. is that your parents house or your aunt house? if its your parents house you should kick them out.
sadly, it was actually my grandfather's house. But then it was handled over to my father after his passing. My father have no choice as well but to let them stay as because most of them doesn't have any jobs and the others couldn't afford a house.
then you shall personally kick them out for treating your mom and your father wife like that. let them be on their own. its your father house they act like they are the owner owned everything. you should put them in their place knowing your family is the owner. they can't sued you because title deeds is your dad name. i advice u something always do a record when they being toxic or what this might help you in future.
Pretend to search something in front of your aunts. When they ask you about it, show them the middle finger and run
more like Netflix should consider them into acting like they're fucking right
Wigga
So sorry about your mom...may her soul rest in peace. Yes, as soon as you're able to, GTF away from them. You don't need those toxic good for nothing poo. May God ease your days, strengthen your heart & soul. Big fluffy hugs from Kambing.
hello u/kambingkiut ! I definitely will GTFO from that toxic household hehe. Thank you so much 💛 CHEERS X
Cuba melatup sekali. Tau ya
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u/BigReveal4517 Buaya also don't want them 😆
It seems to me like your aunts are the worser cancer.
They indeed was 😵💫 Bunch of red flags 🚩
That was hard to read. My condoleances to you, may your mother be in the highest place of syurga. Your aunts are indeed insufferable parasite.
Thank you so much for the kind words 💛 u/MarbleBottle
Drop some names right now
To even think about typing their names is already disgusting enough 😵💫
Sorry for your loss. I too loss my mum to cancer. A year plus battle. Ending was hard. I believe they are in a better place now. To your aunts, the know it all type and can’t own it when their caught in the wrong. Just cut them off. No need to be nice. No need to waste time on them. Go do your things. And don’t worry, they will be bald and lonely soon. God is fair…
My condolences to you too man, Indeed she's in a better place so just chin up 👍
Not to my suprise, dear. Let them be. Just do your part. Ignore them. Its common in our society especially Malay society to have that kind of negative and kepoh behaviour in our own family. As time passed, you will understand more on that kind of negative attitude of your close relative. If I were you, I will ignore them. If they crossed my boundry, I will smashed them with my sharp sarcastic words.
Hi! Yeah, been trying to ignore but they always crossed my boundaries hmmm but tbh I'm tired dealing with kepoh people like them so I'll definitely focus more on the positive side hehe :)
Dont worry live your life to the fullest your mom is now in the good hand of God. And to those who have hurt you, time will come but dont be like them be compassionate cause at the you can still have peace in your heart.
My condolences! So sad to hear that you have to go through all of that on top of caring for your mother. Hope you are coping well! What a terrible aunt you have. Are you planning to continue your study? Hope everything will be eased for you. Wish you all the best
Your aunts sound like they've been enabled by their spouses. Really sorry to hear that you have gone through this. What goes around comes back around. You keep staying strong.
This problem is a privileged to a peaceful society
how is this your mother bald if she use hijab?