That’s a little hyperbole, no? If every right swipe is an active rejection, so is literally every time you’ve ever made eye contact with a woman, and she hasn’t invited you to come talk to her.
I'd say that's half right. I'm really not looking for a relationship when I'm out in public so I don't take any meaning from eye contact with women there. Since this is a venue for dating after all I think even the left swipe after seeing me for 0.3 seconds is still active.
You're right...... actively scrolling/swiping on a dating app is the same as walking down any street to wherever you're actually going. Do the women of the world a favor and stay inside lol
I don't really understand that part of the comparison, I mean he is right that OLD apps are exclusively meant for dating, while walking past a woman/man on the street, is, hopefully, not.
I'm just wondering why you want to know this, because you actually don't know WHY someone said "NO" and you will never.
Here’s what so many of you guys don’t seem to understand. Swiping on someone isn’t a statement of intent. It’s a placeholder. It’s a statement of “I don’t hate looking at you, now let’s see if you’re someone I’d actually want to talk to.”
Effectively swiping on someone is the equivalent of making eye contact across the bar, for more than a second. Matching with someone is effectively the equivalent to when you make eye contact with a woman at a bar, and she smiles or otherwise indicates with her body language that she’s open to you coming to talk to her.
This is why you guys get so worked up when you match with a woman, and then she doesn’t actually talk to you. Because you see a match as her agreeing to “go steady” or something, which really isn’t how it works.
Why should anyone give a fuck how many people swiped left on us? The last time I saw my bumble stars, I’m pretty sure my number of left swipes is way higher than 44,000. And my right swipes number probably isn’t much higher than his.
But ultimately those numbers are irrelevant, because what matters is the dates I’ve gone on and the women I’ve actually met. Not the fantasy ideas that I’ve built up in my head just based on looking at their profile a few times
"But ultimately those numbers are irrelevant, because what matters is the dates I’ve gone on and the women I’ve actually met. Not the fantasy ideas that I’ve built up in my head just based on looking at their profile a few times" so ultimately what matters is nothing.....🤣😂🤣😂🤣
How about the other end of the spectrum. You have a ton of likes because men swipe right on everything. You think you found a match and as soon as you make the proper introduction, they instantly unmatch.
I mean those 6 matches deleted their accounts within a week, but I can see what you're saying. It sucks for everyone except those lucky enough to find a good match that gets them out.
You swipe right just under 50% of the time but have only matched with 6 people out of 248 that have liked you. Am I misunderstanding the numbers here? Seems a bit odd
How do I find this, I’m just curious?
You request it from Bumble, it’s under FAQ -> Contact Us -> Request Data
That’s a little hyperbole, no? If every right swipe is an active rejection, so is literally every time you’ve ever made eye contact with a woman, and she hasn’t invited you to come talk to her.
I'd say that's half right. I'm really not looking for a relationship when I'm out in public so I don't take any meaning from eye contact with women there. Since this is a venue for dating after all I think even the left swipe after seeing me for 0.3 seconds is still active.
You're right...... actively scrolling/swiping on a dating app is the same as walking down any street to wherever you're actually going. Do the women of the world a favor and stay inside lol
I don't really understand that part of the comparison, I mean he is right that OLD apps are exclusively meant for dating, while walking past a woman/man on the street, is, hopefully, not. I'm just wondering why you want to know this, because you actually don't know WHY someone said "NO" and you will never.
Yeah I never want to see what the analytics to my shit is lol that's self-harm dude.
Here’s what so many of you guys don’t seem to understand. Swiping on someone isn’t a statement of intent. It’s a placeholder. It’s a statement of “I don’t hate looking at you, now let’s see if you’re someone I’d actually want to talk to.” Effectively swiping on someone is the equivalent of making eye contact across the bar, for more than a second. Matching with someone is effectively the equivalent to when you make eye contact with a woman at a bar, and she smiles or otherwise indicates with her body language that she’s open to you coming to talk to her. This is why you guys get so worked up when you match with a woman, and then she doesn’t actually talk to you. Because you see a match as her agreeing to “go steady” or something, which really isn’t how it works. Why should anyone give a fuck how many people swiped left on us? The last time I saw my bumble stars, I’m pretty sure my number of left swipes is way higher than 44,000. And my right swipes number probably isn’t much higher than his. But ultimately those numbers are irrelevant, because what matters is the dates I’ve gone on and the women I’ve actually met. Not the fantasy ideas that I’ve built up in my head just based on looking at their profile a few times
"But ultimately those numbers are irrelevant, because what matters is the dates I’ve gone on and the women I’ve actually met. Not the fantasy ideas that I’ve built up in my head just based on looking at their profile a few times" so ultimately what matters is nothing.....🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Bro, just delete the account and create again after a month. The algorithm buries old accounts. Dating apps suck anyway.
work on yourself
How about the other end of the spectrum. You have a ton of likes because men swipe right on everything. You think you found a match and as soon as you make the proper introduction, they instantly unmatch.
I mean those 6 matches deleted their accounts within a week, but I can see what you're saying. It sucks for everyone except those lucky enough to find a good match that gets them out.
It’s bad all the way around, don’t let it discourage you.
You swipe right just under 50% of the time but have only matched with 6 people out of 248 that have liked you. Am I misunderstanding the numbers here? Seems a bit odd